NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

"never raise your hand on woman"...plz let's not popularize nonsense here! So even when she wants to stab you to dead, still don't defend yourself abi?! I think women are gradually weoponizing their gender this time around.

NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

At the detriment of himself? What if his life is threatened?
A man has every right to defend himself against anybody, be it male or female.

30naira:
Today, I attended a wedding ceremony. At the reception, the couple tried to maintain social distancing inside the reception hall, so there were limited seats. Most of the guests were in the open field outside. I sat behind two ladies, who should be in their mid or late twenties. I wasn't really paying much attention to them.

After a while, they left their seat and went out. After about 5 minutes two guys came, and sat down in the empty seats the ladies left. These guy are obviously in their early twenties.

About 30 minutes later, the two girls came back inside, I noticed that one of them has had a change of cloths. So obviously they went home and returned.

The girls demanded that the guys should leave the seat, because they got there first. It is their seat. As expected the guys bluntly refused. The girls started raising their voice and cursing. No one really cared to listen to them, the boys were busy consuming the drinks on the table.

One of the ladies got frustrated by the indifference of the boys, grabbed a glass of juice from the table and threw the content at the guy's face. The guy in turn opened the entire can, got up and started pouring it on the girl's head, ruining her make up and soaking her weavon.

Next thing we saw, the girl grabbed him by the collar with both hands, tearing at his skin with her nails. Before you could say Jack, the guy started raining down slaps on her face, she fought back too.

Before we could rush down, the girl had a bleeding nose and a red swollen face.

Now this is the part that particular offended me. Everyone that gathered round started heaping insult on the boy for beating up a girl, despite the fact that she initiated physical contact. Some women even went as far as threatening to arrest the boy. The entire narrative changed quickly. Some stupid men even tried to beat up the boys. I stood my ground and insisted that if anybody lays a finger on the boy, I ll see to it that everybody is kicked out of the reception.

It took the intervention of the officiating minister to calm the crowd. Everyone was insisting that he would pay for the girl's medical bills. Funny thing is that the guy had finger marks all over his neck. She was sobbing and attracting sympathy left and right, as if she was not the one barking like an animal moments earlier. In the end, it was the guys that were kicked out, the girls had the seat.

I get confused about this gender equality stuff, women want to be treated like men and treated differently at the same time. You can't claim equality only when it suits you. If it were two guys fighting, I'm sure they ll both be kicked out and nobody will spare a thought for the injured, there ll be no sobbing or comforting, it ll just be seen as two people disturbing the peace. But everyone is suddenly acting up to protect an equal specie, who is also the offender, and the females see nothing wrong in this inequality

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity.

Thats the reality bro, the best is to try to avoid any confrontation with them.

It is easy to preach " don't hit a lady" when you are not the one she violated.

Meeyankee:

Swear you are a weak man .. so I should be running away because one stupid lady ? Las las Na faint she go faint.
Don’t worry I know what you are looking for, nairaland ladies come soon give you their ambassador.

no he is a real man imagine if in the heat of the moment he hits her and she dies now story will change. people are walking corpses just try to walk away its hard but its possible

The day one girl nak me shoe for head, I punch am for nose blood stained the whole car's white interior. The next day we were back to being friends no time.

SPDAZZY:
Wow! Just Wow!!

Has anyone ever considered why one of the ladies returned with a changed attire? What if she was stained or something caused her to go home and change?

How would you feel if you return and someone has taken your seat in a place with few seats and lots of people were outside. Did it not occur to the guys that haven seen lots of people outside, that it wasn't a miracle to find empty chairs?

OP, you too didn't try. Why didn't you avert the plenty talk and subsequent fight by informing the guys that the ladies were there earlier? But you could intervene when the matter was already out of control.

That said, the ladies could have resolved it better and not fight despite their frustration. I believe that the guys would have given up the seats if they originally belonged to someone they know was stronger than them. They obviously felt the ladies were not strong enough to challenge them.

