| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by friday2011(m): 4:31pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.
One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!
Hugs. I swear you have said it all... Me just feel say small pikin seff follow affect the guy... You no get much to do in the house naa, go shop in the morning, come back late in the night... The naughty girl found of disturbing your sleep in the parlor should continue naa, she go taya one day... OP, calm down and stay focused, you seff go marry one day, na women things... For your brothers sake, cool down and be friendly with everyone around, later later, when you are done serving your brother, hopefully he settles you well... You can now decide to move out. God bless you. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by drightguy(m): 4:32pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
When I was faced with similar issue I left the house with just a dress and was gone for months. My next visit was to get my remaining things.
Back to you, if he like let him disown you.
Then it will be told that he disown you just because you couldn't bear the pains you are facing in his house anymore.
No doubt your brother is loosing his respect gradually before his wife's family. |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by reuben81: 4:33pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.
One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!
I love the advice,but the ladies went too far,they needed the slap,to reset they brain
Hugs. |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Arkmanbuddy(m): 4:33pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Championxxx:
No he doesn’t pay me any salary but he provide for my needs he buys me clothes , foods , airtime sometimes he give me 5k ,3k but no more than that Start saving the stipends he gives you and learn to trade Forex with your phone. Earn money passively and rent yourself a house. |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by bignero: 4:33pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
chii8:
Don't let the devil push you out of your settlement stage(celebration), endure a little more, ignore your sisters in law and keep on greeting your brother's wife.Infact in some occasion, buy the ladies little gifts or snacks and patiently wait for your final settlement day.(the more gifts you get them, the more you win your brother's heart). Bros please don't take this very very foolish advice.. Yes it's a very very foolish one.. I've been In this guy's shoes before... This is the very foolish type of advice I was given... It doesn't work. Look a devil is a devil.. You want to bribe a devil with gifts? Don't be fooolish... It takes a small thing for people to be killers.. For them to dump his mattress inside rain is wickedness.. Their only a few years to the murderous stage.. All it takes is a thought from the devil.. And their hate is in control.. They won't hesitate poisoning him. Op, I see you have a good heart.. Your brother isn't God. If he denies you will you die? Report to elders in the village first.. Learnt he business as time goes.. And set up your business. Your brother blackmailing you emotionally to keep suffering... All this elder is awlays right is the fooolish Ness of Africans and why we are backwards 5 Likes |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by gamechanger1: 4:33pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Championxxx:
I am 23 years old guy I ave been staying with my brother in Abuja for the past 8 years , I help him with his shop and his house , everything was fine till he got married his wife carry his two sisters to the house 24 and 19 years old , he said I should leave my room for them I didn’t argue I let them have the room while I am sleeping in the parlour , during lockdown this girl will wake and come to the parlour to watch tv to disturb my sleep , I complained to my brother he said I should keep calm he will speak to his wife which he never does and these girls kept disturbing me meanwhile the older girl stopped but the younger one carry on and I told her to stop disturbing me she has a phone she can press her phone in their room , she insulted me and told me to go and marry I got angry and ask her to leave she said I should do my worst and I landed a thunder slap in her face she held me by my neck screaming when my bro and wife came his wife started hitting me on my back I had to leave the house and went outside to cool down , my brother followed me and said I didn’t do well by hitting his wife sister he said I should go and apologise to his wife and sister , I refuse and asked him why he didn’t stop them when I was complaining bitterly about them but he waited for me to take matter to my own hand now he blamed me he said I should apologise which I did to his wife but not to the girl but that small girl was expecting me to knelt down and beg her , I told her she will wait for eternity.
