IryNky:
Team July I greet oh. My LO finally arrived on Saturday weighing 3.0. Grateful to God.

Congratulations mama, welcome LO.

Bisade44:





Sabi mamas, Meconium was seen in the amniotic fluid at 34 weeks. Please hope there is no problem?

Ehn?! What are you still doing at home? Oya, hospital!!! Why were you even allowed out of the hospital in the first place? Meconium is the baby's first poop. We'll put you in prayers. It will be well by God's grace.

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ok, dnt even knw wia to start from...
Abt three years back, precisely September 2017, my mother in-laws n sisters inlaw attitude towards me grew cold, cudnt understand y BT kept being me. Little did I knw dat dia cousin leaving with me was feeding them lies abt me. She was 16yrs old, while my sister s in-laws wia aged 28 n 22yrs respectively. Dia 16yrs old came to my house when she was abt 13. This girl frustrated my efforts eh. In fact that's story 4another day.
When my 2nd bby was abt 4month old, I took in 4 my 3rd unknowingly, got to discover I was pregnant wen I was a month gone.Kai my huby used my eyes to c pepper, dias no insult he didn't give me then, well DAT aside. U can imagine me pregnant, with a five month old.

Next thing mother in-laws came from jos to abj, called her son my hubby n d talked extensively without me oh. Next thing she left angrily d next day in d morning, after mama left, hubby started telling me her reason 4coming was to take my 5mnth old bby along with her to Jos so that I can carry my 3rd with ease. BT hubby told me he disapproved of that, n DAT made her angry.Fast forward to eight months later, I was due then n my 2nd bby who was a year n 1month old fell terribly sick, that we had to get admitted in d hospital for abt 2weeks.Stress almost killed me then, I even re registered at d hospital that my bby was admitted in cos my edd was near,even went there with my delivery items. Mind u,then, hubby got transferred to Adamawa state, I took my 1st bby to my neighbors place cos of her schooling n all dat, my dad was down with stroke so my mum cud not come to assist me at d hospital, funny enough my 2nd bby had not started walking then, in fact she walked at 1yr 6mnths. So huby pleaded with his mum to come n stay with me at d hospital cos I was practically like a mad woman then backing a sick child around d hospital with a nine months pregnancy going from lab to run test n going for ct scan n all DAT.

Naso diagnosis came oh, n d said my 2nd bby had kidney failure (God forbid) n must undergo surgery immediately. Ah I cried to God as if I wud die, by den mother in-law was with me wen d doctors wia yarning dia jargons. Naso mama face me say, shey I don kill my pikin ba... according to her, my pregnancy affected her cos she claimed my 2nd bby sucked my breast milk wen I was ignorant abt my 3rd pregnancy which she termed d breast milk as poison. Hmm tears became my food n off cos my bp rose. Mama promised my that I wud know her true colour she anything happen to her grand child.
I suddenly became a shadow of myself, doctors n nurses kept encouraging me...
Fast forward to the scheduled day for d surgery

Doctor came arnd d previous day n instructed that my bby she neither eat or drink any thing prior to d day of d surgery. That nights was d longest nights in my life.On d morning of d day, doctors came dressed in green theatre wears,with nose mask, green head wear n with white rubber shoes, they had come for my bby.They wia abt 7in number, one cud practically hear my heart beat from a distance. They brought d consent form for me to sign n while I was on that, d chief surgeon decided to view my baby's CT scan result on his laptop to see d affected kidney n understand what he had to do in d theatre. My sisters, that was wen God proved himself.
Suddenly d chief surgeon asked me who conducted d scan, then his team doctors answered him, cos honestly I had no idea. Then he pronounced that d patient's kidney r normal n that their MST be a mix up somewhere. This was a scan I was asked to do abt 3x. By then, me don d vex join. For my mind I was thinking d wud ask me to repeat scan agn n I was ready to para 4dem wella. Money don't grow on trees na.

