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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by emmaodet: 8:01pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
krushdripper: The irony of life is when broke girls are vowing and swearing not to date broke boys. Lol I guess most ladies can take a pinch of what they serve. We have more broke women than men and most cheat ridiculously and even engage in paternity fraud yet you see them all screaming i can't date a broke guy anymore. Who u help? Leave broke boys alone and face your life. They are not begging you people to date them too. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by 0taPiaPia(m): 8:18pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
alwayssparkling: Please don't scare the dude.. hahahaha ![]() |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Tozic: 9:00pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
victorian: You are thanking God because He made women saint and men diabolical beings? lol. Take note of the emboldened. You will give birth to a male child and they will be the exact thing you described them to be on ur post. Shebi you like guys that can make you show us ur white teeth. It will end in sorrow. 2 Likes |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
0taPiaPia:Guy which kind Monika be this ![]() |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by SweetCunt97(f): 10:00pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
HomerTimpson:Suck my diick |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by HomerTimpson: 10:07pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:are you serious right now ?You a girl with deek? Or a deek with a deek?Am confused but why all this rage thou |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by SweetCunt97(f): 10:13pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
HomerTimpson:No rage bro. |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by HomerTimpson: 10:17pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:HMMM DUDE YOU GAY |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
victorian: See as you just change from calm to fight. I hail who nor hail you oh
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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by 0taPiaPia(m): 10:35pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by SweetCunt97(f): 10:46pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
HomerTimpson:Why think so? |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by HomerTimpson: 10:50pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:you didn't sound like a woman with female stuffs |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by SweetCunt97(f): 10:53pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
HomerTimpson:Lolz. I doubt it's hard coming across like a dude. |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by HomerTimpson: 11:03pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:well,can i see if you are really a female? ![]() |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by SweetCunt97(f): 11:05pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
HomerTimpson:Lol. No u can't. Bye |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by HomerTimpson: 11:10pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:anyway thanks for dropping by in my mention...GOODGIRL GONE BAD |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by jelraj(m): 12:17am On Jul 12, 2020 |
DCmonster:Will Smith? Prince Harry? |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by OlawaleBammie: 4:41am On Jul 12, 2020 |
Kenplay: Just same thing I use to say to my friends. 1 Like |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by TSBO: 8:31am On Jul 12, 2020 |
Dande55: Wow. I'm sure you can make your points with little or no insult. The vitriol in your post actually proves the other poster's point. I think the idea that dating someone "broke" and periodically spending on them automatically equates to being there for them when they had nothing needs to stop; also the idea that they are expected to reciprocate by remaining in that relationship after things get better. It reeks of entitlement. If one truly loved the person without a care about their financial status, then it shouldn't factor into one's assessment of them or their value, right? If they decide to leave later, whether after getting rich or not, one should therefore not begin to refer to one's time with them as a privilege because they did not have money.. One is of course permitted to be feel bad about the fact that the person did not value one the same way one valued him/her. Lastly, guys rarely feel like they stood with a girl when she had nothing, even if she leaves when she becomes ."richer". Why? Because the girl's financial status is not expected to matter. This courtesy should be extended to guys as well... |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:08pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
emmaodet: bro, - loyalty and faithfulness are free - a lot of single men have died while trying to stay away from women... gay men are dying, isnt it?. - you dont have to do anything "for a woman" to be with one - who gives a damn what deluded good for nothing foolish narrow minded women think a responsible man is?!?!? - dont blame women for that, blame African society who teaches deluded ignorant men that when they marry a woman they should take care of all her responsibility....and mumu men (like SeanWilliam) do exactly that, while any smart man knows that marriage is a partnership 50/50! - there is nothing wrong with a man protecting his wife/kids/mother etc... to each their own. this has nothing to do with women, and all to do with PRIORITIES in life....as i am certain NO WOMAN forced any of these men to die for women, is it?! - AFRICAN SOCIETY teaches African men that women are their property. AFRICAN CULTURE teaches African men that after marriage women are their property. RELIGION teaches men that women are their property.... so dont blame women for that, dont be afraid of women because of that. - but women can indeed fukc who they want, when they want, wear what they want, do what they please, go where they want etc this is not the problem here... are you really saying that now that women are liberated they are no good as men's mate (will you now date men or what)?! are you saying that now that women can have a mind of their own, they are no good as women? are you saying that now that women can make their own choices, men should stay away from them? really?!?!?!?!?!?!? emmaodet: - yes, not all men find a good woman, and therefore men should keep searching until they find the gem, instead of giving up. we men shouldnt care about the good for nothing useless women out there. - rest of mind is what a good woman will bring to your life - you dont need to monitor anyone when you are with the right women (if you need to monitor anyone then you are in the wrong r/ship) - if you cant vouch for a woman then you are with the wrong person - the only thing a man should "invest" in, is to find a good woman by their side Blackmoran: dont misunderstand what i wrote.... i never said you should get married to be happy... i said you need to find a good women to share life with to be happy. the above in bold has nothing to do with marriage. 