Since the incidence his wife stopped talking to me , she ordered her sister’s to stop giving me food , the older girl used to dish food for me sometimes when she is not around but I told her to stop because I don’t want her to be in trouble with her sister and I didn’t report to my brother, it’s not a big deal for me I buy foods and eat at work and I only go home to sleep , 2 weeks ago I came home to see my mattress outside in the rain soaking wet , I was confused because it was supposed to be inside the girl room that’s where I keep it and they always bring it for me when is time for me to sleep so how come it was outside in the rain , I asked them they both denied they didn’t take it out and I suspected my brother wife or her youngest sister were the one who did it because they didn’t want me in the house anymore , I told my brother he said I should sleep on the sofa and in the morning I will get a new mattress in his shop but the wife get angry that I will damaged her sofa she wanted me to sleep on the floor with a wrapper but my brother refuse and I slept on the sofa , the next day I spoke with my brother I told him because I am not wanted in his house I don’t have peace of mind there , I want him to rent a self cont for me closer to the shop so It will be easier for me to get to work he refuse saying when he has a bigger house why would I go and leave alone , he said he provide all my needs and the rest the way his wife and sisters are treating me it doesn’t matter that he will never allow me and I told him I want to go back to the village , he said if I leave his house he will disown me and I will not longer be his brother , for 3 days now he stopped talking to me even if I greet him he won’t reply I feel hurt. I love my brother I want to serve him but I don’t want to stay in his house . I don’t know if I did something wrong by asking him to rent a room for me to be living alone? Am confuse please advice me Your statement- I landed her a thunder slap cranked me up real bad, lol |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Tsolutionifede(m): 4:34pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
chii8:
Don't let the devil push you out of your settlement stage(celebration), endure a little more, ignore your sisters in law and keep on greeting your brother's wife.Infact in some occasion, buy the ladies little gifts or snacks and patiently wait for your final settlement day.(the more gifts you get them, the more you win your brother's heart). u get grudges with someone, d next thing u buy gift, u fit collect such gift |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Brokenfm: 4:34pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Hi guy's hmm last week Sunday I was so depressed but decided to push on again for another week. On Monday and Tuesday I managed to go to a construction site to work and the job finished that day. I have not been able to see another construction site to go too since then to work, All of my body is broken due to the pain I got from the site. I swear people would call me a scammer or a liar but I can't judge them. I haven't had a meal since Thursday and it's almost Sunday and no hope. I'm weak, broken, defeated and have given up. I lost my job in a company called expression due to covid19. I'm not lazy hell no I'm not. I feel my end is coming, I don't wanna go this way but. Gosh guy's I wanna give life another push, I have my CVS in different companies I'm hoping for a miracle please if you got a spare 500 assist me. I won't and can't blame you if you call me a scammer but plz be gentle with your words. I pray they don't ban this account and I would do this on maybe 2 or 3 topic and if I don't get help I would rest and accept my fate. Nairaland you have come through for some before please come through for me Puis. UBA. 2.0.8.8.0.5.5.3.7.4 |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by FemiOyewoleGCFR(m): 4:34pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Georgekyrian:
I love your points especially no 2. Dear, but your no. 3 na lie especially for Nigeria ladies. I don't support woman beating or do myself but at close range insult I may land double slap on your face. If you dare fight me, I beat you sharply (I don't fight I beat)
Thanks for your advise to him, I wish he listens to you Lmao 'I beat you sharply ( I don't fight I beat) this one got me o  1 Like |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.
One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!
Hugs. All your points you enlisted are trash. You don’t have sense one bit. The woman and her sisters are you type. No sense! 4 Likes |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Championxxx:
They used to come to the parlour at 5-6 am , I usually get up at 7-8 during lockdown I’ve seen this before....u can notice ur brother is not saying anything to all ur complain...rather he said if u live elsewhere other than his house he will disown you....someone uve been serving since 15years old....all of a sudden.. it’s no settlement that will be ur punishment for trying to live elsewhere...it’s not like u said you are not working for him again... .. he and the wife planned it.... he doesn’t want to settle you anymore.... he’s only pretending to neutral in the matter while using the wife as the protagonist to torment so u can leave.....
since he has warned you... you won’t get any settlement....Leave now and count ur losses...forget the settlement and go with the experience you have gained....becos that is what will eventually happen weda U leave by urself or the wife and sister successfully kill you.... Btw.... let me ask you.....is he ur real brother,as in sibling ?? Or the brother ..we are from the same village or compound...?? 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Championxxx:
I am 23 years old guy I ave been staying with my brother in Abuja for the past 8 years , I help him with his shop and his house , everything was fine till he got married his wife carry his two sisters to the house 24 and 19 years old , he said I should leave my room for them I didn’t argue I let them have the room while I am sleeping in the parlour , during lockdown this girl will wake and come to the parlour to watch tv to disturb my sleep , I complained to my brother he said I should keep calm he will speak to his wife which he never does and these girls kept disturbing me meanwhile the older girl stopped but the younger one carry on and I told her to stop disturbing me she has a phone she can press her phone in their room , she insulted me and told me to go and marry I got angry and ask her to leave she said I should do my worst and I landed a thunder slap in her face she held me by my neck screaming when my bro and wife came his wife started hitting me on my back I had to leave the house and went outside to cool down , my brother followed me and said I didn’t do well by hitting his wife sister he said I should go and apologise to his wife and sister , I refuse and asked him why he didn’t stop them when I was complaining bitterly about them but he waited for me to take matter to my own hand now he blamed me he said I should apologise which I did to his wife but not to the girl but that small girl was expecting me to knelt down and beg her , I told her she will wait for eternity.
