Why na, not every ladies have that mentality na.. I'm a living testimony.. Right from my school �
days till now I don't depend on any guy for money I pay most guy bills sef.. Una no go see guy own na our own una go dey put for head..

ZINIBANKS:
If you write it from now till December it won't change anything to them that entitlement mentally has filled their mind and eaten up their brain

Na lie… we still dey o nobi all 0f us 0lo

chukwuibuipob:
Gone are those days Wen u see a wife that believe, struggle with their husband for their betterment.Not so with nowadays girls.Even b4 u toast dem,u go hear something like wic work u do for a living/how much u earn.If a girl can't struggle with u,Free her.Let her stay in her papa house

Entitlement mentality was what was handed to them by their foremothers ...so they think life is stagnant....and a lot of our ladies are just lazy after giving birth....they think God has empowered man to do magic and get money to carter for the home.....

e entitlement mentality is bad. I can't cope with such a lady

ibkonekt:

yeah..100% correct.women know that they act like that and dont really care enough to do anything about it...female nature at work..it becomes a problem if you call them out on it because they will say he hates women, he doesnt respect women...classic shaming tactics etc..its funny though women do all they do to men expecting that their magical pumpum will always save the day.....thats the life and society that we live in jare...make we just manage them like that....i don taya for them.

90% of women are the same my mother n some of my sisters inclusively. They always support themselves and their actions all de tym. Jst learn how to live lyk dat with Dem, or better still become a baby papa lyk flavor n timaya. Buh to be honest if u want to Marry is good you marry from your place, so wen problem comes it can be resolved easily.i knw wat my guy pass Tru after using 1million to secure job for his wife. De woman wan use am clean nyash buh my guy na man him be. Him call all de villagers come him house make de settle Mata. Na so de guy blow everything for Dem de wife begin de cry na so de Mata settle o. Imagine Dem no be same place how de wan take settle. Women wicked naturally.

There is nothing u can do about it even after making 1000 threads on women issue it won't change anything.

This warped sense of entitlement is making them unconscionable, near useless and easy preys for ritualists.
This is a warped culture! Women have morphed into parasites.

vickydevoka:


I don't Bleep my galfriend she gives me money wen I'm broke. All she wants is happiness n protection. Wat I observed lately is dat human beings are different. I don't even want to spoil de relationship with sex.
Sex n money kill relationship faster than anything. If u need a serious relationship find a way to have meaningful conversation all de tym, it could be business or educating stuff. Buh I can to find out dat gals lyk bad n immoral conversation. If u talk about politics or business she will feel bored. Buh wen u talk about fashion BB9ja, or beauty show she will feel alright.

100% correct...it is easy to notice them

Jentilia:
You always do not make sense in most of your topics and i really dont know why

The reason is very simple dearie.

1.People will never see sense in what they don't want to see sense in.

2.Most if not all ladies are emotional and they will never ever comprehend matters that have to do with them logically without being emotional.

3.You just might not be mature enough psychologically or mentally to comprehend mature articles... The list goes on but lemme stop here.

Happy Sunday.

vickydevoka:


90% of women are the same my mother n some of my sisters inclusively. They always support themselves and their actions all de tym. Jst learn how to live lyk dat with Dem, or better still become a baby papa lyk flavor n timaya. Buh to be honest if u want to Marry is good you marry from your place, so wen problem comes it can be resolved easily.i knw wat my guy pass Tru after using 1million to secure job for his wife. De woman wan use am clean nyash buh my guy na man him be. Him call all de villagers come him house make de settle Mata. Na so de guy blow everything for Dem de wife begin de cry na so de Mata settle o. Imagine Dem no be same place how de wan take settle. Women wicked naturally.

There is nothing u can do about it even after making 1000 threads on women issue it won't change anything.

spoken like a boss...these are the hard truth. female nature is hidden but very wicked. you have to always maintain frame as an alpha or else the women go deal with weak man....i feel bad for simps sha...because nature will teach them finally...your guy na correct man, put that woman under control she will love him for it

Toks2008:


The reason is very simple dearie.

1.People will never see sense in what they don't want to see sense in.

2.Most if not all ladies are emotional and they will never ever comprehend matters that have to do with them logically without being emotional.

3.You just might not be mature enough psychologically or mentally to comprehend mature articles... The list goes on but lemme stop here.

Happy Sunday.

bros you don enter savage mode..

