Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

Nuttella:
You know, its such a pity that some women will never experience true care and love, good sex, they will never know what it feels like to be treated like an egg, to be pampered like a baby girl, to be loved beyond measures and your wife is one of them. They can only hear about it from other women, I feel for her really, that she will spend the rest of this hard life with someone like you. Such a damn pity! If only she have the courage to walk away, maybe she is masochist, who knows?

Thinking hard!!!

donproject:


I doubt this...this is my 10th year away from my own home, I'm living with third family, they are all my uncles. The first hasn't married though when I was with him, his girlfriend was nice to me though. The second and the third are married, I can tell you how their wives treat their family members and how they treat husbands' family members.

fof1:


NONESENSE TALK. The Display of d Girlfriend on d Niece is a No No. Am not in Support of Beating her at all. Also, a No No. But there must be a Balance of Thought here. D Niece is an Endangered Specie requiring PROTECTION BUT NOT OVER PAMPERING. She can work and does work with Joy,but for d inhuman treatment Observed by d Man in d House... it is Obvious he has a Life to Live,Pls.

JONNYSPUTE:
..... . Go and marry first .
Stop fucking around.She is very happy and comfortable where she is.A proud mum.

ogunsbanjul:
Wahooooooo, what of if the niece died in the process of the girlfriend knocking the the little girl? Are you now saying the guy should pamper the girlfriend and ask the girl to go and the complete the work additionally assigned to her?
She should thank her stars.

donstan18:
A man will ALWAYS accommodate, respect, be friendly, spend and also value people from his wife's family, but a woman will NEVER EVER do the same. I don't just understand the kind of creatures these elements are.

These days, it's easier to make money than to marry a good and accommodating woman in Nigeria,

Nuttella:
You shut up, I know you hate the truth, may it purge you.

Nuttella:
Stop telling me to go and marry, marriage is the least of my problems, you that is married, what have you achieved? You are still the self servicing violent cunt that you are.

Piss off!!!

Michelle55:
[s]You literally do not have any rights whatsoever to lay your hands on a woman.. [/s] She maliciously punished your niece and you did same to her, now tell me, what's the difference between you two?
You could have simply walk away from the relationship seeing the red flags already.

Cohabiting is a big NO and shouldn't have happened, then your niece coming into the picture wasn't advisable at all. You are only teaching her that cohabiting with a man who isn't her husband yet is acceptable and good.

Well, cancelling the wedding is the right thing to do.. You both don't deserve each other because from the look of things you're a man who finds it easy to beat a woman when provoked and not feel remorseful about it and she's a woman who doesn't know the value of one's family and a trouble personified woman.

Both of you should go your separate ways to avoid reading on social medias how a man either ended up in jail for beating his wife to death or how a woman poisoned her husband's niece.

kolade560:


u can't change an adult, its impossible.
people rarely change but pretends....

Abasman008:
it'll purge all your kids (that's if any sane man will put his sperm in a time bomb like you) the day you ever make any sound about a man not caring about your relative...

alramon:




you are not married to ur niece, u are joined together by the pastor or whatever to ur wife. So the niece is still a third party. You and ur wife or husband are ONE!

alramon:
I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

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sherylbakky:
Two of them for kill themself...they both obviously have personal problems to fix in their lives individually, none of them has grown to the level of marriage yet.

Lazycyndy:
Your ex-fiancee beat your niece, you beat her in return. Now tell me, what's the difference between the both of you.

And why pray tell are you co-habiting with a woman who is not yet your wife and making her do wifely duties?

This story could be fake but not uncommon to the behavior of most Nigerian men.

Nuttella:
Stop telling me to go and marry, marriage is the least of my problems, you that is married, what have you achieved with it? You are still the self servicing violent cunt that you are.

Piss off!!!

Nuttella:
You know, its such a pity that some women will never experience true care and love, good sex, they will never know what it feels like to be treated like an egg, to be pampered like a baby girl, to be loved beyond measures and your wife is one of them. They can only hear about it from other women, I feel for her really, that she will spend the rest of this hard life with someone like you. Such a damn pity! If only she have the courage to walk away, maybe she is masochist, who knows?

Thinking hard!!!

pocohantas:


That is what it has always been. People will pick on who they feel they are stronger than.

- Give these women a grown maid and they will say NO, this one pass them.

- Post pictures of a muscled woman and most men will say they can’t marry. She looks like someone that will be beating them.

Both parties know what they are doing.

alramon:
I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!

TOPCRUISE:

I agree with you on this. But do you think he would have discovered her wicked attitude if both of them have not been living together.

Abasman008:
kikiki.... See who wants to be pampered... Can you truly tell us the number of people that have slept with you before?... You still want someone to inherit you, pamper what other men have thrown away.....


Shame on you... Go and marry first and stop sleeping around and hoping one unlucky fool will give you a space in his house to ruin him...

Nuttella:
I totally understand, I am not in support of what she did, but she just gave her a knock, I bet she is a hot tempered person that felt the niece was being disrespectful, which is why she gave her a KNOCK, now imagine a scenario where he marries another woman and the niece having seen how he beat his ex to stupor because of her, do you think the niece will give his wife any respect or regard if she should send her an errand. I know how kids reason.


Cc:Anigreat

Chukapage:
If you like Go maltreating Small kids until you finally JAM... You know sey monkey and Gorilla no be mate. Hypocrites everywhere

rafindo:
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And ring signifies an award.

donstan18:
A man will ALWAYS accommodate, respect, be friendly, spend and also value people from his wife's family, but a woman will NEVER EVER do the same. I don't just understand the kind of creatures these elements are.

These days, it's easier to make money than to marry a good and accommodating woman in Nigeria,

adanny01:


Am supprised you are a man.

You don't sound married or you failed marriage 101.

Na pastor join me and my wife but na blood join me and my niece. I can divorce my wife but can never severe the blood link to my family.

Traffic rules say give way to traffic on your left but it doesn't mean you can claim the right when a trailer with failed breaks is coming on your right.

Just because you are married does not mean all family and friends become the past.

A husband and wife are told, her family is yours, your family is hers. Both families are joined.

This still doesn't stop me from marrying my wife's sister but on all levels, i cannot marry my sister or niece. Which bond do you think is stronger?

yettymuse:
you are very stupid for that mention! Son of a Gun!

platido:



On your first point of advice isn't it a traditional thing here in Nigeria a lady stays with a man first before they finally tie the nut? Ohhh mr. Adviser your own case is different..this over religious people with baseless advice....smh