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Take Responsibility !!! by Zabiboy: 9:29pm On Jun 15, 2020

What most people in relationships/marriages fail to realize is that "YOU ARE A REPLICA OF THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH". meaning if the person you're in a relationship with/ married to is Selfish, abusive and all that, it is HIGHLY LIKELY that you are the same too, just that while trying to play the innocent victim, you have closed your eyes to REALITY.
SELF-AWARENESS is just like an onion( say with 5 layers/barks). The more barks you peel or layers you open, the more tears build up in your eyes. Most people stop after the second or third layer because the tears become too much to handle and then they decide to address only issues on the outer layers leaving the core/root problems( inner layer) uncovered..
For those who have read the book "MYSTERY METHOD", you could see that even tho mystery and style ended up becoming great PUA's, the tendency to return back to being a SIMP and an AFC was always there because he did not uncover down to his inner layer...
True SELF-DEVELOPMENT only starts when thorough SELF-AWARENESS is done and the truth is that they both take YEARS to accomplish....
HOW TO BECOME SELF-AWARE??
Start taking responsibility of anything that happens to you whether its your fault or not..sounds funny right?, here are examples
****It might not be your fault that your relationship/marriage/business falls apart but whatever happens after that is your responsibility..
****It's not your fault that you are short/unemployed/not intelligent but it's your responsibility to not allow any of these things affect your SELF-ESTEEM..
Stop blaming the govt., friends, family e.t.c for your misfortunes even tho they are responsible..Take responsibility of whatever happens to you, recreate your values, Change your mentality and views and then SELF-AWARENESS starts then SELF-DEVELOPMENT follows suit...

REMEMBER
LIFE IS 5% WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU AND 95% HOW YOU REACT ACT .....MEN DON'T REACT, WE ACT and we do so according to our individual values
....

"NOTHING IS AS SIMULTANEOUSLY FEAR INSPIRING AND AROUSING TO A WOMAN ( to humans generally) AS A MAN SHE SUSPECTS IS AWARE OF HIS VALUE".

You can check out these three books...its worth the read
THE SUBTLE ACT OF NOT GIVING A FVCK
THE MANIPULATED MAN
THE RATIONAL MALE

GoodLuck cool

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Re: Take Responsibility !!! by Zabiboy: 9:26am On Jun 16, 2020

Read n Share..
No need to comment(unless you have something to add)
GL cool
Re: Take Responsibility !!! by ComrMikolo(m): 1:53am On Jul 09, 2020
Zabiboy:

Read n Share..
No need to comment(unless you have something to add)
GL cool
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the subtle art of not giving a fvck by Manson is no longer available for reasons of copyright infringement... what do u think about his other book titled 'Everything is F*ck'
Re: Take Responsibility !!! by mumumugu(m): 4:08am On Jul 09, 2020
take respond possibility...do not let her abort the pregnancy
Re: Take Responsibility !!! by Zabiboy: 8:41am On Jul 09, 2020
ComrMikolo:
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the subtle art of not giving a fvck by Manson is no longer available for reasons of copyright infringement... what do u think about his other book titled 'Everything is F*ck'

Check libgen .lc (close the space) or pdfdrive .com
As for the other book, i havent read it yet...
Maybe i'll check it out when i'm less busy
Re: Take Responsibility !!! by Omar09(m): 1:25pm On Jul 12, 2020
Zabiboy:

What most people in relationships/marriages fail to realize is that "YOU ARE A REPLICA OF THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH". meaning if the person you're in a relationship with/ married to is Selfish, abusive and all that, it is HIGHLY LIKELY that you are the same too, just that while trying to play the innocent victim, you have closed your eyes to REALITY.
SELF-AWARENESS is just like an onion( say with 5 layers/barks). The more barks you peel or layers you open, the more tears build up in your eyes. Most people stop after the second or third layer because the tears become too much to handle and then they decide to address only issues on the outer layers leaving the core/root problems( inner layer) uncovered..
For those who have read the book "MYSTERY METHOD", you could see that even tho mystery and style ended up becoming great PUA's, the tendency to return back to being a SIMP and an AFC was always there because he did not uncover down to his inner layer...
True SELF-DEVELOPMENT only starts when thorough SELF-AWARENESS is done and the truth is that they both take YEARS to accomplish....
HOW TO BECOME SELF-AWARE??
Start taking responsibility of anything that happens to you whether its your fault or not..sounds funny right?, here are examples
****It might not be your fault that your relationship/marriage/business falls apart but whatever happens after that is your responsibility..
****It's not your fault that you are short/unemployed/not intelligent but it's your responsibility to not allow any of these things affect your SELF-ESTEEM..
Stop blaming the govt., friends, family e.t.c for your misfortunes even tho they are responsible..Take responsibility of whatever happens to you, recreate your values, Change your mentality and views and then SELF-AWARENESS starts then SELF-DEVELOPMENT follows suit...

REMEMBER
LIFE IS 5% WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU AND 95% HOW YOU REACT ACT .....MEN DON'T REACT, WE ACT and we do so according to our individual values
....

"NOTHING IS AS SIMULTANEOUSLY FEAR INSPIRING AND AROUSING TO A WOMAN ( to humans generally) AS A MAN SHE SUSPECTS IS AWARE OF HIS VALUE".

You can check out these three books...its worth the read
THE SUBTLE ACT OF NOT GIVING A FVCK
THE MANIPULATED MAN
THE RATIONAL MALE

GoodLuck cool

Be spitting fire. Will check those books.
Re: Take Responsibility !!! by Zabiboy: 1:40pm On Jul 12, 2020
Omar09:


Be spitting fire. Will check those books.

cool
It'l do you good man wink
Re: Take Responsibility !!! by Mayorla: 7:17pm On Mar 25, 2021
Zabiboy:


cool
It'l do you good man wink

I am interested also concerning the stuffs (making money) you talked about on the Redpill thread

Thanks

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