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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by obibob2020(m): 2:06pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
DaddyRochie1642:This is actually coming from a woman. Nice one. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by SweetCunt97(f): 2:07pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
KossyKiss97:Yes. People need to have tact. But from observation, such ladies who ask such questions got many guys disturbing them and wouldn't wanna waste their time being with someone who will end up taking from her or draining her emotionally and psychologically. Personal observation is key. 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by blinkz4real: 2:10pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: " Efulefu" is in idoma language meaning a senseless person. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by SweetCunt97(f): 2:10pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
jawalis:Women of old were damn right leeches without nothing going for them but to marry and raise kids but the men never complained. It was simply how society made it and everyone knew their role. So Oga get ur facts right. Men also feel entitled to a lady's pant immediately she says "Yes". Entitlement is Entitlement no matter the form it comes. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 2:11pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
lexy2014:A young man is a guy An adult man is a man In this my own context,I'm talking about the mind If he's a guy upstairs he'll jump into conclusions If he is an adult man upstairs, he'll wait to reason |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by SweetCunt97(f): 2:11pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Kindly ask d next lady that tells you such to elaborate. We live to learn. Thx 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by LordReed(m): 2:12pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
lekki1444: [img]https://media./images/9b5e9ba7eb54914a43d8c90b9d684f23/tenor.gif[/img] 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Hadelesam89(m): 2:12pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Korllami007: 2:13pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress:Unless she's handicap and she needs someone to carry her arround, take her to toilet, spoonfeed her, wash her clothes, then that question has another mean. Assuming on your first date with a guy, how would you feel if the guy ask you, "Are you a virgin?" Or you go on a job interview and you asked, "Can you afford me?" How does that sound to you? As I said before, no well-to-do girl will ask that question because the question is one of the FAQs of olosho. 6 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by trutht828: 2:13pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: You won't be asking "can you take care of me" if your focus is emotional/psychological needs. It you ask me, I think you are not just shallow, but you are also living in denial. You can prove yourself wrong by asking your fellow women why they ask men that same question. Then you will realise how deeply shallow minded and empty you are. 3 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by SweetCunt97(f): 2:13pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
klufs:Meaning? Haven't u read where husbands fail their wives? Many would overlook flaws just to b Mrs to pass the societal expectations. You know this. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by lekki1444: 2:14pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by LordReed(m): 2:15pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Goodman247: 2:16pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
It is just Nigerian women mentality, they always feel that it is the man that will spend the money, because they are providing a service to the man, love is reciprocal, you take care of each other . |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Minemrys: 2:16pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress:lol, am a very liberal pers0n, and i believe every w0man should have their own pers0nality. But ur view ir0nically has the w0man n0t being her own pers0n on a 1st date other than being the mind game playing lady cliche out there. And c0me to think of it, why would a guy have to do a study on a gal, rather than have a direct meeting with her to kn0w her? This is why relati0nships fail. Expectati0ns. And to be h0nest, this is way out of the actual topic. I d0n't even kn0w how we got to this topic. Okay, the thing is, people d0n't kn0w what the meaning of 1st date is. S0me myopically think it's a marriage interview. It's n0t. It's just a hang out with s0me0ne u are interestd in to see if both of u have chemistry to start out a relati0nship. The em0ti0nal/psychological stuff c0mes after ur minds are made up. Then, u ask questi0ns like where's this going, can u take care of me etc. 0n a 1st date, u guys are strangers. N0w, u d0n't ask people u meet if they can take care of u, can you? Nah. Cos it's n0t certain u guys are a thing or would be. 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by SweetCunt97(f): 2:17pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
trutht828:And you are a complete fool if you think this is about me. I've never used such phrase in all my life. Typical to turn discussion around to tryna pin shii on me. When a lady ask u next time, ask her to elaborate. I should ask my fellow ladies question like say e concern me? Guy fvck off |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by trutht828: 2:18pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: You have never used such "phrase" before, but you are defending the use of such phrase. Doesn't that give you a hint that you are the bigger idiot here? Just asking. 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 2:18pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Korllami007:Simple I'd know the kind of guy I'm willing to share my status with on the first date,if it's one that is unserious or I might be in danger with a simple question for question or ignoring, if it's one I'm comfortably okay with his morales and attributes a direct answer will come out,kinide , Being blunt is not a crime,the intention of the question is what you should try to know |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Kentursky(m): 2:21pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
I completely agree with you. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Xpol: 2:22pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
blinkz4real:na lie ohh once woman ask such question don't read any other meaning to it than financial aspect and she'll only accept once she's convinced the man is capable. But some will just ask the question to know the guy's mind they may not really be the " no money no love" gang |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by eneye1(m): 2:22pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress:I will reply her, I just want know if she is responsible and Caring too |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 2:22pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Minemrys:You don't just go ahead asking every lady you come across out,do you? Really? Oh I think I like her,then fiam! can we date? Really? Just like that without thinking of anything? Haba Why would a Pastor waste his time with a known Prostitute when he maybe wants a Virgin,this isn't the matter of expectations but placing value on yourself as a man. You don't just act,you think before you act 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Vickho6(m): 2:23pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 2:23pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Korllami007: 2:23pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress: Social media>>> reality.
