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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 10:03am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Liposure: We understand this. But you know you won't continue to use and dump them forever . That's the point we are trying to make here. Won't you want to settle down one day? Except we want to have kids out of wedlock, no player will continue to be a player forever. That is the point we are driving at here. Of course, guys between the age of 20 to 30 definitely do play around. But as you age further, a time will come when you will say, you will want to settle down. That's the time you will have to compromise on some of your games just to be a responsible husband and father to your kids. When that time comes, you can't possibly be jumping from one pussy to the other due to your kids and the determination to bring your kids up well. That is the time every one time player will have to drop his boots and be a responsible husband and father. 1 Like |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Tallesty1(m): 10:08am On Jul 24, 2020 |
stanliwise:I think you and the guy you quoted are missing the OP's point. This isn't about treating hoes as hoes and ladies as ladies. It isn't about not being nice to women because a certain lady somewhere said so. It's something every male can relate to. You've this lady you like, you're nice to her and you've done your best to make her understand that you love but she won't date you. She'd rather keep you as a friend so she can always get advice from you when her azzhole boyfriend fvcks her up. And you are always there to give her a shoulder to cry on. If you no longer experience this, it means you no longer roll with ladies that are in this category. It means you date those that have passed through this phase but fact is, the phase exists. In secondary school, the intelligent nice guy has the most female friends, but only the rough guys get the opportunity to press their breasts(sex was uncommon during our time) What the poster is saying may not apply to all women but a lot of them are like that. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Crownstar01: 10:09am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Mcslize:The big question is how do you pick a good woman for marriage? Most girls nowadays are not ready to make sacrifices through love. They also do not know what marriage is all about. 1 Like |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 10:09am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Mcslize:well said. IMO I even advise most guys not to join the redpill bus. You may never know when you have gotten to your bustop. People should read social intelligence books. I recommend Neil strauss. He wrote "The game" which talk about being a game player. He wrote "The truth", the aftermath of a player life and the dead end of such road and how to keep important people you. 1 Like |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Nobody: 10:17am On Jul 24, 2020 |
etrange:Pls believe this, the HOE phase is real. Every woman has that hoe phase deep down, if she hasn't shown it yet, she hasn't seen temptation or hardship 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 10:18am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Tallesty1:Read "The truth" by Neil strauss. He talked about how being a rough guy who gets every girl latter ends up been the guy who never settles for any girl. The tales of every player. The OP above is painting a picture of typical life style of ladies who are game players. But we have 7 billion people in the world. There are many ladies who aren't anything like that but the redpiller has this saying... "Every woman is hoe" and also goes "they just need the right man to bring it out". A view of a typical pímp man and women manipulator. I have played a lot of games and at the end of the day I realized it just nothing but an extreme view. Yes it has some truth but it is also a facade for a a cult of people against women. 1 Like |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Crownstar01: 10:19am On Jul 24, 2020 |
southniyikaye:That's very true. And it's usually between 16-22. 1 Like |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by robosky02(m): 10:24am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Na so |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 10:24am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Crownstar01: You can tell if a lady wants to build a future with you. If you are dating any girl who doesn't support you or have genuine interest in you order than what you are offering her, simply leave her. She is not the right one for you. You just need to be observant to tell if a girl truly loves you or just merely feeding on you. Waste no time to leave such a lady. When the time comes for you to chose a partner, just be yourself and be closely observant of any female you come across, you will definitely find one that will have genuine interest in you even without spending any dime on her. When you see such a lady, get to know her and ask questions. Always ask questions so as to know about her past. And if she suits your conscience, go for her and make provision to settle down. 1 Like |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Crownstar01: 10:33am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Mcslize:True but the truth of the matter is you can't date a Nigerian girl without spending a dime. Otherwise she would be call you "stingy." 1 Like |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Nobody: 10:34am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Crownstar01:22 and 30 actually 25 to 40 for the married ones |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Crownstar01: 10:36am On Jul 24, 2020 |
southniyikaye:No. When a woman is above 25 years old, she starts to get worried about her ability to get married. 1 Like |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 10:40am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Crownstar01: The way you handle a woman, that's what she will be to you. When you are dating a girl, have the wisdom to be able to figure out when you are being used and when not being used. Be the man but don't be a dictator. Know when to draw the line. There is no girl I will be with that will misbehave. That is because I apply wisdom in any relationship I am in. I am not saying you should be a simp type of guy that every lady will prey on. Command respect with your action and attitude when dating any lady. She will value you. The present girl I am dating knows I don't take nonsens and the respect is there. I just be myself. I don't grant all her wishes. I know when to say yes and when to say no. And that's how you earn the respect of your partner. You need to tell her what you like and what you hate and point it out to her if she misbehave, you won't mind walking away (Let me not use the word dump). When your partner knows what you like and hate, she will behave well. While I won't advice any guy to be a simp, definitely know when to draw the line and apply wisdom in your dealings with someone you chose to be your partner. 2 Likes |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Nobody: 10:43am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Crownstar01:bro, talking from experience and have seen alot |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Crownstar01: 10:44am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Mcslize:Have you scored yet? |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 10:47am On Jul 24, 2020 |
