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Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Tunjingwu(m): 4:37pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Hathor5:Bros I have got very many things to do than sitting down and making up stories.I have since called him and adviced based on some points that some people have made here.Its his choice to follow that advice or not.The home is his own. |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Nobody: 4:42pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
liberalchick:Thank you for this! The other time I was discussing with a group of friends offline and told them this, the got defensive but it's the reality people face in marriages. I told them The husbands money is his money and not his wife's (interchangeablly) and the wife's body is her body not their bodies. If a husband stops his wife from using any of his properties,she can't do much to fight it, if a woman or man decides not to satisfy his or her partner sexually, you can't sue her or him for it. Contrary to narratives propagated as norms, they are just sweet talk people delude themselves with. The best anyone can do for him or herself is to get a partner who is willing and ready to share. Reality is, it's no one's right but how much one is permitted to have. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Ishilove: 4:48pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
bukatyne:You are finding 'their' trouble 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:50pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Exjoker: marrying a second is not solving the problem naturally both men and women we use tools our disposal to send a massage what do i mean women use sex a tool to send a message that something is wrong, some men start coming home late and not touching food so the woman is not a good communicator if she using sex as tool to get something addressed and the man also should ask the main reason he is being denied sex ? 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by LordKO(m): 4:57pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Palema007: This submission has a derisive connotation; it's like a submission from a Woke-Christian Order member. Say hello to pocohantas and hathor5 and others too numerous to mention. Eschew derision, and say no to paranoia, sententiousness and cynicism. Oya, make una no vex because I no get strength for bickering today, maybe tomorrow. 4 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Nobody: 5:02pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
LordKO:Lol... LordKO I don't have time for hide and seek, when you are ready to stand by your pettiness.Let me know. Maybe then we can talk things through. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by LordKO(m): 5:05pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Palema007: Lol, I've stirred up a hornet's nest. No vex, you know say na ma personal person you be. Pettiness de sweet sometimes. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Nobody: 5:10pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
LordKO:I thought as much, at least you agreed you can be petty sometimes. Lol I can too. However you can counter an opinion without insults right? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by pocohantas(f): 5:12pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
LordKO: LordKO: The irony. Then we have the typical gaslighting of highly pretentious folks. Throw stones then hide your hands. Oga, keep me out of your nonsense. Later someone will say I am haunting my “ex-bf”. I no dey even see you, but to stay your lane just hard for you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Elprima(m): 5:18pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
sisisioge: Nothing more to add 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by djon78(m): 5:19pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Palema007: A woman hoarding sex can lead to several outcomes The man keeping mistresses marrying extra wife Or even dissolution of the marriage. So who losses in the end? Why did she get married in the first place if she had such intents? That's why we are having many broken homes today And most of the times Children born in those kind of homes bear the brunt I have seen such cases The man moves on remarries The woman faces her own thing The children born into such homes Then turns into cretins In fact there is a case reported to me by a Friend last Sunday The man remarried and moved on There first daughter still in ss3 around 16 Was impregnated by a 19 year old school mate And she has been married off to the 19 year old Muslim northern boy That poor girl won't know what she did to herself till she is in her 30s 8 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Belafonte(m): 5:23pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Divorce should, as a matter of practicality, always be on the table. This is 2020 ffs 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Nobody: 5:23pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
yettymuse: Na only dust you dey yarn for this forum. 7 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by LordKO(m): 5:27pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Palema007: Keep quiet there! Advice isn't a curse. You all should stop this irritating act of equating derision to opinion - yes, since pettiness is our hallmark at Woke-Christian Order, I've no choice than to take passive pleasure in it. Your derision is simply an opinion, but my derisive opinion is an insult, a typical thought process of our members. Lol. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Belafonte(m): 5:30pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
For those men who might be swayed by comments advising romance, be advised that romance CAN NOT make a woman want to fúck you if she doesn't want to. Maybe many people are unaware that rich men's wives pay for hotel room to get lashed by their sideboys. If romance could sustain desire, Seal an Heidi Klum would still be married today . The moment you need to do more than you used to to negotiate any woman into wanting to part legs, realise it's time to seek another puna. YOU CANNOT NEGOTIATE DESIRE 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Nobody: 5:39pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
