gunners160:
So becos of that the guy should kill the young lady with beating habi
but wait oo how do some ladies cope in abusive rlshp? imagine 7 good years and yet you guys are not married

Rozz:
Sorry dear,you took the right decision,never look back again.

tehilah92:
This is my first time of doing this on nairaland, please pardon any mistakes.
I met and started dating my boyfriend, though now ex, in 2013 while in my first year, he was in his third year, though there were other girls I didn't get know about till after 3 months of dating him, baby t somehow he dumped others and I was the only one left, so I thought..,
He kept on cheating, I kept forgiving, even after his graduation, we continued, everyone knows about us, almost everyone was seeing us couple of course we were seeing ourselves too, hahaha, we even planned how our wedding would look like, but then he is a woman beater, my mouth no kukuma good if quarrel start but he always starts the fight, his cheating part became something else, he even slept with my best friend's kid sister, hmm, as usual he apologized, and mumu in love, I forgave, after my graduation, a year later I went for service, though I went before him, now the problem, I served in a rural area, no light, poor Network, anytime he calls and am unavailable, he concludes am with a man, he will insult me and everything around me, after much insults, I decided to walk away for good, though it hurts that I wasted almost 7years with him, I was hoping he would change but it only got worse, if I endure and marry this one I will die of maybe BP or beatings, has anyone experienced this before?

Olatara:
Hmmmm. So sorry, yours even better, you didn't really invest your money, time and body. I am glad you walked away.
My advice: invest in yourself and move on.

Drsnives:
After spending 7 years of your life with that guy, what is now left for your future husband? Ladies make una fear God nah

placeofallure:


That's it. Nobody ever broke my heart. I never experienced heartbreaks simply because once I noticed anything I didn't like, I tell you once or twice, I just take a walk. I'm an introvert. Some may never even know the reason I left cos I won't just say, I just jejely go my way Chikena!
Ta n ni radarada!

Drsnives:
After spending 7 years of your life with that guy, what is now left for your future husband? Ladies make una fear God nah

Sixfeetbelle:


How many years have you spent with your numerous girlfriends and oloshos? What is now left for your future "virgin" wife? Abi you no dey that category?

Drsnives:


God forbid am still whole. you better stop yanshing around so your family don't present a walking corpse to your future wife

Sixfeetbelle:


Answer the question my friend. Did I request for you to preach to me?

Drsnives:




Calm down young man, you know me before?

Sixfeetbelle:


I'm a lady

When you make comments that exclude men from the generally acceptable action of sleeping around, you get questioned to ascertain your level of intelligence. Do you comprehend my initial question now?

ThothHermes:
Men are not necessarily excluded from sleeping around. Ideally men and women should not sleep around. However, nature has so designed it that virtue or chastity makes a woman more appealing, the same way the ability to provide and protect makes men more appealing regardless of his past, present or future philandering. It's the reason women lie about their body counts while men brag about or even exaggerate theirs.
It's not a matter of intelligence. It's just what it is

CODEIN:

You deserve it.

Why i say so is because

Na werey una dey like

Na panel beater una love to dey fall for

Good guys na no no for all of una

Deal with it

Dem go fuqk dem up finish kon dey find good guy shoulder to cry on

Any nice guy wey wipe una tear na mumu im be cos una go still carry una leg waka go meet yeye evil guys wey sabi pretend


Nb.
Before anyone quota me rememba say lady do me sef dis kind thin 5yrs. Man pikin man up move on. I no come here come kon find sympathisers

Spicyneedle:
You said you walked away but I think you are here to find a reason to get back together again

danilmo:
I pray not to end up with ladies who leaved couples life on campus because I ll see her as an empty can and may likely not appreciate her uniqueness.

Phenomenal16:
Congratulations baby gal!

Omoluabi16:
He kept beating and kept cheating..yet it took you 7 /bloodygood/ years to walk. Like they say, better late than never. Open your eyes in your next relationship.

Frankenstein:
Was it a no-sex relationship?

SweetCunt97:
You see some of the reasons some in their 30s are single? Investing years into one relationship and something comes up and pulls d plug.

truthhurts2:
Hmmmm...

Pls, why checking his phone? That's where most of you ladies give yourself unnecessary headache. Checking his phone is like writing letters to a lots of things e.g HBP, stomach pain, HEARTache, running stomach and total loss of peace of mind. If we pray not to die young, not checking our partner's phone is one of the remedy.

Alexaonfleek:
Why shouldn't she check his phone?
So that he will give her STD as he's cheating abi?

Sixfeetbelle:


I'm a lady.

When you make comments that exclude men from the generally acceptable action of sleeping around, you get questioned to ascertain your level of intelligence. Do you comprehend my initial question now?

tehilah92:
This is my first time of doing this on nairaland, please pardon any mistakes.
I met and started dating my boyfriend, though now ex, in 2013 while in my first year, he was in his third year, though there were other girls I didn't get know about till after 3 months of dating him, baby t somehow he dumped others and I was the only one left, so I thought..,
He kept on cheating, I kept forgiving, even after his graduation, we continued, everyone knows about us, almost everyone was seeing us couple of course we were seeing ourselves too, hahaha, we even planned how our wedding would look like, but then he is a woman beater, my mouth no kukuma good if quarrel start but he always starts the fight, his cheating part became something else, he even slept with my best friend's kid sister, hmm, as usual he apologized, and mumu in love, I forgave, after my graduation, a year later I went for service, though I went before him, now the problem, I served in a rural area, no light, poor Network, anytime he calls and am unavailable, he concludes am with a man, he will insult me and everything around me, after much insults, I decided to walk away for good, though it hurts that I wasted almost 7years with him, I was hoping he would change but it only got worse, if I endure and marry this one I will die of maybe BP or beatings, has anyone experienced this before?