Here we go again. Coming to social media to seek counsel for his marital issues. No common sense. Asking for counsel in a plat form with many anti marriage agents and satanic agents mix together. From my check, u have over 500 hundred counsels from this plat form so far, so, which of them do u think is the correct one, oga sir? or u intend applying all the counsel? confusion upon confusion. Oga, go for a pastor or marriage counsellor. Ur best bet here is a pastor since it has to do with spirit husband. The earlier u do it the better. U are suppose to help ur partner and not run away when things turn sour. Make una grow sense. Marriage is not meant for boys but for men. Funny enough, it is boys that gets married easily and quicker than men these days. it is well

One4me:


This is pure PROSTITUTION and should never happen in a marriage!
If your wife would not love you until you do the bolded, then you are better just hopping around with prostitutes, on Pay-As-You-Go basis.
Material things should not be the pivot on which Love revolves, marriage is about love, not about Iphone -99 and the likes.

men ways of reasoning and doing things is not same with women ways. until you learn and accept women the way they're, you will find it hard to build a happy family. women are like kids they need praise, gift and attention to work perfectly. buy a kid a gift and see how happy they're when ever you comes around. the day u stop buying gifts see the way the kid will change. that's woman for you

Taiwojon:

I am not a fool neither what I wrote is superstition
God hate putting divorce and it is in the Bible

Malachi 2:14 and 16
verse 16
for the Lord, the God of lsrael, saith that he hateth putting away:........

get this into your head and don't call me fool or stupid again because I never abuse you and my words wasn't against you

Mr man

Rubbish and fraudulent interpretation of the useless "Printed in England" book!
I am in St Pancras London right now, yards away from the where the first books were printed by fraudulent English men who called themselves anointed.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Truth is, the pastors ruined your marriage.

You started seeing all these things only when a hungry person came to deliver a message he wasn't sent.


And your story reeks of hypocrisy. In this story, she is a complete villain. But no one is a complete villain

And the bite?

victorazyvictor:


And the bite?

Paranoia

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. [s] Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. [/s]

This, I don't understand

She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

This, I understand. Do whatever that will make you happy, not what some people are saying. It is you and your sanity and happiness at the end of the day

mrchineke:


Rubbish and fraudulent interpretation of the useless "Printed in England" book!
I am in St Pancras London right now, yards away from the where the first books were printed by fraudulent English men who called themselves anointed.

I don't know what is your problem oooo



are you obsessed of the Bible
or of the printer of the Bible
or of the words of God
or of the message
or of me


mind you, you know you can stop the gospel so let it fulfilled it course


remember words of Jesus. heaven and earth shall past away but my words shall not pass away

Liposure:
your father is da real G. He deserves an accolade

Thanks man!

I even envy my dad too.

Even in old age, he was still slaying with white hairs, and women still tripping on his matter. My mom just gave up complaining on his case.

Don't think of divorcing her, keep on praying for her a lot of people have that spiritual husband and wife, prayer is the key one day God will deliver her and you will have a happy home to the glory of God.

Try to excuse yourself from her for a while to see if she will learn and turn over a new leaf ..In other words separate from her for a while ..leave the home for her and let her run it for few months to see the other side of life ..Her pride may be deflated when she understand the responsibilities you have been shouldering .If she does not beg or apologise to you and promise to turn over a new leaf it means there is somebody somewhere giving her false assurance and confidence to disrespect you,then you can give her final booth through the law court .. Better she goes instead of causing you pain and turning you to something else

NaijaDisclaimer:


Oga you're not divorcing her anyshit, least if her family people should pour drink for you, na straight death. You went for Court wedding leaving aside the real marriage rites which you're supposed to settle with her family, to me, you didn't marry her. So go settle that.

From what you've written here, I don't think your wife alone is d cos of the problem, it's a 50-50 thing here. You're obviously slacking with the way you take with ur wife, she's not as stubborn as u paint her here. so go back to her and mend things right.

And for the records, who told you she has a spirit husband? even if it happens to be true, that's not even reason for u to divorce d mother of your kids. pls stop being selfish here and consider ur kids. why didn't u see all these before marrying her. so brother, just calm and go back to ur wife.

As regarding d sex thing, good communication and a change in d the way u treat her will make her give it to u the way u want. pls don't divorce ur wife, or you'll regret this, if not now, but surely later in life you'll regret this. so just let her be.

Change the way u react to her and start supporting her to be the best you want. This is where d whole will see how matured u are. She hasn't done anything to deserve been divorced.

So go back to her and mend things right.
Good luck

After going through this thread.
This is the best advice.

Op don't divorce your wife
Go pay her bride price
Remove anger and bitterness from your heart
Bitterness breeds all manner of evil
It's the cancer of the soul

Start start treating her right
She is the mother of your children

Everything will get OK and fine
Even the sex too.

okcharles:



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What will I say now pray for her, you know she changed her attitude change yours like"coming to America movie"...

Taiwojon:

I don't know what is your problem oooo



are you obsessed of the Bible
or of the printer of the Bible
or of the words of God
or of the message
or of me


mind you, you know you can stop the gospel so let it fulfilled it course


remember words of Jesus. heaven and earth shall past away but my words shall not pass away

That's why you are all rolling in unimaginable poverty. Keep believing nonsense.

victorian:


And later they will say no wife material. All they see is gfs.

In my father's days, back in the olden days my dad single handedly took care of the house rents for all his 5 wives and 17 Children. Trained all the 17 children in schools to university level, sent some abroad while my mom had to stay back Cos he felt insecure taking her abroad as the others due to his extra possessiveness.
He opened a thriving business for any of his wives who wants to work while the others who prefer to stay home, stayed back to train and take care of her kids.