After abt 2hours later, d doctors came back n apologized to me DAT dia was a mix up somewhere n before I will say jack, d discharged us oh. Hmmm me as I stubborn reach I no gree oh, I refused to go home na, haba, how can I be discharged on d day of d surgery. Naso doctors d beg me oh... meanwhile in d mist of d Chaos, a voice wispered to me saying... don't u believe in miracles? suddenly I became quiet n stopped arguing with d doctors. That's hw I cleared my bills n went home oh. From then till date,my 2nd daughter kept getting better n no issues with her kidneys wat so ever. Mama left d next day back to Jos.Did I mention DAT I put to bed 3days after we got discharged from d hospital n I can say DAT was my easiest delivery compared to others. Labour was less than 30mins n I never pushed 4once, d bby came out on its own. In fact D head of d bby came out in my neighbors car.As we wia abt entering d hospital, bby came out at d entrance. Na only placenter I enter labour room 4. He weighed 3.7kg.

Bisade44:





Sabi mamas, Meconium was seen in the amniotic fluid at 34 weeks. Please hope there is no problem?

Meconium in the amniotic fluild is a sign of fetal distress madam. Needless to say it can cause infection. Meconium is the first poo baby pass (black, gummy in nature) after birth. It won't be nice having that in the water housing the baby. Please go talk to your doctor ASAP

After I put to bed, started putting calls across oh,my mum in-law said she cud not come 4d omugwo as she just left abj not long, n I honestly didn't blame her cos d hospital episode stressed one out completely, she was sleeping with mat on d floor through out our stay there. My mum on d other hand had to come BT she didn't stay long due to my dads health. BT after my mum left, my mother in-law sent my sis in-law to come n assist me a little until I can cope on my own. Remember hubby only came for naming n went back to Adamawa, n my 2nd bby still cud not walk then after I had my 3rd. So my sis in-law her cousin n my self n my other two kids wia left behind at abj after hubby n mum had gone back.
I had resumed work wen my little bby boy was 6weeks old, So I n my first daughter, my hubbys cousin n my little bby goes to school together, while my sis in-law was home with my 2nd bby as she was yet to start walking by then.

sweetlady4real:



Mama, I have experienced meconium twice firsthand, I don't want to go into details now.
I don't know if the scan was done in a hospital or private diagnostic centre. Please, head to your hospital now and discuss the way forward with your doctor.
I will be frank with you, if it is really meconium, let them bring baby out either way. At 34 weeks, baby will be fine.
I'm sorry for taking this personal.

Thanks everyone I went for another scan and I was told the baby is okay. The radiologist said he can’t see such in the amniotic fluid and I saw the heartbeat rate

bimberry1307:

Ehn?! What are you still doing at home? Oya, hospital!!! Why were you even allowed out of the hospital in the first place? Meconium is the baby's first poop. We'll put you in prayers. It will be well by God's grace.

It wasn’t done at the hospital, just went for normal scan. I was already bothered until I went for another scan this morning and I was reassured everything is fine

Bisade44:



Thanks everyone I went for another scan and I was told the baby is okay. The radiologist said he can’t see such in the amniotic fluid and I saw the heartbeat rate

Thank God

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Thanks everyone I went for another scan and I was told the baby is okay. The radiologist said he can’t see such in the amniotic fluid and I saw the heartbeat rate[/quote]

Thank God, that is why I said if it was really meconium.
May God continue to watch over us all, protect us and our babies and make all preggy mamas deliver with ease, Amen.