Since the incidence his wife stopped talking to me , she ordered her sister’s to stop giving me food , the older girl used to dish food for me sometimes when she is not around but I told her to stop because I don’t want her to be in trouble with her sister and I didn’t report to my brother, it’s not a big deal for me I buy foods and eat at work and I only go home to sleep , 2 weeks ago I came home to see my mattress outside in the rain soaking wet , I was confused because it was supposed to be inside the girl room that’s where I keep it and they always bring it for me when is time for me to sleep so how come it was outside in the rain , I asked them they both denied they didn’t take it out and I suspected my brother wife or her youngest sister were the one who did it because they didn’t want me in the house anymore , I told my brother he said I should sleep on the sofa and in the morning I will get a new mattress in his shop but the wife get angry that I will damaged her sofa she wanted me to sleep on the floor with a wrapper but my brother refuse and I slept on the sofa , the next day I spoke with my brother I told him because I am not wanted in his house I don’t have peace of mind there , I want him to rent a self cont for me closer to the shop so It will be easier for me to get to work he refuse saying when he has a bigger house why would I go and leave alone , he said he provide all my needs and the rest the way his wife and sisters are treating me it doesn’t matter that he will never allow me and I told him I want to go back to the village , he said if I leave his house he will disown me and I will not longer be his brother , for 3 days now he stopped talking to me even if I greet him he won’t reply I feel hurt. I love my brother I want to serve him but I don’t want to stay in his house . I don’t know if I did something wrong by asking him to rent a room for me to be living alone? Am confuse please advice me e shock u 
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| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Johnsown1(m): 4:35pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Asking your brother to rent a self con. For you is going to be a big task for him and am sure he will not let that happen cause; he value you and doesn't want people to start saying ill things about him. I can relate brotherly. So I will advice you to find a friend that you will squating with. Maybe you sleep three times in your brother's house and the rest out. With time he will give you some funds to pay rent with.the problem will never stop, it will only get worst. Most women are troublesome and wicked in nature. At 23 ur not a boy anymore; make plans for your self. |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Wierdceo: 4:35pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
EkoErrands:
My brother later in life you will discover the truth. The truth is that it's your brothers wife and her sisters that mean well for your destiny. Their attitude towards you can only bring blessings to you by the time u leave that house, you go buy foam, you go buy fan, later you go buy 2nd hand TV, then later you go buy stove and pots then later you go carry girl friend come house, then later you go even buy car. God is using those women to kick start your destiny.
I love my brother I love my brother....truth is your brother is your number 1 enemy of progress. He wants u to serve him till he no longer needs you. He wont even settle you, you will serve him till shame will start knocking on your door to go and start something for yourself...by then e go late. Bro this is exactly how my life started. I always thought I would not survive on my own because of the things many naysayers say that u will buy food by urself buy this one. this and that .It was a push. My dad and I had a very heated quarell and My brother joined with him to even humiliate me. Twice they beat me up . The second time, I I left the house and vowed I will not come back to stay in the house anymore. That day I borrowed money and paid a landlord for 4months. I started sleeping there from that day with my clothes as the only thing between me amd the floor. It was horrific . One night seff, dozens of ant lined up in my penis area and bite the hell out of that place that I screamed and woke up in the middle of the night and stayed awake all night scratching. But after all that, today I have grown stronger, become independent , and no idiot can treat me anyhow now because I live in my own house . This is a push to that OP 6 Likes |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nairaboi(m): 4:36pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
I would advice you to call your brother man to man, one one one and discuss issues with him. Likewise, as hard as I might sound, you sound to know everything have time and limits and I believe this is the time you should be trying to have your own place even without your brothers consent. You can do it just believe in yourself and leave the rest to God 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by kaima1984(f): 4:37pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Pubichairs:
"I love my brother and want to serve him"
Why not try be ur own master...such wife will one day leave ur brother when funds are no longer coming the way it should. Serving brother means working/ learning trade and he will be settled at the end of his service year |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.
One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!
