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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by erikcantona: 12:56pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
A girl I met on Eskimi asked me that stupid question but I discharge her immediately. 4 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 12:56pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX:Don't make me laugh Before a guy asks a Lady out,he should be able to decipher her characters, morales and qualities before tabling the asking out question down, a serious no jokes,straight to the point Lady can ask that question without it meaning she'd be a burden. We tend to think things always fall in either black or white,when there are actually Grey's You're never correct in this cause people's values can be different while still using the same phrase. Most ladies do that with selfish Intention's, doesn't leave out the good ones using that with good intentions.If you don't keep calm to reason the Grey's, you'll end up loosing a potential good partner.Kwantinue Please don't bother coming at me,if I have your time,you'll get tired 3 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by authority2006(m): 12:56pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Dalil8: I disagree. It has been 100% support from wife my since I married her 9 years ago, no family member could match her support and love. Blood alone is not enough reason. Remember, that wife you excluded gave you the same children you included 8 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by babtoundey(m): 12:57pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Taking care of doesn't really mean being a financial support or pillar. If you read or understand it in that light, then you are utterly wrong. Instead of you jumping into conclusion that she meant can you afford being her ATM, it's better you ask to clarify what she meant. Some ladies "can you take care of me" actually means can you provide them with emotional support; the love, care and attention. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by showafrica(m): 12:58pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX: Players will agree to anything until they enter... 'can u take care of me?' why not. If i enter finish and you are not what i want, i discard. So she learn her lessons the hard way and stop asking stupid questions 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by oodua1stson: 12:59pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX:you get sense. Unlike some of the disgraceful simps I mostly see online |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Wendymary: 1:00pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
You are right. I'm a lady, but I don't subscribe when a lady is asking a man such question. It's totally wrong. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by babytoun: 1:00pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
that is if "take care " refers to money alone .. sure you need to take care of her even if she has all the money in the world ...you have narrowed the statement to finance alone |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:00pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX: bro, sadly, until we get rid of the men (like Toks2008) who believe that A) a man should take care of a woman he date, B) if he aint generous to that babe it means he doesnt love her and/or C) if he is stingy he wont be a good man to marry bla bla bla, then the problem will never be solved! there are too many donkeys out there who have nothing to offer, nothing of value, therefore they HAVE to pay for women to be with them. thus these women know that and now will tell you:" fukc LOVE, can you take care of my needs"... and men like Toks2008 will scream: "yes yes!!!!!" 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by LordReed(m): 1:00pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX: Over generalization. When I was going out with my then girlfriend, she asked me this question and I gave an honest answer. Today that girlfriend is my very hardworking beautiful wife. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by fredoooooo: 1:00pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Am i ya papa |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by ORLAHOLUWA(m): 1:01pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
illicit:I must mark my own register |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by lexy2014: 1:01pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Pls explain d relationship between "Lean on me" by Bill withers and "take care of me" by a Nigerian lady like u 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 1:01pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
babtoundey:Thank you jare It's only an immature man that would jump into conclusion without thinking of the morales of the lady in question first to decipher her reasons |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by ayosam4real: 1:02pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Should a lady ask such question, the answer is very simple. Just reply her with the below question as well: Do you plan to be a liability to me? This message should send a signal to her, that is if she is not a dumbass. XshegzzyeeiX: 3 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by MondayOsunbor(m): 1:02pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
jawalis: This loong grammar tire me IN FELA'S VOICE NA WETIN YOU DEY FINNNNND ? NA PIOIROTO YOU DEY FIND |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Minemrys: 1:02pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
THUNDAR:i disagree. Relati0nship is about respect. And a lady asking that questi0n 0n a first date, shows she doesn't respect you. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Maobichek: 1:02pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
lograr:Hahahahaaaa!!! easy my brother. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by enonche85(m): 1:03pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
jawalis: Mah nigga! |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Strangebuttrue(m): 1:03pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
THUNDAR:very annoying, people that always come with different opinion 1 Like
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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by lomprico(m): 1:03pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX: 100% correct only selfcenterd biacht who have nothing to offer aside sex asks such. its not about the guy being broke or rich. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 1:03pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Wendymary:Stop being funny A local Plumber should go and meet DJ Cuppy asking her out. No need for long talk's, a simple "Can you take care of me" from her will give his brain factory reset,this thing is double standard's Patapata ask her the same question also. Koletoyen 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by lexy2014: 1:04pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
babtoundey: Pls explain how "can u take care of me" means "providing emotional support, the love, care and attention"? 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lovelyn451(f): 1:04pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Frequently asked questions by runs babes, or better still, can u afford my cream and soap...but that's the kinda girls u efulefus like na, bad girls, adventurous ladies, slay queens...op u Neva see anything, you'll keep getting that kinda question until u have sense in dis life...rubbish When they meet a homely well trained lady they'll tag her boring or good girl, take advantage of her and run...efulefus |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Maxim69: 1:04pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
You see girls in this Lagos ehn? Na investment relationship many dey do here... and most of them especially jesus babes dem be coded olosho and they feel entitled about you have to provide for me slang. I have stopped dating them because dating self na energy draining wahala. I no do relationship again na sexationship we dey do. Rubbish!! 6 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 1:05pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
ayosam4real:Abi na The guy can also be straight and blunt with his response but still keeping it reasonable |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by ucosuagwu(m): 1:05pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
blinkz4real: To slap you dey hungry me. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lovelyn451(f): 1:06pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
lexy2014:...I don laff tire...that one na Yankee boy, he no sabi anything |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by richie240: 1:06pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:Too many immature menfolks nowadays. I really pity genuine ladies. Speakung as a man myself, the question in itself is contextual. It depends on d angle d lady is looking at it from. What a #mature man shd do is to dig in and ask her 4 clarifications, not come to assumptions! |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Dreyton36: 1:07pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Just keep bleeping those b****s they don't deserve love If any woman needs your love they should prove it by being caring and understanding and also sacrificial If you're not in those categories Just suck my cock and bleep off If you carry belle you are OYO Wetin concern me concern love 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by lexy2014: 1:07pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress: What do u mean by "morales of the lady in question"? What is there to be deciphered in "can you take care of me"? |
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