Neighbors started telling me that each time I leave home, that my second bby wud keep crying none stop, sometimes d wud put calls across to me.Me on the other hand was being careful n wanted to b sure. So one day during break time in school, n decided to rush home to check on them. Naso I met my daughter in d palor alone crying n my sister in-law was in her room, as we stay in a 2bedroom flat. I stormed her room to ask her why she left my bby all alone crying, Naso I jam one church bro with her oh inside my house. Ah, house wey she never stay up to 3weeks inside. I just weak. B4 u will say Jack, d bros rushed out of my house. I was too shocked to say a word. I just carry myself back to work dumbfounded. Wen school closed, we all came back home and I discovered DAT my sister in-law only give her cousin food, BT didn't give my children, so I entered d kitchen to check watsup n discovered that d pot was empty. I called her to knw why, n she answered me that she didn't cook much, DAT she gave her cousin d last one. So with d tiredness 4my body, Naso I enter kitchen to cook oh. Fastward to wen d kids were asleep, I called her to have a word with her concerning wat I saw in d afternoon. She didn't feel remorseful, she was even saying its her brothers house bla bla bla. My people, Naso I slap craze commit for her mouth oh. Maybe I overreacted but I was pissed. After that incident my sis in-law started keeping malice with me oh. Wen d tension was too high, I gave her tp to go back home. Started dropping my last two kids at day care while I n d rest with my hubbys cousin goes to school.
Something new happened in church one Sunday, pastor was singing worship song oh, not praying, dats how my hubbys cousin fell under anointing n started screaming stop d song stop d song...Trust churches now, d song was intensified, ushers cud not hold her, naso I rush to hold her, cos she was scattering d plastic chairs with her display, pastor ordered that I step away. Then I decided to video d whole episode with my phone to show hubby wenever he returns.

Babygal2020:


Hello mama, any news yet?

Xup mama.
Av asked , I was told you will be told to get the delivery pack wen u are ready to give birth to your baby i.e wen u are in labour. It's not what u buy n keep at home. Dat means you will get it in d hospital.

khaite23:


Xup mama.
Av asked , I was told you will be told to get the delivery pack wen u are ready to give birth to your baby i.e wen u are in labour. It's not what u buy n keep at home. Dat means you will get it in d hospital.

Thank you mama

Redrosely:
After abt 2hours later, d doctors came back n apologized to me DAT dia was a mix up somewhere n before I will say jack, d discharged us oh. Hmmm me as I stubborn reach I no gree oh, I refused to go home na, haba, how can I be discharged on d day of d surgery. Naso doctors d beg me oh... meanwhile in d mist of d Chaos, a voice wispered to me saying... don't u believe in miracles? suddenly I became quiet n stopped arguing with d doctors. That's hw I cleared my bills n went home oh. From then till date,my 2nd daughter kept getting better n no issues with her kidneys wat so ever. Mama left d next day back to Jos.Did I mention DAT I put to bed 3days after we got discharged from d hospital n I can say DAT was my easiest delivery compared to others. Labour was less than 30mins n I never pushed 4once, d bby came out on its own. In fact D head of d bby came out in my neighbors car.As we wia abt entering d hospital, bby came out at d entrance. Na only placenter I enter labour room 4. He weighed 3.7kg.

Glory be to the God of miracles and wonders who did it in your life. Baby is big, congrats mama

Opsycal:
Hello Mamas,
I have been having this terrible migraine since yesterday evening, I couldn’t sleep all through the night and also vomiting.
Please what can I use? I couldn’t use PCM cause I heard it’s not safe in pregnancy.
I’m a FTM. Please help

Can anyone please help with my question?

Madam you strong oooo.

Redrosely:
Neighbors started telling me that each time I leave home, that my second bby wud keep crying none stop, sometimes d wud put calls across to me.Me on the other hand was being careful n wanted to b sure. So one day during break time in school, n decided to rush home to check on them. Naso I met my daughter in d palor alone crying n my sister in-law was in her room, as we stay in a 2bedroom flat. I stormed her room to ask her why she left my bby all alone crying, Naso I jam one church bro with her oh inside my house. Ah, house wey she never stay up to 3weeks inside. I just weak. B4 u will say Jack, d bros rushed out of my house. I was too shocked to say a word. I just carry myself back to work dumbfounded. Wen school closed, we all came back home and I discovered DAT my sister in-law only give her cousin food, BT didn't give my children, so I entered d kitchen to check watsup n discovered that d pot was empty. I called her to knw why, n she answered me that she didn't cook much, DAT she gave her cousin d last one. So with d tiredness 4my body, Naso I enter kitchen to cook oh. Fastward to wen d kids were asleep, I called her to have a word with her concerning wat I saw in d afternoon. She didn't feel remorseful, she was even saying its her brothers house bla bla bla. My people, Naso I slap craze commit for her mouth oh. Maybe I overreacted but I was pissed. After that incident my sis in-law started keeping malice with me oh. Wen d tension was too high, I gave her tp to go back home. Started dropping my last two kids at day care while I n d rest with my hubbys cousin goes to school.
Something new happened in church one Sunday, pastor was singing worship song oh, not praying, dats how my hubbys cousin fell under anointing n started screaming stop d song stop d song...Trust churches now, d song was intensified, ushers cud not hold her, naso I rush to hold her, cos she was scattering d plastic chairs with her display, pastor ordered that I step away. Then I decided to video d whole episode with my phone to show hubby wenever he returns.

