Ategberoson:




you have seen virgin man before? I get hymen?


the pride of relationship/marriage lies in ladies dignity and values. if those values and dignity had depreciated then such lady had become leftover

SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

vhuqnl:

listen to yourself. useless talk. Virginity means no sex. If you have had sex before as a man, you have no right to demand a virgin wife. shut up your trash!

DaddyRochie1642:
Am out of ideas...this your case strong

tega2luv:
Advising from experience, most mistakes we niggas do is that we are sometime too committed knowing about the past of our lovers and if shes honest enough to tell you the truth it starts hurting us and we start judging them whenever they make little mistake in the relationship, I once told my ex gf that her past life is of no interest to me but the present and future and she was open to me and told me severally her stories with guys in the past at a point i asked myself weda this babe still get womb sef, i went ahead out of curiosity to ask her like how many guys have dated her before me she should not lie and she told me excluding me it's around 12 guys, my fellow niaralanders that's the day everything changed bcux I keep wondering those are the numbers of guys when don knack this kpekus when she date oo , how about the ones when she no date when still chop clean mouth, my brother from that moment onwards I begin get double mind and whenever shes not with me I hardly believe anything she tells me bcux I now see her as loosed...to cut long stories short, if you cannot deals with the past of your lover never bother yourself digging what will eventually destroy you, focus on her and forget her past but since you cannot deal with it already kindly let her go in peace, this life no balance at all.

punisha:
Well, if u can see that she he did not relate with her that much she why then go to the wedding and eat? Somepeople even scored better is not?
I'm asking u OP.

BoboNogoDie:

Why should anyone have multiple body counts?
You can't have multiple body counts and expect me to treat you special or love you passionately.
Virginity is the most precious gift a woman can give a man - see Regina and Ned...
If you lose your virginity to a nobody and irrelevant person, that's your business. I can't love some who has lost her values and virtue to someone not even important in her life. I hate leftovers.

purplecoco:
Remember I never said multiple body counts for a girl. I was referring you in your initial post. If you mess around with different girls in your life and end up with a potential girlfriend/wife do not try to play that game of her being a virgin or saint. When you not innocent too.

SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

Ategberoson:



virginity is another biological meaning for hymen. some athletic ladies lose their hymen on the verge of exercise so how does virgin means no sex?


lolz! I met my fiance as a virgin and I'm proud of that, I hope other men can emulate me and allow you these wayward naive olosho ladies to stay still until you enter menopause


I think you non virgin ladies should go and beg those that spoil you people for marriage. stop looking for innocent men to give your leftover body


and let me warn you, next time you use the words shut up for me, I will make you have a sad day that day. this is my last civil response to you, you will get a worse one aftermath

Ategberoson:



virginity is another biological meaning for hymen. some athletic ladies lose their hymen on the verge of exercise so how does virgin means no sex?


lolz! I met my fiance as a virgin and I'm proud of that, I hope other men can emulate me and allow you these wayward naive olosho ladies to stay still until you enter menopause


I think you non virgin ladies should go and beg those that spoil you people for marriage. stop looking for innocent men to give your leftover body


and let me warn you, next time you use the words shut up for me, I will make you have a sad day that day. this is my last civil response to you, you will get a worse one aftermath

Samuelxxx:
A good girl body count is like 10 you see 12 you no thank god �just dey pray say na 12 sef

BoboNogoDie:

Why should anyone have multiple body counts?
You can't have multiple body counts and expect me to treat you special or love you passionately.
Virginity is the most precious gift a woman can give a man - see Regina and Ned...
If you lose your virginity to a nobody and irrelevant person, that's your business. I can't love some who has lost her values and virtue to someone not even important in her life. I hate leftovers.

purplecoco:
Remember I never said multiple body counts for a girl. I was referring you in your initial post. If you mess around with different girls in your life and end up with a potential girlfriend/wife do not try to play that game of her being a virgin or saint. When you not innocent too.

Wroxxane:


Are you a virgin yourself? If you are, cool. If you aren't then you're a low class hypocrite.

ekaF:


10 is good? Well, different strokes

kaima1984:
This is why i encourage lady's to Zip their mouths while in a relationship,men can never be trusted

Otunbalai:
i will advice you go ahead and make the move and stop worrying about some imaginations and all...even other ladies you might come across if you refuse dating her might also be a future victim of what you are currently imagine. the good thing now is that you are fully aware of such act and if such occurrence later appear in the future, it wont be more of a heart break, you guys would both deal with the guy together...if you refuse to make the move, you might end of regretting this for the rest of your life....if you really love her, look beyond her past and move on with her to the future...if it end well, good for you and if it doesn't lead to marriage, then you would know deeply in your heart that you made the move .....
My advice, Go for here....

Fdada:
Broda, the devil you know its better than an angel you dont know, I will advice you to stick to her

vhuqnl:

Bleep off aint no female, you male hoe.

SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

1StopRudeness:


lol...let me ask this please.....do u people realise it's becos it's suddenly hard to find a virgin that's why people just settle for the available....
is there anything cool about marrying a woman that has slept several men with a couple of abortion history....??
they might be hypocrites for calling a nonvirgin lady bad. if they themselves aren't virgins...
...but it's funny when u call people hypocrite for wanting to try somthimg different from what they've experienced b4...must I drive a used car all my life becos I started with a car other people have used

Ategberoson:



you're a used toy that's why you're pained, I pity the naive man you will end up with

wisper2jah:
I reserve my comment till it gets to the front page

Eileene:
For those saying forget her past forget her past they obviously don't know that our past, present and future are what makes us.You can't just cut it out of your life it will always come back to haunt u.

Wroxxane:


My point is, why complain about someone else's mileage when you've accrued a few hundred kilometers yourself? When you make a mess of your abode, you don't get to chastise somebody else for doing the same. A blackened pot kanut be calling a kettle black nao, all these woman/body shaming ko necesstree