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Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by marvelck: 10:41am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Who get to decide the number of kids a couple should have, is it the husband or the wife? Cos a lot of naija ladies tend to feel such a decision lies with the wife... But why na!
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Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by neonly: 10:43am On Jul 16, 2020 |
To be honest is usually the wife cause they determine every thing dat happen in house 4 Likes |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by mariahAngel(f): 10:45am On Jul 16, 2020 |
...because the wife can impregnate herself right? 1 Like |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Nobody: 10:54am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Both of them |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Unnerve: 10:56am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Ideally, they both decide together. But in a situation where they can't reach a consensus, the decision will rest 100% on the person who does NOT want any more kids. Scenario 1 Husband wants more kids but wife does not. He can only keep depositing his sperm inside her as much as he likes, a careful wife is the one with the power to let a pregnancy take or to spoil his plans. Scenario 2 Wife wants more kids but husband does not. She can only try to make him deposit his sperm inside her by hook or by crook, a careful husband is the one with the power to ensure he uses protection or does not release inside her, anything to spoil her plans. 9 Likes |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:02am On Jul 16, 2020 |
both should sit down and decide how many kids they would like to have (or even CAN have)... if they cant agree on this then they shouldnt get married to begin with. this is something that should be known from the get go. also, it greatly depends of your life situation and finances... but you certainly CANNOT force someone who doesnt want to have more kids, to have more kids. 1 Like |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Kaypols(f): 11:07am On Jul 16, 2020 |
it depends on the pocket of the Man and how responsible the man is, if I notice my husband is not financially okay, to take care of many children I will start using contraceptive I don't care if he wants more children 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Manofvalor1: 11:46am On Jul 16, 2020 |
ideally it should be both partners.in the days of our fathers.it used to be the man.but nowadays you here ladies telling a fiance or husband that they cant have more than 2 kids.and yet they complain when the man goes outside to impregnate willing women who would give him more kids,i see most nigerian men like to have many children.i dont know if its a mentality or achievement.or simply poverty. |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by PureGoldh(m): 11:15pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Both of the decides that's what it's called family planning |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by bukatyne(f): 11:22pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
The children in Heaven allocate themselves to families and determine how many per family. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by horeofe(f): 12:31am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Why should they bother with that when they could have agreed before marriage? |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by frozen70(f): 6:59am On Jul 17, 2020 |
marvelck: It's actually both if them that determines the number of children to have But the wife takes the upper decision considering the following reasons Being pregnant is not an easy experience because of the health implications Labour pains can be very terrible and her ability to withstand it further determines if she can continue counting or not Providing for them is supposed to be the man's responsibility but where the man fails the woman stood at a certain number like two or three so that the workload will amit affect her ability to cater for them If a woman can no longer carry pregancy comfortably, there is no need forcing her to have more children 4 Likes |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Acidosis(m): 7:11am On Jul 17, 2020 |
neonly: Are you a vegetable? |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Nobody: 7:24am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Op has never heard of women secretly using contraceptives and pretending that ‘pregnancy just isn’t happening’. It’s easy to make a man cum inside, sooner or later he will definitely fall inside trap if the woman wants more kids. I hope I have succeeded in convincing you and not confusing you, that ideally it is a family decision, but practically, it is what is. ![]() |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Romangalactic(m): 7:29am On Jul 17, 2020 |
chiddyok:Your man, not every man. 2 Likes |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Nobody: 8:14am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Romangalactic:Instead of you to listen, you’ll be arguing. Pray for a good spouse, not a determined one. I’m sure you’ve never been fooked with aphrodisiacs and things like that. 1 Like |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Romangalactic(m): 8:41am On Jul 17, 2020 |
chiddyok:Stop watching too much film and porn. Any wife that can drug her husband because she wants to get pregnant should also be ready to get drugged and given abortion pills after she tells him she's pregnant, since everyone wants to mad. 1 Like |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Nobody: 9:17am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Romangalactic:Like I said, you’ll rather argue than listen. Good luck bro. |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by neonly: 9:23am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Acidosis: Na mouth you get wait till get married and u put them for house then you know what I mean I use to be like you when I was much younger sha 1 Like |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Romangalactic(m): 9:52am On Jul 17, 2020 |
chiddyok:Why will I to listen to someone who can drug her husband. they need to package u drop inside cell for the crime of rape 2 Likes |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Nobody: 10:00am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Romangalactic:You are too stupid to have a conversation without getting personal and insultive. You are in denial, you can’t believe a woman can do that, reality check, women aren’t as helpless as your ego is deluding you. Ps, I can’t marry someone I will have to drug. It’s my yoni, so I won’t marry a man who wants me to birth a football team. You have finally gotten my attention. Hope your account balance is now balanced? |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Acidosis(m): 10:08am On Jul 17, 2020 |
neonly: Okay |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Romangalactic(m): 10:15am On Jul 17, 2020 |
chiddyok:You cannot drug your husband but you think another woman can do it and it's okay if she does Rape apologist ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Nobody: 10:28am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Romangalactic:You don’t listen. And so you don’t think. Go back and read my comments again, when you are done mention where I sanctioned it. You think calling someone a rape apologist is an insult? Do you think rape is a joke? Are you normal? |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Romangalactic(m): 10:32am On Jul 17, 2020 |
chiddyok:Calling you rape apologist is not an insult. Is it an insult when you people call guys rape apologists? ![]() If you don't sanction drugging a man to trick him into getting a woman pregnant, why then did you bring it up. This is what makes you a rapist or a rape apologist. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by 0neal(m): 10:34am On Jul 17, 2020 |
In our present economic situation and global events this should not be a subject of contention for progressive thinking couples before or after tieing the knot. Like there aint enough problems in the world, getting worse as the days goes by with no solution in sight, so why bicker to add more worries, uncertainty and expenses?? |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Nobody: 10:46am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Romangalactic: First of all rape is about penetration, and not ejaculation. If he already put it inside he intends to ejaculate. I don’t see the rape in making him ejaculate inside. Secondly, the law does not recognize statutory rape within marriage bounds because consent to marry includes consent to conjugate. Answer me now, where does rape or rape apologist come in? I said you don’t listen. If you are still in school better repent of this foolishness, if you aren’t be careful at your work place. Think properly before talking. |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Romangalactic(m): 10:50am On Jul 17, 2020 |
chiddyok:So suddenly now because a wife wants to get pregnant by all means,rape cannot occur inside marriage again. How will the drugged husband give consent for anything 2 Likes
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Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Alexaonfleek: 11:02am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Romangalactic:Toorr!! What chiddy said is true. If the man doesn't use condoms he will most likely cum inside her. It takes just one tiny drop of semen to get a woman pregnant. |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Swissheart(f): 11:06am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Option C Sex ![]() |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Romangalactic(m): 11:21am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:If it was that easy for a tiny drop to just get a woman pregnant, many of una for don get enough children or done countless abortions cos a lot of people in relationships & marriage don't use condoms and are practicing withdrawal even this very second. |
Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Alexaonfleek: 11:25am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Romangalactic:That is where BCP comes in. See Roman,the fact is ideally the hubby and wifey should have equal say in the number of kids they want but in reality the wife will be the one to determine the number of kids. |
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