Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Sixfeetbelle: 9:07pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
pocohantas:
I did. She dragged his wife in first. Did I miss something, Belle? ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) They were throwing insults at each other like freebies and candies at a Christmas party. All is fair. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 9:08pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: ......Chai. you need a good dick to make you happy. But I can't help cause as a faithful and loving husband,I don't keep side chicks if not,I would ve managed you. If I need a good dick, I have my boo to give it to me ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) , thanks for your concern anyways. I see what you did there, I'm very sure you are not anything close to faithful or loving, I know your type. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by adanny01(m): 9:08pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
alramon:
divorce is not a good thing, u are one ! I am a Christian but a liberal one. You need to read the Bible and understand it with your intellect. If you cant understand it yourself, you can be led astray. It obvious who you are and has clouded your reasoning. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by donMIG(m): 9:09pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
U too r u not a monster? U beat another person dota till she bled Weitin b una difference? But last last I dei wit u but I no just like the fact say u change am for her like that
No b all problem them dei use force solve |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Sixfeetbelle: 9:09pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Chukapage: She has felt the PAIN of physical abuse. She'll think twice next time before inflicting pain on a Minor... If she wants to abuse or become a wicked aunty to another minor she'll remember the last time she tried it , e carry am enter hospital she'll just behave... She was given her own very dose. If she wants to fight or abuse she should enter market her fellow craze women full there. Be critical and accept that the Op was excessive. A knock doesn't equal beating someone in such a way that they'll require going to a hospital. He even said he wasn't diplomatic in his action. He's dangerous even if he thought he had the best of intentions. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by ModestGal(f): 9:09pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Well, that idiot girlfriend of yours is a disgrace to womanhood. I hope she rots in hell. Useless she goat, I'm so angry at her. But the beating is not right, you need to apologize and go for anger management classes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 9:11pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Priam:
Indeed! The feminists should be applauding him for fighting for equality: equal rights, equal fights I think so too, it would have been extremely sexist not to hit her because she is a woman. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by ModestGal(f): 9:11pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:
Be critical and accept that the Op was excessive. A knock doesn't equal beating someone in such a way that they'll require going to a hospital. He even said he wasn't diplomatic in his action. He's dangerous even if he thought he had the best of intentions. I agree,but for beating a minor, she deserves to rot in jail. Useless girlfriend |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 9:11pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
adanny01:
I am a Christian but a liberal one.
You need to read the Bible and understand it with your intellect.
If you cant understand it yourself, you can be led astray. It obvious who you are and has clouded your reasoning. bro I'm a Christian too. Jesus said if u want to divorce, u give the woman a certificate of divorce. He continud and said that u can only divorce saving FORNICATION/ ADULTERY I can't remember very well So u don't just divorce, if there is a problem between u, u can give urself a little space to douse the tension. u don't just divorce! |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by ceejayluv(m): 9:11pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
ImaIma1:
Your comments make plenty sense.
Family is important. And a woman who cannot show love to them should not be considered.
However, I also do not subscribe to beating. We women could have very sharp tongues and a tendency to provoke. But a men should know that there is greater strength in walking away than succumbing to beating.
Plus what lesson is he passing to his young niece; seeing him beating a woman. Growing up, I saw that happen and it affected me so much that I feared dating for fear of being beaten.
Thank God I was able to sniff through my potential toasters and suitors to make sure they were not prone to touching women violently. Walking away in that scenario is not a solution to battery of maids and junior relatives by the women. I would personally call the cops on my woman if I ever see any outrageous battery of minors in my house. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Sixfeetbelle: 9:12pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
lereinter:
Just a dirty slap could've reset her brain
No need of beating to bleeding
But you can marry her if she decides to change, cos your niece won't be living with you forever.
