Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

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It depends on how emotionally attached one is to the other and also personality

Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
The thing is women are emotionally traumatized at the beginning of every break up but after some time na we real niggarrrs dey suffer am

At first we real niggarrrs go dey feel like a boss

And the woman go dey cry

But in a couple of months ehnnnnn..... those ladies will be emotionally strong

let me book space first, later I will modify

She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.

The biggest mistakes any guy can make is to ever think any lady can not do without them... You see ladies ehn, once they move on,,,they dust their past behind them and never looked back in most cases. Lady is only attached to a guy for just the moment it last and not beyond,,,all other things being equal

See stupid Nigerians they didn't go to church
Well if you didn't go church shout hallelujah

Na thunder go fire u. U had such a loving gf yet you broke her heart. You thought she can't live without you but shame catch u she survived and acted like u never existed. Whoa, Mr Indispensable hope u don win award

gunners160:
Na thunder go fire u. U had such a loving gf yet you broke her heart. You thought she can't live without you but shame catch u she survived and acted like u never existed. Whoa, Mr Indispensable hope u don win award

Not so. I only wanted to give her a better life by indirectly allowing someone else to come in cause mine was difficult.

Things have changed now.
You can correct someone without abusing the person.

But here is what I want to know. Who else feels this way after breakup?

Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

This same thing happened to me, I had go let her go because I wanted the best for her and I felt I was slowing her down, and also I wanted my time and focus to myself alone , didn't wanted go be slowed down by any woman.. It was really hard for her to move on completely though and it still is coz its been 3 months since we broke up and she still calls me till,date .. We had something super strong , been through a lot together.

the woman first feel the pain more especially if its a long relationship but after sometimes, she would move on with anoda guy or stay alone and forgets abt her past and thats when the guy starts feeling his own pain from the previous relationship after being lonely for long...
generally i would say it depends on who is more inlove in the relationship and what caused the breakup..

She stopped calling and talking to you don't mean she has moved on, she might be holding her peace to make you think that way cause that's what you want.

Besides, she's a woman and may not want you looking down on her for hanging around after you told her to go.....see finish no good.

If you still want her just talk to her and ask her out again instead of assuming. It's better you say something and Bleep up your pride than keep quiet and let it Bleep you up instead


But it's none of my business though....

Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.

Not only are you selfish, you are so disrespectful too. Just imagine the way you describe your woman and your worries. Please stay your lane ,she deserves better.

Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.

Make that Call Bro and Stop Hallucinating, you'll never know what might come out of it

Girls sha

Ariza:
Not only are you selfish, you are so disrespectful too. Just imagine the way you describe your woman and your worries. Please stay your lane ,she deserves better.

May God bless you....chop kiss

I do

I cannot categorically tell you what you need to hear...if its easier for ladies or guys.. What I know is that it depend more on the person about their emotional build.
But its be proven that women are usually more emotional than mentioned

Depends on the individual

Guys of course

Guys always leave the ladies

And the ladies will be devastated afterward, especially if sex was involved

...

ladies

We cry, we beg, and we move on.

And don't expect us to come back.

Even if we reconcile, you go suffer small

....
I think ladies do..
Meanwhile..
Girl:I Don get new guy..
Friend :he get money??

Guy:I Don get new babe..
Friend:u Don nack am?

Hard to believe
But girls do, I have many reasons to back up my claim!
People assume men cheat more often.. which sometimes is true, especially if the couple already has children, the mother usually has to look after the kids while the man can have a secret mistress or affair. But women also cheat, and one of the reasons why is probably because it's easier for a woman to find any man to have an affair with but for a man, it takes a bit more work depending on several factors (if you don't beleive me, log into a dating app as a woman, you will get bombarded with messages from men).

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
The thing is women are emotionally traumatized at the beginning of every break up but after some time na we real niggarrrs dey suffer am

At first we real niggarrrs go dey feel like a boss

And the woman go dey cry

But in a couple of months ehnnnnn..... those ladies will be emotionally strong

Very Very true. Guys feel better in the immediate shirt term of break up and very horrible in the long term. Reverse is the case for women.

Whether guys or babes all I know there must be move on.

Depends on how hard it hit the party

Guys, on the Average

It depends on who invested more in the relationship