@op very good question.99% of ladies do this they believe they can't make wealth without a man.Even the few that make wealth without a man still find it difficult to spend the money.man is everything to their bills.they think they are offering him a service which he must pay.they turn marriage to business.like one of my cousins wife if the husband does not bring money due to financial problem of his business the wife will say no sex for you.The lazy women has given men notion that sex is the only thing they can provide in marriage.what is usefulness of a woman who can't stand by his husband interms of financial problem.when something like this happens they run to the next available man who will provide their needs instead of bringing ideas an always be there for her husband in time of problem.All ladies that possess this are easy prey to men for sexual satisfaction.you jump from one man to another when ur husband is in financial difficulties, Even get pregnant for them an the cycle keep on continue.A big hailing to all hard-working women out there who never depends on man's money for survival.who are ready to stand by there husband in terms of financial difficulties.it is only a prostitute that leaves her husband interms of financial difficulties an run after men.if you can't keep.the one you have then be ready to be sex slave to men for sexual satisfaction.i hope women will.open there ears wide an pick point from my write up.That is the real truth who.quote me hug transformer.

kokomilala:
This warped sense of entitlement is making them unconscionable, near useless and easy preys for ritualists.
This is a warped culture! Women have morphed into parasites.

you need to see how they regard their used up golden vajayjay....like its worth the price of Microsoft or amazon or something....something wey people don sample for university multiple times

Ariza:
On Nairaland....

Toks: Dear Guys, avoid ladies with entitlement mentality

Guys: "You made sense" avoid them! " If only they will listen" "Nigerians girls have entitlement issues" "I can't date an entitled girl" "I dump her once I see the sign" .......

Off Nairaland..

Guy: Hi babe.
Girl: No answer
Guy: babe what have I done wrong? What's up
Girl: Aren't you suppose to sub for me?
Guy: Oh babe ,! I'm sorry, I've forgotten your sub will end soon. Lemme do that now
Girl: Do it quick
Guy: Done, seen it... I'm so sorry.
Girl: I've seen it, Thanks
Guy: Now that you are happy, when will I see you?
Girl:


Upon your rants here, that's the reality of many Nigerian guys...

Times have changed oo. You only need to ask your friends. More and more boys are becoming, as you all like to say, stingier by the day. Coro and the harsh economy don reset many a men's brain.

tightpussy156:
@op very good question.99% of ladies do this they believe they can't make wealth without a man.Even the few that make wealth without a man still find it difficult to spend the money.man is everything to their bills.they think they are offering him a service which he must pay.they turn marriage to business.like one of my cousins wife if the husband does not bring money due to financial problem of his business the wife will say no sex for you.The lazy women has given men notion that sex is the only thing they can provide in marriage.what is usefulness of a woman who can't stand by his husband interms of financial problem.when something like this happens they run to the next available man who will provide their needs instead of bringing ideas an always be there for her husband in time of problem.All ladies that possess this are easy prey to men for sexual satisfaction.you jump from one man to another when ur husband is in financial difficulties, Even get pregnant for them an the cycle keep on continue.A big hailing to all hard-working women out there who never depends on man's money for survival.who are ready to stand by there husband in terms of financial difficulties.it is only a prostitute that leaves her husband interms of financial difficulties an run after men.if you can't keep.the one you have then be ready to be sex slave to men for sexual satisfaction.i hope women will.open there ears wide an pick point from my write up.That is the real truth who.quote me hug transformer.

no need to hug transformer...you made sense...just that most women usually don't want that stress by nature during hard times

[b]WORD!!!!![/b]

ibkonekt:

spoken like a boss...these are the hard truth. female nature is hidden but very wicked. you have to always maintain frame as an alpha or else the women go deal with weak man....i feel bad for simps sha...because nature will teach them finally...your guy na correct man, put that woman under control she will love him for it

Ya. I also came to realize dat speaking up or reporting a wicked woman pays more than keeping quiet all in de name of u are a man, u will handle it ur own way so people will no laff at u wen u speak up. Is better u speak up aay guy did than die in silence

kelvyn7:


Omote, wo guono'ta na
Jo'ma yoto

Mi yorin..
But I nor sabi type in Urhobo Sha..

Toks2008:


A lady must first strive to achieve financial independence before any other thing and not make searching for a man to take care of her the priority...That is the point.

And note that a lady having that innate desire to be with a man that can take care of her is way different from a lady with an entitlement mentality...the former will not make demands but will support the man to reach his goals whilst the latter will outrightly make demands cos she strongly believes she is entitled.

dont mind all this men that will find a way justify nonsense.... The same wealthy men will start complaining that she left me when my business went down...lol. useless men

ZINIBANKS:

Even some will tell you they don't want to marry someone that is broke I agree with them but what if they end up marrying a poor man how will they cope,, and have promised myself if I make that fûcking money I won't go for a broke girl even the girl I'll date must have a car

make sure say the car no be sugar daddy or Yahoo boy buy her the car o....lol...make sure you confirm source of money...lol

Oiza131:
Inasmuch as I'm not a dependent lady, I still want financial security from my man.
Dear ladies please avoid men with the entitlement mentality ( because you're my boy friend, you're entitled to sex)

Your last paragraph is an insult to yourself.

