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Re: Social by mariahAngel(f): 9:44am On Jul 30, 2020 |
GOFRONT: Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha |
Re: Social by Nobody: 9:52am On Jul 30, 2020 |
bukatyne: In this scenario, she chose to cower before her husband & anytime she wants go haywire, she has the liberty to. |
Re: Social by Biglittlelois(f): 9:53am On Jul 30, 2020 |
pocohantas: 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Social by Nobody: 9:54am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: Please start nagging & going crazy like twice or three times a week, drag his shirt once in a while in an argument...Ehn by the time he his finished & exhausted with all of that, he won't have time to be checking your social media account ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Social by mariahAngel(f): 10:07am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Elder0001: You're never up for any topic. To you, they're always all fake. |
Re: Social by bukatyne(f): 10:44am On Jul 30, 2020 |
LordKO: Quite unfortunate. |
Re: Social by Nobody: 10:47am On Jul 30, 2020 |
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Re: Social by bukatyne(f): 10:48am On Jul 30, 2020 |
truthsayer009: ![]() She most likely won't. Men like the OP's husband don't 'pretend' before marriage. They are so confident they are God's gift to women that they will lay their cards on the table. OP has been cowering, let her continue. If she refused to retrieve her line because he said so, what really is SM password that the OP is fretting about except if she is a SM influencer, celebrity or it is a business account? 2 Likes |
Re: Social by bukatyne(f): 10:50am On Jul 30, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Well, OP's husband has decided to major on the minor and major. ![]() |
Re: Social by Mimiliciously(f): 10:57am On Jul 30, 2020 |
bukatyne: He pretended o. The moment bride price was paid was when I started seeing signs that he is a control freak. I didn't want to marry him so he did everything on the book to get me. Story changed after he got me. If I was the cowering kind, I would have submitted password two years ago. I can't relinquish everything in the name of marriage. My social media is my social media. He can do whatever he likes with his, let me do what I like with mine. 6 Likes |
Re: Social by bukatyne(f): 11:03am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: 1. Let me 100% accept this. The way a practical/live case is treated is a little different from theory. If we are having a theoretical discussion, I would have given you my honest opinion ![]() 2. Back to my post below especially the bold: bukatyne: |
Re: Social by CsRockefeller(m): 11:24am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: Damn! ![]() Seems you already want out. |
Re: Social by CsRockefeller(m): 11:26am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: Damn! ![]() Seems you already want out. I can bet that your marriage is loveless and tasteless. To the guys especially, d bolded enforces the reason why you shouldn't date, let alone marry anyone who isn't keen on spending d rest of their lives with you. Don't push it, don't try to over convince any lady with words, money, gifts or attention. If she isn't interested, it's best you let her be. When people do certain things with conviction it helps them to fight when things go sour. If I wanted to read Economics in school and I get admitted to read Economics, during the tough periods once I remember this is what I chose, this is what I wanted, my choice, it helps and gives me that strength to fight on and pass it. When you push too hard to get a lady to marry you, this is what you get. As far as she is concerned she never wanted you at first. In summary, if she doesn't show interest, desire, if she isn't keen please walk away, don't even ask twice. It's for your own good o. Let him that have ears hear. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Social by frozen70(f): 11:28am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously: You have a right to your privacy You can have so many social media accounts with different emails Create one and give him the password and another one which is strictly for your eyes only If you keep refusing he will keep suspecting you Some men are naughty especially when they feel you are too happy being on your lane 2 Likes |
Re: Social by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
bukatyne: Most likely won't but has the liberty to. Also the regular nonsense talks of I married you & not the other way round can be shut down. If I am the OP, I stand by my decision & not release my password except he also releases his. Marriage is not by force, last last I return to my fathers house. Divorce or Separation should be a norm by 2040. Small thing. I would only worry about the kids, because of the financial aspect. 5 Likes |
Re: Social by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: Ogbeni! did you read the part he said he married her, not the other way round & he will not share his own password but expect her to share hers. This is Master Slave mentality in 2020. 6 Likes |
Re: Social by bukatyne(f): 12:26pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
frozen70: @bold: I assume you meant some: Doesn't reduce the hilariousness of it though. I imagine such a man thinking of the next thinv to disrupt peace when his wife is smiling too much. ![]() |
Re: Social by Liposure: 12:42pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Why will i share password with my spouse in the first place. When no be joint account we de run |
