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Social by Mimiliciously(f): 7:24am On Jul 30, 2020 |
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Re: Social by blackpanthar: 7:26am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: Lol, he is insecure. Just give him excuses Missimelda01 pls come and give wise counsel. |
Re: Social by Nobody: 7:28am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Without been told, you can see clearly that the Op and her husband "Rushed" into marriage just like the way Yakubu Dogara "Rushed" into the demonic APC... -Lack of Trust. -No bond between them. -Lack of heart to heart communication. That's all I see in this marriage.... If you're not hiding anything from him, then hand over the password... It's really that simple. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Social by Nackzy: 7:28am On Jul 30, 2020 |
There's no trust again in your marriage You want the truth? Your Husband is cheating on you and you're Cheating on your husband as well 4 Likes |
Re: Social by Kdon2: 7:31am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Nackzy: What a summary! |
Re: Social by Harshreality: 7:32am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Marriage: one of the most complex institutions |
Re: Social by dingbang(m): 7:36am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Make una dey try to communicate on things before it crystallizes. |
Re: Social by Mimiliciously(f): 7:36am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Nackzy: I'm not cheating 3 Likes |
Re: Social by Mimiliciously(f): 7:38am On Jul 30, 2020 |
I'm seeing a lot of judgment but not seeing advices. Advice is all I need now. 2 Likes |
Re: Social by pocohantas(f): 7:40am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: Give him, so that he can calm down. After he is done looking, ask him if he will rest now. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Social by bukatyne(f): 7:40am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: Why does he want your SM passwords? |
Re: Social by missimelda01(f): 7:42am On Jul 30, 2020 |
blackpanthar: As it is now, nothing you say or do can change his motives. Tell him to give you his passwords too, give him yours only after he has done that. As long as you're not hiding anything, he'll get tired of monitoring you eventually. And if he posts anything with your account, it shows he's not matured enough, change the password! But give him a chance first. 10 Likes |
Re: Social by Mimiliciously(f): 7:45am On Jul 30, 2020 |
bukatyne: I have no idea. I think it's a control thing. This social media thing have been a recurring issue in our 3 years of marriage. He can't just let it rest. |
Re: Social by Mimiliciously(f): 7:47am On Jul 30, 2020 |
pocohantas:I can give him because I truly have nothing to hide but what if he starts posting his pictures. That would really upset me. 1 Like |
Re: Social by Lessonteacher(f): 7:53am On Jul 30, 2020 |
give him if you don't have anything you won't want him to see, but change your passwords later |
Re: Social by bukatyne(f): 7:53am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: So what brought it to the fore now? @control thing: You mean your husband just woke up three years ago and asked for the passwords of your SM? No preceeding event? Are there other ways he is trying to 'control' you? |
Re: Social by GOFRONT(m): 7:54am On Jul 30, 2020 |
SM has done and will continue to do more harm to marriages than good..... I can't come and give my SM password to my wife........Even me sef dey fear d kind of big big skeletons i have inside my own Cabod.. 1 Like |
Re: Social by pocohantas(f): 7:55am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: It’ll piss me off too. Reminds me of the NLder whose gf started posting her pictures on his WhatsApp status. What I am sure is, I will let him have the password. After that I will change it and he won’t have it again. Except he is ready to release his or say what is his problem. 3 Likes |
Re: Social by Mimiliciously(f): 7:57am On Jul 30, 2020 |
missimelda01: He refuses to give me his and when I ask, he says it's because he's the one marrying me and not other way around. That he has the rights to my social media but I don't have the right to his. This is really stressing me out. When people are having real issues in their unions, mine is social media. In the past this same issue have snowballed into something ugly. We were even on the verge of breakup. He says I disrespect him because I don't post his pictures. At some point, I had to block him and lied that I've deleted the account so I can have peace. But he later figured out I blocked him and continued stressing me about it. 1 Like |
Re: Social by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:00am On Jul 30, 2020 |
pocohantas:.....Both should not see anything wrong in posting their pictures on each others social media statues except they are both cheating. Are they not married for Christ sake? 1 Like |
Re: Social by Mimiliciously(f): 8:02am On Jul 30, 2020 |
bukatyne: He tried to get me to change the sim I had been using for years immediately after we got married. I refused. The phone got lost one day and he told me to get a fresh sim and not retrieve the old number. . I did, so that peace can reign. Since then he's been on my social media. Stressing me about it. |
Re: Social by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:04am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously:....Are you ashamed of your hubby? Why can't you post his pics on your wall.? You are making him suspect you are cheating on him by this actions of you not being able to post his pics and blocking him making him believe you ve delated your account. 8 Likes |
Re: Social by Mimiliciously(f): 8:04am On Jul 30, 2020 |
pocohantas: Okay. Sounds reasonable |
Re: Social by pocohantas(f): 8:06am On Jul 30, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: I can’t judge them because it is also what I am capable of. If I trust you so much, I can acknowledge some things, that is where it ends. No sharing of picture. No be my family SM people go use bad mouth scatter. JONNYSPUTE: He is also not posting her picture. So? Is he ashamed of her? 19 Likes |
Re: Social by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:09am On Jul 30, 2020 |
pocohantas:...I'm not in anyway judging them but if the husband will feel more secured with the posting of his pics or that of the general family on SM,I don't see anything wrong with it. Abi the guy resemble that sticker? I no talk anything oo. Lol. 1 Like |
Re: Social by Mimiliciously(f): 8:10am On Jul 30, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:He has never posted me. There's no sign on his page that he's even married. I never obsess about that. Why is he obsessed with my SM? I've posted him on my page a couple of times but deleted when I thought we were breaking up. I just refused to post back because I can't be doing post and delete. Why can't he just let me be! 1 Like |
Re: Social by pocohantas(f): 8:12am On Jul 30, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: If he will feel secure by another person posting his pictures but he is not posting the person’s own, then he has issues. Don’t give what you can’t take! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Social by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:14am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously:.....Then talk sense into him when both of you are about making out. I mean,talk to him with love and not in a harsh tone. Both of you should start posting each other pics ASAP. |
Re: Social by Mo3891: 8:15am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: Just give him for peace to reign and change it later the husband you have is insecure because he cheats or thinks of cheating 2 Likes |
Re: Social by bukatyne(f): 8:15am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: Ha! Ha! The members of the school that married women should change their contacts, signature and SM handles after marriage. You got a new SIM, you can as well give him your password. 1 Like |
Re: Social by ImaIma1(f): 8:16am On Jul 30, 2020 |
JidennaJason: As long as he hands over his too. If both of them have nothing to hide, they should exchange passwords. 6 Likes |
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