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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Omoboricash(m): 12:29pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Liposure:My wife and I has been on friend zone before one thing leads to another . we share so many thing when we were friends . she hide nothing from me . we are companion , always like to hang out together. A true friend always remain a true friend no matter circumstances . 1 Like |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Karlifate: 12:30pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
emmabest2000:Hahahahahaha...... 3 Likes
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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by lexy2014: 12:31pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Adding value in what sense? |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Omar09(m): 12:31pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
joseph1832: Na because them call BESTIE na em deh confuse you? You never hear BESTIE before ni? Mtchew! |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Slynation(m): 12:32pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
HembaqMbk:This was exactly a similar scenario I thought about yesterday... I have few ladies as friends which has lasted for about 4-8years & still counting, I mean very good friends, no sex attached neither do they have the parasitic behavior of exploitation & manipulation (perhaps to me tho) ...As a guy, it was quite difficult because as we all know, the preeq is autonomous and charges at will, sometimes the thought of going naughty on her do pops up but I was usually restrained by the choice of losing the friendship in case of rejection or satisfying my sexual urge. So I was just thinking about my love journey yesterday, I noticed all the girls I've dated so far, Our relationship didn't start on gradual process, it accelerated from 0 to 60 under 1week...And I can guarantee you they all ended in tears So now I want to channel my love to one of my female friends that can lead to marriage let me see how it goes...So OP pray for me oO, because I will be giving you a feedback of my personal experience ![]() 1 Like |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Omar09(m): 12:33pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
lexy2014: In Actual Sense |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ashiodimeh2020(f): 12:33pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:I agree with u |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by lexy2014: 12:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Omar09: Break down d "actual sense" in relation to friendship& adding value |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Bills2307(m): 12:44pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1:This cracked me up. ![]() |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by WhyAWhy(m): 12:46pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Marriage is one big pot of ila asepo. Stories abound of people who married their BESSSSSSSSSSSST friends. There were the ideal couple, the best of the best and the envy of many but their marriage broke down in less than 3 years of marriage. I have come to the conclusion that marriage is a blind game of luck. 3 Likes |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ELibraryNG: 12:46pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
peterangelo: Na there Wahala dey. But why will a best friend that knows you well refused to marry you |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 12:53pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Fearlez: 12:53pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Doesn't always work. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by joseph1832(m): 12:57pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Theophinio(m): 1:03pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Insightful sir I must say is extremely hard to seek God's choice for you in marriage without having a specific kind of woman you want in mind I know God choice for me in marriage must be my kind of woman #PEACE 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by lexy2014: 1:04pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1: So if a person doesn't add value in every sense that doesn't benefit me, then that person isn't a friend? |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 1:07pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
lexy2014: Answer the question yourself. Is that person your friend? There are more qualities that a friend should have. I am sure you can figure it out |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 1:09pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Champneys: Sai! A tang iko nte idad. Aya do ok. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Righteousness89(m): 1:12pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Theophinio: Bro it's not bad for you to have the kind or Spec of woman you want.. What I mean is try not to seek God with a specific woman in mind.. 1 Like |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by gnykelly(m): 1:13pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek: I can't marry my friend... there will be no sexual attraction. just sexual chores 1 Like |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by wonder233: 1:14pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
K |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Theophinio(m): 1:15pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
mrkings84: Thank You Sir This is it |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 1:15pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
honest1480: You captured it aptly. A true friend, not a frenemy. Please lexy 2014 and yanabasee1. This says it all. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Austine34: 1:15pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
see below |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nickymichy(m): 1:16pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
In my opinion... Love should be one of the reasons you want to marry not the main reason... Friendship should the greatest reason for you to marry someone.. Your friend is someone that you share common goals and idea...you have the same thing in common...love fades but friendship can be sustained... When d love fades then your friendship will keep you going 1 Like |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Champneys: 1:17pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Nte Ndade Baba e, Obo langido. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by lexy2014: 1:18pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Am following ur line of reasoning except u didn't figure it out what u said b4 u said it. Already u are opening up another front about "qualities" when u haven't been able to to state specifically who a friend & how it relates to adding value |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by wonder233: 1:18pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Scam of the century: in Nigeria marriage is by criteria : especially religious, tribal and economic criteria. But we will be collectively deceiving ourselves with these hackneyed cliches "marry your friend".Mtcheeew ELibraryNG: |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Ishilove: 1:19pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
joseph1832:Naptu2 is even far. You sef what are we waiting for?? ![]() |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by joseph1832(m): 1:27pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Ishilove:Lol. I'm waiting to have money like Dangote because there's "no romance without finance". ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by membranus: 1:30pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by HembaqMbk: 1:35pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Slynation: It will go well bro. Waiting patiently to hear more good news. 1 Like |
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