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Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by skimena: 5:47am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Many of those attacking d op are teenagers who can't even take care of their girlfriends need let alone married house wife m children. When they see topic that they lack d xperience, instead of them to learn, they will start making senseless comments. attacking the op like he doesn't know what he's saying. Bro I understand your predicament. some women seem to change attitude completely from d single girls they where before marriage but in all these, the signs were there just some men are always carried away with either love or lust but trust marriage. But trust marriage. Marriage must definitely open ur eyes. I'm sure your eyes have open now. I would have love to advice u but I'm sorry I can't. d point u are now u are d only one that can advice yourself. Nobody pushed u in and let nobody push u out. Besides no matter the bad character she's possessing today that makes you fed up. She'll still have 1 or 2 good qualities that made u ingnore d early signs or warnings of d bad character she's exibiting today. I think she can't b 100% bad. The choice is yours bro. Marriage is not 4 boys but 4 men who can handle issues. This is the time to prove u are a man. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by civilserva: 5:49am On Jun 30, 2020 |
No |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Infiba: 6:02am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Uhm u hav said it all she need deliverance! If Moh'd can't go to the mountain the mountain will bring a pastor home to pray 4 her! With God nothing is imposible. Remember marriage is 4 better 4 worse and pls don't complain of bills is ur sole responsibility! |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Chicastle: 6:04am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Tadeknkeepcalm: Aswear those pastors has caused a lot of mayhem in families in Nigeria . Nigeria needs to go back to it's normal christianity abeg like the way it is in United states it Europe. See hungry and uneducated idiot would be telling they they will buy 40 cars in 2023 and they shout Amemmmmmmmm |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by coputa(m): 6:11am On Jun 30, 2020 |
You will not like to hear this,but it is the hidden truth.Go and pay your wife bride price,that is the real marriage(tradition) and not all these borrowed foreign practices(court marriage/church marriage).Take note that if you do not pay some women bride price,the marriage will never work.go and do that,you will be suprised that things will turn arround. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nackzy: 6:12am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Bro Move on don't allow anyone steal your Joy |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by FamousMonk: 6:19am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Your wife either has a subtle yeast or staph infection in her vagina.. That shit reduces sexual drive and may be the reason being the "biting" feeling you claim.. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by 88natzy(m): 6:28am On Jun 30, 2020 |
HarunaWest:From the write up, one can decipher the hypocrisy and pride embedded in his motives. Very self centered and unreasonably shabby. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Peter887: 6:49am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Guy... 1...u refuse to go tru the right marriage path by opting 4 COURT. 2....Are u sure u did nt worsen ur problem by chargin of spritual husband via ur pastor/prophet? 3.....MOST IMPORTANT, am sure all ur problem arise as a result of ur THOUGHT.....u thnk negative abt her thats why u are experiencing all the physical & spiritual negativ tins..change ur mindset abt her, go n do de normal tr marriage so dat heaven n earth wil favour ur family. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by fafaafrica(f): 6:54am On Jun 30, 2020 |
]ignore him..from what he typed the guy is 100000 percent irresponsible...he didn't marry her for 10 years and was waiting for her parent to die so that he can dodge marraige expenses now he is looking for respect cuz he paid 10 thousand naira to sign oredo local govt paper Wetin Oredo do you na? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 6:55am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Twoclans:children nko? |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Blaqfellow: 6:58am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Encash: |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by opribo(m): 7:04am On Jun 30, 2020 |
I know that kind of woman, you cant easily chase her away instead you should pack your load and run away. If she finds out, you are done for meanwhile you didnt say what she is contributing to the marriage. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by content208: 7:06am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Judybash93: Lolz. Very funny You think everything on earth can be explained the same way you explain science? Pray that you don't experience spiritual attack. That's when you will know that science doesn't have explanation for things of the spirit world |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 7:10am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Taiwojon:pls sir, don't speak for God. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Opeke2020: 7:10am On Jun 30, 2020 |