It was an empty seat. You cannot lay the blame on the men who saw empty seats and decided to occupy it. The ladies could have expressed their interest to the ushers and even at that the ushers still have the responsibility to either relocate the men or the women. It is not the right of the women to claim seats in an event where they are guests. Bush people should learn etiquette. If I was the host I will throw the ladies out too.

The rules of engagement forbids a soldier from using force against an unarmed civilian. Now when, that civilian is armed, it makes no difference if he/she is a 11 or 90 years old, it becomes legitimate to deploy deadly force to neutralise the threat.
Once you start trading slaps or blows as a lady you have changed the rules of engagement. You are no longer seen as a lady you are an enemy combatant and a threat that needs to be neutralised for self-defense. Never use violence against a Lady but real ladies are never the aggressors.

The guys would have left the seats. For the sake of his sanity and for the misery of the young ladies to continue. Personally, I try as much as possible to avoid women who aren’t logical, without decorum and don’t know how to behave in public. No matter how things may wanna get us involved, I avoid them like .....

30naira:


But ladies can raise their hands on a man?

Don't even bother to reply that idiot again.

He must be nothing but a PUSSIFIED nigger.

I am not in support of what the lady did but in situations like this its better to just walk away, keeping quiet or walking away doesn't make you a coward, so many people are walking but inside they are dead, what if the lady died in the process, the wedding would have bin a disaster and he would have bin living the rest of his life in prison...

30naira:
Today, I attended a wedding ceremony. At the reception, the couple tried to maintain social distancing inside the reception hall, so there were limited seats. Most of the guests were in the open field outside. I sat behind two ladies, who should be in their mid or late twenties. I wasn't really paying much attention to them.

After a while, they left their seat and went out. After about 5 minutes two guys came, and sat down in the empty seats the ladies left. These guy are obviously in their early twenties.

About 30 minutes later, the two girls came back inside, I noticed that one of them has had a change of cloths. So obviously they went home and returned.

The girls demanded that the guys should leave the seat, because they got there first. It is their seat. As expected the guys bluntly refused. The girls started raising their voice and cursing. No one really cared to listen to them, the boys were busy consuming the drinks on the table.

One of the ladies got frustrated by the indifference of the boys, grabbed a glass of juice from the table and threw the content at the guy's face. The guy in turn opened the entire can, got up and started pouring it on the girl's head, ruining her make up and soaking her weavon.

Next thing we saw, the girl grabbed him by the collar with both hands, tearing at his skin with her nails. Before you could say Jack, the guy started raining down slaps on her face, she fought back too.

Before we could rush down, the girl had a bleeding nose and a red swollen face.

Now this is the part that particular offended me. Everyone that gathered round started heaping insult on the boy for beating up a girl, despite the fact that she initiated physical contact. Some women even went as far as threatening to arrest the boy. The entire narrative changed quickly. Some stupid men even tried to beat up the boys. I stood my ground and insisted that if anybody lays a finger on the boy, I ll see to it that everybody is kicked out of the reception.

It took the intervention of the officiating minister to calm the crowd. Everyone was insisting that he would pay for the girl's medical bills. Funny thing is that the guy had finger marks all over his neck. She was sobbing and attracting sympathy left and right, as if she was not the one barking like an animal moments earlier. In the end, it was the guys that were kicked out, the girls had the seat.

I get confused about this gender equality stuff, women want to be treated like men and treated differently at the same time. You can't claim equality only when it suits you. If it were two guys fighting, I'm sure they ll both be kicked out and nobody will spare a thought for the injured, there ll be no sobbing or comforting, it ll just be seen as two people disturbing the peace. But everyone is suddenly acting up to protect an equal specie, who is also the offender, and the females see nothing wrong in this inequality

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity.

Nobody called you out on it but I certainly will. I particularly enjoyed your concorted bullshit story though, but it seems you are anti-justice and anti setting-things-right.

