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Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by davillian(m): 2:22pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Personally I don't have any problem with that I have close female friends But the whole thing depends on the level of trust.... You alone knows the kind of partner you have and the kind of person he or she is as friends as lovers and as partners..... |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by mcdokwe(m): 2:23pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
vingeophysicist:Well, he knows the worth of the lady he's about to marry. 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by mechanics(m): 2:23pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
No for me, my wife should not be too close to the opposite sex, if not something must happen. |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Shafiiimran99: 2:24pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
dodelight:time will tell 7 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Rebuke: 2:25pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Yahksbiz: My brother, forget about that jelous thing o. From my experience, I know it's a very bad idea. There was this lady back then that was so close to me that I had to find a way to free myself from. First, I knew she was dating but she confided so much in me that it began to worry me. There was nothing that has happened in that relationship that I wasn't aware of. She would ask questions like "if yhur sister is dating someone who does this and that, will yhu still advise her to continue with him?." I would then give my view and advice o. Then later she would now open up to me it's her boyfriend. The trust was so much that, sometimes I felt she was just naive or not really into the guy, because I don't see why I have to know about what's going on in yhur relationship as a friend. To cut the story short, everything finally ended when I relocated.....now very far from her. She has many times asked to come visit me. Now, imagine I will give in to such demand. If someone will make a journey of over 7 hours to come see yhu, she has to at least, sleep over. Such trust is too wreckless for my liking and I can't imagine a woman I am dating doing the same with another guy not to even talk of someone yhu'r even married to. I won't and I can never take advantage of her but the thought of my own partner doing the same with another feels very stupid to me. 15 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by IamDavid(m): 2:25pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
mcdokwe:I'm sorry to say this but the Man (now husband) didn't do well... "She threatened to call off the marriage"... This statement is driving me crazy... like... well, it's not my business but honestly, accepting such treats from spouses isn't good enough. 3 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by abysirius(m): 2:25pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
And what about you? You seem to be sounding like u're sexually attracted to her and for me that's why I wouldn't advise.. mcdokwe: |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by salt1: 2:25pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Enough said!!
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Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by dodelight(m): 2:26pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
paulolee:Sorry, Bro. Can't spare any of my balls. Lol! It's somewhere in you too, all you need is the ability to accommodate, trust and forgive. |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Oizee(f): 2:27pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
What's wrong with it? I'm close to my male colleagues, I don't pick he_goat as a friend and my husband knows that. 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by shoprite: 2:27pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Avoid it like a plague before you bring stories that touch with another title . . . "Is it a crime that I allowed my wife to have opposite sex friendships?" 1 Like
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Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by dodelight(m): 2:28pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Exponental:Exactly! |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by winkmart: 2:28pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
if your heart is pure...nothing is there |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by AMI3(m): 2:28pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Just all about trust |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
We have dirty minds in this era ![]() Opposite Gender friendship should not be a problem at all!! But this generation is too sexified ![]() Avoid opposite Gender friendship especially if you have a jealous Spouse ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Shafiiimran99: 2:30pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
It is forbidden by nature but unfortunately, some always think they can defeat nature. 3 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Burgerlomo: 2:31pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Yes of course if you guys are planning to chop one another at a later date ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Razzman1: 2:31pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Damnnnnn nigar Isoright ![]() |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by ojuu4u(m): 2:32pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
GboyegaD: why cant u be close friend to the guy u are dating, you want to eat ur cake and also have it. let us learn how to hold on to the principle/ettiquete of marriage. |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by jaxxy(m): 2:32pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
abysirius: It can’t be too close unless there a valid reason like childhood frnds or any other valid reason bt not even church member wud fly cos they are not exactly saints, yet. Lol Casual male frnds like classmates, serious minded, principled guys who respect marriage union are fine healthy and good also. I say this cos I won’t stop having female frnds who are sensible. So she shud be free to sm extent also. That’s how i roll cos anybody can impact ur life positively. 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by snoopanddre(m): 2:32pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
No no, no no |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Burgerlomo: 2:32pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
BigBelleControl: Don't mind the OP ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by frozen70(f): 2:33pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
abysirius: There is no way people in marriage will stay away from being friends with the opposite sex Unless as a woman you are a full time house wife and doesn't have any reason to go out beyond food market It all depends on self discipline If a woman is happily married and the husband loves her, she wouldn't have a good thinking towards having opposite friends as to keep them and talk adult talks which normally results to and end up dating As for men, they have an oat to cheat by default, even when he is married to the most beautiful and loyal wife. So men's case is just a different thing They go as far as approaching a pregnant woman and assure her that he will wait when she puts to he In this topic, the problem here are the men, they can't just stop lusting on women, ring or no ring 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Atlanticfire: 2:35pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Thane: Get solar panels, battery and inverter. Then you can stay anywhere where the rent is affordable. You can expand the solar systems in future if you don't have enough money now |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by dodelight(m): 2:35pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
tribalwarlord:With the way you cancelled my comments, and reading your reaction here, obviously you can kill or at least harm any of your husband's ex who relate with him in anyway. Just take it easy, this life is simplier than you think. 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by funshint(m): 2:40pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
It is not...totally wrong! |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by airminem(f): 2:40pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Attraction laws |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Razzman1: 2:40pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Slawormir:My guy Damnnnnn nigar |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by dodelight(m): 2:41pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
tribalwarlord:It's obvious you have perfected the art of cancelling people's post, and it only betrays your inability to tolerate other people's opinion. But it's not good for you as a lady. Anyways, go ahead and cancel this one too. |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by alizma: 2:41pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
OgaTheTop2:E be like say you from Kogi? |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by UjuJoan2: 2:42pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Slawormir: If a man is making sexual advances to you as a woman, knowing you are married, that man is not and was never your friend. 1 Like |
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