This is an advice to those hard working men that works offshore or outside their residential areas or states and have to stay two weeks, months or more outside...
Don't tell your wife or Girlfriend that you are coming back any given time..Even if she knows the exact time you are suppose to come back, give her an excuse that you might be staying longer without being specific...
And try to come back at night especially when you don't have children yet or come back during school hours when everyone has gone to school or work...
Surprise her...You may get an idea of what is really going on when you are not around...

People that works offshore or people that works in another state will full your ears with stories that you can't even imagine...

A colleague was to go to site( offshore)...On his way going he forgot something... Begged to rush home to collect it... reaching there, his wife was with another man, the woman couldn't even wait for a day...He was speechless...And she has been fuvking that guy for 2yrs...
And this is not the only story...ask guys working offshore they will tell you...Even some neighbors use it as an advantage to Bleep your woman...
Stop telling your woman that you are coming back... Surprise them...

Not everyone has your friend kind of wife. And some wife are more smarter than their husband. Some bad wives are specialize terrorist, so those your learner strategy wouldn't work perhaps it could create discomfort in relationship. Wife and husband should have comfort when around each other.
One way out to spot a cheating partner is to have an open mind and not be blinded by too much assumption to an extent that you don't notice small adjustment in their behaviors and actions.

stanliwise:
Not everyone has your friend kind of wife. And some wife are mores smarter than their husband. Some bad wives are specialize terrorist, so those your learner strategy wouldn't work perhaps it could create discomfort in relationship. Wife and husband should have comfort when around each other.
One was out to spot a cheating partner is to have an open mind and not be blinded by too much assumption to an extent that you don't notice small adjustment to people.

Really... Notice Small adjustment...You never jam women... Except they are caught by chance..
Besides ..I agree is not all women...

stanliwise:
Not everyone has your friend kind of wife. And some wife are mores smarter than their husband. Some bad wives are specialize terrorist, so those your learner strategy wouldn't work perhaps it could create discomfort in relationship. Wife and husband should have comfort when around each other.
One was out to spot a cheating partner is to have an open mind and not be blinded by too much assumption to an extent that you don't notice small adjustment to people.

The wise in your moniker is well deserved

Do we also discuss how some offshore workers stay back for days to cheat on their wives who are eagerly waiting for them.

Women are arranged for them as soon as they come on land.

LadySarah:
Do we also discuss how some offshore workers stay back for days to cheat on their wives who are eagerly waiting for them.

Women are arranged for them as soon as they come on land.

Yeah Some men arrange women for themselves..Not Company...I have heard that so many times and it is funny and silly

gbami:

Yeah Some men arrange women for themselves..Not Company...I have heard that so many times and it is funny and silly

am into the maritime sector . company picks girls from different countries for us.

Josip Iličić

gbami:

Yeah Some men arrange women for themselves..Not Company...I have heard that so many times and it is funny and silly

Company does I'm a witness.

Boomzaga:
am into the maritime sector . company picks girls from different countries for us.

Wow...That's pathetic

This is one mess I cannot find myself in.
I can't pretend like I'm too drunk in the marriage just to catch my cheating woman.Rubbish! We already know what they can do,I'd rather live alone and have peace of mind.