Hugs. 1 Like 
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| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Imustreturn(m): 4:37pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
chii8:
Don't let the devil push you out of your settlement stage(celebration), endure a little more, ignore your sisters in law and keep on greeting your brother's wife.Infact in some occasion, buy the ladies little gifts or snacks and patiently wait for your final settlement day.(the more gifts you get them, the more you win your brother's heart). you got it. Gbamsolutly |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by geezyk(m): 4:37pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
chii8:
Don't let the devil push you out of your settlement stage(celebration), endure a little more, ignore your sisters in law and keep on greeting your brother's wife.Infact in some occasion, buy the ladies little gifts or snacks and patiently wait for your final settlement day.(the more gifts you get them, the more you win your brother's heart). This is the best advice I've seen on this thread. |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by johnykgoal: 4:38pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
@Championxxx
I felt like crying reading your post because i had been in similar situation. In my own case, i was working but the pay was very small but i was managing to save. There is no way you wont be seen as a barrier in that house bro. What you should have at the back of your mind is that it will never last forever.
I saved up and wanted to rent myself a place even if it is face me i slap u but my elder bro refused until there was one problem like that. My elder bro understood with me this time and i left them.
My advice to you is that you will have to assume you are in training. Just make sure you eat to satisfaction in the shop before going home. I would have advised that you get yourself a carton to sleep on. It wont kill you if you cover yourself from cold. Also, learn to ignore those girls especially when they begin to cause trouble for you. Pretend to be happy with yourself and not hating anyone. Work hard to please your bros so he settles you.
The most important thing is that you should already be counting down to your settlement year and work hard to make it a success.
You are becoming a man actually because they will be the one running to you for help.
Cheers! 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Championxxx:
I am 23 years old guy I ave been staying with my brother in Abuja for the past 8 years , I help him with his shop and his house , everything was fine till he got married his wife carry his two sisters to the house 24 and 19 years old , he said I should leave my room for them I didn’t argue I let them have the room while I am sleeping in the parlour , during lockdown this girl will wake and come to the parlour to watch tv to disturb my sleep , I complained to my brother he said I should keep calm he will speak to his wife which he never does and these girls kept disturbing me meanwhile the older girl stopped but the younger one carry on and I told her to stop disturbing me she has a phone she can press her phone in their room , she insulted me and told me to go and marry I got angry and ask her to leave she said I should do my worst and I landed a thunder slap in her face she held me by my neck screaming when my bro and wife came his wife started hitting me on my back I had to leave the house and went outside to cool down , my brother followed me and said I didn’t do well by hitting his wife sister he said I should go and apologise to his wife and sister , I refuse and asked him why he didn’t stop them when I was complaining bitterly about them but he waited for me to take matter to my own hand now he blamed me he said I should apologise which I did to his wife but not to the girl but that small girl was expecting me to knelt down and beg her , I told her she will wait for eternity.
Since the incidence his wife stopped talking to me , she ordered her sister’s to stop giving me food , the older girl used to dish food for me sometimes when she is not around but I told her to stop because I don’t want her to be in trouble with her sister and I didn’t report to my brother, it’s not a big deal for me I buy foods and eat at work and I only go home to sleep , 2 weeks ago I came home to see my mattress outside in the rain soaking wet , I was confused because it was supposed to be inside the girl room that’s where I keep it and they always bring it for me when is time for me to sleep so how come it was outside in the rain , I asked them they both denied they didn’t take it out and I suspected my brother wife or her youngest sister were the one who did it because they didn’t want me in the house anymore , I told my brother he said I should sleep on the sofa and in the morning I will get a new mattress in his shop but the wife get angry that I will damaged her sofa she wanted me to sleep on the floor with a wrapper but my brother refuse and I slept on the sofa , the next day I spoke with my brother I told him because I am not wanted in his house I don’t have peace of mind there , I want him to rent a self cont for me closer to the shop so It will be easier for me to get to work he refuse saying when he has a bigger house why would I go and leave alone , he said he provide all my needs and the rest the way his wife and sisters are treating me it doesn’t matter that he will never allow me and I told him I want to go back to the village , he said if I leave his house he will disown me and I will not longer be his brother , for 3 days now he stopped talking to me even if I greet him he won’t reply I feel hurt. I love my brother I want to serve him but I don’t want to stay in his house . I don’t know if I did something wrong by asking him to rent a room for me to be living alone? Am confuse please advice me Your Brother is not matured!! I will advise you to leave him and her wife/ sister in-laws!! |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by vickydevoka(m): 4:39pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
akpunda86:
Funny funny i laugh .My friend is not easy.Be strong.I did opposite of your broda but today i regret it.