While I wouldn't say it is up for debate if they have to give up their seats for leaving, it seems you are not really for justice too.

Why do I say this? You witnessed the fracas and you were silent when the heat was on knowing full well that the men weren't around when the females left so they couldn't possibly agree that XYZ is the rightful occupant of the seats because they never met anyone there and no one witnessed for them.

Only became vocal when it seems the males are being persecuted in the fracas. You no do well. You could have prevented what happened since you were there all through. Again, you no do well.


While I feel the lady got what she deserves (you don't raise your hands gighting someone physically stronger than you), I feel you didn't do the barest minimum.


Aa

Iyajelili:
I don't care about stupid gender equality but you're bitter towards women and your write up reeks of hate and disgust to the female gender. You should face the lady that turned you to a bitter soul at OP.

iya to ba je pe okunrin ye, omo yi ni. Eni so be

streamsofjoy:
OP na u cause fight. Since you knew the ladies were the first occupants of the sit, why didn't you let the guys know about it so they can decide whether to act honourably or otherwise ( as they did) you wait make fight start just to bear witness that the lady started the fight whereas you could not bear witness of them being the first occupants of the sit. Are you sure you don't have beef for the girls?

What's his business with the ladies? Is he their keeper abi u nor get sense Ni?
So instead of focusing on the Intrigues in the marriage he attended he should be doing usher abi? How would he even know the ladies would be coming back? And why did they not write their names on the chair before they left since they brought it from home? You women should learn to accept your faults sometimes without trying to shift blames

benicta:


Neither am I trying to justify what the guy did, but never raise your hand on a guy as a lady. Don't.

Yeah Missy, but a lady can lay her hands on a guy right?

Awesome Missy!!! You're so intelligent. In fact, I would love us to go on a date, I believe I can learn more from you

JONNYSPUTE:
....Nockmedia is a disgrace to men.
Continue walking away until you walk away no more.

He will always walk alone

CorGier:
I blame this generation of our contemporary fathers. If they had learned how to check the excesses in their wives and daughters like their own fathers, and grand fathers did, we wouldn't be in this mess.

They pandered to every wimp and caprices of their women, they had no qualms trading off their son's birthrights for a whiff of the vaginas of girls half their age. In the end all they could contribute to society is raising up entitled, self-centered cùnts as daughters, and degenerate wánkers as sons whose lives and sense of worth is centered around pleasing women. These set of morons, created this misandristic monster laced as feminism that would spell the death of modern society as we know it. Our fellow men, including that fat beta ugly fùcker with greasy fingers sitting beside you right now or on your TV screen IS the problem.

He gave up jobs meant for you, to a vagina. Your inheritance and birthright, went to a vagina. The funds meant for good roads, social amenities, good health care, proper education, etc - he spent it all on a vagina.

You just earned my follow sire.

I like enlightened men like you.

NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

slowpoke but a lady can attack a man?
Its better you keep quiet Instead if this rubbish.

In case you do not understand what that really means, 'lady' in that context means a lady in your life... Not just any lady. If my wife decides to hit me, it would be insane for me to touch her. I would simply treat it as if it was my little daughter that's hitting daddy out of provocation. Thank God I have the most decent any man could ever have as wife.

But if any other lady outside tries physically attacking me first, I wouldn't just retaliate in kind I would also likely break her bones and leave behind an indelible mark. Just the same way I would respond to an enemy combatant. Some of you just don't get it, it is criminal to hit someone, lady or man, but it is perfectly within my right to mount a self-defense. So there is no such thing as 'never raise your hand against a lady'. If a lady tries it with me, she will live the rest of her life sharing the testimony of the scars she sustained for hitting a man.

When we say no to violence, it goes both ways. I don't mind a lady raining abuses on me, and doing any drama and stunt that the demons in her head direct her to do... sha don't touch me in any way. Because when you do, action and reaction will no longer be equal and opposite, the reaction will be several logarithm orders higher than the action provoking it. My reaction would be to altogether and permanently debilitate the attacker, man or woman. Enemy combatant.

NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

Nyamuriflathead:


What's his business with the ladies? Is he their keeper abi u nor get sense Ni?
So instead of focusing on the Intrigues in the marriage he attended he should be doing usher abi? How would he even know the ladies would be coming back? And why did they not write their names on the chair before they left since they brought it from home? You women should learn to accept your faults sometimes without trying to shift blames

I can see from your write up that you have plenty of sense.

Liposure:
To be fair here, the ladies were clearly at fault on all counts cos they started it. Even though another guy would have chosen to walk away. However all men are not the same. Women cant be playing the weaker sex card all the time. Agreed violence against women is shameful. But that does not give them the right to provoke a man as they please

This is not violence against women. Stop being stupid. This is a man defending himself. How do you walk away after being spilled with liquid content. What did the man do to deserved being assaulted. Defending yourself is not violence against women. If a woman is stupid enough to engage in a brawl with a man, so be it.

All men should defend themselves against nature, gender, and evil forces.

Baldwretch:


Nobody called you out on it but I certainly will. I particularly enjoyed your concorted bullshit story though, but it seems you are anti-justice and anti setting-things-right.

While I wouldn't say it is up for debate if they have to give up their seats for leaving, it seems you are not really for justice too.

Why do I say this? You witnessed the fracas and you were silent when the heat was on knowing full well that the men weren't around when the females left so they couldn't possibly agree that XYZ is the rightful occupant of the seats because they never met anyone there and no one witnessed for them.

Only became vocal when it seems the males are being persecuted in the fracas. You no do well. You could have prevented what happened since you were there all through. Again, you no do well.


While I feel the lady got what she deserves (you don't raise your hands gighting someone physically stronger than you), I feel you didn't do the barest minimum.


Aa

Rightful owner of which seat? The one they brought from home abi?
So you expected everyone to have left the seat unoccupied 30minutes after which they left for home abi? Na people like unna dey join two line for queue, rush enter any one we dey pay quick. Ndiara

ademasta:
Hmmm

Just consider yourself fighting with Yusuf Buhari, whether you are right or not, you will be dealt with by strong forces. That's how it plays out usually.

However, women are weaker vessels, no matter what transpires between you both, it will be perceived as if you are intentionally using naked powers on them. They will surely be listened to.

Have you considered great men that were thoroughly dealt with by women? Just because the man has bluntly refused her sex, probably in the office, and the next thing the woman would do is tear her own clothes to project rape. On this, never expect the man to be listened to. Both men and women will gather to condemn him.

The point is, women are stronger. Take it and be a man, or you leave it and be dealt with.

hoew does these answer the question OP ask

streamsofjoy:
OP na u cause fight. Since you knew the ladies were the first occupants of the sit, why didn't you let the guys know about it so they can decide whether to act honourably or otherwise ( as they did) you wait make fight start just to bear witness that the lady started the fight whereas you could not bear witness of them being the first occupants of the sit. Are you sure you don't have beef for the girls?

So their names were written on the seats right?

Sometimes you ladies baffle me beyond speech, you all trying to twist the whole narrative to your favour because it's so hard for you guys to admit that the girls were clearly wrong on all sides.

Do you go to a wedding reception,keep seats, then return back home, and come back expecting to meet the seats empty?
Because na their wedding?

Please grow up (No offence intended)

[quote author=30naira post=92096512]Today, I attended a wedding ceremony. At the reception, the couple tried to maintain social distancing inside the reception hall, so there were limited seats. Most of the guests were in the open field outside. I sat behind two ladies, who should be in their mid or late twenties. I wasn't really paying much attention to them.

After a while, they left their seat and went out. After about 5 minutes two guys came, and sat down in the empty seats the ladies left. These guy are obviously in their early twenties.

About 30 minutes later, the two girls came back inside, I noticed that one of them has had a change of cloths. So obviously they went home and returned.

