dominique:
I'm not against teaching boys (and girls) the importance of making money from a young age but putting pubescent teenagers on freelancing platforms? Too dangerous. A teenager should not be left alone wandering around the cyberspace unsupervised. I thought Nigerian parents were bad for putting financial pressure on their kids at 18 years old upwards. Indian, Bangladeshi parents are even worse. Imagine a 13 year old sourcing for work on Fiverr. Poverty die die die

Making money is not all there is to being men. Some men make money and are still irresponsible. Teach your sons responsibility that comes being a man not just money making only

Bless you.

dominique:
I'm not against teaching boys (and girls) the importance of making money from a young age but putting pubescent teenagers on freelancing platforms? Too dangerous. A teenager should not be left alone wandering around the cyberspace unsupervised. I thought Nigerian parents were bad for putting financial pressure on their kids at 18 years old upwards. Indian, Bangladeshi parents are even worse. Imagine a 13 year old sourcing for work on Fiverr. Poverty die die die

Making money is not all there is to being men. Some men make money and are still irresponsible. Teach your sons responsibility that comes being a man not just money making only

What are the responsibilities that come with being a man?

bukatyne:


What are the responsibilities that come with being a man?

Being respectful, being sensitive, being considerate to their partners. A lot of our men are lacking in these. They believe all they have to do is make money. Some of them don't even respect their parents. It's very wrong to raise a child in a way that only specific things are expected of them in life

dominique:


Being respectful, being sensitive, being considerate to their partners. A lot of our men are lacking in these. [s]They believe all they have to do is make money.[/s] Some of them don't even respect their parents. It's very wrong to raise a child in a way that only specific things are expected of them in life

They don't believe that anymore

dominique:


Being respectful, being sensitive, being considerate to their partners. A lot of our men are lacking in these. They believe all they have to do is make money. Some of them don't even respect their parents. It's very wrong to raise a child in a way that only specific things are expected of them in life

True.

But if generations of men lack the qualities above and still get married in quantum, could it be that most don't really fancy those qualities?

Ybaby:


Yes to be a provider. What is wrong with that?

We all work out of some sort of necessity - he is a child that just earned $500 not standing in the sun but from the comfort of his home, from his skillset.

There are grown men in NG who have not earned $500 this month (N207,000) this young boy will earn it in 4 days and move on to other gigs.

He is strengthen his money making muscles and I love it.

The advantage:
his wife and children will respect him,
he will never have to ask his pregnant wife for transport fair
his wife will never tell him she regrets choosing him and not her rich ex
and many ugly thing I have read on NL

A man needs his wife's respect like humans need oxygen - if you have a son - pls help him strengthen his moneymaking muscle early - do not baby him when it comes to earning.

Ire o

So all this OP is saying is how to train a male child is to teach him money making from 12yrs. How shallow!
You're obviously not a male and are only thinking from your feminine kink.
There are many things that a male child should be taught from an early age and money making is only a small fraction of it.
It's easy to make money in today's digital world. It's hard to build character and firm principles that can create a dynasty and legacy.
And character not money is what makes a man. A man who is thoroughly principled, all things being equal will eventually make money.
Example is if the boy in question makes all that money and like your nigerian politicians builds nothing with it but spends it all on women because he lacks vision and sense of responsibility. In the end what's the point?

NB: And now that we're here, let me also add that except we teach today's male kids how to master their sexuality in a sexually predatory society (predatory slay queens) assaulting them, most of what we try to build into them will collapse in a moment of fantasy and their ultimate potentials will never be fully harnessed.
This is a huge part of why we have many underdeveloped men today that society is yet to recognize. Males untrained in the area of sexuality are a loss of great human resources.

This

Ybaby:


Yes to be a provider. What is wrong with that?

We all work out of some sort of necessity - he is a child that just earned $500 not standing in the sun but from the comfort of his home, from his skillset.

There are grown men in NG who have not earned $500 this month (N207,000) this young boy will earn it in 4 days and move on to other gigs.

He is strengthen his money making muscles and I love it.

The advantage:
his wife and children will respect him,
he will never have to ask his pregnant wife for transport fair
his wife will never tell him she regrets choosing him and not her rich ex
and many ugly thing I have read on NL

A man needs his wife's respect like humans need oxygen - if you have a son - pls help him strengthen his moneymaking muscle early - do not baby him when it comes to earning.