My wife kid sister came stay with me in lag for almost six months till my kid broda called said is coming.I begged the young girl to sleep in d palor that is a short visit whenever im not around can sleep with my wife.My firm gave me a house in lekki so i prefer them on mainland.the young girl agreed but when my bros came comes like he pays the rent straight to the room.
My stupid broda at night told the girl they can share the bed the girl declined meanwhile i was in island.My wife told her not to leave that is my bro that suppose sleep in palor.she was right but as newly married couples i never experience such.Waahala burst for night i told my wife sis to go next day cos i personally begged her but she said my wife said she stay and go no where.
After that incidence i saw 2/3 bedroom flat na wahala for Lagos i went for a room and palor after my rent expired and that was how visitors stopped for long time visits.
Thinking is over relocating to Enugu God blessed us as we in a bigger place the cycle came back my wife sisters nephew all full house for peace to reign i ignore.
Its womens nature.
My broda just endure for the rooms due to privacy is the ladies first.At the end of the tunnel you will be great.
Another story just like yours my friend leo same as yours was maltreated slept in cushion to the point that madam pours water on cushion.leo endured in lekki.Today the woman and hubby are shadows.Leo is a big boy n mtn as a manager.They eat food today cos of leo that just came to serve and look for work in lagos.
Boy keep your heads up you will be great.
MIND YOU DONT STEAL BUT KEEP A PIGGY ACCOUNT SAVE ENUFF.OPEN AN ACCOUNT DONT COLLECT ANY WITHDRAWSLIP.NO BANK ALERTS.WITH A WOMAN LIKE THAT YOU WILL NOT BE SETTLED BF SETTLEMENT TIME STORY WILL COME.BE SMART.
CHEERS Good adviy. He shouldn't steal buh he should be keeping 1k everyday abi 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by jeswinner: 4:39pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Pubichairs:
"I love my brother and want to serve him"
Why not try be ur own master...such wife will one day leave ur brother when funds are no longer coming the way it should. U no sabi how it's done. Serving his brother is the fastest way to succeed. He will learn the ropes and be sulf sufficient later. Pride in rushing out to be self-sufficient can be end in premium tears. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by anochuko01(m): 4:40pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.
One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!
Hugs. Complete trash Entitled bunch... So disgusting! The boy works for the bro and his wife but the girls only came to prey. Them no get family? Man goes to work in the morning only to return home to some spoilt piece of rotten shit and you're here asking him to be patient. Until them poison am ba? 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.
One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!
Hugs. His brother is responsible for the 2 sister in laws too?? See Marriage, see scam  Rubbish!! 4 Likes |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
BiggyB242:
Your brother fuckup, no woman I repeat no woman can turn me against my family. Rather than you leaving moon na the 2 sisters go waka I swear down, You be man |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by vickydevoka(m): 4:41pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
EMEKUSBOY9:
Wating dey pain me be say...... When u tell him brother wife to give her own story, na another thing she go talk Na she get story pass na |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by ElteeSupreme: 4:41pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
[quote author=IDERAWOLE post=91844098]
My advice may be a bit different from many here.
First and foremost, most ladies are not smart and wise! Anybody can abuse me here.
A woman who suffers in the home of her husband from the hands of in-laws is waiting to do similar thing to a wife of her son or brother, I don't understand women.
In your case, your brother has found himself between the rock and a hard place, between Pharaoh and the red sea.
You may soon find yourself in a similar situation when you get married if your wife is not wise like I said above.
Please, sympathize with your brother from the way he's handling the matter, he's only looking for peace from his wife and sisters.
Your ego is the only thing at stake here. For whatever the wife and sisters might have done to you, take it easy. The sisters are only using the privilege position of their sister the wife.
Who do you think is the more important and powerful in that house between you and the wife? If you think you're the one, then you've not understood the power of a woman. She's more powerful than you are, either our culture tells you so or not. Can you play or pulll the dick of your brother at any point in time? That should tell you who's more powerful.
So, having said that, respect her. This might sound weakling, surprise her by going to beg her and the sisters. They'll be shocked, I hope they'll also stoop low to agree with you. This doesn't mean they'll not get their pay for cheating you or doing evil to you intentionally.
