Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Doyou2019: 7:20pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
bukatyne: OP beat up his ex-fiancée ex-fiancée up his niece
Are we seeing a pattern of the 'strong' beating/bullying the 'weaker'.
Perhaps the world has been looking at the issue of domestic violence in silos.
It is really the stronger picking on/bullying/beating the weaker in a domestic setting. This is why I love you Bukatyne. Always tells it as it is. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Taywon: 7:20pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Let me tell u a short story.... Ever since my elder brother married his wife in 2014..... My brother doesn't welcome any family member, since 2014 till date my brother only called me 4 times.... E shock u ba?.... Even when i thought he could help me get a job.... Nothing show.... Being hustling hard since den... Hustle go pay laslas...
Wat happened to op is a miracle in disguise.... Tell her this '' don't Come Back" 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by flyingpig: 7:20pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Ishilove:
Next time kill her o, you hear? What if she collapsed and died while beating her?
By all means cancel the wedding, but don't kill someone's child while at it. story! Have you critiqued his partner for subjugating a little girl? I guess she saw in her, an housemaid that she can manipulate and beat whenever she complains. What happened to discharging some chores to her and handling the others by herself ? Nonsense women 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:21pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
One of the three most important attributes of my ideal wife is accommodative spirit... |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by AfroKnight: 7:21pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
bukatyne: OP beat up his ex-fiancée ex-fiancée up his niece
Are we seeing a pattern of the 'strong' beating/bullying the 'weaker'.
Perhaps the world has been looking at the issue of domestic violence in silos.
It is really the stronger picking on/bullying/beating the weaker in a domestic setting. Let’s look beyond the violence to the cause(s) of those reactions. OP’s girlfriend’s behaviour is reminiscent of those wicked stepmothers we read in children’s books. I believe she would have been told the circumstances surrounding the birth of that girl but all she saw was a small girl who cannot be sharing chores with her. She saw a girl she could use. Op took it too far by causing injury but I love how he gave her a dose of her own medicine albeit an overdose somewhat. 50-50. Or let’s say 70-30. But there’s a consequence for her actions. Forgiving and walking away is good but she won’t learn to stop abusing minors. You can only imagine the life of the teenager if her uncle were the only living relative she had and he were married to that girlfriend. Her life would be hell. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by rafindo(m): 7:21pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by adanny01(m): 7:21pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
alramon: I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....
how old are u self in the first place![](/faces/huh.png)
let me just point out some things for u here:
1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.
2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.
3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png)
4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.
5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...
shikena! Did I hear you say third party? His own niece? His own father or mother come be destitutes be that. A wife marries into a family not a husband. The earliest young girls of these days realise, the peaceful their marriage shall be. I hate women who think all the family i should have is her and our children. I believe in family and friends so no woman should limit me if she needs peace. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by mhizv(f): 7:21pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Lightangel65:
Chi? do you practice the ways of the budha Nope. Only study em |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:21pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Ishilove:
Jonny stop defending bad thing. What op did is killing a fly with a sledgehammer. ....No wahala.Lets all be careful when dealing with others. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Xisnin(m): 7:22pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: ....Did you read where he said he did talk to her Initially concerning the way she maltreats the little girl?.
I repeat,if any woman does not see anything wrong in maltreating house maids,beating them as if they are nobody,then there shouldn't be anything wrong if a man use that same beatings to put her in her place.
I hope you also see no wrong in the government locking up the violent man for a long time. I guess you know that after the beatings she got from the guy,she can't repeat such nonsense towards that little girl again except she still want the same beatings?
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) You must be very young. Beatings hardly change children's behaviour these days let alone adult. Only foolish and weak men sits and watch their wife's maltreat their maids and refuse to act.