1 Like |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Mobilecrewnet:Hunnid. Unfortunately they're extremely scarce! 2 Likes |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by seanwilliam(m): 3:59pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:fixed! If you lie against me again , u dey invite trouble.. |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:09pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
seanwilliam: lol bro, you are the type of brotha who preaches for taking care of women, like household mumu na. while my stand has always been that women and men are equal therefore no man should pay all the bills while a wife stays home to watch telemundo all day, like the African culture teaches men (like you) to do. the reason why men dont find good women out there is because... A) many men like yourself are gladly taking care of lazy women, thus teaching these same women that a man can be treated like a household mumu B) some men think that finding a good woman is easy... while its obvious that, thanks to men like you (who teach women to be lazy), it aint! C) men like the OP dates a few broke legged female demons and then judge ALL woman as this same demon... failing to understand that the problem is NOT these women, the problem is household mumu men (like you). |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by RiskyJoint95(m): 4:27pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
blackpanthar: Ouch.. Truly you didn't read the post.. Did you go to school or you're using your Mum's phone to check naira land and vomit rubbish |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by seanwilliam(m): 4:34pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Ogbeni, you have started with your bazooka lies again.. I never said in anyway that a man should pay all the bills( this would be my last time of responding to this particular post to you).. 1. What I am saying in essence is, a man going into marriage should be financially buoyant to take care of basic needs.. 2. A man should avoid equal contribution in order to maintain his respect in the marriage... ( I never said your wife shouldn't contribute or support you in anyway).. 3. I clearly said no man should marry liability in all my posts which were response to you in that thread. 4. I also said no woman loves you unconditionally.. they love you based on what you offer.. they love you based on qualities like money, career,physique, intellectuality, exposure.. e.t.c I said the moment you fail as a man to maintain the qualities that attracted you to her. Then watch your respect diminishes in family... even society loves you based on some qualities. No love is unconditional.. 5. I said women respects who they know are better than them in aspects that matters.. 6. I said You cant control women with just words of mouth without you possessing some qualities ( like I have stated above).. 7. I said marriage is an institution , and every institution needs a leader.. that doesn't mean you dont need her support in some ways, afterall, president has vice, governors have deputies... 8. I said a man should be a step ahead of his wife in aspects that determine leadership in marriage. 9. I said a woman cant be submissive to you in the long run , if she finds out that both of you are the same, in terms of qualities above... Then at the end of my post in that particular thread, I said, if the above doesn't matter to you , and you are ready to switch role( u becoming wife in actual sense ), and you not gonna come to cry later if your ego is bruised, then you can go ahead without taking the above points into consideration.. it doesn't mean you will not have happy marriage ... Lying against me to score cheap point is less expected from you. .. A 1 Like |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:29pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
seanwilliam: below is what you wrote, at least stand for your BS: seanwilliam: so i am safe to say that you believe a man going in marriage must pay all the family bills... in order to take care of a woman. ***spit on floor*** 1. What I am saying in essence is, a man going into marriage should be financially buoyant to take care of basic needs.. MUMUISM #1 a man going into marriage should be financially buoyant to take care of "his" basic needs, same with a woman....and they should combine BOTH their effort to have a better life together. mumus all over the world (like yourself) believe that they need to take care of a woman (aka take her basic needs as YOUR responsibility) before going into marriage, which is the fallacy of the world and African culture. the same way that this woman was working to pay HER own bills for HER basic needs (food/shelter/clothing etc) before marriage, is the same way that she should now work to provide for the family's wellbeing. the minute a man puts a woman on a pedestal (and as "his" responsibility in marriage), is the minute his mumu button has been activated! 2. A man should avoid equal contribution in order to maintain his respect in the marriage... ( I never said your wife shouldn't contribute or support you in anyway).. MUMUISM #2 respect in marriage has absolutely nothing to do with how much a man contributes. your woman should respect you when you guys are dating, your woman should respect you whether broke or rich, your woman should respect you whether she has to contribute to the family's wellbeing or not. the reason why so many men dont find good women is because of insecure men (like yourself) who believe that they have to contribute more than women in marriage....in order to earn the respect that any LOVING GOOD WOMAN should give her man regardless of how much he spends. no wonder so many men are used like donkeys by these lazy good for nothing women. 