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Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by paix(m): 11:28am On Jul 04, 2020 |
kunkelhanspeter:Is that so? |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by fyneboi79(m): 11:29am On Jul 04, 2020 |
SSpeter:Your friend is a wise man and needs to stick to his guns. Kudos to him. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Joshforeal: 11:29am On Jul 04, 2020 |
chii8:Na you dey the dp. P.S this is a public chat. You fine. Where in Lagos can I find you? |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Dekanye: 11:29am On Jul 04, 2020 |
First of i don't think a bank would call you to reverse any money... I've been mistakenly credited before and when i withdrew the money the put my account on negative
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Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by eikeem(m): 11:30am On Jul 04, 2020 |
My friend ended a relationship because a lady - whose education he was sponsoring in UNILAG - denied receiving the recharge cards' details sent to her. Turned out she loaded all the cards. It may not seem like a big deal but integrity is a fundamental requirement in every relationship. And when integrity is lacking, a lot of questions and assumptions are raised - many of them needless but difficult to ignore. 3 Likes |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by paix(m): 11:30am On Jul 04, 2020 |
SSpeter:Tough |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by alllivesmatter(m): 11:30am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Saintinoo: Bro, Banks do steal actually, but it doesn't justify what the lady did if this story is true. Banks, being corporate organisations would cook up terms & jargons as to why they stole. What would the girl say? Ignorance? Ignorance doesn't overrule the law of nature nor the constitution. If this story is true. Then what she did is bad. It's an omen of something bad that may later hit in the future. People shouldn't feel too clingy with money...at all. 3 Likes |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by deltateam: 11:30am On Jul 04, 2020 |
SSpeter: What I think or don't think is immaterial. Your friend has values which he couldn't compromise on. A good name is better than riches. I have gotten favours because of my parents attitude to people. That's the legacy they left me. Your friend intends to build a good name and his girl is a stumbling block to it. Can 2 walk together except they agree? There are things I can't do such as scam and often wonder how people get comfortable with it. I sleep well knowing I have wronged no man at least consciously and don't expect police to barge into my house anytime for anything. Op I suggest you stay away from interfering. Dude knows what he wants. 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Lovelyn451(f): 11:30am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Your wife is like a child that still needs to be trained, teach her what integrity means, preach it to her, pray for her, very ambitious people from poor background are always criminal minded cos they get to hustle their way to the top without support from family, integrity is not in their dictionary o, bt I think God is trying to change her through you, now she's abt to lose the love of her life, I'm sure she's learnt her lessons and will change for good.. please forgive her 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by teemotee: 11:30am On Jul 04, 2020 |
That the guy she is marrying asked about and she couldn't open up is a big deal 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Nobody: 11:31am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Might be the girl is Yoruba, Yahoo ruba girl has seen free money. D guy is igbo, we no take last |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:31am On Jul 04, 2020 |
kalufelix:....I'm not surprised.Only a thief will support another thief Your comments here just exposed your kind of person. You lack intergity and claim being smart while embezzling people's money paid into your account. Yet you re still poor. 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by lanreHeda: 11:33am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Lovelyn451:Okoto |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:33am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Lovelyn451:....Can you do all these if it was your husband to be that did it? |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Dalby(m): 11:33am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Gerrard59: You freeze withdrawals and they take you to court, the thing you have been trying to hide comes out in the open... Moreso there are processes. Bank manager cannot just say freeze account number XYZ...we are not in a banana republic... 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by IMASTEX: 11:34am On Jul 04, 2020 |
chii8:Fact |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by hefeeluv: 11:34am On Jul 04, 2020 |
if were to cut short every relationship because of just a single attitude that be manage and be control,we would never get married |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by don4real18(m): 11:34am On Jul 04, 2020 |
But when the owner of an account dies, the next of kin isn't always contacted. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by kalufelix(m): 11:36am On Jul 04, 2020 |
hotdo9:Not when i made a cash deposit... Besides the funds will be moved before they realize... Why do you think they had to make contact and plead. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Salliet(m): 11:36am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Hope by the time I am reading this post they have gone their separate ways? Marriage has lots of surprises awaiting you, this one you found out on time, you are toying with the idea to go on or not? #Fearwomenandmen |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by karnap(m): 11:37am On Jul 04, 2020 |
which money was it?
was the money her own or from fraudulent way? |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by jolarify4(m): 11:37am On Jul 04, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:let her gain something nah |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Nobody: 11:38am On Jul 04, 2020 |
if this happens and nobody called me, I will definitely keep the money. But if I get contacted I go return am asap |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Aparche(f): 11:39am On Jul 04, 2020 |
foreverdiamonds: It's one thing being tempted by such an amount of money and then trying to play a fast one by keeping it to yourself; that is greed. But when a human being like her calls & begs her to return the money because he made a mistake, and she still refused and instead proceeded to transfer it to another bank account just so that they won't touch it. Then that is wickedness, and goes to show that she is inconsiderate. And then when the person she loves call to ask her about the money, she denies it, until he confronted her with proof. Kai! This one has gone beyond mistake abeg. This is character problem, and in marriage we pray to marry someone with good character. 3 Likes |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Usmankno: 11:39am On Jul 04, 2020 |
One of her hidden character been exposed..but over time,I get to believe that most of us have to that kind of intent in our mind if given or the opportunity cross our way..that's human being nature. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by coputa(m): 11:39am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Indomie generation,so,because your fiancee of three years refused to return another persons money,she's now a thief and lacks integrity.the action of the girl does not make her a bad person,marriage is a different ball game,women of yore,used half of what they were given by their husband to buy food for their family and use the rest for esusu,but they lead a happy married life,emotion forms the integeral part of a womans actions.You ain't see anything yet,you think marriage is a tea party. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by lanreHeda: 11:39am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Lovelyn451:Wow......he should train her !!!......what are her parents for ?.if he is training her, who will train their children, or will he be training mother and children. wetin person no go see for nairaland. 1 Like |
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Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:41am On Jul 04, 2020 |
coputa:....So what are you implying? |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by OChimex: 11:42am On Jul 04, 2020 |
SSpeter: Integrity is everything for you and many more hypocritic Nigerians when it has to do with another person and about money, yet almost every of you Nigerians lacks integrity in all spheres of life, marriage, relationship, etc. He who goes to equity must come with clean hands. I have never seen a country bereft of integrity like Nigeria which is why they celebrate criminals and have a messed up country. They dont even understand the word integrity. my conclusion. If he had never sin in that way before (integrity wise) let him cast the first stone, but if he has, let him think deeply again about his decision because every human being has a flaw in one way or the other. NB: Think deeply... I mean, he should ask himself, has this girl shown in the past that she is such a person and irredeemable? Does she have a pressing need for money that would have pushed her to do that? This last question is very important because, if you had ever been a financial mess for so long and seem to have no solution coming your way, you will understand what it means to be in dire financial problem. you could even steal Money kept in a shrine. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by bigcasava1(m): 11:43am On Jul 04, 2020 |
SSpeter:the guy did well God just want to expose her |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by GIdiata(m): 11:43am On Jul 04, 2020 |
kalufelix: same way Adam partnered Eve in her crime. Now, look at where we are today. had it been Adam didn't partner Eve people like you will condemn him. how he never really loved her. Bottom line I have no sympathy for thieves/Yahoo whether a sibling, wife/husband, father/mother, I will GIVE U UP. 1 Like |
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