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Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by drightguy(m): 9:24pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
To think I read that stuff without getting the message clear is enough to tell that the op was really confused. |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Macon1212: 9:24pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Agba2020: If this is true your Mom is a pycho 1 Like |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Ayodejewel: Is it possible for a mother to lie against her son?! Following your line of reasoning. |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Herbephe1(m): 9:27pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
In life there are some certain things you see or hear, and you just laugh over it because it's meaningless. She might dream it and thought it might come true. Are you in any relationship? Note when your mum is on good mood, then as her" maami van u still remember your statement few years back,pls are u joking or what" I even thought it's something serious shelf tuer! |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by fredoooooo: 9:28pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Family matter go and solve it at home |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Karlifate: 9:28pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Agba2020! Agba2020!! Agba2020!!!
How many times did I call you?!
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Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by mrMeen(m): 9:29pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
false accusations hurt especially if it comes from someone you trust, many people here will not even believe such or hatchet capacity to comprehend the fact that yes, your mother can hurt you to the extent that it's irreparable. my experience was that I have a very close friend, and she decided to to turn her frustration on me one day by saying that she suspects the relationship between me and my friend, I was dumbfounded to the extent that I couldn't utter a single word, she probably has forgotten about it but it is something that I will certainly not forget for the rest of my life. 2 Likes |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Happyfela(m): 9:29pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Shey you dey whyne me. |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Parkleader: 9:32pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Dpharisee:Yes, while Spaghetti generation has drag this country to the mud, in short this country don't have a future again |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Martinez39s(m): 9:32pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Agba2020:You should have handled the situation like a man. If my mum accused me of such, I will simply say "I never did such" and continue what I am doing. If she insists, that's her problem. If she demands for answers, I maintain my response and move on. I can even report to my dad if her unnecessary wahala is becoming too much. As simple as that. Life is not hard. This is why I always encourage men to drill their children, especially boys, in having a tough skin. Just for an accusation, you are crying, upset and saying your life has been destroyed. You no try, you fall my hand. Words/opinions cannot hurt you except you want them to. So if a girl accuse you of rape, you will hang yourself or fall from third mainland bridge? 2 Likes
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Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Karlifate: 9:33pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
This is what you should have posted initially. Agba2020:Please work on your emotions as a man. The world we are now, is not for emotionally weak people, because you won't go far. 2 Likes |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by sytccoach1(m): 9:34pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
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Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by NtiObaEneke(f): 9:35pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Agba2020:You are an adult now. Confront her privately with this issue so you can have closure |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by purples25(f): 9:35pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
These kinda things are so weird. I especially understand you feeling repulsed by your dad after these allegations. But instead of keeping him in the dark, talk about it. Talk about it cuz if he didn't do it, your reactions to him will be unfair... But i can understand feeling repulsed... 3 Likes |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by NtiObaEneke(f): 9:36pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Karlifate:7 times |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by fruitfulvine360(f): 9:36pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
OMG! Lmao heendrix: |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by smartoliver(m): 9:36pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Somebody help me do this math 17 + 9 = 26 My Guy, You're twenty six, as in 2 and 6. How far you? Abi iyam wrong? Lemme know. Onto the matter, your life isn't ruined by any means. It's even stupid to think your life was ruined. I guess the reason you've not done much with your life is because you carried that burden of your life being ruined!. So what if you don't succeed in life, do you think anyone would believe your failure was based on what your mum said? Well, I'll assume those words were exaggerations cause I was expecting a more in depth story. However, your life isn't ruined. You need to therapist, no magician, no god (you do need God though) and no human to tell you what to do, you just have to make up your mind to get over that shitty ass excuse. I don't want to compare those words with the ones others must have been told, just know you need to change your mind to change your life. And for bleeps sake, your life isn't ruined. Those words dey vex me. It's not even a challenge. Don't be emotional about it, let it go boy! You can do it. You can even admit to her claims and still live life to the fullest, Bleep what she says and do you for your sake. You're 26 damn it! 1 Like |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by bcashy: 9:41pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
heendrix: U are wicked |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Is she displaying symptoms of mental imbalance? If she is, let it slide, forget what she said and get her help, but if she is sound and normal, bring up the issue again. Ask her why she said that, ask her what came over her, let her know how badly u re affected by that accusation. Be stern! Be angry with her. Gosh! I can't believe this 1 Like |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by jayloms: 9:45pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Agba2020:Some parents can be manipulative. Is your dad a faithful spouse to your mum? Mothers tend to get at their husbands on matters bordering on infidelity or welfare, through their children especially when the children are close to the father. I'm sure you were pretty close to your Dad before the incident; and I don't need to ask how your relationship with him is at the moment. 1 Like |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by stainbaba(m): 9:45pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
I no even understand how dat talk take ruin ur life ooh...shuooo...ajebor children evriwhere...abegii...kpako life for d strit na d best jor...ruin ko...penetrate ni
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Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by abah001: 9:46pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
foolish story |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by gigante: 9:46pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
heendrix: Anu mpama, what do you know. Shut da Bleep up fool |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Martinez39s(m): 9:46pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Agba2020:You need to stop this nonsense. When next you see your father, give him a good handshake, and thank him for his efforts in providing for the family and seeing that you are alright. Don't let the foolishness of your mama put a psychological wall between you and your dad. Your dad doesn't deserve all this nonsense after all his labour. Sit up Jare! You are too weak and fragile for a man. 3 Likes |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Lotusflowerbomb: 9:47pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Agba2020:Why didn't you report to your Father? |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Lotusflowerbomb: 9:49pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Agba2020:You should still have told him. What sort of rubbish is that? How old were you when this happened? |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by IamPlato(m): 9:50pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Agba2020:the Only Way You Can Let Go Is To Discuss it With Your Mother the Offender and She Has To Apologise Or Else You Would Hold it To Your Grave |
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Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by onyiibest(m): 9:52pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Same thing happened to me... But from different side.... I had this friend who play a lot like jumping on someone and so on.... One day, mum caught him on top of me,(we were just dragging something, you know that kind of dragging play you do with your close buddy) she sent the guy out and gave me hot slap. Was confused because didn't know how i went wrong. Then she reported me to family that am gay.. I hated her for that was too young to defend my self (14yrs old me) just kept quiet but we never in good terms since then, she is still my mum, i love her but i never come to her for help or advice till date... My dear forgive and move on but it hurts mostly when you are innocent. 3 Likes |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Nnatuu: 9:55pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
This is a very touching story. I understand how deeply hurt you are. Try discuss this with your siblings, share it and free your mind else it has the capacity to make you perpetually bitter and can hurt a lot of your future happiness. It’s like cancer, cut it off now. Before it eats into other happy aspects of your life. Good luck! 1 Like |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Ayodejewel(f): 10:00pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
SWEETEIGHTEEN: Well...I think it shouldn't have been that confrontational There are better ways she could have passed her message |
Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by Onlinebar: 10:01pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
This is a very serious allegation that is unfortunately coming from a mother I seriously doubt I'll ever forget and forgive her OP, forge closer ties with your father and forget that b*itch 2 Likes |
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