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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by mmsen: 12:04pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
The poor man and the rich man both enjoy sex. Doesn't matter if they can afford the consequences or the strings that come attached with the deed. 1 Like |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Johel(m): 12:04pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Poseidon000: Lovely!. 4 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by GboyegaD(m): 12:05pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
In as much as I agree with your position, I have learned that you cannot win such battles with Nigerian youths. People believe in having children no matter what and an interesting conclusion would be "God who created the mouth would make provisions on what the mouth will feed on". 7 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by saajus: 12:05pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Marriage is a beautiful thing, especially if you have a right partner but I think it's wickedness to bring children to this world that you can't take care of. What's the purpose of having children early and they all turn to cultist, Agbero, Awawa, etc. Another problem is most people have too much kids. As bad as Nigeria his, if husband and wife has a combined household monthly income of 200k Naira, they can perfectly feed themselves with 2 kids. There won't be any flexing though. 8 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Airell: 12:06pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
kestolove95:What if the guy is not a Christian? I guess you didn't think about that. 2 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by SweetCunt97(f): 12:07pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Poseidon000:Take it easy with the grammar Bro. The man you helped knows no better. His life revolves around that uncompleted building, no dream, no ambition. If he's not careful he'll die in the uncompleted building. Life has simply been unfair to him and he probably needs a divine helper at this point. Not everyone who marries plunges into poverty, some women bring their special innovation, business ideas, good fortune to a man. 8 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Komu1048(m): 12:07pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Lordswazz: God give them children to compensate their lack n hence putting smile on their face. That’s why the Bible said Many are the children of the desolate.... |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by ralmix(m): 12:08pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
I so much concur to your point..... You are born into a poor family is 1:0 You're now a Nigerian 2:0 You're now the first born 3:0 And you're a male 4:0 You can still Ballance the equation 4:6 (Only if you think strategies & make sure you put God first family next B4 thinking of settling down) Poseidon000: 5 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by SmartPolician: 12:08pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
merieam16: Haven't you noticed that most Nairalanders make and write complete sentences? You still write like you were in kindergarten. What does it cost you to spell a word correctly? 7 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by SweetCunt97(f): 12:08pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
GboyegaD:God is faithful but we need to do our part |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
merieam16: No they don't don't have to bring innocent children into the world to come and suffer or to become armed robbers, thiefs , kidnappers e.t.c 2 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Farki: 12:10pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
thesicilian: That's rare, most women see it as an insult to consider marrying a man who isn't socially and economically higher than than her. 6 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by adelove1914: 12:11pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Prof0fficial: Lol..If you decide to have children because you don't want to be alone.. whether you like it or not the children will end up leaving the house for you.so what is the problem?Issh 3 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by pocohantas(f): 12:12pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Farki: It is only on NL I read this. MOST Nigerians are fcking broke. Men and women. Our population is doubling. People living and fcking in one rooms that they never open the windows because of mosquito. Once I login to NL, headquarters of millionaires, I start reading how MOST women do not marry men who are not economically or socially high(er). Only on social media. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Karleb(m): 12:12pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Where is my dictionary? |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by TheManOfTheYear: 12:12pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Lordswazz:My guy you're so on point like decimal. Kudos 3 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Jackossky(m): 12:12pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Let me put it in a more decent way If you know your family does not have enough and you are the one to break the jinx of poverty, I mean, you decided not to inherit poverty and bestow it on your children, then, don't go into marriage when you are not ready, when you are still trying to get a hold on your feet... See, being successful in Nigeria is hard enough for one person, adding a companion and birthing a youngling in such state compounds one's problem. It will be a perpetual poverty as the op noted, find your means first, have a stable life before saying you want to marry. Don't marry in poverty, don't you pity your children? Jeez, I feel like crying while writing this 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by LifeQuest(m): 12:13pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
