Bobonnukwu:
For those that care to listen, I'm officially announcing my retirement from tribalism and bigotry henceforth. Not only is it draining, pointless and toxic to my well being and self-growth, it has ended up tilting towards a more paradoxical twist in recent events in my life.

I've fallen in love with a Yoruba girl, met her at in my last semester of pharmacy school here in Texas, and e be like say na this girl I go marry... her parents absolutely love me and call me "Omo Ibadan", I was born in Ibadan. Sad thing is I wasn't born with hate, all my closest friends, neighbors, childhood besties etc back in Ibadan were Yorubas and they loved and accepted me like no other. My dad met Tai Solarin before he passed away and he motivated my dad to be a better man till his last days. For those who know the owner of Exide battery in Ibadan... he was my dad's closest friend. I'm still in contact with his family members till today.

Nairaland taught me hate and I can't make excuses for how pathetic I allowed myself to be misled by the hate that exists here.

This girl has been my light through my darkest moments in life, even when man no hold shingbain, she has been supportive and understanding through those tough college years... I'll say no more than this but I've found my peace and I'll protect that girl like a Queen that she is.

F**k tribalism, it can kick rocks! I'm done with Nairaland and it's toxicity for good. I wish you all ALL the best in your endeavors.

I'm out!

duro4chang:
You are very very wrong. Yoruba will never do that. Have you not been reading what other people have written above? Anyone who choose to hate does it on his own volition. I have been a friend to many ibo as far back as 1970s when I did not know even know the difference. They came to our village and we hired them to work on our farm. We lived together and ate together under the same roof. No fear, no acrimony. You need to change your mind.

duro4chang:
Learn to be polite at all times. Remember the moderators are there to moderate our posts. This forum is not created for insultive comments.

RuudVanNisteroy:

MASTERCHIEF0847:

If to say your papa get sense i for go borrow. Akuya.

socialmediaman:
Some people don’t know how lost they are based on tribal bigotry. Fight your crooked politicians, don’t fight one another

Amarabae:
every Nigerian is a tribalist.
we don't love ourselves, we are just tolerating each other

Amarabae:
every Nigerian is a tribalist.
we don't love ourselves, we are just tolerating each other

Bobonnukwu:
For those that care to listen, I'm officially announcing my retirement from tribalism and bigotry henceforth. Not only is it draining, pointless and toxic to my well being and self-growth, it has ended up tilting towards a more paradoxical twist in recent events in my life.

F**k tribalism, it can kick rocks! I'm done with Nairaland and it's toxicity for good. I wish you all ALL the best in your endeavors.

I'm out!

Fantasticcc:
We Nigerians hate each other,the best is to disintegrate, is not by force to stay together.

Balogunodua:
Goodluck to you...


But i will not retire untill all Igbos are liberated from stupidity..

xcon:
. After disintegrate would everyone from SE move bake to there region or still remain in other part of Nigeria. If they will remain in other part of the country then their is no need to divide the country but we most have to tolerate our selves .

Tranquillity360:
Stop lying.



Every yoruba parents teach their children to hate Igbos.
Just like you will teach yours.

duro4chang:
Learn to be polite at all times. Remember the moderators are there to moderate our posts. This forum is not created for insultive comments.

FRESHG:
O BOY, ONE GIRL ONCE TOLD ME THAT HER MOTHER INSTRUCTED THEM NOT TO DATE IBO BOYS, ACCORDING TO HER, HER MOTHER SAID THAT IBOS ARE INTO MONEY MAKING RITUALS

Kissiemu:
Nna men!

Me n you are in the same shoe abi ukwu situation.
Three of my girlfriends are Yoruba. One lives in Shibiri, second one lives in Ajangbadi last bus stop n the third one lives in Igboelerin.

Nna men!
They can love n respect o!. And they're not jealous when they know that you have other girlfriends.

Nna men!
They can even give you their last money. Problem I have is that as an Igbo man when love n sex is too much we begin to suspect it. It's like this one is China. We are using our business mind to look at it.

Nna men!
When it comes to woman I don't look at tribe. After all is there any "ifena" with stamp of tribe?

Nna men!
They are even teaching me Yoruba small small like "Sho ofe nkata nsor?" that is "Are you hearing what I am saying?"

Nna men!

What can a niggah do?

Osagyefo98:
If you like fall in love with a Lebanese, that's non of my business.

You are not the first neither will you be the last to date someone outside your ethnicity.

plessis:


As a young struggling man, if you propose to a Yoruba lady and she accepts, her family will most likely accept and support you. It's like they don't care about your financial status when it comes to love. When I was in my mid twenties, I was shocked at how my Yoruba mates were getting married while living in unfurnished one room apartments. The ladies they married were properly educated women o, not illiterates. Today, they all have kids and are growing together as a family, me I still dey think of the millions I go spend to marry Igbo woman.

Last last, na Yoruba or southern kaduna woman I go marry. Igbo women dey sabi give headache. They love to engage in power tussle with their husbands and their mother-in-laws.

Kissiemu:
Nna men!

Me n you are in the same shoe abi ukwu situation.
Three of my girlfriends are Yoruba. One lives in Shibiri, second one lives in Ajangbadi last bus stop n the third one lives in Igboelerin.

Nna men!
They can love n respect o!. And they're not jealous when they know that you have other girlfriends.

Nna men!
They can even give you their last money. Problem I have is that as an Igbo man when love n sex is too much we begin to suspect it. It's like this one is China. We are using our business mind to look at it.

Nna men!
When it comes to woman I don't look at tribe. After all is there any "ifena" with stamp of tribe?

Nna men!
They are even teaching me Yoruba small small like "Sho ofe nkata nsor?" that is "Are you hearing what I am saying?"

Nna men!

What can a niggah do?