The girls demanded that the guys should leave the seat, because they got there first. It is their seat. As expected the guys bluntly refused. The girls started raising their voice and cursing. No one really cared to listen to them, the boys were busy consuming the drinks on the table.

One of the ladies got frustrated by the indifference of the boys, grabbed a glass of juice from the table and threw the content at the guy's face. The guy in turn opened the entire can, got up and started pouring it on the girl's head, ruining her make up and soaking her weavon.

Next thing we saw, the girl grabbed him by the collar with both hands, tearing at his skin with her nails. Before you could say Jack, the guy started raining down slaps on her face, she fought back too.

Before we could rush down, the girl had a bleeding nose and a red swollen face.

Now this is the part that particular offended me. Everyone that gathered round started heaping insult on the boy for beating up a girl, despite the fact that she initiated physical contact. Some women even went as far as threatening to arrest the boy. The entire narrative changed quickly. Some stupid men even tried to beat up the boys. I stood my ground and insisted that if anybody lays a finger on the boy, I ll see to it that everybody is kicked out of the reception.

It took the intervention of the officiating minister to calm the crowd. Everyone was insisting that he would pay for the girl's medical bills. Funny thing is that the guy had finger marks all over his neck. She was sobbing and attracting sympathy left and right, as if she was not the one barking like an animal moments earlier. In the end, it was the guys that were kicked out, the girls had the seat.

I get confused about this gender equality stuff, women want to be treated like men and treated differently at the same time. You can't claim equality only when it suits you. If it were two guys fighting, I'm sure they ll both be kicked out and nobody will spare a thought for the injured, there ll be no sobbing or comforting, it ll just be seen as two people disturbing the peace. But everyone is suddenly acting up to protect an equal specie, who is also the offender, and the females see nothing wrong in this inequality

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity. God specifically called the women weaker vessels. All this equalities of a thing is wash. Attention and sympathy seekers imagination. It is against God's arrangement. The head of Christ is God, the head of the congregation is Christ and the head of every woman is the man (1cor 11:3). Headship arrangement

Zoie:
Nockmedia, you're not a simp, nor a pvssy. Don't mind those fooollllssss.
Men like you are what this world needs.
No doubt, some ladies are entitled binshes, nevertheless an eye for an eye will make the world blind.

Men like him is what Amber Rose wanted, the simpazees among us . The one you can easily divorced and take over his. properties. anything for the p-sleeve

xynerise:
It is easy to preach " don't hit a lady" when you are not the one she violated.

Exactly.

NockMedia:

Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.

No Sir! That's an error.

It's against the ethics of nature. You do that, you create a problem for the next generation of men.

SPDAZZY:
Wow! Just Wow!!

Has anyone ever considered why one of the ladies returned with a changed attire? What if she was stained or something caused her to go home and change?

How would you feel if you return and someone has taken your seat in a place with few seats and lots of people were outside. Did it not occur to the guys that haven seen lots of people outside, that it wasn't a miracle to find empty chairs?

OP, you too didn't try. Why didn't you avert the plenty talk and subsequent fight by informing the guys that the ladies were there earlier? But you could intervene when the matter was already out of control.

That said, the ladies could have resolved it better and not fight despite their frustration. I believe that the guys would have given up the seats if they originally belonged to someone they know was stronger than them. They obviously felt the ladies were not strong enough to challenge them.

I understand you better. Even if the ladies left the sits and returned home permanently, no one should sit on it because those girls are world presidents.
As you know yourself, it's an event. So the moment you left your sit without leaving anyone to guard it for you, just know your sit might be taken or changed to another place before you came back since it's not a reserved sit for a special guest.

It's common sense.

bigpicture001:


Plz say where u stand and stop deceptive statements...

I ask again.. Where do u stand on this..?

The guy is wrong, nothing i reapeat nothing whatsoever warrant you to raise a hand on a woman. if you do such to your wife then let it end at the four corner of your house