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Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by TheExclusive: 6:51pm On Jul 27, 2020
I can only tolerate one body count. Anything more, I'm out

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Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by goldensoul55: 7:08pm On Jul 27, 2020
SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

Yen. Yen yen yen uncle are you a saint?
Abeg dig a deep hole and bury your yeye feelings inside . Let the poor girl have her peace

When you eventually marry your holy holy thou art secretive girl ,this lady in question will be happily married to a more deserving man

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Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Ategberoson(m): 7:11pm On Jul 27, 2020
vhuqnl:

rules are broken


which rules is broken? community tank


you passed your boundary for quoting the wrong person, I will put you to the place you belong to



I no get chill
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by RealAdewole(m): 7:15pm On Jul 27, 2020
The world will forget within 1 week he released the act you're not sure of... And nobody gives a f^ck about śextapes these days
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Grateful02(m): 7:28pm On Jul 27, 2020
This is one of the reasons I believe that ITS NOT EVERYONE THAT IS INTRESTED IN YOUR PROBLEM and also another reason why I DON'T BLAME THOSE WHO ARE SECRETIVE. Shea if you she had not been disclosing all that you for don LOVE am die? OP having a mix feelings because of her past you know isn't fair!! Las Las how am I not sure that just like the previous BF's you too want to chop that that girl??
Come on!! Let go of the past and embrace the present.
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by officialfestus(m): 9:08pm On Jul 27, 2020
GOFRONT:
Some girls sef......

You would see them all gorgeously dressed up heading for a friend's birthday party..........Instead of them to jejely drink from the Soft drinks on the table, they mumuishly prefer to drink from Hot drinks of Red label, Macdowells, Vodka cos they wan claim say them sef ma follow......because of their weak body system, Before you know it, they have passed out........And party boys are ever ready with preeqs always on Automatic mode, looking for such a drunk lady to devour with their raging deeks already standing tall like the rocks of Gibraltar at the birthday party.....

Next, they have started donating sperms of different viscosity in her puna.....It happened to three different teenagers within my neighborhood.....

When they are high on Redlabel or Mac dowells and they were able to regain themselves the following day, they would discover the following that:

1. They missed their period
2. They lost their phones..
3. They lost their Handbags
4. They lost their pants....


Imagine Op girlfriend dey talk say when she got drunk and her Ex bf came over, she was not sure whether sex romp really take place.....And yet you wake up without pants!!!!.......Guyz can you imagine that!!! Maybe na my ancestors come remove the pants carry am go.... Tueh!!!!!
lolz
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by chineloSA(f): 9:26pm On Jul 27, 2020
TheExclusive:
I can only tolerate one body count. Anything more, I'm out

Wait until they deceive and you will tolerate those who re open about their history grin grin grin
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by 21cents: 9:41pm On Jul 27, 2020
jelraj:
If you've never disvirgined any girl. You deserve a virgin whether a non virgin or not. Men wise up, stop saving these hoes. Don't fall for that "DON'T JUDGE ME BY MY PAST" nonsense all na scam

Don't be someones retirement plan.
Gbamm!!

truer words have never been said.

guys wise up! that lady no matter how beautiful she is could be an Ashawo with multiple body counts. its imperative to find out about their pasts and their mileage.

tho it might seem hard but you've just got to man up and leave her for the streets where she spent her early whoring days and lost her virginity in the process.

life is hard enough for a man. because of that you deserve the best you can find for yourself, a fresh tear rubber lady with hymen intact to carry your children and not hoes.

wise up.

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Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by vhuqnl(m): 9:51pm On Jul 27, 2020
Ategberoson:



which rules is broken? community tank


you passed your boundary for quoting the wrong person, I will put you to the place you belong to



I no get chill
Empty barrel, go for therapy. Your life is a misery. Quit
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Papichulostunne(m): 10:27pm On Jul 27, 2020
tega2luv:
Advising from experience, most mistakes we niggas do is that we are sometime too committed knowing about the past of our lovers and if shes honest enough to tell you the truth it starts hurting us and we start judging them whenever they make little mistake in the relationship, I once told my ex gf that her past life is of no interest to me but the present and future and she was open to me and told me severally her stories with guys in the past at a point i asked myself weda this babe still get womb sef, i went ahead out of curiosity to ask her like how many guys have dated her before me she should not lie and she told me excluding me it's around 12 guys, my fellow niaralanders that's the day everything changed bcux I keep wondering those are the numbers of guys when don knack this kpekus when she date oo , how about the ones when she no date when still chop clean mouth, my brother from that moment onwards I begin get double mind and whenever shes not with me I hardly believe anything she tells me bcux I now see her as loosed...to cut long stories short, if you cannot deals with the past of your lover never bother yourself digging what will eventually destroy you, focus on her and forget her past but since you cannot deal with it already kindly let her go in peace, this life no balance at all.

MAD OH..!!!!

