Dande55:

Is she suppose to pay school fees and house rent? Why are you complaining about paying bills in the house? So that jobless men here can call her names or what exactly is your point?
Back to your issue: Why can't you work on your marriage? Maybe you should try dressing well and looking nice. Do you have pot belly? How's your sex game like?

One4me:


She does not love you anymore, hence the frigidity, the disrespect and carefree attitude IN MARRIAGE.
Just divorce her NOW or do you want to wait till she poisons you? The fact that her brothers have joined in the wahala, puts your life in greater danger. "A bad wife is manageable but bad in-laws are a grave danger to any husband"
Divorce her, come to an arraingment to take care of your Kids with her or with you. Kids wil "live and leave" you later, whether you live or die
Start your life all over again and marry a woman who truly loves you (if you have not had enough of marriage or still very young).
Life is too short to be dragging hatred, anger and something bitting your Pr!ck three times in a year, UNDER THE SAME ROOF, if the Spirit husband decide to descend on you, dont blame anyone o.!

Twoclans:
It is just a matter of time if you guys do not divorce on paper you will leave under the same room but will still be divorced.

The three pillars of marriage are :

Sex
Communication
Money

If there is a HUGE problem with any of this three it is just a matter of time.

vikkimimi:
Marriage is for better for worse, but it doesn't mean you should kill yourself...but how come you never for once notice these traits before...untill now you've got children everywhere...it's waoh...stuffs like this can't make be scared if marriage sha...

Amb1045:
most important things in marriage
communication
money
sex
you lack good communication with your wife. how many times have you treated her like a women, you just see her like a sex object. oga go back to your wife treat her well communicate with her, the whole problem why you have not paid her bride price yet, treat her like a queen, buy her gift, watch her give you sex even when she don't want sex. when you treat your woman nicely, she will always want to please you. you're looking for excuse to divorce

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

onlinestaff2020:
Forget about prayers in this matter.

Who prayers help?

If prayers really works, why are good people dying everyday?

Nairalanders, have you all Sat down and estimate how many people have died this year?

Prayers don't work.

God don't exist.

Op, you need to take the bull by the horn while the sun is still shining.

Discuss with your wife for the last time on the way forward.

If she refuses to listen to you, divorce her ASAP.

Divorce is necessary, so that anger will not take you to murder her or she murders you first.

Thereafter, look for a young girl that you can spend the rest of your life with.

Marriage in many situations, is a pure SCAM.

Marriage is NEVER compulsory.

That's my two cents.

Pronto!

Twoclans:
It is just a matter of time if you guys do not divorce on paper you will leave under the same room but will still be divorced.

The three pillars of marriage are :

Sex
Communication
Money

If there is a HUGE problem with any of this three it is just a matter of time.

Martinez39s:
Who told you he disrespected the girls family? Who told you he deliberately waited for the parents to die in order to skip bride price? Where are you getting all these conclusions from?

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

excessmon:
Are u married?

Fuckingmallam45:

Anty your head dey pain you. So Jewesu no fit go meet mountain abi? Mitcheww

vikkimimi:
Marriage is for better for worse, but it doesn't mean you should kill yourself...but how come you never for once notice these traits before...untill now you've got children everywhere...it's waoh...stuffs like this can't make be scared if marriage sha...

Encash:


But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year.

Please advise no insult.

seanwilliam:
I just dey imagine your countenance pronouncing the bolded

vikkimimi:
Marriage is for better for worse, but it doesn't mean you should kill yourself...but how come you never for once notice these traits before...untill now you've got children everywhere...it's waoh...stuffs like this can't make be scared if marriage sha...

mechanics:
Hmmmmm, i won't advise you to divorce her, if you had[b] known all this traits[/b], you wouldn't have agreed to marry her, you should have prayed to God to reveal the kind of person she is before saying I do.

UndauntedYOCA:

This is so rude of you actually but I won't take offence.

osazsky:
so if u divorce ur introduced girl u will now go and do another introduction mumu

ojun50:
I have come to understand that one's women start giving birth dey start hating sex..

Op you are the one wearing the shoe, do what make you be at peace

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

Dande55:

Is she suppose to pay school fees and house rent? Why are you complaining about paying bills in the house? So that jobless men here can call her names or what exactly is your point?
Back to your issue: Why can't you work on your marriage? Maybe you should try dressing well and looking nice. Do you have pot belly? How's your sex game like?