Life is unpredictable,it is not for the swiftest or the smartest,it comes with a lot of opportunities and challenges.We all sometimes find ourselves at a dead end: rent arrears,school fees,car repairs,medical bills,food,clothings,marriage. etc and the resources to rescue ourselves is not within reach.and a much junior sibbling(s)cames to our rescue,how do you feel,does this makes you to be a never do well or a failure.

"Onye ji ife kwaa nna ya, obughi di okpara gburu ya". - Igbo proverb.

SLAP44:
"Onye ji ife kwaa nna ya, obughi di okpara gburu ya". - Igbo proverb.

@SLAP44 please interprete.

No it doesn't make you a never do well or failure.For me,it will kind of give you hope and morale to work harder.You are lucky your younger one is willing to help you.Most times,first born in most families are always financially unstable than their younger one, parents use them as samples to set up a good record for the other siblings following.This slows them down in life as they are similar to an experimental object in the laboratory.Their younger ones learns from their mistakes and move ahead of them, whilst the first born are still struggling to rise from that mistake.


My opinion ooo

chii8:
No it doesn't make you a never do well or failure.For me,it will kind of give you hope and morale to work harder.You are lucky your younger one is willing to help you.Most times,first born in most families are always financially unstable than their younger one, parents use them as samples to set up a good record for the other siblings following.This slows them down in life as they are similar to an experimental object in the laboratory.Their younger ones learns from their mistakes and move ahead of them, whilst the first born are still struggling to rise from that mistake.


My opinion ooo

even if you do not,what of others,like your friends,family members,parents and even your spouse n children(if you are married).they feel you are lazy.

No, it doesn't make you a never-do-well nor a failure.

Instead, it will make you to want to work harder and become a better person.


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coputa:
even if you do not,what of others,like your friends,family members,parents and even your spouse n children(if you are married).they feel you are lazy.

My dear, everything boils down to your mindset, 'whatever name you give your dog it will surely answer' That someone is married is not the issue here, sincerely.People(married),here on this forum collects money from strangers here, some married people also borrow money from banks and other financial institutions and it doesn't mean that they're lazy,so when your siblings helps you out financially, the society will all of a sudden tag you lazy?ok oooo