Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Parisian: 7:03pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat.... Look I'm a feminist and I support you. Although the beating went too far as you made her bleed but other than that, I must commend you for taking such decision.
Imagine the nerve and temerity to look down on your niece and even hit her.
I hate nonsense in this life. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Obasijoe: 7:04pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Ova run for your life she just gave a tip of her. When you will marry her and she gave her to a baby boy the mean devil will come out her. For single men out there test your woman all round before marriage to avoid life time mistake 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by San2ski(m): 7:04pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. Awon 'do-not-lay-your-hand-on-a-woman' geng oya Conan show your paper chivalry Omo chop knuckle. Anytime you find yourself in awka nkakwu, come chew Heineken for my head |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:04pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Nuttella: I will marry a gentleman and no gentleman is a simp, you have psychotic and violent tendencies, you should be kept in a psychiatric ward since you dont see anything wrong in beating a person you love, that doesn't make you an alpha male, keep deceiving yourself. I guess you grew up seeing your father beating your mum. Little wonder why. ...No the person she was beating is an animal abi? Please go and control the simp you nicknamed a gentleman. Mitchewww. She never even see man wey go marry her sef. Keep searching. 7 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Lightangel65: 7:04pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Michelle55: You literally do not have any rights whatsoever to lay your hands on a woman.. She maliciously punished your niece and you did same to her, now tell me, what's the difference between you two? You could have simply walk away from the relationship seeing the red flags already.
Cohabiting is a big NO and shouldn't have happened, then your niece coming into the picture wasn't advisable at all. You are only teaching her that cohabiting with a man who isn't her husband yet is acceptable and good.
Well, cancelling the wedding is the right thing to do.. You both don't deserve each other because from the look of things you're a man who finds it easy to beat a woman when provoked and not feel remorseful about it and she's a woman who doesn't know the value of one's family and a trouble personified woman.
Both of you should go your separate ways to avoid reading on social medias how a man either ended up in jail for beating his wife to death or how a woman poisoned her husband's niece.
I would have accepted but your first line is stupid girls can chop beating if the f uck up. The thing you can beat your fellow guy for you can beat a girl same regardless of gender. You girls always wanted equal rights so get it 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by walkwithgod(m): 7:05pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Chukapage: which one is "making her do wifely duties" did he force her or tie rope to his GFs neck?? You women just love your victim mentality nonsense always pushing blames and forming victim.. again was his girlfriend forced to do the domestic chores? ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) Don't mind them, foolish lots. I wonder if theres a law that prohibits a man from cohabiting with a woman. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Ghostmode2two(m): 7:05pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
That your babe nor be here ooo |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by WeNoGoDie(m): 7:05pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
You did everything right apart from beating her.
Problem is that you just met the hidden weakness of the average Nigerian lady.
They enjoy tormenting subordinates in their home and sometimes it even includes their own innocent children. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Mac2016(m): 7:05pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. This OP is mad and still bold to tell the story of his maladies. God will help you not to be arrested. The lady is lucky not to marry a potential wife beater like you and a man that can't refrain his spontaneous emotions is not a man yet. It is certain you're not ripe enough for marriage. Responsible married men manage more delicate situations than you described here and yet don't flare up 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:05pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
nedekid:
She beat the child and she was beaten back. Do to others as you wish don to you! She didnt beat the niece, she only gave her a knock, which is very wrong but beating her back does not make any sense. I dont believe in an eye for an eye, an eye for an eye makes the world go blind, why should you beat someone you love, na see finish dey cause am sha. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by vickydevoka(m): 7:05pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
donstan18: A man will ALWAYS accommodate, respect, be friendly, spend and also value people from his wife's family, but a woman will NEVER EVER do the same. I don't just understand the kind of creatures these elements are.