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Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Ategberoson(m): 10:30pm On Jul 27, 2020
vhuqnl:
Empty barrel, go for therapy. my life is a misery. Quit


obviously, I'm sure this is hereditary hence the domination in you

Ariokoyo. what's the size of your pússy now? engine 1.6 turned 10.5 size

olofo
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by TheExclusive: 10:35pm On Jul 27, 2020
chineloSA:


Wait until they deceive and you will tolerate those who re open about their history grin grin grin

In matters of love and relationships, I use my head not heart dear. Unless the person lied. In that case, I wouldn't blame myself.
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by vhuqnl(m): 10:19am On Jul 28, 2020
Ategberoson:



obviously, I'm sure this is hereditary hence the domination in you

Ariokoyo. what's the size of your pússy now? engine 1.6 turned 10.5 size

olofo
Awon baba ati Iya e ni yio sofo ku. Onirase
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Ategberoson(m): 3:27pm On Jul 28, 2020
vhuqnl:
Awon baba ati Iya mi yio sofo ku. Onirase


beeni ori bo sé gbé awon obí è sepè, bé ló ma rí....tuo!


Omo abinpabé. Omo kekere olobo Grandma
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by vhuqnl(m): 6:32pm On Jul 28, 2020
Ategberoson:



beeni ori bo sé gbé awon obí è sepè, bé ló ma rí....tuo!


Omo abinpabé. Omo kekere olobo Grandma
Wasofo ku. Omo ale thousand fathers
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Ategberoson(m): 6:38pm On Jul 28, 2020
vhuqnl:
masofo ku. Omo ale thousand fathers

English you no sabi
Yoruba you no sabi

book zero but oko ati epon? 100%

see your life outside, olorun maje ki won fi e se Ogun owo gbeyin

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Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by vhuqnl(m): 7:19pm On Jul 28, 2020
Ategberoson:


English you no sabi
Yoruba you no sabi

book zero but oko ati epon? 100%

see your life outside, olorun maje ki won fi e se Ogun owo gbeyin
Ogbeni, succk my dicck and get the hell out of my mention, alayerada
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Ategberoson(m): 10:22pm On Jul 28, 2020
vhuqnl:

Ogbeni, succk my dicck and get the hell out of my mention, alayerada


which dickk? bobrisky wannabe grin


I'm sure you're not bisexuall. you're just one pained attention seeker oloshoo


next time you jump like a loose monkey to quote me, I will put you where you belong to


Omo lasan ikeji aja

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Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by ubcandid(m): 5:11am On Jul 29, 2020
luscioustrish:
Most men can't handle the truth. You either continue with her OR move on to someone else.

what is the truth? that it's hard for a present day lady to be faithful in a relationship?? is that it.
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Omar09(m): 11:13am On Jul 29, 2020
SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

When will y'all learn?

I see the problem here. I think the most reason why nice guys hang out with bad girls is because of the possibility of sex from such "women". Little do they know that the possibility is very slim.

Bro that girl is damaged. Any girl who gets drunk and have sex wanted to have sex (but don't go around getting girls drunk, it's stupid and weak). And any guy who have sex with drunk girls is stupid and deserves the rape case that will slammed on him. That said, any girl who gets drunk and calls her ex for a sex romp is damaged and such girl is not good enough to be mother your kids. You are a king and hence you should live like a king. Move out, make friends (reasonable ones) and forget about her. It's a suicide mission. Get you a deserving Queen cause you are a King.

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Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by ubcandid(m): 1:45pm On Jul 29, 2020
OmoAlakija:

Wait a minute ? She's light skinned from,Akwa ibom ? Preety ?
noo she's from oduduwa republic
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by OmoAlakija: 1:49pm On Jul 29, 2020
ubcandid:


noo she's from oduduwa republic

Orie ope
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by ubcandid(m): 1:51pm On Jul 29, 2020
BoboNogoDie:

No!

You're wrong!

End up with a girl with body counts more more than two is the biggest mistake any guy can make.

Any girl who has had sex with more than two people is a dirty whòre and a leftover.
I'll rather just keep such girl as a baby mama Because, such girl is not worthy of marriage.

abeg if you see the one wey Neva do pass two, try share give me.
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by ubcandid(m): 1:51pm On Jul 29, 2020
OmoAlakija:

Orie ope
daddy ye
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by movingclouds(m): 2:05pm On Jul 29, 2020
ubcandid:


abeg if you see the one wey Neva do pass two, try share give me.
If she no fine nko?
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Israelinno: 2:19pm On Jul 29, 2020
This is the main reason why i dont like askn ladies abt their past i can't jux cope, some of them hve dated like 15 guys and had sex with all several times
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by OmoAlakija: 2:41pm On Jul 29, 2020
ubcandid:


daddy ye

Oma le
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by ubcandid(m): 2:47pm On Jul 29, 2020
OmoAlakija:

Oma le
oshi omo. omo jati jati
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by ubcandid(m): 2:48pm On Jul 29, 2020
movingclouds:
If she no fine nko?
no bring.
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by OmoAlakija: 4:00pm On Jul 29, 2020
ubcandid:


oshi omo. omo jati jati

Omo ofo
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by ubcandid(m): 4:10pm On Jul 29, 2020
OmoAlakija:


Omo ofo

Iyala Iya eee
Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by mattfeuter(m): 4:13pm On Jul 29, 2020
TheExclusive:
I can only tolerate one body count. Anything more, I'm out

How will you know it’s one ?

Why should you settle for second hand product?

Don’t play yourself dawg!

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