My girlfriend is too soft and too introverted.
I don't even know the adjective to use sef..

I can't rebuke her without feeling bad about it..
Any small shout she has started crying, at the end I'll be the one to console

And yes she isn't faking it, honestly it's getting tiring

What should I do please.

this babe aint your spec... find a gf who fit your desires, and stop wasting both your time.

But I really do love her..won't be easy to just end things

Everyone has a good and bad side This is her bad side........
Manage it or break it

Donvic4u:
But I really do love her..won't be easy to just end things

you have to, because this is who she is and you CANT change her... the worst that would happen is that she will pretend to be the way you want her to be until she is finally tired of pretending to be who she is not (and her natural self will come right back). why waste your life with such person (or vice versa)?!

Donvic4u:
My girlfriend is too soft and too introverted.
I don't even know the adjective to use sef..

I can't rebuke her without feeling bad about it..
Any small shout she has started crying, at the end I'll be the one to console

And yes she isn't faking it, honestly it's getting tiring

What should I do please.

stop rebuking her nd stop shouting at her

She isn't with the right person.u don't fit her at all.wetin be tears wey go make u come online dey wail?

merieam16:
stop rebuking her nd stop shouting at her

This is a Weak Advise...so he shouldnt Correct her again whenever she misbehaves?

Get a new girlfriend na

DaddyRochie1642:



This is a Weak Advise...so he shouldnt Correct her again whenever she misbehaves?

I'm not shouting is the best way to correct someone.

You just found crude oil, your only problem is how to refine it to your taste.
The only way she'll stop crying like a wimpy kid is if you tell her raw how it feels and also doing it with utmost carefulness (introverts can misinterpret too much)
One thing about introverted people is that it takes alot of time to win their confidence and trust, but once you get them, you can never be forgotten, they will love you forever because of their self inclined nature.
It's your choice, it's either you take out time to study her or you let her be so that she can find a good man who's worth her time.

My #50 opinion.

Dis your girl no fit Nigeria economy at all.

Na Europe she suppose dey.

Op is she the last born in her family?

Donvic4u:
My girlfriend is too soft and too introverted.
I don't even know the adjective to use sef..

I can't rebuke her without feeling bad about it..
Any small shout she has started crying, at the end I'll be the one to console

And yes she isn't faking it, honestly it's getting tiring

What should I do please.

is her name Erica?

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No video of her crying?
You're not ready for my expert advice yet

Give her to me bro
We can work Things out
Am an introvert myself

Donvic4u:
But I really do love her..won't be easy to just end things

so if you can’t leave her why are you asking us stupid questions?

anochuko01:
No video of her crying?
You're not ready for my expert advice yet

Lol...calm down..u go soon see video

NerdyRudeGyal:
Your post has more to do with her being SENSITIVE than introverted (although she also does sound like an introvert).

DOs
--->Understand + accept her as she is, as you cannot change her.
--->Build her confidence by being more gentle with her.

DONTs
--->Rebuke or shout at her (you can correct her w/o being abusive) during disagreements
--->See her sensitivity nor introversion as negative, for they aren't.

Thanks dear, it's more of rebuke than abuse sha, buh i get the point

Tomiwa69:
Give her to me bro
We can work Things out
Am an introvert myself

No worry baba..

Ahmed0336:
Dis your girl no fit Nigeria economy at all.

Na Europe she suppose dey.

Op is she the last born in her family?

First born actually, wetin man go do..
Saw what happened to wathoni on big brother yesterday, I realise say no be only my girlfriend dey cry cos of small shout...

delugadou:

is her name Erica?

Hahaha not even close....

nuggarito:
You just found crude oil, your only problem is how to refine it to your taste.
The only way she'll stop crying like a wimpy kid is if you tell her raw how it feels and also doing it with utmost carefulness (introverts can misinterpret too much)
One thing about introverted people is that it takes alot of time to win their confidence and trust, but once you get them, you can never be forgotten, they will love you forever because of their self inclined nature.
It's your choice, it's either you take out time to study her or you let her be so that she can find a good man who's worth her time.

My #50 opinion.

U right about this sha, the patience in getting her to open up wasn't easy mehn
Last Las I go carry my cross bdat...

Thanks boss

merieam16:
stop rebuking her nd stop shouting at her

Shouting I can stop, but rebuke? For this Nigeria

That's next to impossible nau don't u think.. besides whenever I go wrong she rebukese too...

Donvic4u:
My girlfriend is too soft and too introverted.
I don't even know the adjective to use sef..

I can't rebuke her without feeling bad about it..
Any small shout she has started crying, at the end I'll be the one to console

And yes she isn't faking it, honestly it's getting tiring

What should I do please.

Is this her first relationship?

Don't shout at her at minor issues. Don't shout. Find common grounds to always address an agitation but never stomach what's bad just to fulfill all righteousness.

Donvic4u:
My girlfriend is too soft and too introverted.
I don't even know the adjective to use sef..

I can't rebuke her without feeling bad about it..
Any small shout she has started crying, at the end I'll be the one to console

And yes she isn't faking it, honestly it's getting tiring

What should I do please.

My friend complained yo me that his wife does not cry..Here you are complaining ur girl friend cries too much.This life non balance at all.

You don jam psycho

Tor better go get yourself street girl wey you go shout at then she go iron you slap. Since you dey complain of this one mtcheew

jasent:
My friend complained yo me that his wife does not cry..Here you are complaining ur girl friend cries too much.This life non balance at all.

Moderation is key , truly life no balance

chatinent:
Don't shout at her at minor issues. Don't shout. Find common grounds to always address an agitation but never stomach what's bad just to fulfill all righteousness.

Compromise is key, thanks jare will try to adjust then...

Icelandicboy:
Tor better go get yourself street girl wey you go shout at then she go iron you slap. Since you dey complain of this one mtcheew

Jx pass plss

Donvic4u:
My girlfriend is too soft and too introverted.
I don't even know the adjective to use sef..

I can't rebuke her without feeling bad about it..
Any small shout she has started crying, at the end I'll be the one to console

And yes she isn't faking it, honestly it's getting tiring

What should I do please.

This doesn't define an introvert. She's a drama queen.

Lizzie99:
Everyone has a good and bad side
This is her bad side........

Manage it or break it

Introversion is now bad ko?

jamesbawa:

Introversion is now bad ko?

She's referring to the crying part...

obinna58:

This doesn't define an introvert. She's a drama queen.

Not even close,.

may be u are too extroverted. in her eyes

From my little life experience I find people like that to be very cunny why cry when someone haven't touch you

I'm more concerned about the crying part,

Not really concerned about the introverted aspect, she's making amends just the crying gets me atimez