These days, it's easier to make money than to marry a good and accommodating woman in Nigeria, Na u de accommodate. My wife knows me as a vindictive person. Forgiveness na after I don revenge. She once drove my brother I no talk o. Buh I warn her that no relative or siblings of hers will come visiting. E no reach 3 weeks her elder sister come say she wan spent one week. Na so I tell am watin happen na so she pack her load. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Akanoaaa(m): 7:06pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Purplekush: First of all, no be yur niece suppose do the house chores as baby of the house? 2ndly, understand that most times it's the wife and her family that'll be around your place most of the time. 3rdly, u sound like no be today this wahala start. For. u to kpokpo the young girl like means you've been low-key prepping for this moment.
well, na una sabi.. but then You guys should learn to accommodate each other or better yet learn how to talk things over as against being physical. You are not making sense |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Estellie: 7:06pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Where do these kind of women come from? Habaa!!! Someone like me will even kill myself to make your niece very comfortable and happy. I treat my visitors that way, it's simply courtesy. I think it all boils down to one's upbringing. Smh. So wait u beat her up? What kind of man are you?? What kind of toxic relationship is this? The idiot even said he took her to a clinic and will WAIT for her to heal ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) Truth is, your girl is just like those women that abuse little kids, the ones we see on the frontage of Nairaland and you are just like those men that abuse their wives, just like the ones we see on frontage. Both of you are mad! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:06pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Ishilove:
Next time kill her o, you hear? What if she collapsed and died while beating her?
By all means cancel the wedding, but don't kill someone's child while at it. Nah don't try to spin the narrative - said wedding will be cancelled because she tried to kill someone's child "while at it." OP is a breathe of fresh air as opposed to some weak men who rather sit back as their wives dehumanize and often times maim their maids/wards all in the name of for peace to reign. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by sekem: 7:06pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. 1, 000, 000, 000 likes for you!!! Na man you be 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by PeacenLove2: 7:06pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
bukatyne: OP beat up his ex-fiancée ex-fiancée up his niece
Are we seeing a pattern of the 'strong' beating/bullying the 'weaker'.
Perhaps the world has been looking at the issue of domestic violence in silos.
It is really the stronger picking on/bullying/beating the weaker in a domestic setting. The same old story, the strong prey on the weak, survival of the fittest. It really is the Animal Kingdom ... human beings may wear clothes and carry phones upandan but still inherently is what he is. Op, the girlfriend na winch. U sef you be mumu. How woman go get mind dey maltreat your own blood for your presence? Where is your self -respect, man? Imagine you put your foot down immediately she started. You were now watching her countenance change from the day you told her. What happened to open communication? U sef come dey throw blows ... animal kingdom ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Now you no wan marry am again after you don dey live together already. Better slow down ... breathe deeply and calm down! Two wrongs can never make a right. You both need counselling ... she is not so far from many women out there given the chance they are all infallible as you are. They will be screaming wicked, winch and all that but all na scam. Sometimes we need to set the boundaries clearly to check ourselves. You both need to be checked, find out also if your niece too has some attitude that needs to be checked because if there is something here that you're missing, you will keep having this problem. Keep your ladies together and live happily. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Markfedel(m): 7:07pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by macho44(m): 7:07pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. Bros, you be man. Even if I don't subscribe to beating up women, still you did well to stamp your authority. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Xisnin(m): 7:07pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat:
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
Regardless of the fact that this is a fake story for attention seeking purpose specially made for the gullible, your fantasized violence can't even be rivaled by those of nearndathals. People like you(real ones) don't last long as free person. I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
This is the crux of your fiction. You want to feel important among your fellow cavemen. As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome.
I was looking for the specific keyword throughout your writing and I wasn't disapointed. You must have struggled not to use the other words common to you men whining their own way group. Your supposed girlfriend allegedly maltreated your niece but your reaction is to go on a long rant and engage in unsolicited preaching. We await your next story of how you broke up with your fiancee because she refused to greet your mother. SMH 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nweike1: 7:08pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
You are 1 million percent right in your decision to break up. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Although, it was wrong of you to physically assault her. If anything had happened to her, the story will be completely different |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Dalby(m): 7:08pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by edward1106(m): 7:09pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
tehilah92: Am girl o, but part u where u said her cup has full today cracked me badly, abeg no marry, she is obviously wicked. Just be careful next time Don't be too quick to trust the OP, she may just be as wicked as the OP. For once, all the maltreatment was taking place, he didn't call her to order but only when there was a show of violence he responded. And too bad, in the same vein. The OP should start telling us where he had gone wrong for her to behave that way. I can't be that quick to beat her because of such, instead my anger will make me send her away for the main time. But something doesn't just add up here and OP himself is just a reflection of his babe.(angry people) 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Xisnin(m): 7:09pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
donstan18: A man will ALWAYS accommodate, respect, be friendly, spend and also value people from his wife's family, but a woman will NEVER EVER do the same. I don't just understand the kind of creatures these elements are.