But these days, most men are wailing to be the wives At home than taking the lead role to be the man. And one wonders why divorce rate is very high.

Sighs May God help the men in this category to become real men again.

Going by your arguement now, your Dad did Great!
He married five wives and successfully trained 17children, unlike husband of nowadays.

Let me just pray for you: In the name of Jesus, you WILL be the 4th wife, in a marriage of five wives by your Husband.
Can l hear a BIG AMEN from you?, ..................shiroboboshimanaga (speaks in tongues to seal the prayer).

I am still waiting for your Amen, otherwise l 'wont' call you a Hypocrite!

"The Mad Man is easy and pleasurable to admire in the Market Square, but No one wants to be his Parent" - Nigerian Proverb

victorian:








Thanks man!

I even envy my dad too.

Even in old age, he was still slaying with white hairs, and women still tripping on his matter. My mom just gave up complaining on his case.

Hiya. Men are foolish pls ignore them.
. So what's y'all thoughts on girl on girl action we discuss?

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

who's name should a separated man who is not sure of his marriage put as next of kin in his new documents? Candid advise needed

Judybash93:


Spiritual attack? LMFAO.... Y'all niggas tripping

Lolz. I pray you will never experience spiritual attack. That's when you will know that science is limited in scope and can't explain everything

You should start watching the Paranormal program on Fox Live. That may help enlighten you so that you can stop acting myopic

Dande55:

Is she suppose to pay school fees and house rent? Why are you complaining about paying bills in the house? So that jobless men here can call her names or what exactly is your point?
Back to your issue: Why can't you work on your marriage? Maybe you should try dressing well and looking nice. Do you have pot belly? How's your sex game like?

THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST STUPID AND SENSELESS COMMENTS I EVER READ.

[quote author=Dalil8 post=91180384]Don't stress it man. Divorce her and move on.

Life's too short.

Guys pls whenever you're ready to have kids, go for surrogacy and enjoy your life to the fullest.

We only live once. [ Na surrogate ur papa 'n mama take bring u come life]

content208:


Lolz. I pray you will never experience spiritual attack. That's when you will know that science is limited in scope and can't explain everything

You should start watching the Paranormal program on Fox Live. That may help enlighten you so that you can stop acting myopic

I'm not saying that what you're implying isn't real or unreal. I'm only asking you to prove it sir. Btw, i don't believe in any kinda spiritual crap. If you have evidence for it, bring it forward..

Judybash93:


I'm not saying that what you're implying isn't real or unreal. I'm only asking you to prove it sir. Btw, i don't believe in any kinda spiritual crap. If you have evidence for it, bring it forward..

Can you prove how ordinary oxygen keeps you alive?

Judybash93:


I'm not saying that what you're implying isn't real or unreal. I'm only asking you to prove it sir. Btw, i don't believe in any kinda spiritual crap. If you have evidence for it, bring it forward..

Go and watch the paranormal program I mentioned; you will get your answers there.

content208:


Can you prove how ordinary oxygen keeps you alive?

The cells of the body use oxygen to produce energy. Oxygen is carried by the hemoglobin on the red blood cells. The blood vessels in the lungs bring oxygenated blood to the heart. The heart then pumped it out to the cells of the body. The waste product of this process is carbon dioxide. The hemoglobin then returns the carbon dioxide back to the lungs where it is exhaled.
Capillaries, which are small blood vessels with thin walls, are wrapped around these alveoli. The walls are so thin and close to each other that the air easily seeps through. In this way, oxygen seeps through into the bloodstream and carbon dioxide, in the bloodstream, seeps through into the alveoli, and is then removed from the body when we breathe out.
Do a little experiment by blocking your exhaust pipe, sit in your car with your Windows up and let's see if you'll be up and running in about an hour.
The short answer is that you inhale oxygen because you need oxygen for some biological processes.

Back to my question sir, demonstrate how spirit wife dey work

content208:


Go and watch the paranormal program I mentioned; you will get your answers there.

If you say you don't know, i won't hold it against you

Since this is a one sided story I'm sure there are missing details. However, if what you are saying is entirely true my candid opinion is that U SHOULD DIVORCE HER

victorian:






And later they will say no wife material. All they see is gfs.

In my father's days, back in the olden days my dad single handedly took care of the house rents for all his 5 wives and 17 Children. Trained all the 17 children in schools to university level, sent some abroad while my mom had to stay back Cos he felt insecure taking her abroad as the others due to his extra possessiveness.
He opened a thriving business for any of his wives who wants to work while the others who prefer to stay home, stayed back to train and take care of her kids.

But these days, most men are wailing to be the wives At home than taking the lead role to be the man. And one wonders why divorce rate is very high.

Sighs May God help the men in this category to become real men again.

Babe please do you live in my head.


It is even more worrisome this days that we have too many women who are bread winners in their homes while others are contributing even higher than the husband.

Judybash93:


If you say you don't know, i won't hold it against you

Oga, there is no way you can describe spiritual occurrences with physical examples. Just go and watch Paranormal Survivors to get your answers

content208:


Oga, there is no way you can describe spiritual occurrences with physical examples. Just go and watch Paranormal Survivors to get your answers

Negro please

victorazyvictor:


And the bite?

Hee has an underlying subtle infection It could be that the wife's vjay environment triggers the bite.

My husband was experiencing such and we were treated for yeast.

Stop letting this spiritual ppl scatter ur marriage. Once they prophesy for you, you start putting two and two together and the next thing is accusing someone.

Be wise

Judybash93:


Negro please

Lolz. Start watching Paranormal Survivors and you will be better enlightened, Mr White Man.