Re: Social by Liposure: 12:44pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
frozen70:chop knuckle |
Re: Social by CsRockefeller(m): 12:50pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
truthsayer009: You are looking at it from the point of Exodus, I'm looking at it from Genesis. They never loved one another, it's too evident. Both felt they were doing each other a favour. 7 Likes |
Re: Social by Ybaby: 1:51pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Nackzy: Ko je ju bayi lo!! You carried hammer and nailed it 2 Likes |
Re: Social by frozen70(f): 2:11pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Liposure: Thanks |
Re: Social by frozen70(f): 2:14pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
bukatyne: That's it Once a man starts having complex issues, he harrases his wife, just because she is suffering secretly and smiling openly |
Re: Social by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
With all I've read so far from Op, only God can save this Marriage. It's future is very deem. Two incompatible people can't last. Well to be honest, I see nothing wrong with sharing passwords with one's spouse so far they are matured enough to handle whatever they see. The problem I have with Op's situation is the fact that her husband thinks he own her and he is unwilling to share his. That aside, I see nothing wrong although with all I've read so far my concern is : is your husband mature enough to handle reading a woman's inbox? Especially that of social media accounts. Because truth is cheating or not, a SM active lady's inbox can never be free of advances. Some messages can be implicating, and some posters annoying. Before you get to read and block the posters what if you husband has seen it first. I doubt if he is matured enough to deal with situations like that. Op, please to avoid headache don't give him the password yet. Have a heart to heart talk with your husband. Make him understand he is hurting you and while at it, claim no rights. You two should reach an agreement which will be whatever he sees on your SM mustn't cause troubles in your home. If he accept, give him. If not don't give him. |
Re: Social by mariahAngel(f): 2:43pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
frozen70: Even as a married woman? The only wrong I see is that the husband is not ready to share his password, otherwise there's nothing there. Unless of course, they both have things to hide...but na wah o! Imagine an issue as trivial as sharing passwords causing trouble in a marriage... |
Re: Social by frozen70(f): 3:13pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Now you are talking If the husband is safe guarding his password for reasons best known to him, why won't he allow her keep her Look, it's difficult to have or see couples who doesn't have a secret to keep away from each other It's their right to have their privacy and should be respected Even the phone we are using have a lock, so you make use of the lock for your own privacy 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Social by Nobody: 3:34pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
CsRockefeller:You nailed it. That marriage is already headed to an iceberg. |
Re: Social by chriskosherbal(m): 3:48pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously:Madam it seems you are the one giving yourself headache in your marriage from the above I can deduce that your hubby is the type that loves attention, all men are different as for me I don't care weather u post my pics or not just make sure there is all kinds of food at home anytime I want to eat lol. Why not post his pics everywhere since he likes it, and pls don't give me that BS of am a private person, it is only applicable to a 3rd party not your hubby, if you are really a private person as you claim you won't even fancy SM, you are giving the man the reason not to trust you. Except you are not telling us certain things, I really don't see issues here at all cos you will bite you finger if the Union go south & reason for it is SM, I don't think he would have demanded continuously for the password if you had constantly posted his pics as well as the pics of both of you .....madam say the truth are you really proud of him. See sometimes we men want to trust our women first before loose guarding ourselves for you guyz, try it and you will see him freeing himself, work stuff as well social media account for you cos to him you have earned his trust. Madam I beg listen to me there can't be too captain in a ship, pls let him be the cap ok, I believe he loves you he just facing insecurity. He is tripping for you he doesn't want to loose you but also doesn't know how to go about. Good luck. 4 Likes |
Re: Social by Sixfeetbelle: 4:35pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
JidennaJason: It's really not that simple. If he won't give up his password, he doesn't have the right to get hers. Stop pushing the "men are lords" mentality on this thread. 4 Likes |
Re: Social by xynerise: 4:50pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
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Re: Social by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:This lady again... If you go through MariahAngel's comment in this thread, she said the same thing, why then did you read mine different or should I say in a "Feministic" way.... Anyway, good evening madam. |
Re: Social by ifko: 5:54pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Mimiliciously:Since u don't have anything hidden, give him and let his conscience judge him. shikena Once in a while just tease him about it that he s unfair about it. 1 Like |
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