wany:

You have said it all.asumming the girl friend could match him strength to strength ,do you think the clueless will come on NL and brag.I doubt

Don't mind the fool

Ishilove:

You people just abuse the word 'hypocrite'. What is hypocritical in what I wrote? Do you realise the kind of beating that can cause blood flow? So that kind of beating is justified for a knock on the head?

Oshey, Association of Women Beaters. Keep beating women until you land in Kirikiri or dem comot your teeth.

unfortunately women are at the fore front of Association of women beaters infact y'all are the chair person of the association. We see it on Fp damaging a minors body with hot iron and rubbing pepper in her privates untop wicked, intolerant and hypocritical folks.. Na from knock e dey start then it graduates to using mortar on her head...

Women are women's worse enemies.
Inasmuchas i dont encourage the cohabiting and beating, i want to say that you need to give your girl a second change and talk sense into your niece.
Consider the following:
1 Any woman you bring in will have same problem because you already set a bad precedence before your niece.
2 She might not even believe that's your niece in the first place
3 Your mother would have schooled the niece before getting to your house
4 Your niece might have eyed your girl codedly
5 Your girl felt threatened because she loves you since you didnt mention she had shown evil tendencies before
6 She knocking your niece's head was your best opportunity to send her away maturely
7 Family members are manipulative.
You should have sent your girl packing a day before your niece arrived and invited her later but gradually making her spend the night. You are not a good example for the girl child.

BTW if you see the way my daughter screams when my wife, her biological mother tries to beat her ehn, you will rethink your decisions.

On a more serious note, I fear who no fear woman.

If your aunt's husband is wealthy,
you don hammer but if your wealthy uncle get married, you don enter one chance.
Ladies why?

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Kikikikikikikikiki. Guy you wan kill somebody oo.

No mind the lady Wen never know wether she go be sun or Ipob news paper sef.

the girl is annoying..

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

Just thank God you are in Nigeria. If not you'd be in jail by now. You yourself are just as bad or even worse thsn your girlfriend...

You are happy to say that you beat up someons daughter to the point of bleeding as retaliation for a knock? Shame on you! You could have simply asked her to leave!!!

bomsilaga:
Women are women's worse enemies.
Inasmuchas i dont encourage the cohabiting and beating, i want to say that you need to give your girl a second change and talk sense into your niece.
Consider the following:
1 Any woman you bring in will have same problem because you already set a bad precedence before your niece.
2 She might not even believe that's your niece in the first place
3 Your mother would have schooled the niece before getting to your house
4 Your niece might have eyed your girl codedly
5 Your girl felt threatened because she loves you since you didnt mention she had shown evil tendencies before
6 She knocking your niece's head was your best opportunity to send her away maturely
7 Family members are manipulative.
You should have sent your girl packing a day before your niece arrived and invited her later but gradually making her spend the night. You are not a good example for the girl child.

BTW if you see the way my daughter screams when my wife, her biological mother tries to beat her ehn, you will rethink your decisions.

Give who a second chance? So that he will kill her abi? Let them gk their separate ways. If she goes back to him after this he will kill her.

kolade560:


A weakling and woman wrapper thinking everything shud b abt babee babee, that's how ur wife will slap ur mother and u will b saying I will handle it.
know when to act harshly as a man.
instead of this indomie generation to learn from elders they will b here arguing senselessly

Laughing at indomie generation....I bet you won’t have the nerve to talk to me if you meet me in real life...but I’m still laughing at you. In some years to come you’ll look at your comments on this issue and you’ll wish you didn’t type them��
@pocohantas

pocohantas:


Aunty leave his wife alone! Which kind wahala be this. Face his posts and leave his family out of this please.

I don't remember talking to you, stay off my mention.

lenghtinny:
It’s really scary that majority of the females are more concerned about what the op did to his girl than what she did to a minor....

Now I know why anytime there is a post about women maltreating wards left in their care, most of the comment chastising such women is always from the males than females.

If he sent her away without that factory reset beating, she will never learn her lesson which means she would still maltreat another person’s kid if the opportunity arise. But these one incident she will never forget for the rest of her life.....

You hypocritical lots will always have the guts to condemn men that sleeps with or rape minor, yet you will lay your hands on a minor without remorse just because you are not the mother.......

I don’t support domestic violence but the moment she talked back when he tried to correct her was the moment she opened herself to any and every possibilities that could arise from that situation...

Anigreat Na man you be, I love the fact that you have already set the disclaimer before all these weaklings and their goddesses come for you

Let the op thank his God that the beating only ended her in the hospital and not 6feet.if not the story here would have been different. Even you would have said something different.

I support you. What rubbish!

Chukapage:
unfortunately women are at the fore front of Association of women beaters infact y'all are the chair person of the association. We see it on Fp damaging a minors body with hot iron and rubbing pepper in her privates untop wicked, intolerant and hypocritical folks.. Na from knock e dey start then it graduates to using mortar on her head...

