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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by bukatyne(f): 7:08pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Ketone01: 100% o jare! |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by chigoizie7(m): 7:09pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
HembaqMbk: They are correct, but the question is, are they really your friends? Or are they pretending to your friends? |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 7:19pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Truth be told, there is no marriage that is trouble or separation proof. What keeps marriages is application of principles. Marrying your friend is not a guarantee because I have seen best friends that turned out be worst enemies. Principles that keep a happy home is love from the man and submission from the woman. PST: when you want to marry look out for someone that will help you reach your dream. In other word a help-meet. 1 Like |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Komu1048(m): 7:28pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Wow! Thanks for the insight. I’m very grateful. I believe I’m in right stand with him. The lady I’m with, we’ve been together since school time but I’m ready to take the real step but just want to be sure she’s the one. Trust I will revert once I see or hear from him while engaging ur quotation 1 Like |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by joseph1832(m): 7:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Ishilove:hian! This one na helele oh. ![]() |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Komu1048(m): 7:43pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
R u for real? seanwilliam: |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
kever: uwc |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ndcide:yes u pursue too |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ndcide(m): 8:36pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
alramon: That's a narrow minded definition of "to Find" It's a popular assumption but narrow minded. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by bizzibodi(m): 8:36pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
If U tell a lady nowadays u just want to be her frd she will not like it she want bf who will spend on her & if u no pfuck her she go say u b impotent. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ndcide: ehn ehn elucidate please |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by HembaqMbk: 8:40pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bizzibodi: Then leave her and find the one that will accept no sex. There are good girls with heart of gold out there.... |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by seanwilliam(m): 9:42pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Komu1048:belike say u no one see God.. if you ready send the money I will help you |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ndcide(m): 10:11pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
alramon: I see you are thirsty for water and point you to a dispenser and you got water to drink. Have you found water? You are thirsty, and you move from house to house, shop to shop, chase hawkers and later you got water to buy. Have you found water? Someone came visiting you and brought a pack of bottled water to your house. One day, you came home and there was no water to drink and you saw the pack of water someone brought before that day when you were not pressed for it. You took a bottle, drank and was full. Have you found water? Elijah was at the brook and ravens brought food for him to eat. Didn't he find food to eat? These analogy is deliberate because I want you to think it through. particularly giving your first quote to Righteousness89. A lot of people have a wrong understanding of the definition of "Find a Wife" as recorded in that scripture. It's so because that's what some preachers teach. But then, take a second and look at it differently. Righteousness89, made a valid point that you can build on. I believe I've given you a foundation work on it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by kvngmaxy(m): 10:15pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
best friend |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ndcide: alright sir |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by CosmicJames(m): 10:27pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Righteousness89:I think you are not getting it, or you are getting it wrong. God doesn't give us a will so that he can choose for us. But the other way round. God did not also ask us to ask Him to choose for us. There is a principle or rule that govern Christian marriage. This principle state that a Christian should a believer. He or she must not marry an unbeliever. This rule is very clear. I do not understand where you get your knowledge that God must or has to choose for us from? Do you remember where God said and I quote: "I have set before you this day Life and Death?" See, the duty to choose is ours and not God's. And that's why God will judge humanity. So when you are talking about God choosing for us, think again. However, there seems to be a possibility of God choosing for us. But before that can happen, we must first deactivate or surrender our own will. This statement doesn't suggest or mean that using our will to choose is a mistake or will be a mistake. Because God created us in full capacity to function and be successful. All we need to do is to observe and follow lay down rules and principles by God. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by bilulu(m): 10:58pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1:After una don friendzone the guy, you will start telling him "you are like a brother to me", we can't start doing this na, I appreciate our friendship, you ladies rather give stranger than that friend because you don friendzone am |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 11:16pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bilulu: The "una" you are referring to is not me. Because I did marry my long time friend. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 11:49pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by DkJay: 1:06am On Jul 07, 2020 |
joseph1832: That's because all the ladies who and men who had each other as best friends are already happily married |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by bilulu(m): 3:33am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ImaIma1:Lolz.... but i guess you do understand my point. They friendzone the one dey re supposed to date/marry and go for the one that will destroy their heart |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by SolarKing1: 6:04am On Jul 07, 2020 |
VirginFinder:Enemy of progress, enemy of work of God and enemy God. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by SweetCunt97(f): 6:41am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Righteousness89:So you are married? The way you show up from thread to thread one would think otherwise |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by SweetCunt97(f): 6:42am On Jul 07, 2020 |
bilulu:Not all. You guys use this friendzone talk to guilt ladies into settling with u. Doesn't work that way bro 1 Like |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Ewaogo: 7:22am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Like Righteousness89 said, if God really directed you to her and you are sure, why don't you seek God's face, ask Him what the problem is. Where did you both get it wrong? God i know too will not say yes and say no after. Seek His face, remind Him that He was the one that led you in the first place and I am certain He is able to finish what He has started. Pray about the situation and I am sure you will get solution to the problem unless He did not lead you. Peace. 1 Like |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Ewaogo: 7:33am On Jul 07, 2020 |
delkuf: Pray again. Seek God's face. Remind him that he directed you to her. He will reveal all you need to know and there will be solution. Unless he wasn't the one that led you. God is not a man that will lie nor a son of man that he will repent. Has he said it, will He not do it? Peace. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by VirginFinder: 8:53am On Jul 07, 2020 |
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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by akaahs(m): 8:56am On Jul 07, 2020 |
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Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 8:58am On Jul 07, 2020 |
bilulu: Not every friend can be converted to lover or husband status though. Feelings have to develop and the feelings have to be mutual. So if a friend remains a friend, it is not bad also. |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by VirginFinder: 9:13am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Righteousness89: |
Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by bukatyne(f): 9:14am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Leave him. When some people don't have something or can't relate with an experience, they start to project same on everyone else. |
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