During schools holidays, hubby came arnd to see us at abj, I showed him d video of his cousin, thou I told him I felt she was acting up so as to go back to Jos, BT never d less we shd inform mother in-law n also go and make peace with everybdy too. So we travelled to Jos during d holidays, d environment was so tensed coupled with d fact that my marriage is inter tribal,so I don't understand their language n I n my sister in-law had a clash too, which was one of d reason's I came to explain my own side of d story and also show her d video of their cousin. My sisters, my hubby called for a meeting comprising of mother inlaw, her 2daughters, their cousin, hubby n myself. Hubby asked why d change in attitude towards his wife, everyone kept mute, he repeated himself agn b4 d eldest of his sisters spoke up, that eh... dia cousin told them that I do control my hubby, n I do stop him from giving them money, in fact so many things that I had no idea of. Naso hubby start the defend me oh, started asking his cousin y d lies n all that.This girl started saying a lot of things oh...dat her mission was to cause confusion n pains. That she is possessed n she was responsible 4my daughter's I'll health, bla bla bla.Plenty things I can't write here. I was just crying, BT I remembered I told my mother in-law that she hurt me badly, cos Even if she heard anything abt me, cudnt she ask me, I'm not dead now for Christ sake, BT she chose to believe every thing she heard. She started pleading, my sister in-law joined, BT d other one that I slapped did not say any thing. In fact till date, she doesn't talk to me.
My issue is this, after everything unfolded, I left their cousin with them n returned back without her. Mama took her for deliverance, after abt two months with them, she ran away from home at Jos, she was found after abt 9days, that is after d case has been reported to d police, cos she had no phone to contact her with. So mama took her pix going from house to house, asking her neighbors if anyone saw her, naso people start to abuse mama say e good as she run say they do maltreat her, dey don't feed her, DAT she do come to their houses to report d ill things d do to her n how d starve her for days. That they the neighbors av fed her countless times. Chai... mama head swell. Last last, d found her at a plateau state polytechnic guys house after 9days. Wen d brought her home she was discovered to b pregnant. Na there mama called me n started apologizing. BT d thing is I find it hard to let go. I just lock up nw, I still feel hurt. Lastly hubby is insisting I apologize to his sister that I slapped for peace to reign. Pls mothers I'm I wrong to refuse? I'm I wrong for withdrawing?

maingwaest:


Amen o, same here, I thought by now the way water phase would have passed but for where. The Lord ll see you us through.

Amen ooooo welcome to team December... Drop ur EDD so u will be added to team December list

Opsycal:

Can anyone please help with my question?

have u checked your BP recently? Pls do if u have not.Also see your doctor and complain if the headache is much...

My Teamie iwinnie,ohemababy...how is the waddling going?...
Team July...The Lord will make it easy for us.