Ire o

you are correct, we must not babysit beyond when he or she is supposed to whether male or female but mostly male as they seem to hold more responsibilities in the family circle and the society. money making skills must be introduced to a child at a tender age. my intention is to ensure that at age five and six, my boys ( i have two of them)are already IT geek and having full understanding of STEM topics. the future is STEM.
it is never too early for a boy to earn money, as long as it is legit. it prepares him for manhood

momokiddies:


you are correct, we must not babysit beyond when he or she is supposed to whether male or female but mostly male as they seem to hold more responsibilities in the family circle and the society. money making skills must be introduced to a child at a tender age. my intention is to ensure that at age five and six, my boys ( i have two of them)are already IT geek and having full understanding of STEM topics. the future is STEM.
it is never too early for a boy to earn money, as long as it is legit. it prepares him for manhood

Someone gets it! Atlast!

Ybaby:


Someone gets it! Atlast!

You get problem walahi

dominique:


Being respectful, being sensitive, being considerate to their partners. A lot of our men are lacking in these. They believe all they have to do is make money. Some of them don't even respect their parents. It's very wrong to raise a child in a way that only specific things are expected of them in life

Very well said.

It's important for boys to grow up with basic values and responsibilities. Not just about making money.

If I had a son, I will teach him love and respect first before money.

fastseo:


You get problem walahi

That is for your mummy.

Stop scamming people SEO is not fast. It takes hard work and time to displace websites already showing for keywords you want.

Let me see if you know your onions? What are canonical tags?
How do you use schema mark up on a website?

Oda let me ask you a simple one. Explain internal link building and its advantages?

When you are done! Go home and tell your sweet mama I said she did not raise you well.

Omo buruku to ko oro ba iya.

Donot have children you are not dedicated in training.

Ybaby:


My bro!

Mark Essien of hotels.ng just launched a book for coding for kids. Pls check his Twitter.

Gbo gbo wa ma jeun omo pe pe

Since money making is now gender specific, what do you plan to teach your girls? How to cook and clean?

Ybaby:


Not really!

Look around you, most girls already have a great sense of responsibility ...... and yet the primary responsibility to provide is not even supposed to be on thier shoulder.

If the boys dont catch up soon. They will be used for reproduction and dumped to the curbs.

This is not gender war. This is discerning parenting of a mother who loves her son.

Our sons should not be fed by thier woman and it is in our hands as mothers as parents to equip them to see financial opportunities and earn it so they can be the plug, the provider, the male figure.

The pedestals mothers put thier sons on, the young women of today donot care about to uphold that pedestal if he is not doing his part I.e providing and protecting - that is why he has heavy dense muscles

One just has to read through topics on NL. Women care about having kids but no longer care to stay married a man who cannot provide for them and the kids.

Divorce happens and the kids donot have a quality father figure and the cycle begins again.

MY sons are providers!!!!!!

Just like it is the peeenis gives to the vaagginna and it is the vaginal that takes from the peeenniiis so also is female the reciever and male the giver. (Check your anatomy if I am correct) if you are female you recieve the man etc (even in cowgirl or girl on top - the female receives bear with me graphic eg)


Electricity has + and - , plug and socket, farmer and soil so many examples of the male and female.....

What ever is given to female she multiplies but male must give first his sperm to get baby as the farmer gives his seed to get harvest.

Families are breaking up because we do not realise this + and -

I write for prosterity sake - when the student is ready the teacher appears.

Some will get it but not all..... that is ok too.

Done my part and there is no other way, if we must keep the family unit together healthy

Ire o

Breathe of fresh air from the “woke culture”.

Ybaby:


That is for your mummy.

Stop scamming people SEO is not fast. It takes hard work and time to displace websites already showing for keywords you want.

Let me see if you know your onions? What are canonical tags?
How do you use schema mark up on a website?

Oda let me ask you a simple one. Explain internal link building and its advantages?

When you are done! Go home and tell your sweet mama I said she did not raise you well.

Omo buruku to ko oro ba iya.

Donot have children you are not dedicated in training.

I just noticed you attack the male gender all the time.. I took time to go through your post here in all thread last night . So that's why I jokingly said that... Its not fight
I know or assume you are a great woman who want the best for the male gender but the way you carry its too much. Please calm down. By your outburst hope if your husband becomes poor tomorrow... God won't allow that.. Hope u won't run and leave him? The way u sound though


Making money is no gender stuff.. Okay I have seen women who are great and are doing well offline in my neighbourhood and around major markets in aba, Owerri and onitsha precisely where I base and by God's grace where am a landlord... Inter state landlord lol

I have also seen a 1000 more women who aren't doing well in terms of making money... But that won't make me generalised stuff and tag all women same.


