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Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:it's very true in Delta and Edo. both my parents have told me severally. as lose as some Edo girls can be on dem enter husband house they lock up cos they know the consequences on them or the kids. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Nobody: 11:34pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
enm: Patriarchy is the cause of all the problems of mankind. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Nobody: 11:36pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
Nobodys: You better don't do traditional marriage or accept bride price or else if you cheat you'll know whether this stuff is trash . |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Biglittlelois(f): 11:44pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
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Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Nobody: 12:21am On Oct 19, 2018 |
So traditional stuff still exist imagine husbands wey go don die cos nowadays women sex is water to them |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Godsfavour78: 12:51am On Oct 19, 2018 |
Elder0001:woman rights champion. Read your own op. The WOMAN cheats the MAN dies. So who lose? |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by victorian(f): 7:46am On Oct 19, 2018 |
tegrianonigltd: In Udu clan is the women and children. I don't know if it has changed again |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by tegrianonigltd(m): 9:13am On Oct 19, 2018 |
victorian: I think it’s safe in the Urhobo nation, which include isoko |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Nobody: 9:26am On Oct 19, 2018 |
Elder0001:but if the man did not properly marry his woman and she was sleeping around and he ate her food nothin will happen to him.as i am told even if the man properly married his wife and she was sleeping around and he didnt know abt it and ate her food then nothin will happen. D only time he dies is when he knows his wife sleeps around and he still goes on to eat her food. Anyway this sort of tradition doesnt happen in all parts of nigeria and as for naija men cheating u do know in the african tradition its assumed a man can be polygamous. I never believed in dis story about husbands dying when they eat the food of their cheating wives until an incident happened in our hometown back then. This man was rumoured to be impotent and he used to arrange men to sleep with his wife to get her pregnant.it became the talk of the town. He did it for yrs until one day he claimed he was trying to lock his door one night then a hand from nowhere slapped him on the back of his head. After that slap he went blind then after a week he passed away.even my aunty who is very modern told me a story of her past neighbour.one lady who happened to be a teacher and was married to a very meek and submissive man who was unemployed. This lady was a great flirt and in times they were broke she had meet her exs and sleep with them and they will give her money.she will tell her husband wat she did and use the money to prepare a meal and both she and the husband and the kids will eat d food. Soon after the husband's body started swelling up mysteriously then he died. Things do happen and even white ppl do believe in the paranormal. 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by 1990rachel: 12:23am On Apr 06, 2020 |
My husband is from esan and this is 3 years of marriage and he has been cheating, but am tired I need a divorce, no sex in the marriage, but with this their culture am afraid, so that why I want a divorce. Am from Anambra |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by jskson: 4:51am On Apr 06, 2020 |
lefulefu: This is true but it doesn't just kill the mam like that but it start with making the children very sick if they have any 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Kobicove(m): 5:42am On Apr 06, 2020 |
1990rachel: After just 3 years of marriage? |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by MarianaTrench: 6:30am On Apr 06, 2020 |
1990rachel: When they tell you people not to do intertribal marriage you won't hear ![]() |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by zexy2030(m): 6:48am On Apr 06, 2020 |
helen4:I lived many years in urhobo land(warri), yes the tradition works for those who believe in it, dey claim it kills the children too, that's why some of them don't pay dowries, as long u don't pay traditional dowries, it may not take effect. some traditions is enacted to downsize promiscuity just like FGM but on a serious note those shits don't happen if the marriage is inter tribal...so a woman who has cheating in mind will device a means not to marry from that tribe so their gravy consequence can be scorned. Every tribe have that tradition against a cheating woman. Yoruba will tell such a woman will have unfortunate children. while Igbo will tell you when a married woman cheats brings I'll lucks to the man's business. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Nobody: 8:19am On Apr 06, 2020 |
The Esan part of Edo state where I hail from, as a woman you dare not cheat on your husband.... YOU DARE NOT. Honestly, when you think of the repercussions that follows, you go just chill. But the big question is why marry him when you know you don't like him ![]() |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by cletz991(m): 8:52am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Yes same with IKA
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Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by chymi(f): 2:52am On Jul 19, 2020 |
And men from these tribe then to be promiscuous arrogant lazy hardened and not capable of care. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Meekha(m): 8:21am On Jul 19, 2020 |
According to a popular research study, Nigerian women are the most unfaithful women in the world. I can already pick at least 8 different cultures saying the same thing or similar. My culture says the same thing about unfaithful women dying as a result of infidelity. In fact, mine took it further by asserting that a man will die if helps his girlfriend abort his baby. The question that begs an answer is, "Why are Nigerian women not dying end masse because they cheat on their spouse?" The society is ruled by fear. Commit an offence and go to jail. Sin and go to hell. Read or else, you'll fail. All of these are man-made laws to checkmate perceived immorality in the society. Sorry if it hurts. But I go tell you the truth shaa.. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Nobody: 8:38am On Jul 19, 2020 |
victorian:what if she gets raped?? |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by victorian(f): 12:00pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Descortes: Then she must tell her husband she was raped. The husband will tell the eldest in his fmaily and some rituals and prayers will be done to cleanse her from such evil. She has to be cleansed before marriage can continue peacefully while the culprit will be dealt by the gods. The rapist life will never be balanced henceforth. That's for rape. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
. You said, you are married? Wait ooo...when did kids start marrying? Yes you are a kid, because of what trash yu spew there! We are trying to detribalize and you are here to show the shallowness of your immaturity. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Cheat On Your Husband If He's From Delta. by k2bexena(m): 11:34pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Does this truly happen if the man is from isoko or urhobo and the woman is Yoruba and the traditional wedding is done in Yoruba culture will anything happens if the wife cheats |
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