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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Minemrys: 2:23pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:0n a 1st date? U didn't read what the OP typed, did you? U guys are basically strangerz on a 1st date. Both of u owe each other n0thing. It's a casual meet up. Same reas0n the rule, 'd0n't kiss or sex on the 1st date' is a thing. Cos u owe n0thing to him or her. It's after you've said yes to being in a relati0nship, and i'm sure naija gals dnt say yes that very day, that u can go all em0ti0nal. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by SweetCunt97(f): 2:25pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Minemrys:Then you simply should ask her to explain what she meant. If it's favorable to you, u continue. If not, you move. Life's that simple |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by tightpussy156: 2:26pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
such a statement from a girl show poverty,hunger, selfish desire.many girls that use this statement are cheat an they are been stingy with their pussy.they can milk you dry if you are not wise.i have met 6 girls that ask me this question CAN YOU TAKE CARE OF ME I told them yes simple.The first one visit me the next day she ate rice an stew with fried chicken wish I use to prepare my stew because I like chicken alot I don't miss it in my stew,she drank cold juice.As usual I insert my sim card in her phone that day I found out the phone as been rust than their an wide like Lagos ibadan Express way.after that day that was the end.out of the six babes it was only one that was tight like super glue.So girls that ask such question are usually big burden.such girl u flog an go if you are capable an wise.No value for a girl when you depends on man for everything,u don't have anything to contribute to the relationship or bring ideas on how ur man go make money na just unnecessary demand.such girl can even tell a man to wash her pant if care is not taken.i don't tolerate nonsense.who quote me for saying the truth should hug transformer. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by SweetCunt97(f): 2:26pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
trutht828:Typical. If that's what you saw, then u have the schools you attended to blame. Bye |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 2:28pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Korllami007:Which social media We should have had a physical rapport or at least a friendly dealing before you just come out to say "I like you" Kini Is it like that guys behave,like just like that, you know a lady now now,next thing is,I like you,then really why are you now complaining? |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by trutht828: 2:28pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: What will you blame for your own obvious daftness? Your parents? |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by plessis: 2:29pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: There's no difference between caring for someone and taking care of someone. Also, women these days have been empowered and are doing well as men. Some take care of themselves and are very comfortable. All they need is companionship and emotional support which she might term CARE. Evening giving your partner attention and listening ears might be what some women term CARE. If you want a woman and you make her an offer, she has the right to negotiate and demand care as her own term. That's why I said it depends on what you want. Most women are obsessed with their newly gotten freedom. This freedom has caused a loss of certain core societal values in our women. Chastity, discipline, Honesty, tolerance etc are now scarce in our women. Now, if you meet a woman who possesses these values, these scarce traits, are you saying you'd walk away just because she asked that you take care of her? Also, like I said, love is an act of selflessness, an extension of the self for the purpose of the growth of oneself or another person. If you love someone, the only thing you should be concerned about is the growth of that person. And How can you help your partner grow without taking care of her? Charity is one major half of love. If you are not ready to give, to help, you shouldn't be talking about love. If you love your partner, you should try as much as possible to reduce your expectations to the barest minimum so that you can love her effectively. Next time you want to talk about what you people of today are practicing, don't call it love. Call it what it is. Cathexis. 1 Like |
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