As for SEO work you pointed out... Here are some of my works ma..

They are /three new sites have been working on since last year.. Have a total of over 21 websites built over my 10 years plus in blogging and SEO

If you want my live earning record.. Pm. I will show you live.. you called me Scammer lol

Well I posted few earnings just from two adsense account.. Mind u I have over 4 acc



Hardly seen women in blogging here on nairaland who are serious... my first time. Am happy seeing u


Seems you are into content marketing? How has it been so far..? If any challenges you are facing in your blogging don't hesitate to let me know I will help in anyway I can free of charge...as I don't charge money any more

As for my mom u insulted I forgive you

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dominique:


Being respectful, being sensitive, being considerate to their partners. A lot of our men are lacking in these. They believe all they have to do is make money. Some of them don't even respect their parents. It's very wrong to raise a child in a way that only specific things are expected of them in life

Thank you Ma for this. The other time a lady created a thread dishing commands to Men to respect Women's bodies and No. Then I asked until when will these women realize that you can't demand from Men what they don't have in them.
The major training women give to male child is always centered on his pocket value, grow ,work ,make money, provide. But a male child's psychological,moral, social and moral values are left untouched. When a Man ends up believing Money is all that matters and start behaving abnormally,you see these same set of women wailing. A man that believes a woman shouldn't be respected or her opinions don't matter because he PROVIDES was birthed and trained by a WOMAN, A man who respect a woman and her opinion was also birthed and trained by a WOMAN. It's a GIGO Thing.

Women should realize the power they own and change this narrative. They should train their Men better than being just A PROVIDER. I just hate it when Men's values are tied to how much he can provide! Even Op made that mistake, I was enjoying and agreeing with the thread until I got to that PROVIDER part... Haba! Train your male child so that he can be useful for himself and his society not so he can be a PROVIDER! Haaaaa!

Ybaby:

;Dam an employer of labour also... With over 6 dedicated writers


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Ariza:
Thank you Ma for this. The other time a lady created a thread dishing commands to Men to respect Women's bodies and No. Then I asked until when will these women realize that you can't demand from Men what they don't have in them.
The major training women give to male child is always centered on his pocket value, grow ,work ,make money, provide. But a male child's psychological,moral, social and moral values are left untouched. When a Man ends up believing Money is all that matters and start behaving abnormally,you see these same set of women wailing. A man that believes a woman shouldn't be respected or her opinions don't matter because he PROVIDES was birthed and trained by a WOMAN, A man who respect a woman and her opinion was also birthed and trained by a WOMAN. It's a GIGO Thing.

Women should realize the power they own and change this narrative. They should train their Men better than being just A PROVIDER. I just hate it when Men's values are tied to how much he can provide! Even Op made that mistake, I was enjoying and agreeing with the thread until I got to that PROVIDER part... Haba! Train your male child so that he can be useful for himself and his society not so he can be a PROVIDER! Haaaaa!

That's what she knows how to do... To spit on men from one thread to another.. Take your time and fi through her comment you will be amazed.

To me i had wanted to say its like her hubby (if married, I know she might claim being married anyway ) isn't doing great financially that's why.

If your husband is bringing little support him, contribute your quota in the family so as to give your children the best of education rather than sending them to fiver at age 13 to look for gigs when the age limit requirements is 18 in all platforms even Google ads

Ybaby please money is not everything before you end up in a mans hand that will pull your hair with Pliers

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Na joke I de joke oh Ybaby before u cause my papa weh don die

bukatyne:


True.

But if generations of men lack the qualities above and still get married in quantum, could it be that most don't really fancy those qualities?

If generations of women who are being provided for still use and dump men, cheat on them etc could it be that most don't really fancy those qualities?

fastseo:


That's what she knows how to do... To spit on men from one thread to another.. Take your time and fi through her comment you will be amazed.

To me i had wanted to say its like her hubby (if married, I know she might claim being married anyway ) isn't doing great financially that's why.