OGA OP immediately you mentioned My Pastor, deliverance then I got to know that u have complicated or multiplied your marital problems which u could have ordinarily solve by means of your Bible ( MARRIAGE MANUAL) and humility .The problems some of these have caused in many marriages can't be reversed. Your complaint is one-sided but try and do the needful.Number 1. STOP ANGRY,REMOVE ANGER FROM YOUR MIND NOW 2. PRAY FOR DIVINE HOLY SPIRIT TO OVERSHADOW YOU. DONT GO TO ANY PASTOR. 3.FORGET YOURE THE HUSBAND AND START DOING THINGS UVE NOT BEEN DOING BEFORE SUCH AS ASSISTING IN HOUSE CHORES,KEEP BUYING YOUR WIFE HER FAVORITE SNACKS LIKE ICE CREAM GV IT TO HER WITH SMILES ON YOUR FACE. 4. BUY HER OR GIVE HER MONEY TO BUY BEAUTIFUL PANTIES FOR HERSELF. 5. ALWAYS APPRECIATE HER EFFORT.AND TALK GENTLY WITH HER.DO NOT SHOUT. 6. AS A MAN TAKE A BOLD STEP TO KEEP THE LINE OF COMMUNICATION UNBROKEN. GRADUALLY HER STIFF HEART WILL SOFT AND SHE WILL POUR HER HEART TO YOU. YOU WILL LATER REGRET THAT YOU HAVE ALLOW A THIRD PARTY (PASTOR, PROPHET/TESS,FAMILIES) INTO YOUR MARRIGE. DIVORCE IS NEVER THE SOLUTION |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by annsrealms(f): 7:11am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Are you aware that if the court recognises traditional marriage. Wait until something happens to either of them, then you will see gbese. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by emmaodet: 7:14am On Jun 30, 2020 |
vickydevoka: To add to your points - virtually everybody that schooled in the olden days went to virtually cheap or free schools, a lot were sponsored to abroad by government, there were jobs taken easily then unlike now. Also, the cost of running a human life was virtually cheap - free/cheap govt schools, hospitals were cheap govt own or local woman house for giving birth, you are sick? herbs, no everyday or monthly running cost like dstv, recharge cards, phones, cars, even house rent was low or you stay in family house etc And they are comparing then to now. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by HRMK: 7:16am On Jun 30, 2020 |
IF U CANT STAND THE HEAT,GET OUT OF THE KITCHEN! |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by annsrealms(f): 7:16am On Jun 30, 2020 |
vickydevoka: Why not let her go so she can be with someone else, why keep her when you know you can't wife her. you men create problem for yourselves. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Moneyboyz: 7:17am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Tadeknkeepcalm: I was sitting in front of my house minding my own business when this pastors and a few of their congregation arrived to preach the word of God. Not wanting to be disrespectful and a child of God I stayed And listened only for then to preach and pray then give messages to everyone. Only for them to tell me my wife is not my future wife. I didn't put it to heart because we are doing well. Shits like this ruin marriages. Don't listen to it. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by annsrealms(f): 7:17am On Jun 30, 2020 |
mrchineke: And you still said God bless you. Confusion. Which God? |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by vickydevoka(m): 7:24am On Jun 30, 2020 |
annsrealms:I de give her sign since na. She knw self jst say she never see person way get money |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Snakedoctor1: 7:26am On Jun 30, 2020 |
LadySarah:smarks of some rare wisdom. Are their reparcusions for not paying bride Price? |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Emyogalanya: 7:28am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Mathscum:very annoying attitude. You hate sex but hurry to marry like what do they think marriage is about ? Na sunday school ? Or bible study? And to think when forms for admition for rev sisters is on sales they wont buy and fill. They want to taste our long thing. And revert to celibacy. One day they will send out one of them to shout "one minute man" just as we are sharppening our "knives" to cut down all the iroko trees. They will send out yet another person to scream " help! They want to kill us " |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by mamato(f): 7:30am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Even if you divorce her today you won't still have that peace of mind you are seeking for. You sound strange to me, invited a spiritual husband into your home by moving from one seer to another in the name of pastors. Go and work on yourself. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by annsrealms(f): 7:32am On Jun 30, 2020 |