3. I clearly said no man should marry liability in all my posts which were response to you in that thread. MUMUISM #3 a woman who does NOT contribute her fair share to the family (aka pays 50% of all bills) IS a liability. if she has a job then there is no reason why she SHOULDNT pay her share of the household bills. any man who thinks that his woman can spend her salary on Brazilian hair, gucci bags or build her own banana island mansion, while you slave away to pay all the family bills, is the reason why men cant find good women. any family needs 2 salaries to contribute to the welllbeing of the family. you cant train a woman to be lazy (because of your misplaced ego) then turn around and blame women. YOU are the problem here! 4. I also said no woman loves you unconditionally.. they love you based on what you offer.. they love you based on qualities like money, career,physique, intellectuality, exposure.. e.t.c I said the moment you fail as a man to maintain the qualities that attracted you to her. Then watch your respect diminishes in family... even society loves you based on some qualities. No love is unconditional.. MUMUISM #4 and #5 women whose love is based upon your money/career/physique/exposure are good for nothing useless women, and any man who goes ahead and marry such woman is the problem here. a good woman would solely value you upon your CHARACTER; VALUES; MANNERS; CHARMS, MATURITY, INTELLIGENCE, INTEGRITY... any woman who focuses on anything other than that is useless, any man who thinks that his money/career/physique is whats important in finding a good woman is deluded, and the reason why there are so many lazy good for nothing women out there. you want women to love/value you based upon the money you offer them, but then you will be the same man who would now cry and call women evil when they leave your broke nyansh because you have no more money to offer them, lol see how confused you are! 6. I said You cant control women with just words of mouth without you possessing some qualities ( like I have stated above).. MUMUISM #6 the fact that you would even want to control women is the problem here... let your woman be herself, and if she isnt what you desire then probably you shouldnt get married to that useless woman (to begin with). you cant possibly take some useless woman and try to change her because you pay all the bills, duh! when you guys date, you let her know what time it is, while she shows you what she is made of. if you guys dont match then go your separate ways instead of trying to control someone that aint a match to you. the above is what insecure low self esteem men do! 7. I said marriage is an institution , and every institution needs a leader.. that doesn't mean you dont need her support in some ways, afterall, president has vice, governors have deputies... MUMUISM #7 so because a man is the leader in marriage, he should pay all the bills while wifey stays home to watch telemundo all day OR she can use her own salary to pay Brazilian hair/Gucci bag and build herself banana island mansions in your back, while you slave away like a donkey to pay all the bills?! 8. I said a man should be a step ahead of his wife in aspects that determine leadership in marriage. MUMUISM #8 leadership has absolutely nothing to do with your wife contributing her fair share to the family's wellbeing... if you believe that she shouldnt use her salary to pay for the family's wellbeing, because you want to use that to try to "control" her at home, then you are a mumu indeed. you should use your COMMON SENSE to make that woman understand that there cant be two drivers in one car so you will be the leader while her contribution/choices/voice will be heard and respected.... but that you will take the ultimate decision as "one" family. mumu men like you are using money to be the head of their family by saying "i pay all the bills so i make all the decision for the family" which is exactly what MUMUs all over the world do.... because guess what?! your woman does not respect YOU, she respects the fact that you are letting her be a lazy useless good for nothing woman while you are her slave. 9. I said a woman cant be submissive to you in the long run , if she finds out that both of you are the same, in terms of qualities above... FINAL MUMUISM no wonder women therefore use and abuse men like yourself, when you believe that you must be "better" than your woman. you guys are one, this woman is you. when you are hurt, she is hurt; when you are down, she is down.. your wife is not the enemy, your wife is not against you, she is part of your team. the minute you see your wife as someone you gotta be better than, is the minute you have lost the plot! men like you are insecure low self esteem and can never find happiness in marriage, because you are never "ONE" with your partner. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:17pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
luminouz: He came back to her. Why did he? If you can't answer that, your point is complete balderdash. |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Likewise bro, likewise |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by luminouz(m): 8:22pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I should what? ![]() ![]() ![]() Thats past tense to me na...I gave her my stuff that day and forgot about it. You can ask her yourself Darling! ![]() ![]() |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:27pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
luminouz: I saw your response to her and noticed you completely overlooked that part, so it is still nonsense at best |
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by blackpanthar: 8:28pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
RiskyJoint95: I didn't go to school but I have an education enough to know that you are far less than me. You only had enough sense to attack my reply, you didnt give any correction... well-done school janitor |
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