That means the OP is foolish. He has been watching allegedly from the sideline and did nothing until he needed to excercise his violent tendency. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by MartinsD12(m): 7:22pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. A lot of things are wrong here, one you shouldn't be living with a lady you are not married to, you shouldn't have beat her because of your niece that's wrong, lastly you seem to over pamper this niece of yours so be matured and put yourself together learn to control your sentiment even though I do not support her maltreating your niece |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by pocohantas(f): 7:22pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Ishilove:
Exactly my point. Our grouse is not that he is defending his niece; the problem is the action the took in her defence. It is waaay too much. They keep coming up with nonsense analogies. No one is saying don’t defend your niece, but some balance!! |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by ogunsbanjul(m): 7:22pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
My candid advice is, try and take good care of that innocent girl. God will provide a good wife material for you who will see your family as hers and not as in-law. This is one of the reasons why I don't pity much on ladies of nowadays crying for not be able to get husband. Many of them believe all their husband's family are witchcrafts,evils or destroyers but their own families are saints. Well, my brother breaking in relationship is better than divorce. Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Bubzee(m): 7:23pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Wat she did no doubt is wrong but u absolutely have no right to lay ur fucken hands on her,u r even so proud of saying that.its best u just let her go. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Ishilove: 7:23pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
anonimi:
See as you give balanced comment. What is there to add? Nothing. Thanks The kind of beating that will bring out blood is a terrible beating and must be condemned completely. Expressing your displeasure by beating a woman to an inch of her life shows OP is violent person and a wife beater. I am not in support of the lady's abuse and maltreatment, but a bloody beating is not the solution either. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Chukapage(m): 7:23pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Ishilove:
You are quite wrong, and myopic in your view. I am in support of the cancellation because I detest people maltreating other people's children. However, some people are walking dead. Their cases have been finished in the spirit and they are just looking for who to hang their death on. If, while beating your ex she dies, we will not be talking about her ill treatment and abuse of your niece. We will be talking about lawyers and years in jail.
I have often said it here; if my relative is misbehaving, send them away. Don't harm them because you think you have a monopoly of violence.
You never pay bride price and you're beating her bloody. Thank God it is not my sister you beat up like that. Every bone in your body will be broken by men with stronger hands than you.
There are ways to correct a person, but beating her bloody to the extent of hospital treatment is taking it too far.
Aunty I'll beat you niece blue black break her bones on top if she's as stupid as Ops GF maltreating a motherless child. After the beating come with your "stronger hands" that time you go know sey for this Nigeria strong men are plentiful strong hands Yakpa! Awon maid beaters .. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Ishilove: 7:24pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Chukapage: Aunty I'll beat you niece blue black break her bones on top if she's as stupid as Ops GF maltreating a motherless child. After the beating come with your "stronger hands" that time you go know sey for this Nigeria strong men are plentiful strong hands Yakpa! Awon maid beaters .. Oya na. You never jam 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by play5050: 7:25pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
YourCoffin: Why did you beat her instead of sending her away? What did you achieve by beating her? Simple Question What Joy Do Men See In Beating A Woman? How Can I Even Beat My Kid Sister, Talk More Of Girlfriend Or Wife. If Her Cup Full Let Her Go Instead Of Beating Her, What If She Die? What If He Blind Her Eye? What If She Broke Her Leg Or Hand? People Should Reason Some Kind Things Before Taking Action Oh Women Are Sturbborn But Are Easy To Play And Fool. Una Way No That Op Pls Tell Am Make His Always Apply SIMPLE AGENDA By IZI-IYAMU 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:25pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Enchantaurl: I support him giving her a hard knock back.If she feels okay with intimidating a weak child she shouldn't feel bad with being intimidated. May you fiancé beat you to stupor in front of a child. Say Amen. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Lightangel65: 7:25pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
pocohantas:
They keep coming up with nonsense analogies. No one is saying don’t defend your niece, but some balance!!
Is it today I joined NL? As in, NL guys will support me for hitting my mam till he bleeds? keep quiet abeg! This is why you will always be a pig like your mother, you ladies are delusional, you always imagine stories to make yourselves the victims and men the oppressors. You girls are f00lish pigs, you oppress your own gender and still blame men for it. Filthy pigs 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:25pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Xisnin:
I hope you also see no wrong in the government locking up the violent man for a long time.
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) You must be very young. Beatings hardly change children's behaviour these days let alone adult.
That means the OP is foolish. He has been watching allegedly from the sideline and did nothing until he needed to excercise his violent tendency.