djon78:I do not support women hoarding sex, I don't think I have typed anything of such here, however other than the fact that some women do it intentionally,some don't. Some women lose their libidos, enthusiasm, confidence and interest in sex especially after child birth, some experience post natal shock/changes in their bodies. Now my problem is, some Men do not understand this they labeled it as hoarding and its very pitiable to read that some women believe this too. As you can see on this thread, a sarcastic comment from a supposed wife or mother. I wonder why Most Nigerians are very judgemental though. And why Nigerian Men hardly take interest in understanding their women's anatomies. Has the said husband ever tried to understand his wife and her reasons or try to help her be in the mood? Do this Men understand that, Men are always ready why Women need to be ready? Do they understand that Men have sex to ease stress, while Women have to ease stress to have Sex? Do this Men understand this difference? No. And their next available option? Get a girlfriend! Why get married in the first place if all you need is a intimacy gadget and not a wife? And as far the post you quote, that is the reality. It is left to you to find person who is willing to share. It's not that difficult 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Hathor5(f): 5:40pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
pocohantas: Too obvious. |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Nobody: 5:41pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
LordKO:I can see you are on your period... what drugs do you use for your cramps? 6 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by LordKO(m): 5:41pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
pocohantas: Me wey be monk, an old man for dat mata, I no fit be your current or ex-bf na. Na ma sista you be, a good one for dat mata. See as you de pretend like say you no happy say I don give you attention 3 times dis year. Lol. Just take a new leaf and see as I go take facilitate your appointment as commissioner for finance for Abia State by 2023. But I no do you any bad, so I wonder why you de vex for me. Na ma personal person you be as always. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Hathor5(f): 5:42pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
pocohantas: Who is cooler than cool? |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by liberalchick(f): 5:43pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Palema007: The thing is men that really love their wives don’t open threads that their wives ‘denied’ them sex. When you think your wife is a paid sex object, this is what you get. Nobody talks or cares when the wife is in the mood for sex but the husband isn’t, somehow wives are supposed to understand sometimes your spouse isn’t in the mood for sex. It’s all about the man. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by pocohantas(f): 5:43pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
LordKO: Spare me this. Use it on someone else. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by pocohantas(f): 5:43pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Hathor5: I don’t even know how they do it. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Belafonte(m): 5:44pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Why did she give him sex before they got married if he was that bad at séx? 5 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Belafonte(m): 5:46pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
liberalchick: Men that don't open threads have already found outside help. The OP's friend is obviously a simp otherwise he'd know what to do 6 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Hathor5(f): 5:47pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
pocohantas: People are said to have more than 10 psychological defense mechanisms. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Sixfeetbelle: 5:47pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Unnerve: Some "traditional" men actually expects their wives to lie down like a log of wood while they do all the work. It emasculates them to see a woman being in charge of anything, much less in the bedroom he has the utmost right over. Woe betide her if she dares try to explore her sexual fantasies beyond what is recommended by the traditional values. How will a wife in such home seek this "sexual enjoymemt" that you speak of, pray tell? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Nobody: 5:49pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
liberalchick:Honestly sometimes Women are their own worst enemies. How can someone type: Wife guard your husband (which is quite reasonable) and someone will respond with such sarcastic post. Like it is always the women fault and men don't turn down sex too. The one that off me completely is LordKO that is having cramps on top another person's matter... . Nawa ooo 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Hath0r5(f): 5:50pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
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Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by LordKO(m): 5:50pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
pocohantas: Keep quiet there. Your right to liberty is limited to decorum, as far as I'm concerned, anything else is unacceptable. 8 Likes |
Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Hath0r5(f): 5:50pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
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Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by Hath0r5(f): 5:51pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
[s] Hathor5:[/s] 2 Likes |
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