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Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Openbusiness3: 2:49pm On Jul 06, 2020
Adaibeku:
but how did u know their is no smashing? grin grin grin
Cuz the pregnancy was planned na, between the couple and their bestfriend...........ok let me confess, I was under d bed dat night, and norin hapin, ok? grin
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Adaibeku(f): 2:52pm On Jul 06, 2020
Openbusiness3:
Cuz the pregnancy was planned na, between the couple and their bestfriend...........ok let me confess, I was under d bed dat night, and norin hapin, ok? grin
It seems like an evil incarnate ...anyway collect d millions so that peace will reign inugo?

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Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Openbusiness3: 2:56pm On Jul 06, 2020
Adaibeku:
It seems like an evil incarnate ...anyway collect d millions so that peace will reign inugo?
I wish I can collect it oh, but I'm not the woman na, this isn't my story. I copied the woman post and paste here grin But wait oh, is that your real picture? (☉。☉)
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Openbusiness3: 2:57pm On Jul 06, 2020
mattfeuter:


Smh

It was never about the kids for you, it’s about MONEY
Money is important na. How will she cure the psychological and emotional damages if not with money? grin
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Openbusiness3: 3:04pm On Jul 06, 2020
Michelle55:
Na all about the money jare.. She really doesn't care about the kids
But from her story, she cares. She even wants to collect the children. Most women love twins na. Maybe that's the root of her issues, cuz the husband no give am twins. Come go give another woman. You're a woman na, so you should know how fragile woman emotion is in matters like this. Then her pain again is that the children her so fine, like her handsome husband and resembles her own children, so the thing don scatter her head. She can't bear it grin
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by otokpamike(m): 3:10pm On Jul 06, 2020
Old story, this has been on nairaland before,why posting it again.
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Adaibeku(f): 3:11pm On Jul 06, 2020
Openbusiness3:
I wish I can collect it oh, but I'm not the woman na, this isn't my story. I copied the woman post and paste here grin But wait oh, is that your real picture? (☉。☉)
Yes that's me
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by drajjay: 3:19pm On Jul 06, 2020
Openbusiness3:
My husband donated his sperm for IVF without my consent!! We have been married for 8 years with 5 children, 2 boys and 3 girls. His best friend has been married for 3 years without kids.

The wife is my friend. My husband was given One (1)million Naira for his sperm to be donated to my friend, the wife to my husband’s best friend. I was never told about this. Her pregnancy was announced around October 2017.

I was so happy for her, she never disclosed anything to me let alone how she went for IVF procedure. She gave birth to 2 daugthers in August, 2018. They threw a party and painted the town red.

In mid-November 2018, the kids just turned 3 months when one of the babies fell from the rocking chair in their sitting room.

She was bleeding, so they took her to the hospital, only to discover that she was SS, they later took the other one there for test and she is AS. They called my husband 2 weeks ago at 2am early morning on that day to come to the hospital, he wanted to go alone, I said I will come with him as I was also very worried for the baby.

The first thing that shocked me, was that the baby so much looked like my daugthers at that age. She has the big eyes of my husband and my 5 kids. My husband was told to donate blood as he has O negative like the child.

He is the only one to give blood to the baby, as she had lost a lot of blood. After 2 hours there, we went home. I could not sleep, I told my husband directly; ” Is there something about your friend’s child you want me to know?’ he said no. I said ok and slept off.

I noticed he was already awake and left home for work too early. I quickly dressed up and went to the hospital to see the wife. Only to see my husband there with them. I asked them straight if it was my husband that donated his sperm for the IVF? Because my husband is AS genotype like his wife unknowingly, while I am AA like her husband. My husband knew but wanted the One (1) Million Naira.

They did not bother to find out. She told me she wanted to tell me when they were all planning it last year, it was my husband that kicked against it, that I will never agree to the plan. I called his family and my uncle only, as I do not have parents. I told them that I can only remain in this marriage if the 2 daughters of his best friend is given back to me.

They are my husband’s kids and mine as well, or they MUST pay me 2 million Naira, or I will quit my marriage. My husband is a cow. The twins are too beautiful like my husband for me to leave them with that family. My last child is lonely and needs a little one to play with. I know i sound a bit crazy, l’ am sorry i can not think straight anymore. This is just too much for me to handle.

I need advise on what to do next. Thanks

— Anonymous

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the story is simply fake. No one does IVF without doing all kinds of test, the first on that list is genotype.
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Stillthebest: 3:25pm On Jul 06, 2020
shocked

Selfish woman has 5kids. But still wants to take in the two that brings joy to other family? How are they your kids?

What your husband did was wrong for not telling you. But can two wrongs make a right?
He is very justified to have kicked against telling you prior.

What about showing your grievances on what your husband did to your husband alone and let go? I'm sure your husband would apologise seriously in a remorseful manner.

The sperm owner isnt complaining and never threatens heaven and earth. Sure there must be legal doc supporting them to have consented on the IVF by the parties? I hope when you get him in troubles of the court, the peace and 7 children u want shall come?
U actually want to take in the SS carrier also?
Just WOW!