stanliwise: Exactly. Every guy will definitely have a final bus stop except fort those that have made up their mind not to raise a responsible family or whomsimply wants to be baby fathers. It's a personal choice. |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 10:50am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Crownstar01: Haba why not? That one no be question na. She is even scared to lose me. That's how it should be. So she don't misbehave. That how to earn a girl's respect. I don't even spend on her except I chose to on my own preference not because she wants me to. |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by bukatyne(f): 10:54am On Jul 24, 2020 |
This thread further highlights why parents should train their kids to have high self esteem and place a premium on themselves. How can a guy who has high self esteem, place a premium on time and emotions be friend zoned? If I am not good enough to be your boyfriend /lover or if you have one, go meet him when you need an errand boy. How can a guy under the guise of 'nice guy' invest his emotions in someone not reciprocating? How can a girl claim to be naive and stay with a guy that treats her like trash? Where is her instinct of self preservation to say 'I feel disrespected by X, Y and Z? And address the concerns she has? Is it lack of love at home or dysfunctionality that lets someone choose emotional pain instead of pleasure? The problem is not the' niceness of the guy': the problem is his lack of assertion and not knowing his worth. That's why I will always be a fan of relatively young relationships. Mr. Nice Guy and Ms. Nice girl meet young and stay with themselves. Parents, train your kids well emotionally. 13 Likes |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Crownstar01: 10:55am On Jul 24, 2020 |
southniyikaye:You don't have to. You've got to start moving. You've got to force yourself to move, even if initially at first you don't feel like moving. Your emotions, your state, follows your physical motion. Because remember the other rule of state. That resistance is going to weigh on you at first. |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by bukatyne(f): 10:59am On Jul 24, 2020 |
stanliwise: Even time I read red pill, I laugh because it is not sustainable. It is in stages: the Alpha Bleep of today is the Beta Bucks in the next ten years. In the Alpha Bleep years, the guy might have lost the woman who truly loves and believes in him. At that stage, all he has are his visions and how to achieve them. He laughs at the Beta Buck until he realizes 20 years later, he has done same thing: Hustled hard do he will get a wife that will 'respect' him aka Beta Bucks Everything in this life has principles: any deviation most likely ends in tears. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Tallesty1(m): 10:59am On Jul 24, 2020 |
stanliwise:Does this change what the lady is saying? 1 Like |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 11:00am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Tallesty1:why did you cut off the rest of my mention? |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 11:03am On Jul 24, 2020 |
bukatyne:I am glad someone else understands the complexity. Well said 2 Likes |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Crownstar01: 11:13am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Mcslize:She's only waiting for you to propose or marry her before she starts to demand things from you. Women can be controversial at times. Saying something like when we were dating, didn't you spend money on me or didn't I ask you for anything? LOL! Anyway, it seems you guys are having a good relationship. But bear in mind that women always say the opposite of what they mean...you should know that. 2 Likes |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Nobody: 11:27am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Stop dashing Good guy's hope Jo! |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Nobody: 11:29am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Crownstar01:lol, I Don move tey tey but it will always still be "speaking from experience" That's why it is called experience |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Nobody: 11:31am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Mcslize:You keep repeating yourself Same point in different paragraphs 1 Like |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by angelfallz(m): 11:33am On Jul 24, 2020 |
stanliwise: Download and read,The Rational Male; Positive Masculinity by Rollo Tomassi You'd truly understand what ubanja said about a woman being 2 different things to 2 different men. I also understand what you mean by genuine women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Nobody: 11:34am On Jul 24, 2020 |
bukatyne:Bukatyne on the beat Your advice is sweet o |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by angelfallz(m): 11:35am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Mcslize: You're very wrong virgins aren't hard to find. They're many. Too many in fact. 3 Likes |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 11:35am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Crownstar01: Of course, I am still watching her. I am still doing my own underground verification to be sure she is who she claimed to be. Although, she seems kinda genuine. For now, I have not seen any underground skeleton in her cupboard. I always tell her she is free to misbehave if she deemed fit but she knows the repercursion of such. In essence, simply know how to handle a woman and know when to draw the line. I have been playing around for too long. There was a time I decided to stay off babes for 6 months before I met her. Focusing more on my hustle. she never believed I was single cuz she always says she don't believe a guy like me will be single that girls should be rushing me. I simply told her I chose not to be rushed and I am just giving her a try if she mess up I won't get walked up at all. |
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by CaveAdullam: 11:41am On Jul 24, 2020 |
ubunja:I can't believe my eyes......ubunja is back....lol They don't understand women's dual mating strategy. So, let the simps keep on wailing. Simps giving advices........o my goodness 5 Likes 1 Share |
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