CHOPbeating: Yes, one mistake can take a lifetime |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by tunapawizzy: 12:14pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
some will beg you single guy for money and still try to throw jabs at you that you are not married. U will hear things like 'time is going' 'all ur mates are married' ..... Time is going where exactly....am i running my race or my mate's 13 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by eneye1(m): 12:15pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
I think 3 things are available for people 1. Sleep Expectedly, without sickness, every human being( rich or poor) can sleep 2. Sex Sex is always available for both the rich and poor. No matter how poor are you, will will always find a lady to sleep with. Now, the question of what type of lady is another thing. 3.Food No matter how poor you are can always fine food. It could depend on the quality of food you can afford... No matter how poor, you can get job as security officer, bricklayer, farming. Now my point. Poor people see sex and marriage as a way to be Happy. I don't like that mentality though 8 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by ikaboy: 12:15pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by scokoro: 12:15pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Why are you guys blaming the young man, is he not some lady that accepted him to be her husband. Does the lady not have parents or relatives who supported her to go on with him? The wife and the kids are not his problem but his inability to get hooked with something before settling down. So, if one is dragged in my the life's web, he should wait till when he is off it and settle down then. Who knows what tomorrow brings? We all live by hope and the hope if structured well leads us get something substantial. Back to marriage, though society demands one should get married at some point in their lives, the truth of the matter is that we must bring someone here before we leave. I know many people that are not married that can not feed themselves. Life woes come to everyone in one way or to other. I encourage people to marry and procreate and leave a legacy behind. He who must die must die regardless of whether married or not. When we reach the age of walking as babies, we start walking... When we reach age of running, we walk too In the same manner, when we get to the age of marrying, we must marry and fulfill our destiny That is how it is in Africa. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by gungab(m): 12:15pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Am here to read comments 1 Like |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by TOPCRUISE(m): 12:16pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
ublight:Nonsense. Were your grand parents paying tithe. Must you pay tithe into a certain ministry because your parents and grand parents pay tithe into that ministry before you get rich. And who told you that the tithe of your parents will make you rich. Don't vomit your rubbish into this thread please. 4 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Larry7wilson: 12:16pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Thanks a million you have done well you lite will not stop shinning |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by pocohantas(f): 12:17pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
OP, to your post. I had similar conversation with some colleagues the other day. I told them everyone would never be rich, average sef. Rich is me going far. These people would also seek companionship, love and children. No one can deny them that. Where I have problem is how they keep giving birth. I hate seeing hungry kids and it annoys me when I see them. I feel like giving their parents better sliding tackle. But then, that is the way life is. If you encounter such people, help in your own little way. They always find a way to survive... 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by ImaIma1(f): 12:19pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Some people here castigating the poor man are the same people that still encourage someone with 20k salary to get married. 12 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Franzinni: 12:20pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Op did a good thing by giving that man 10k but ... You didn't help him..because you have come here to gloat in my humble opinion .. Now if you are married ... You can never talk from your heard space presently because you have no clue about what a man is when he is married ... And you don't know what situation he was at the point of marriage after all he was on his way back from a job interview or something ... So he is not vision less ...condition and situation happens to the best of us..it is when you are looking up you really see the ugliness of humanity looking down on you ... Many mufukas commenting are commenting on a topic they know nothing about they just jerkoff to the thought that it is not them ..if you really cared ... You will help the man secure what he was after when you met him ...a job.. And keep your good samaritanism to your self .. The bible says what your right hand is doing don't let your left hand know ... You have collected your reward already be that as you have added the volume to the max... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by tot(f): 12:20pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
ralmix: Lmao ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by auxano01(m): 12:20pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Poseidon000: Thanks for lending him some comfort This trend is appalling and should be stopped. 3 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Commanderinpips: 12:21pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
kestolove95: Keep quiet and stop quoting bible verse you don't have understanding about. The bible only talks about a wife that is GOD'S will. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Taywon: 12:21pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
On point.... U did well.... |
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