....If she kills the niece now all of Una go still call mumu. That was resetting beating. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by strangest(m): 7:26pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
your wife is a bully and what you did was to bully the bully... like "why don't you pickup someone your own size" 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Lightangel65: 7:26pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Nuttella: May you fiancé beat you in front of a child. Say Amen. She wont maltreat her fiancees nephew like you filthy pig. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:27pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: ....No wahala.Lets all be careful when dealing with others. I really pity your wife, it must be such a misery living with such a psychotic self servicing cunt like you. My heartfelt sympathy goes to her. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Lightangel65: 7:28pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: ....If she kills the niece now all of Una go still call mumu.
That was resetting beating. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) they wont talk o, but if it was the man who beat up her nephew and she breaks his head, they would say job well done, always against the man. Bunch of horseshits who cant stand up when their fellow women are being maltrrated 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Angelacruz: 7:29pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Michelle55: You literally do not have any rights whatsoever to lay your hands on a woman.. She maliciously punished your niece and you did same to her, now tell me, what's the difference between you two? You could have simply walk away from the relationship seeing the red flags already.
Cohabiting is a big NO and shouldn't have happened, then your niece coming into the picture wasn't advisable at all. You are only teaching her that cohabiting with a man who isn't her husband yet is acceptable and good.
Well, cancelling the wedding is the right thing to do.. You both don't deserve each other because from the look of things you're a man who finds it easy to beat a woman when provoked and not feel remorseful about it and she's a woman who doesn't know the value of one's family and a trouble personified woman.
Both of you should go your separate ways to avoid reading on social medias how a man either ended up in jail for beating his wife to death or how a woman poisoned her husband's niece.
but she had d right to knock a defend less niece bah...she got what she deserve 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Enchantaurl(f): 7:29pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Lightangel65:
Yes it would be right, feminists ke, so a woman can oppress another woman and its ok to you people? So feminism only applies if its a guy wrong? Fakes I swear. The said niece is also a woman so what are they saying? The op over did it Sha. He could have just knock her back and end the relationship. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Abasman008(m): 7:29pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by rafindo(m): 7:29pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Michelle55: You literally do not have any rights whatsoever to lay your hands on a woman.. She maliciously punished your niece and you did same to her, now tell me, what's the difference between you two? You could have simply walk away from the relationship seeing the red flags already.
Cohabiting is a big NO and shouldn't have happened, then your niece coming into the picture wasn't advisable at all. You are only teaching her that cohabiting with a man who isn't her husband yet is acceptable and good.
Well, cancelling the wedding is the right thing to do.. You both don't deserve each other because from the look of things you're a man who finds it easy to beat a woman when provoked and not feel remorseful about it and she's a woman who doesn't know the value of one's family and a trouble personified woman.
Both of you should go your separate ways to avoid reading on social medias how a man either ended up in jail for beating his wife to death or how a woman poisoned her husband's niece.
. Continue to defend child abuse all in name of sounding woke. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Angelacruz: 7:29pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Klass99:
I like the part where you beat her (your girlfriend)
I hate foolish women like her and lately there has been an influx of stories about foolish women like her on NL, from the Deaconess who burnt her ward's flesh, to another one who brought two of her sisters to live with her and frustrate the brother in law and another who injured her maid so badly she and hubby were arrested.
So, I was glad to see that you took action after talking didn't work. Two wrongs can actually make a right, it is called giving people a dose of their own medicine, so they know better not to mess with you next time.
I have low tolerance for BS myself so I don't advise or encourage others to tolerate, what I know I can't tolerate.
Chop knuckle abeg.
I totally agree 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Chukapage(m): 7:29pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Ishilove:
Oya na. You never jam If you like Go maltreating Small kids until you finally JAM... You know sey monkey and Gorilla no be mate. Hypocrites everywhere 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Lightangel65: 7:30pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Nuttella: I really pity your wife, it must be such a misery living with such a psychotic self servicing cunt like you. My heartfelt sympathy goes to her. My sympathy goes to you, you dont have a future with anyone with your behaviour you got from your idi0t mom. Dem for abort you, 1 Like |