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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by omoharry(f): 9:21pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Acidosis:I really did not get you .What problem are you referring to here? We are talking about ensuring one is financially capable before bringing children to the world ..that is an issue that without money life will be hell. A jobless man or one that earns less than 50k with no skill or an extra means of income has no business having kids. He can marry if his wife is working and they can always postpone having children pending when they are financially buoyant . If they decide to have two kids with a proper planing for each child before there are born, I don't think life will be too hard for them . We are too emotional in this country and lack the ability to apply logic in areas like this only the rich and middle class use their brain in planing their families .The poor on the other hand lack this . Majority of poor Nigerians leave thier lives to fate and the belief that one day "e go better syndrome. The church they go to does not even help matter .Some of the things these pastors preach even make them more lazy .Imagin Some pastor preaching that as children of God they will eat from where they did not sow" such people will be waiting for manners from heaven. It is a complex situation. 4 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Poseidon000: 9:26pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Brightgem:She apologized to me the next day and I had no option but to forgive her because I'm terrible with being angry with people. coupled with the fact that we were in a dire situation that night. She acted on the instinct of human selfishness; that same kind of selfishness that would make a person want the best food he/she can get, and I can understand that much. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
mrchineke: Which financial security and stability are you talking about? You are dicing out an educative orientation to people who have no access to basic education system itself. People who are born into the helpless situation. People whose lives are hidden in the corner of deep darkness. People who faces an oppression of the legal system favouring only the rich. People whose parents' rights to provide for thier children are robbed off. People whose vision and desired destiny have been tamed due to decayed system. May God forgive you all for using the condition of the poor to spew trash and gain relevance under this haughty thread, just because of useless show-off 10k! Whoever mock the poor insult the maker.~ Jesus Christ. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Bros you dey write!!!! I throway cap for you! You’ve written the undiluted truth. Me and Neighor (a 40years bro) talk about this everyday! Dude is 40years old and doesn’t even have a girlfriend. He said he can only cater to himself for now. He can’t afford to feed another man’s daughter. His family have dragged him tire. He no dey mind them. He stopped going to church when he almost became the topic for Sunday sermon. Woman no send you o. Money go, love waka! No money, no libido!!! This one is nonnegotiable. Only a man that can provide gets recognition. Men really need to check themselves and stop listening to the society! Ire o 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Poseidon000: 9:42pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
iwaeda:O'level |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Joshforeal: 10:03pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Poseidon000:I like ur use of the word religious Charlatan. Until we conquer corruption and religion, Nigeria will continue on it's Moon Walk. 1 Like |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Poseidon000: 10:05pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
pocohantas: You seem to misconstrue my point. I'm not advocating that one must be rich, but that; it's requisite one have a source of income and a little comfort before going into marriage. So that the family don't suffer. But we all know how ladies on this fora denigrate and disdain men of humble beginning or of average economic stature. To them, it's either he's stupendously boxed up or he has a stake in the patrimony of Dangote or Tony Elumelu. Anything outside this - the man should go and die. That's why ladies over here win the aversion of men whenever they institute such topic. Ironically: only but a minute out of ladies build themselves to be worthy of such demand. 3 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Joshforeal: 10:06pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
FuerzA:Mad ohhhhhhh |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Poseidon000: 10:07pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Hello, fellas. mygem, fbabs, febirim09, kenzysmith, thinkmoney, poltergeist, moriton My email associated with this account, is now defunct. Reach me via Abah.marvelous000@gmail.com let's talk there. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Joshforeal: 10:12pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
harsysky:Your angle self make Brain ooo. More Grease to your Elbows |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Poseidon000: 10:16pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Luxurydriverng:I wish you'll find a way to salvage your marriage. The deed has been done. The only thing is to find a way to circumvent your circumstance. Marriage is not what you jump in and out. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by harsysky(m): 10:17pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Joshforeal: Thanks, boss. More to you too for having a discerning eye and heart. It is a rare gift having gone through thousands of comments to spot one, two or three great ones. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Poseidon000: 10:21pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
AdaoraNK:Nah! He doesn't even have a phone. But I think I can locate his place by the description he gave. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by uchennaq(m): 10:21pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