These days, it's easier to make money than to marry a good and accommodating woman in Nigeria, You obviously don't know the meaning of accomodation and you must be living in a village environment. You confused not caring with accomodation. The trend this days is the nuclear family. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Enchantaurl(f): 7:10pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
ImaIma1:
After the beating, he ended the relationship. So why didn't he just end the relationship? Why did he even wait till she beat his niece. He watched her maltreat her and waited for her to be beaten before taking action.
I don't subscribe to the beatings. They could have been avoided.
Acting doesn't mean beating. Only a weak man beats a woman. And only a wicked woman maltreat and beats people. Both of then are equally wrong I'm in support of him beating her back. He was only protecting a minor that couldn't protect herself. Some women think it's okay to bully those they feel are weaker than them but when such is dished to them they start forming victim. This lady in particular the beating fit her. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:10pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. A lot of Nigerian ladies have a deep dislike for family members staying with them. It's usually because they don't want interference but some of them take it too far. I blame the lady for being cruel to the girl, but you guys should have ironed it out from day 1 and you shouldn't have beaten her. When you meet a woman and the relationship begins to get serious, let her know the things that she must cope with in the family otherwise, she won't like it when you bring someone. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:10pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
U Should Be Lucky & Be Grateful 2 God Dat She Has Shown U Her True Colours. I Would Advise Dat U Take Ur Stand As D Man Of D House. After Her Treatment, Give Her A Serious Warning & A Second Chance If She Persist With Such Wicked & Self-centered Behaviour, Don't Even Beat Her 2 Avoid Becoming Murderer, Biko. Just Break Up With Her Peacefully. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by ajagidiagbo1(m): 7:10pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
I like you. All you did pleased me except the beating. Nevertheless, you have done well. That your niece is more than a family. Her story is strong in your heart and mine. We don't tolerate nonsense near such people especially when they are harmless. Send the mother fucker girlfriend packing bro. Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Lightangel65: 7:10pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Nuttella: I will marry a gentleman and no gentleman is a simp, you have psychotic and violent tendencies, you should be kept in a psychiatric ward since you dont see anything wrong in beating a person you love, that doesn't make you an alpha male, keep deceiving yourself. I guess you grew up seeing your father beating your mum. Little wonder why you act the way you do, ass.hole. Shut up pig, you idi0ts dont have sense you ignored the maltreatment of the little girl and are blasting the man, his ex-fiancee deserved it i understand why he dosent fee remorse. You see why you feminists can never have sense, isnt feminism womens rights or does this only happen if its a man, so a woman can maltreat a woman and its ok for you. If you like go and beat your fiancees niece, na ambulance them go use carry you go morturary Disgusting pig 8 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Ishilove: 7:11pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Intrepid01: I’m happy for both of you...you just discovered that you were planning to marry an intolerant self- entitled 21st century bi.t.ch. while she too has now discovered that she was about marrying a woman beater, who lacks self-control and has poor reasoning skills to know that such issues are better handled with sense.
Congrats to you both! QED 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by SeanBeezy(m): 7:11pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
You no for beat am sha. That's a lesson for we guys, when it comes to family and relationships, we need to pay attention to those little things. If you can't stay with or tolerate any member of my family, there's no point being with you. I can't even imagine getting married and having my wife oust my family |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:11pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
OP is a feminist he doesn't condone violence against women, true equality 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by JordanMichael(m): 7:12pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Same way I wouldn't tolerate any trash from my wife towards my family members especially my niece (JOY). Next time control your temper plz and never beat a woman again. #byebyetowickedgirlfriend |