Go ahead and claim the children since they yours madam sperm owner!
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Openbusiness3: 3:30pm On Jul 06, 2020
Adaibeku:
Yes that's me
Chaiii shocked! Like fresh hot white bread just coming out of oven. See as you smooth pass smoothie grin. Do you have colored eyes?
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Adaibeku(f): 3:33pm On Jul 06, 2020
Openbusiness3:
Chaiii shocked! Like fresh hot white bread just coming out of oven. See as you smooth pass smoothie grin. Do you have colored eyes?
As u can see am kanu's sister from afara ibeku
Am a goddess 2 from old ancient degema Creek( I don't want u 2 believe me ok)

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Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Openbusiness3: 3:35pm On Jul 06, 2020
drajjay:
the story is simply fake. No one does IVF without doing all kinds of test, the first on that list is genotype.
I know someone that got blood transfusion from hospital, later discovered the blood was hepatitis B. But the hospital claim they screen it and the govt hospital they got it from also did screen, that they don't know how come the blood is hepatitis B. Later they were begging that error is from their side, they wi treat the patient for free. Thank God it is the curable type they infected the patient with by mistake. Bottom line is, MISTAKES HAPPEN even in the best hospitals

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Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by FlatSkull: 3:58pm On Jul 06, 2020
U mus marry u must marry
Now u see de result? Dey r both ekuke fools!
Openbusiness3:
My husband donated his sperm for IVF without my consent!! We have been married for 8 years with 5 children, 2 boys and 3 girls. His best friend has been married for 3 years without kids.

The wife is my friend. My husband was given One (1)million Naira for his sperm to be donated to my friend, the wife to my husband’s best friend. I was never told about this. Her pregnancy was announced around October 2017.

I was so happy for her, she never disclosed anything to me let alone how she went for IVF procedure. She gave birth to 2 daugthers in August, 2018. They threw a party and painted the town red.

In mid-November 2018, the kids just turned 3 months when one of the babies fell from the rocking chair in their sitting room.

She was bleeding, so they took her to the hospital, only to discover that she was SS, they later took the other one there for test and she is AS. They called my husband 2 weeks ago at 2am early morning on that day to come to the hospital, he wanted to go alone, I said I will come with him as I was also very worried for the baby.

The first thing that shocked me, was that the baby so much looked like my daugthers at that age. She has the big eyes of my husband and my 5 kids. My husband was told to donate blood as he has O negative like the child.

He is the only one to give blood to the baby, as she had lost a lot of blood. After 2 hours there, we went home. I could not sleep, I told my husband directly; ” Is there something about your friend’s child you want me to know?’ he said no. I said ok and slept off.

I noticed he was already awake and left home for work too early. I quickly dressed up and went to the hospital to see the wife. Only to see my husband there with them. I asked them straight if it was my husband that donated his sperm for the IVF? Because my husband is AS genotype like his wife unknowingly, while I am AA like her husband. My husband knew but wanted the One (1) Million Naira.

They did not bother to find out. She told me she wanted to tell me when they were all planning it last year, it was my husband that kicked against it, that I will never agree to the plan. I called his family and my uncle only, as I do not have parents. I told them that I can only remain in this marriage if the 2 daughters of his best friend is given back to me.

They are my husband’s kids and mine as well, or they MUST pay me 2 million Naira, or I will quit my marriage. My husband is a cow. The twins are too beautiful like my husband for me to leave them with that family. My last child is lonely and needs a little one to play with. I know i sound a bit crazy, l’ am sorry i can not think straight anymore. This is just too much for me to handle.

I need advise on what to do next. Thanks

— Anonymous

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Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Openbusiness3: 4:06pm On Jul 06, 2020
Adaibeku:
As u can see am kanu's sister from afara ibeku
Am a goddess 2 from old ancient degema Creek( I don't want u 2 believe me ok)
why won't you want me to believe? I can smell your confidence from here na grin. Water goddess or land?
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by RealEzee(m): 4:18pm On Jul 06, 2020
Openbusiness3:
My husband donated his sperm for IVF without my consent!! We have been married for 8 years with 5 children, 2 boys and 3 girls. His best friend has been married for 3 years without kids.

The wife is my friend. My husband was given One (1)million Naira for his sperm to be donated to my friend, the wife to my husband’s best friend. I was never told about this. Her pregnancy was announced around October 2017.

I was so happy for her, she never disclosed anything to me let alone how she went for IVF procedure. She gave birth to 2 daugthers in August, 2018. They threw a party and painted the town red.

In mid-November 2018, the kids just turned 3 months when one of the babies fell from the rocking chair in their sitting room.

She was bleeding, so they took her to the hospital, only to discover that she was SS, they later took the other one there for test and she is AS. They called my husband 2 weeks ago at 2am early morning on that day to come to the hospital, he wanted to go alone, I said I will come with him as I was also very worried for the baby.

The first thing that shocked me, was that the baby so much looked like my daugthers at that age. She has the big eyes of my husband and my 5 kids. My husband was told to donate blood as he has O negative like the child.