If you're sure you've not crossed the boundary by behaving like the typical black man by saying, "this is my brother's house, na you go comot", they'll be paid for their evil.
Going forward, be sincere in that house, those women are not your slaves, not even the slaves of your brother, not to talk of you. Do your home chores, wash your plates and that of others when you're home.
Those days are gone when one brother-in-law will sit down for one wife to be washing plates and cooking food.
Respect beget respect. Respect them, and they'll respect you. Forget all those African culture thing and do the needful. If you like war however, keep pushing that your brother to rent a house for you.
For your information, do you know whether, na your brother's wife is the brain behind the business you're coming to sit on?
Be wise, even if the money is your brother's own, it is still your brother's wife's money!
Guy u talk soo welll |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Jakama90(m): 4:42pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
TheArchangel:
How old is your brother?
Oga, stand your ground in that house.
Force your brother to rent a house for you by raising serious hell and at the same time appearing meek. Sleep in that room when you come back and if the wife and her sisters talk trash, raise hell. Do not budge one beat. Keep your bags in the shop but sleep in that room to avoid them messing up your things. Take the food from that pot and raise hell while doing it. When your brother comes or is around, pretend like they are accusing you falsely.
Remember self defense, beat the sh!t out of any of the sisters that touch you first. You can plead self-defense later. Do not touch the wife but remember to use your mouth to finish her. .
Do not relent. If they can be there, you can be also. It's either your brother chase you all away or peace or resemblance of it will rain in that house. Fear women.. They can destroy a happy home.. |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Prenonjebose: 4:43pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Xmen149:
I take it you are an igbo guy, and if so the wife might be from somewhere between imo and abia
but if am wrong this is the norm,when women come into a family and believe their guy is the money bag of the family what ever they cnt get from him they will blame the the ones they are close to (family,friends,closest brother or causin).
No matter how you see it just know this,ur stay in that house ended the very day he married that woman.
Talk to your friends and divide your stay in that house. stay 50% with ur guys and the rest in ur bro house.
Let him know it's for peace to rain if he asks.
this is the point in life where having good friends will save you alot of grief
You have lost that house Boss, been a while since I read a post from you. Good to read this. |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
I hate weak men (husbands).
The worst that will happen is that at the end, your brother will foolishly ask you to leave his house wether you stay and avoid the girls or you stamp your legs and load those girls with better slaps , you days in that in that house are numbered because it seems your brother cum husband is the weak men that falls to the antics of some women/wives.
I will advise you to be very Rude to your brother's wife any time she talk or behave stupid to you, no apologies. But for the sisters, do not hesitate to beat them very well and give them hot slap when they talk to you any how.
The woman is an evil woman and don't have respect ppl. Is she can talk to you and even insult you in the present of your brother, it shows she don't have regard for the so called husband.
The next thing they will cause you of is that you tried to Rape the girls, so I will advice you not to move to the room or drag the room with them, also always give wide distance to those girls.
To be a man in this life, you don't even need any person , so if you brother ever tell you that you will leave his house, look directly into his eyes and tell him fine and leave.
Many people feel the food the feed you is why will make you in life and if they stop it you will die, the answer is LIE.
The hardest that can happen to you is that you may fine it hard for maybe 1 or 2 years and you will find your bearing again and even be the one to help the stupid brother ...I call him stupid brother because he is not wise and allow a woman to dictate to him why happens .
You must not let the wife or the useless sisters make you less a man. Just make up your mind that you days in tht house is numbered. If the reason for you to beat somebody come up, beat the girls, beat the nonses wife and if you have the strength to fight your brother...fight him and make sure you give him life mark...I did not say kill any person, but make sure you give tht brother of your mark for life.
Always have it in mind and believe it that you will make it and achieve success in life with out help from those you expect it or even servent and respect.
I know exactly how you feel, 1991-2010-- I felt this rubbish and saw it.. but when I told my self this will stop, I made sure I fought all the useless aunties and some stupid uncle's. Today I walked out empty and I am proud to tell you in life.. success is not from any brother/uncle/sister/aunty and not to talk of some useless wife or in-laws....stand your ground and beat the hell out of those girls.
Don't waste your respect to that stupid wife 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
chii8:
Don't let the devil push you out of your settlement stage(celebration), endure a little more, ignore your sisters in law and keep on greeting your brother's wife.Infact in some occasion, buy the ladies little gifts or snacks and patiently wait for your final settlement day.(the more gifts you get them, the more you win your brother's heart). Nice joke |