Redrosely:
During schools holidays, hubby came arnd to see us at abj, I showed him d video of his cousin, thou I told him I felt she was acting up so as to go back to Jos, BT never d less we shd inform mother in-law n also go and make peace with everybdy too. So we travelled to Jos during d holidays, d environment was so tensed coupled with d fact that my marriage is inter tribal,so I don't understand their language n I n my sister in-law had a clash too, which was one of d reason's I came to explain my own side of d story and also show her d video of their cousin. My sisters, my hubby called for a meeting comprising of mother inlaw, her 2daughters, their cousin, hubby n myself. Hubby asked why d change in attitude towards his wife, everyone kept mute, he repeated himself agn b4 d eldest of his sisters spoke up, that eh... dia cousin told them that I do control my hubby, n I do stop him from giving them money, in fact so many things that I had no idea of. Naso hubby start the defend me oh, started asking his cousin y d lies n all that.This girl started saying a lot of things oh...dat her mission was to cause confusion n pains. That she is possessed n she was responsible 4my daughter's I'll health, bla bla bla.Plenty things I can't write here. I was just crying, BT I remembered I told my mother in-law that she hurt me badly, cos Even if she heard anything abt me, cudnt she ask me, I'm not dead now for Christ sake, BT she chose to believe every thing she heard. She started pleading, my sister in-law joined, BT d other one that I slapped did not say any thing. In fact till date, she doesn't talk to me.
My issue is this, after everything unfolded, I left their cousin with them n returned back without her. Mama took her for deliverance, after abt two months with them, she ran away from home at Jos, she was found after abt 9days, that is after d case has been reported to d police, cos she had no phone to contact her with. So mama took her pix going from house to house, asking her neighbors if anyone saw her, naso people start to abuse mama say e good as she run say they do maltreat her, dey don't feed her, DAT she do come to their houses to report d ill things d do to her n how d starve her for days. That they the neighbors av fed her countless times. Chai... mama head swell. Last last, d found her at a plateau state polytechnic guys house after 9days. Wen d brought her home she was discovered to b pregnant. Na there mama called me n started apologizing. BT d thing is I find it hard to let go. I just lock up nw, I still feel hurt. Lastly hubby is insisting I apologize to his sister that I slapped for peace to reign. Pls mothers I'm I wrong to refuse? I'm I wrong for withdrawing?

Mama u are a strong woman ooo this ur strong long oo but for that ur sis in-law don't apologize to her na she suppose apologize to u for bring in a man into ur home ....
Keep being strong dear.

I'll say forgive them and put the past behind you, for your own sanity.
I don't know how much age difference is between you and your SIL you slapped, but I'll also say you should apologise for slapping her and state clearly why you did it and for it never to happen again. Apologising doesn't show weakness at all.
You're a strong woman I must say.

Proverbs 17:22 tells us, "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.
Forgive and move on, you'll be amazed at how much difference it will make. Don't hold too much negativity in
Cc Redrosely

Mzora:
My Teamie iwinnie,ohemababy...how is the waddling going?...
Team July...The Lord will make it easy for us.

Amen o, congratulations to moms that just gave birth and supernatural delivery to the rest of us.
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we're still waddling o, I don't even understand again baby is doing shakara for me.
i didnt go back to hospital for inducement as doctor said cos bp was 150/90 last week Saturday, he gave me drugs and said i come 4 inducement in 2days which was on monday.

i made sure to free my mind, take the drugs, rest very well and also pray,I have appointment with doctor tomorrow sha let's see how it goes
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But I have a question to our sabi moms

my periods were irregular for some years before God blessed me, I don't know if the LMP and Edd was calculated with 28 or 30days cycle because it used to be longer than that( like 40days, or even up to 2mnt ).

So will the Edd be the same ?

Double post

iwinnie:



Amen o
we're still waddling o, I don't even understand again baby is doing shakara for me.
i didnt go back to hospital for inducement as doctor said cos bp was 150/90 last week Saturday, he gave me drugs and said i come 4 inducement in 2days which was on monday.

i made sure to free my mind and rest very well and also pray,I have appointment with doctor tomorrow sha let's see how it goes
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But I have a question to our sabi moms

my periods were irregular for some years before God blessed me, I don't know if the LMP and Edd was calculated with 28 or 30days cycle because it used to be longer than that( like 40days, or even up to 2mnt ).

So will the Edd be the same ?

no need to worry ..I think you have +2weeks from edd to deliver...also discuss with your doctor tomorrow..

victorVIC1:


Noted with thanks. Any recommended frequency in which the cleaning should be done? e.g 3 times daily

It should be more than that like every 2-3 hours

Bisade44:



It wasn’t done at the hospital, just went for normal scan. I was already bothered until I went for another scan this morning and I was reassured everything is fine

Tor, thank God