She might have learnt her lesson
If she's proving strong head give her red card
He shouldn't marry her. He'll kill her. A man who's not remorseful after beating someone doesn't give a single care about that person. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Sixfeetbelle: 9:12pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
ModestGal:
Well, for beating a minor, she deserves to rot in jail. Useless girlfriend Define the "beating" and compare it with what Op did. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by rafindo(m): 9:12pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Juliearth:
There actually is a manual: walking away. . That a choice depending on your mood at that moment. Our mood are shaped by hormones in charge of emotions. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Geonigga(m): 9:13pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
A good factory resetting slap could have done a huge miracle rather than beating get mercilessly 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:14pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by gonkin(m): 9:14pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Family first such a girl can get jealous if u always call ur mom more than u call hers |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 9:14pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:
You should have followed their back and forth first. She didnt see where the married man was insulting me, she only saw my own, moreover I didnt even insult his wife, I was only concerned for her mental health, but I guess comprehension is very difficult for some people which is why someone will rush to quote me for no just reason. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 9:15pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
adanny01:
Can one divorce in a family?
But one can divorce in a marriage!
Which one is really for life?
Where did the family come out from? The sky? |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Juliearth(f): 9:15pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
rafindo: .
That a choice depending on your mood at that moment. Our mood are shaped by hormones in charge of emotions. Dont let your mood define your actions. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Shivah: 9:15pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Imustreturn(m): 9:15pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
You are a real man.
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Priam: 9:17pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by pocohantas(f): 9:18pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:
They were throwing insults at each other like freebies and candies at a Christmas party. All is fair. If you say so. I followed their comments and I am very sure she first called him a wife beater and irresponsible person. But you are right, they are better left to themselves. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by YorubaLord: 9:18pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
bukatyne: OP beat up his ex-fiancée ex-fiancée up his niece
Are we seeing a pattern of the 'strong' beating/bullying the 'weaker'.
Perhaps the world has been looking at the issue of domestic violence in silos.
It is really the stronger picking on/bullying/beating the weaker in a domestic setting.
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nicepoker(m): 9:20pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. work on your temperament first. you can only spank a lady physically if she abused you verbally. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nicepoker(m): 9:22pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
womenareapes: shut up you piece of trash! ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png)
no woman can ever mess with my family because I don't take shit from them like you simps!
Nigeria women are so overated in this country. there value is worth comparing to 5naira note ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png)
useless set of black species with entitlement mentality.
the more we guys realise that women are not to be treated like human the more you will have a peaceful life.
I treat women like piece of shiit. Your own pass my own o. If a woman abuse me verbally. I spank her physically. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by YorubaLord: 9:22pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Nuttella: Stop telling me to go and marry, marriage is the least of my problems, you that is married, what have you achieved with it? You are still the self servicing violent cunt that you are.
Piss off!!! Go and marry, aunty! ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 9:23pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
YorubaLord:
Go and marry, aunty! ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) I will marry when we are ready, we are not ready now. I hope I have cured your curiosity ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) . 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by ModestGal(f): 9:24pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:
Define the "beating" and compare it with what Op did. . Well, she's doing more hurt beating a minor who is an Orphan. She would damage the already shaking self esteem, and might make the teen depressed. Those pains are heavier than the physical beating the op gave her which I do not agree with. But in this case, she hurts more |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by EzePaschal(m): 9:25pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. Na Patience Ozokwo you been want marry oh |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by YorubaLord: 9:26pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Klass99:
I like the part where you beat her (your girlfriend)
I hate foolish women like her and lately there has been an influx of stories about foolish women like her on NL, from the Deaconess who burnt her ward's flesh, to another one who brought two of her sisters to live with her and frustrate the brother in law and another who injured her maid so badly she and hubby were arrested.
So, I was glad to see that you took action after talking didn't work. Two wrongs can actually make a right, it is called giving people a dose of their own medicine, so they know better not to mess with you next time.
I have low tolerance for BS myself so I don't advise or encourage others to tolerate, what I know I can't tolerate.
Chop knuckle abeg.
Madam... you too much, I swear! ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Ishilove: 9:27pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
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