If your husband is bringing little support him, contribute your quota in the family so as to give your children the best of education rather than sending them to fiver at age 13 to look for gigs when the age limit requirements is 18 in all platforms even Google ads

.
Na joke I de joke oh Ybaby before u cause my papa weh don die

Lol I'm not that intrigued.. thanks.

To each his own.

Ariza:
Lol I'm not that intrigued.. thanks.

To each his own.

Welcome you can watch this video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRNKxpDfm48

fastseo:


That's what she knows how to do... To spit on men from one thread to another.. Take your time and fi through her comment you will be amazed.

To me i had wanted to say its like her hubby (if married, I know she might claim being married anyway ) isn't doing great financially that's why.

If your husband is bringing little support him, contribute your quota in the family so as to give your children the best of education rather than sending them to fiver at age 13 to look for gigs when the age limit requirements is 18 in all platforms even Google ads

.
Na joke I de joke oh Ybaby before u cause my papa weh don die

I am married to a man that provides for me and he does not pull my hair out with plier. It is poor men who beat women most nd take their frustration out on their wives. Poor men like.....

Fast SEO work and become a provider or you can marry Ariza who thinks because i said boys should be provider means they should not be anything else again. Provider is not the same as monster. More sins are committed in ghetto areas than anywhere else. ARIZA WILL gladly provide for you .... just tell her your container is on the sea.... you know smooth talk her. She is too slow to understand that a provider man is not equal to evil man but a man who does not provide is evil because his kids suffer and so does his wife. Fastseo you say I attack men and that is a big lie I attack poor men who have kids and donot pay school fees.

As for you Ariza I am not here for your amusement or to intrigue you in any way. I am here to save kids from suffering because their mum was not aware she should not be sleeping with a man who can not pay school fees. I am here to shame men who cannot pay school fees and yet choose to jagarova and have kids.

Kids are expensive ! Work hard as a man and know your job is to provide for your family.

fastseo:





;Dam an employer of labour also... With over 6 dedicated writers

I asked you SEO questions you are showing me content writing jobs na wa o.

Content I can use article rewrite for?



Improve your SEO skills or if i have time i will teach you for FREE. I own a top digital marketing firm with over 10 years experience in SEO and others. I will not go into more details however I donot pay rent, schools fees or any house hold expenses. My beloved provides

fastseo:



I just noticed you attack the male gender all the time.. I took time to go through your post here in all thread last night . So that's why I jokingly said that... Its not fight
I know or assume you are a great woman who want the best for the male gender but the way you carry its too much. Please calm down. By your outburst hope if your husband becomes poor tomorrow... God won't allow that.. Hope u won't run and leave him? The way u sound though


Making money is no gender stuff.. Okay I have seen women who are great and are doing well offline in my neighbourhood and around major markets in aba, Owerri and onitsha precisely where I base and by God's grace where am a landlord... Inter state landlord lol

I have also seen a 1000 more women who aren't doing well in terms of making money... But that won't make me generalised stuff and tag all women same.


As for SEO work you pointed out... Here are some of my works ma..

They are /three new sites have been working on since last year.. Have a total of over 21 websites built over my 10 years plus in blogging and SEO

If you want my live earning record.. Pm. I will show you live.. you called me Scammer lol

Well I posted few earnings just from two adsense account.. Mind u I have over 4 acc



Hardly seen women in blogging here on nairaland who are serious... my first time. Am happy seeing u


Seems you are into content marketing? How has it been so far..? If any challenges you are facing in your blogging don't hesitate to let me know I will help in anyway I can free of charge...as I don't charge money any more

As for my mom u insulted I forgive you

I am not into content writing. A top e-commerce firm gave us a contract to do content writing amidst some jobs and we advertised the role because we needed more hands.

2. You went through all my posts....lol irisewo you are not busy at all.

3. Answer my SEO questions

4. Wow! You are making money o......lol.... joker! Pay schools fees and understand you are the sole provider in your home.

Ybaby:


I asked you SEO questions you are showing me content writing jobs na wa o.

Content I can use article rewrite for?



Improve your SEO skills or if i have time i will teach you for FREE. I own a top digital marketing firm with over 10 years experience in SEO and others. I will not go into more details however I donot pay rent, schools fees or any house hold expenses. My beloved provides

This thread is not about men but about mom teaching their kids money is over moral value and acquiring education. they should from the womb if possible start teaching them how to make money, then by age 13 they should mount on system and be on fiver fighting for school fees :[ or if possible carry pure water on their head



Those are people working for me.. I showed u what they delivered in terms of content.. I don't write unlike before.