He is the only one to give blood to the baby, as she had lost a lot of blood. After 2 hours there, we went home. I could not sleep, I told my husband directly; ” Is there something about your friend’s child you want me to know?’ he said no. I said ok and slept off.

I noticed he was already awake and left home for work too early. I quickly dressed up and went to the hospital to see the wife. Only to see my husband there with them. I asked them straight if it was my husband that donated his sperm for the IVF? Because my husband is AS genotype like his wife unknowingly, while I am AA like her husband. My husband knew but wanted the One (1) Million Naira.

They did not bother to find out. She told me she wanted to tell me when they were all planning it last year, it was my husband that kicked against it, that I will never agree to the plan. I called his family and my uncle only, as I do not have parents. I told them that I can only remain in this marriage if the 2 daughters of his best friend is given back to me.

They are my husband’s kids and mine as well, or they MUST pay me 2 million Naira, or I will quit my marriage. My husband is a cow. The twins are too beautiful like my husband for me to leave them with that family. My last child is lonely and needs a little one to play with. I know i sound a bit crazy, l’ am sorry i can not think straight anymore. This is just too much for me to handle.

I need advise on what to do next. Thanks

— Anonymous

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see why your husband no won tell you before ni lol u go turn possess my possession, how are those kids your exactly? U no thank God say he didn't it the natural way given ur friend mad Orgasms in the process lol
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 06, 2020
The OP is definitely untrue
cool
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Jul 06, 2020
Fake Story.
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Jul 06, 2020
Openbusiness3:
You're very intelligent.


Basic tests that must be done before a sophisticated procedural process like IVF.
That killed your story.
I call it a total non-happen cheesy
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jul 06, 2020
brodalikeme:
Super story. Do you know the amount of testing that goes on before nd IVF is done? SS slip up from a donor will not be allow at all.
Dey story nearly sweet sha


I saw this just after posting mine. I would have saved my thumb if I saw this before.
In the fake story, the teller was also mean. They couldn’t even spare the new parents any pain, they had to give them defective genes, in an imaginary bid to punish the erring husband.
SMH.
Dear Openbusiness, I hope this is another storyteller’s brainchild and not yours.
After struggling, a TTC couple doled out a million Naira plus IVF costs and you still gave their children sickling genes in this never could happen story of yours. Just to punish who now? Or to justify whatnot? Real mean.

Thankfully it is VERY FAKE.

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Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by DesChyko: 4:38pm On Jul 06, 2020
You didn't know your friend did IVF. Suddenly you asked straight away if your husband's sperm was used for the IVF.
Which IVF? undecided
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Mandela27: 4:39pm On Jul 06, 2020
Let her leave if she want to.

mtcheeeeeewww!

If You know any body that wants to do IVF,contact me,for 1million naira..I serious die!
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by flokii: 5:00pm On Jul 06, 2020
Dem don talk am say the love of money is the root of all evil.. husband collect 1 million donate sperm, wife finds out and is demanding ×2 of the money or she takes possession of the babies

Inside life.. orisirisi nkan lo n sele
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by gift2xl: 5:19pm On Jul 06, 2020
Elder's of nairaland put mouth.
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by gift2xl: 5:28pm On Jul 06, 2020
Plz let the couple's be. Knowing everything brings problems. Your husband comes back, you go to his phone to check those he calls and those that called him, u equally check the Contacts, his text messages, when his done answering his calls, u asked him honey who is that, who called you. Monitoring spirits!!.
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by fireback: 5:48pm On Jul 06, 2020
Slynation:
But I did not read where she stated, she wants to kill her husband...
her husband collected #1million to donate sperm. but she is demanding for#2million short-up money even when she did not donate any sperm to the couple... is she not a killer?
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Lamanii22(f): 5:49pm On Jul 06, 2020
Loool... Selfish woman... After 5kids?... She should just leave them be... Allow her to be happy too.. Moreover they've paid your husband some cash...
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Fox12(m): 5:59pm On Jul 06, 2020
EngineerBode:
You sure say na IVF or the husband smash the puna?
U is smart
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by dazzlingd(m): 6:11pm On Jul 06, 2020
cheesy
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Alwaysachick: 6:29pm On Jul 06, 2020
I hope yours sons dont marry their sister in the future.
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Westernlove: 6:33pm On Jul 06, 2020
You mean you want to kill your husband?? Please kill the Idiot, It's none of my business. It's your choice and decision Not mine. Next please......Those days of compassion In Shiiithole are gone forever......

Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by doggedfighter(f): 8:14pm On Jul 06, 2020
Openbusiness3:

Not copied from a movie. It's a true life situation. The affected woman is seeking advice. Copied from a social media post
It's a lie
Re: Help Me, Before I Kill My Husband. I'm Going Crazy, What Should I Do? by Testimony1988(m): 9:52pm On Jul 06, 2020
Actually he's at fault for not carrying you along, as is it now you can't have the children since you didn't give birth to them, settle the issue with your husband.

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