vickydevoka: For your own good, discontinue that relationship. I have heard stories like this and they don't end well. And marriage is not about beauty. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Afrikween(f): 7:33am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Encash:Do not Divorce, but Separate. stay on your own make she sef stay on her own. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Vision2329: 7:40am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Bros, take it easy and be careful on what advise you follow. Your lines of sentences depit some hidden truth as a review of your complaints tends to return the same fingers you point back at you. REVIEW Firstly, you did introduction and a list was given to you for traditional marriage and you opted for court (meaning bride price was not paid?) Secondly, your wife is possessed, have a spirit husband who has bitten your dxck 3x in a year and that a prophet told you. Thirdly, she refused deliverance and does not like sex Fourthly, you paid the rent and School fee. Lastly, the brothers should take her and even her children can as well followed. ADVISE I guess you dated and court, if you do that would have allow you to do some home work before you say "I Do", meaning you loved her. Hence, take a memory; work for your chosen love no matter the situation now. If I may get you, you substituted Court for tradition. I assume is possible, go pay her bride price to the uncle as you can't skip tradition for the court. As for prophet say, why didn't you meet prophet before saying "I do". You have to be careful with prophets as regards your wife. If your wife is all that posses with a spirit husband that bits your dxck and she does not give you sex, how come you have children from her. Love is nolonger in your home, reawaken love, and your wife will resurrect and so called spirit hubby will vanish (buy her gift and resume viable communication) For payment and bills which are your duties, if she works or does business, learn a way to bring her in so as to assisst. No woman you called names would naturally like to assist (she feels you rediculed her). Stop listening to negative people, go back to your former love. Do not let your children to suffer. Yes she is old now after child birth, rebrand her, ( who knows what the one outside will bring?) and thank me for how you will reunite your home. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by emmaodet: 7:41am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Dande55: So when he is busy doing all these, what will you be doing? Watching zeeworld? What if he hires a house help to take care of these things? Or brings in a relative to be doing all these while he sponsors the person to school too? This is 21st century, our ladies should stop thinking like cave women, it is outdated. Being called man of the house or head of the home doesn't pay bills my dear, all hands must be on deck. Afterall, if you are not fortunate to get married like thousands of women out there, you will still gonna pay your own damn bills to survive. Marriage is not a poverty allievation scheme. Men don't need unnecessary ego boost that won't pay bills and when no more money, the same submission goes and insults come in. So why should i keep working for something that is not real? More or less like wasting my money on musicians because they are hailing me and i keep spending my money but immediately the money finishes, they stop calling my name and starts hailing another person. Same goes to family members respecting you and pastors in church, keeping the front seat for you but immediately you go broke, family starts disrespecting you and pastor starts avoiding you and doesn't care where you seat in the church. We men don't need any useless ego boost abeg, come in and pay the damn bills and if not satisfied, you can check the next man. A cultured lady/human is cultured and not using the excuse of contributing to be disrespectful. The truth is a large percentage of women are disrespectful and uncultured not because of any bills to pay. There are lot of ladies working and contributing quietly, so why should i be manipulated to settle for less by marrying a jobless or liability or working but not supporting woman? All in the name of she will disrespect me. |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Biggers82(m): 7:43am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Yes Divorce her before her spirit husband kills you You know say una wey be men no dey hear till you die |
Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by Omoobong1(m): 7:45am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Op your wife doesn't have a spirit husband. Most women with a spirit husband can not keep a relationship that will lead to marriage and if they succeed in getting married, they always have issue bearing children. She might have a problem but definitely not a spirit husband. You see this our Africa, you can forget about wedding, traditional marriage and even Court wedding but you see BRIDE PRICE! please don't joke with it, no matter how rough things are going with you, even if you have to pay by installment, please pay. The implications of not paying a woman's BRIDE PRICE is too much to bear. 1 Like |
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