IF YOU HAVE THAT SHALLOW MENTALITY OF BEEN FINANCIALLY STABLE BEFORE BRINGING CHILDREN INTO THIS WORD, THEN THINK AGAIN. WHERE IS HUSHPUPI NOW? THE FACT IS YOU CAN STILL BE FINANCIALLY STABLE, MARRY AND CIRCUMSTANCES WILL MAKE YOU TO LOSE ALL YOU HAVE. WILL YOU KILL YOUR CHILDREN, OPT THEM FOR ADOPTION AND DIVORCE YOUR WIFE? OP YOUR WRITE UP IS SENSELESS AND BASELESS. ABI NA EVERYONE WEY MARRY DEY FINANCIALLY OK? I DON'T WANT TO BE FIFTY AND MY 1ST BORN WILL BE 10. THANK GOD I HAVE A WIFE AND A 3 MONTHS OLD BABY. WE ARE MANAGING. 1 Like |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Acidosis(m): 10:25pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
omoharry: I understand your point but I don't like the rich-poor dichotomy when it comes to issues such as this. Ignorance or arrogance is the only reason anyone, whether rich or poor, in this age will birth many kids. It takes more than money to raise 2 kids, so a rich man that goes around distributing sperm like dispenser is not in anyway better than the poor man with many kids. His money won't raise a proper child, if other factors are missing. So I don't like to give people the impression that as soon as they make some money, they're free to do whatever (the kind of message Nigerians gave Davido, WizKid, Flavour, and more to come). Money is not why Tony Elumelu or Dangote choose to keep it minimal. They're simply informed and educated -- a virtue a poor man in a one room sef con can possess; a virtue the rich 2face failed to learn on time. When you see the extent of love some kids from poor backgrounds show their parents, you would understand there's more to these things, especially when you hardly see the same level of love between rich kids and their parents. Go figure. 7 Likes |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Hahjascho(m): 10:28pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Anyway, the truth is well packaged there. It's only available for the sets of people that can relate. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by uchennaq(m): 10:34pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Hahjascho:WHICH TRUTH. THAT GUY IS MISLEADING YOU. MARRIAGE IS NOT ALL ABOUT MONEY. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by AdaoraNK(f): 10:35pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Poseidon000: Hmm... God see him and his household through. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Frezhkid10(m): 10:36pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
julyb:...I sell frozen foods and drinks in my street.. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by kenzysmith: 10:45pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Poseidon000:bros is diffuclt to reach using a very small phone . |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by SeanBeezy(m): 10:46pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
mrchineke:Useful Christian, I'd ignore you as well! |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Brightgem(f): 10:50pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Poseidon000:oh well! We all different. This wasn't an instinct of life and death... It was just all wrong. As for the matter in focus, it pays to accept the world is what it is, some will listen, others will still make the exact mistake they've been warned against. World people ![]() |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 11:00pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Wolgrace:Don't you mind them, self righteous lot. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by eniorisha(m): 11:04pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
It's always smooth & easy to say when u are privileged never to av been in their shoes. There are some things the op & his stalwarts got wrong in their various submission. Only d real victims will know how best to paint d picture. When a guy is poor & unwelcoming to people, any girl dt accept to date or marry him will appear to him as though she is doing him a great favor. Need for Companionship doesnt respect status anyway. U & your fellow theorists probably got it rousy due to your privileged background & well-enlightened exposure. Even gv some poor dudes without privileged & enlightened exposure, million of Naira to start up sth for themselves. Check back in few months, it is either d money remained locked in bank or fast spending it for consumption. Yet, most times it's not their fault, generational & subsisting poverty in their live has battered them so so deep. Also, one of d theorist said one will be so happily married when there is money....as in eh!!!! Most jobless broke ass trekking couples are happily married eating their soaked garri in peace while many rich couples are having it so tough & rough in their marriages. Finally, if u are truly humane, u are to pity those people not to mock nor condemn them. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:Looolz, very funny moniker.. My gateman name indeed. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by queenfav(f): 11:21pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
decatalyst:i totally agree.They didn't ask to be born so you have to be ready. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Komu1048(m): 11:42pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
mrchineke: Blessed are they that blessed thee and curse are those that curse thee. Your poverty stricken life will be legendary |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by chiol: 11:45pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
mrchineke: If you fail to train you children, they will be a disappointment and a source of depression to you. Teach a child the way he should go and he will remember it all his life. Prov 22:6. My parents are proud of me till tomorrow because of the way they trained me. |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Trainee223: 11:49pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
One of the best write up on nairaland.... Is as if I should give the guy 20 likes 1 Like |
Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Lovisious(m): 12:21am On Jul 22, 2020 |
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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by mrchineke: 12:21am On Jul 22, 2020 |
chiol: See this low level thinker, disappointment awaits you!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
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