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He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by AdesewaAde(f): 11:05am On Jul 21, 2020 |
My fiancé and I have been dating for over two years now, when it comes to financial aspects he is transparent,he do carry me along,whenever he is expecting any money he do tell me about it and we will both plan on what he wants to use the money for but the truth is he won’t include me in his budget though he do foot my petty bills (hairmaking and pedicure)at first I don’t see big deal in it cause I’m also working and he has never for once asked how I do spend my salary ,recently I was cleaning the house and I saw his documents,I decided to check everything ,to my greatest surprise he used my name as his next of kin. To cut my long story short,he called me last week that he got some money and we should plan on it as usual,that was when I told him to help me with some money to add with my savings to set up a business,he stylishly turned the request down ,I repeated again after a week and he did the same thing. What I don’t understand now is that am I not worth investing on or he is using that to test me? Please help a sister. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by Sadiqali24(m): 11:08am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Women!!! U can't satisfy them. 46 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by Shedrack777: 11:08am On Jul 21, 2020 |
i guess you're seeking for insults from us 44 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by Bestboy11513(m): 11:10am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Check yourself well are you normal? 13 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by flyingpig: 11:11am On Jul 21, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:That man is very foolish for using you as next of kin when he hasn't wedded you. 73 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by Kriss216: 11:11am On Jul 21, 2020 |
No sensible man would use a fish brain as next of kin! 42 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by PapaNnamdi: 11:15am On Jul 21, 2020 |
The only wrong thing he did is using you as next of kin, spend on you kor use your money and start ur business, unsatisfied philistine tueh 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by gunners160(m): 11:15am On Jul 21, 2020 |
r booscy:I Gbadun ur comment the way Oyinbo dey take gbadun Cigar 7 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by Nobody: 11:15am On Jul 21, 2020 |
HushAunty Greed won’t let you enjoy your money and comot eye from another person money. You still Dey find him own on top your own. Next of kin wey him use you do na mistake because as your eye Dey red so you fit kpai d Broda sef claim him sweat You’re Greedy Greedier Greediest 30 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by JOACHINpedro: 11:15am On Jul 21, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:Op I hope this is a joke ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by PUSSYHOE(m): 11:16am On Jul 21, 2020 |
The gender (woman) is the definition of problem. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by doggedfighter(f): 11:16am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Mad insatiable woman. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by DreamyEyes: 11:17am On Jul 21, 2020 |
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Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by AdesewaAde(f): 11:19am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Any problem with that? flyingpig: |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by AdesewaAde(f): 11:20am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Nope It isn’t a joke JOACHINpedro: |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by AdesewaAde(f): 11:22am On Jul 21, 2020 |
I’m not greedy,but don’t you know spending your man’s money is always more sweeter? booscy: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by DreamyEyes: 11:23am On Jul 21, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:you are a clown 15 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by donbachi(m): 11:25am On Jul 21, 2020 |
"next of kin"...the baba wey do am for u,do am well. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by flyingpig: 11:25am On Jul 21, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:so if anything happen to am now you don claim all em wealth ![]() ![]() He no get brother or sister or mother? This is akin to making your girlfriend your next of kin. Well his decision. Explain to him the importance of why you need that money, may be he needs real convincing of the utmost importance of that venture. In the end, my father will always advise us and say, nke gi bu nke gi, nke anyi bu nke anyi. Meaning "what is yours is yours, what is ours is ours". In otherwords, your fiance money is his, and the money you guys make jointly, is you guys own. Stop having entitled mentality for what you didn't labour with him ( if he refuses to give ). Stop having entitled mentality for what is not yours or what you didn't labour with him for. I'm sure he had plans for the money when he was labouring for it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by flyingpig: 11:30am On Jul 21, 2020 |
donbachi:Make my gf next of kin I dey craze? ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by AdesewaAde(f): 11:30am On Jul 21, 2020 |
flyingpig:I pray he never die young cause I love him. Thanks so much for the advice,I really appreciate |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by flyingpig: 11:32am On Jul 21, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:so what have you learnt? ![]() ![]() |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by chatinent: 11:33am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Are you really expecting readers to use rude words on you or should I mind my business? 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by Zabiboy: 11:34am On Jul 21, 2020 |
flyingpig: This your moniker just dey make me laugh ![]() What inspired you to use this kind name? Where did you buy the Weed? |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by AdesewaAde(f): 11:37am On Jul 21, 2020 |
donbachi:No Baba did anything for me,what I guess that made him did that was that I’m always the one who do run some things for him cause he is always busy,for example all the accessories in his house has my signature,he only transferred money in my account to set the house up |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by JOACHINpedro: 11:40am On Jul 21, 2020 |
AdesewaAde: ![]() |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by AdesewaAde(f): 11:41am On Jul 21, 2020 |
flyingpig:Loll |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by AdesewaAde(f): 11:42am On Jul 21, 2020 |
chatinent:Go ahead,you may actually want to tell me a bitter truth |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by Nobody: 11:46am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Zabiboy:I wonder oh. |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by Ningen(m): 11:49am On Jul 21, 2020 |
You don't spend on him yourself. So why should he spend on you?? Don't be an entitled leech. It's his money. And you should be okay how he decides to spend it. You are not married to him. 5 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by Kobicove(m): 11:50am On Jul 21, 2020 |
AdesewaAde: The fact that the guy was foolish enough to use you as his next-of-kin despite not been married to you yet means he wants you in his life. The major issue here is that it appears you're a very greedy person! ![]() He is not your father and does not owe you any obligation yet! 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Transparent With Me Financially But Doesn’t Spend On Me. by AdesewaAde(f): 11:57am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Ningen:noted |
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