I showed u my earnings, traffic level on just few accounts what more do u want again?

Or I should start telling u how to Build Internal links on blogs? Or schema mark up u can joke emmm
As for schema mark up I have no business wasting precious time there. Am not a web developer, I simply bypass the stress look for a well semantic and schema markup premium themes that suit my niche and buy with full 24/7 developer support


Let me be clear.. If actually u are married and hubby does fine which I pray for, then hopefully you won't hate on men like you do in all your thread. Or did a man break your heart?
Let's know where we can be of help , I understand some men can act immature and rudely most time.

Ybaby:


I am not into content writing. A top e-commerce firm gave us a contract to do content writing amidst some jobs and we advertised the role because we needed more hands.

2. You went through all my posts....lol irisewo you are not busy at all.

3. Answer my SEO questions

4. Wow! You are making money o......lol.... joker! Pay schools fees and understand you are the sole provider in your home.

As for your business I wish you well, more sales and winning... Please stop hating on men.....

Ybaby why are you so pained ke? Are you that triggered by my post? Lol
There's more to being a Man than being a PROVIDER, please do well to train your sons better. We are tired of seeing insensitive Men and rapists everywhere....

And don't forget to train your daughters to be more than Barbie dolls with pussy. We are tired of seeing angry entitled poor leeches women everywhere.

Bikeman Owa ohhhhhhh!

momokiddies:


you are correct, we must not babysit beyond when he or she is supposed to whether male or female but mostly male as they seem to hold more responsibilities in the family circle and the society. money making skills must be introduced to a child at a tender age. my intention is to ensure that at age five and six, my boys ( i have two of them)are already IT geek and having full understanding of STEM topics. the future is STEM.
it is never too early for a boy to earn money, as long as it is legit. it prepares him for manhood

Have you considered that your kids individual talents may not align with STEM subjects?

What if they feel passionate about music, art or sport?

What about their preference and calling and ultimately happiness?

Mastery is the result of blissful dedication.

When I see guys call women unprintable names I get offended and all geared up but after spending some times trying to understand the Male's Mind and the pains they go through I realize their reactions are to Women's doings albeit in an unwise/ unhealthy way.

What Op stated right here is what is being passed from generation to generation from Women to their Male boys. Women for their own selfish reasons will raise male children to be Money banks. You hear them say" you have to be a man so you can take care of me and your wife" talk about the SISTERHOOD lol. Hardly will you see a typical Nigerian mother focus on a male child's emotional ,sexual and psychological well being but will persuade and even coharse him to "Make it in Life" (i.e become rich in Nigeria society standard) So he can take care of her. That is the typical Nigerian Mother's focus. And what she trains her daughter to be? Lol that's for another day.

It is bad enough that our society sees the male child as a meal ticket but now they want them to start"Paying"at early age. Lol. They want to take away his Childhood and make him wear his PROVIDER vest as early as possible, and this same set of beings frown and rant against Early Girl Child Marriage. Why do some Women hate the Male so much? Why enslave a young child for your own selfish reasons? Why expose a young boy to so much responsibility? Why?

Ariza:
When I see guys call women unprintable names I get offended and all geared up but after spending some times trying to understand the Male's Mind and the pains they go through I realize their reactions to Women's doings albeit in an unwise/ unhealthy way.

What Op stated right here is what is being passed from generation to generation from Women to their Male boys. Women for their own selfish reasons will raise male children to be Money banks. You hear them saying" you have to be a man so you can take care of me and your wife" talk about the SISTERHOOD lol. Hardly will you see a typical Nigerian mother focus on a male child's emotional ,sexual and psychological well being but will persuade and even coharse him to "Make it in Life" (i.e become rich in Nigeria society standard) So he can take care of her. That is the typical Nigerian Mother's focus. And what she trains her daughter to be? Lol that's for another day.

It is bad enough that our society sees the male child as a meal ticket but now they want them to start"Paying"at early age. Lol. They want to take away his Childhood and make him wear his PROVIDER best as early as possible, and this same set of being frown and rant against Early Girl Child Marriage. Why do some Women hate the Male so much? Why enslave a young child for your own selfish reasons? Why expose a young boy to so much responsibility? Why?

Hathor5:

Honestly... Some things I read here ehn. Make I no just talk . But it's very sad