Where do y'all get this mindset from?

Did your boyfriend rape you or is the sex one-sided? Why u acting like you did him a favour by sleeping with him as if you both didn't enjoy it. Dudes even spend time and energy trying to satisfy y'all sexually,so what's the issh sister?

DONT YOU HAVE ANYTHING ELSE TO OFFER EXCEPT SEX?

I'm beginning to see why guys here bash women. I mean,how can a full grown woman think like this biko?

Toks2008:


I no dey tire o. I dey enjoy am. It is my trademark to write about the ladies and it is geared towards making them wiser and better.
See, it is very sad that we live in a wicked and uncaring world of men where ladies have become endangered in many ways. Men can get away with almost anything when it comes to romance but it is not the same with women even when many want to live in self-denial.

This is why I chose to focus on the female gender so that they will be well informed...it is now left for those who are wise to learn.

Even lalasticlala know sey i dey make sense.

Only you will advise ladies to date married men to help them move up the career ladder. Only you will say they shouldn't have an entitlement mentality. Guy, pick a struggle.

A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.

luminouz:


Your last paragraph is an insult to yourself.

Where do y'all get this mindset from?

Did your boyfriend rape you or is the sex one-sided? Why u acting like you did him a favour by sleeping with him as if you both didn't enjoy it. Dudes even spend time and energy trying to satisfy y'all sexually,so what's the issh sister?

DONT YOU HAVE ANYTHING ELSE TO OFFER EXCEPT SEX?

I'm beginning to see why guys here bash women. I mean,how can a full grown woman think like this biko?

Did you read what she wrote well? That's the mentality of almost all men. Not women.

loswhite:
make sure say the car no be sugar daddy or Yahoo boy buy her the car o....lol...make sure you confirm source of money...lol

All I care about is she must have a car

Nooil:



Did you read what she wrote well? That's the mentality of almost all men. Not women.

Nope,sweetheart... Please read it well. It's called retro-logic,where you backtrace a statement to its source,thereby reading between the lines of what is really meant.

Her fixation on the sex part was what I'm calling out. How is having sex in a relationship an entitlement? When girls demand for it hungrily these days and men dont see it as entitlement, because it involves both parties. So when my gf is hörny and wants me,do I say she is entitled,especially when I'm hörny as fuq as well?

luminouz:


Nope,sweetheart... Please read it well. It's called retro-logic,where you backtrace a statement to its source,thereby reading between the lines of what is really meant.

Her fixation on the sex part was what I'm calling out. How is having sex in a relationship an entitlement? When girls demand for it hungrily these days and men dont see it as entitlement, because it involves both parties. So when my gf is hörny and wants me,do I say she is entitled,especially when I'm hörny as fuq as well?

There was no retro anything. She just stated the reality.

debbydams:
Why na, not every ladies have that mentality na.. I'm a living testimony.. Right from my school �
days till now I don't depend on any guy for money I pay most guy bills sef.. Una no go see guy own na our own una go dey put for head..

You're a liar
You're Nigerian so all you Nigerian girls have that mentally even one day a cousin sister of mine was saying she wish to date someone that will buy her a car she's older than me if not I'll give her a dirty slap that car you want someone to buy for you did someone tell you,, you can't buy it yourself

Nooil:


There was no retro anything. She just stated the reality.

So when you are hörny and wants sex from ur bf,you are being entitled? Or does his money give you orgasms?

Nofire, biko try and be logical

Not every woman u just havnt met them

ZINIBANKS:

You're a liar
You're Nigerian so all you Nigerian girls have that mentally even one day a cousin sister of mine was saying she wish to date someone that will buy her a car she's older than me if not I'll give her a dirty slap that car you want someone to buy for you did someone tell you,, you can't buy it yourself

ZINIBANKS:

You're a liar
You're Nigerian so all you Nigerian girls have that mentally even one day a cousin sister of mine was saying she wish to date someone that will buy her a car she's older than me if not I'll give her a dirty slap that car you want someone to buy for you did someone tell you,, you can't buy it yourself

Lmaoooo...

Your comment got me laughing out loud ohhhh

debbydams:
Not every woman u just havnt met them

I agree with you but these women are in the minority.

PureGoldh:
Louder biko...No matter what you do...You can NEVER please a woman...
even my mom can attest to that.

Anyways,there is a man for every woman and there is a man for every man.

Just be careful make you no go carry another person's own cos na heartache you go buy go house

That's why to abscond shitty drama from them I stop dating stuff and I focus on hustle
When money come Na dem go come

where exactly do u stand sef

luminouz:



Lmaoooo...

Your comment got me laughing out loud ohhhh

Am spilling some real Shi niggar