Driving her from your home or quitting the relationship will nip her abusive tendencies in the bud, but almost killing her before she even gets to that level you have described makes you a worse person than her. It means you will settle every differences in your relationship, marital or otherwise with your fists.

womenareapes:
shut up you piece of trash!

no woman can ever mess with my family because I don't take shit from them like you simps!

Nigeria women are so overated in this country. there value is worth comparing to 5naira note

useless set of black species with entitlement mentality.

the more we guys realise that women are not to be treated like human the more you will have a peaceful life.

I treat women like piece of shiit.

Clap for your self, i can't wait to reduce your daughter's to zero

pocohantas:


Please tell them what they want to hear. Lol

I am just imagining the scene. His fiancee knocks niece. OP comes out, some argument, hitting, continuous hitting...then bleeding. All that in front of a child wey them done knock already?

You see one of the things I’m putting in to practice this days is not taking the first suggestion that comes to my mind on issues, cos I’ve realized they are always spontaneous, likely to be irrational and never thoughtful....nothing beats people who have mastered the principle of emotional intelligence.

I love ur courage bro, kudo ! Family first.

bizhop01:

Clap for your self, i can't wait to reduce your daughter's to zero

okay your turn clap for yourself..what you said is sensible...

bizhop01:

Clap for your self, i can't wait to reduce your daughter's to zero

Lol

kolade560:


keep shut and don't spit trash.....u must be an Igbo person that don't see anything wrong when a house wife maltreat a brother in-law or sister in-law, the guy acted perfectly. call him woman beater it's ur problem, he corrected her in d perfect way. some women are evil and this lady wud have scattered his life being d only child of the parent.
bunch of culture less tribe.

Mr man shut that trap you call mouth, what has this got to do with tribe, let me tell you, irrespective of tribe, it all depends on how tightly knitted the family is, tribalistic bigot like you, your hatred will be your end. I've found myself in similar situations but my uncles came to my defense, i had to even plead on their wives behalf in order not to escalate the situation, the kinda bigotry in this nairaland atimes gives me headache.

I think you went overboard by beating her. People are different. When I'm working @ home, or anywhere, I don't care if anybody around supports me, but I've seen people who like ordering others as if they were sent, even in the church..
That's a v.negative attitude. If my woman maltreats my younger ones for no good reason, surely that's the end..

alramon:


ur niece is a third party...
but that doesn't mean she can't come and stay with u, that's why I said men should know how to handle things easily with women

Third party to what?

pocohantas:


Please tell them what they want to hear. Lol

I am just imagining the scene. His fiancee knocks niece. OP comes out, some argument, hitting, continuous hitting...then bleeding. All that in front of a child wey them done knock already?

Op sef should hope the girlfriend is not a spiteful binch, if not tomorrow if she has small headache or stomach pain, she will say na the beating wey oga give am don cause internal injury.

tchidi066:

Mr man shut that trap you call mouth, what has this got to do with tribe, let me tell you, irrespective of tribe, it all depends on how tightly knitted the family is, tribalistic bigot like you, your hatred will be your end. I've found myself in similar situations but my uncles came to my defense, i had to even plead on their wives behalf in order not to escalate the situation, the kinda bigotry in this nairaland atimes gives me headache.

Not bigotry but what's obtainable.
you women are wicked.
am not gender biased oo.
Be a good wife when u eventually marry, u hear?
next time don't tell a man like me who is old enough to be ur husband to shut up.

adanny01:

Third party to what?

third party in the marriage

alramon:
I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!

My attention was caught when you said, "no woman like third party in her house." This is not true, my neighbour's wife has been with her mother in-law for over 8 months and she is happy, infact the husband mother loves her more than her son ( the husband). Some women are good and accommodating ok, thank you.

Ishilove:

Don't mind the fool

even you... Madam codemn the wrong and stress the right... Say she could match him, you'd be happy she beat him? Your problem is that's it's the other way around? Ah madam I respect you o.. but you have failed me today

Maobichek:
My attention was caught when you said, "no woman like third party in her house." This is not true, my neighbour's wife has been with her mother in-law for over 8 months and she is happy, infact the husband mother loves her more than her son ( the husband). Some women are good and accommodating ok, thank you.

alright

alramon:


yes!

Seems religion has clouded your reasoning.

Ishilove:

Op sef should hope the girlfriend is not a spiteful binch, if not tomorrow if she has small headache or stomach pain, she will say na the beating wey oga give am don cause internal injury.

I swear, that is the next level. I know how daughters of Eve operate. Ishi, e be like you done do this thing before?

Intrepid01:


You see one of the things I’m putting in to practice this days is not taking the first suggestion that comes to my mind on issues, cos I’ve realized they are always spontaneous, likely to be irrational and never thoughtful....nothing beats people who have mastered the principle of emotional intelligence.

Well said. His gf has a lot to learn about life. OP needs some lessons too.

alramon:
I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!

Advice number 4 is onpoint.
Advice number 5, if your wife cant accomodate your immediate family, then no marriage.
Advice number 1, cohabitating is bad but you have to find a way a know the person you want t o marry.