Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Priam: 9:27pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
This you?Sixfeetbelle:
They were throwing insults at each other like freebies and candies at a Christmas party. All is fair. Also youSixfeetbelle:
Be critical and accept that the Op was excessive. A knock doesn't equal beating someone in such a way that they'll require going to a hospital. He even said he wasn't diplomatic in his action. He's dangerous even if he thought he had the best of intentions. All is Fair! And we're all for equality |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 9:27pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Acidosis: My observations:
1. You're a bad example to your niece. Cohabiting under the same roof with your 14 year old niece is wrong. Domestic violence in her presence is also wrong. what makes cohabiting bad 2. You should regret beating a woman so much that you had to take her to the clinic. why should he regret beating her 3. Your decision to call off your marriage plans is well thought-out.
4. Walking away doesn't mean your next relationship would be better. I mean, your late sister couldn't even tell you guys the man that got her pregnant. There was no mention about your dad in your write-up, so your mom is probably a single mother, and here you are, writing the same old story by cohabiting with a woman. why the invitation of his family? 5. Think about it. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Xburn(m): 9:29pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Both of una don drink pure water wey spoil. Let say she has a bad treatment of people other than you in you home. dats bad. Also on your own part...you disgust me ,Beating her up till you could boast of your satisfaction. Her cup don run over ni. Oga go and manage your anger first. Handling women in courtship and early marriage years is not html but python. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by AuroraB(f): 9:30pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. Thank you for beating her up. Thank you. May God punish other simps who would overlook these things. Amen! |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by cassbeat(m): 9:34pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Most y'all complaining about the op's cohabitation are hypocrites.. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by aalangel(f): 9:37pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Acidosis: My observations:
1. You're a bad example to your niece. Cohabiting under the same roof with your 14 year old niece is wrong. Domestic violence in her presence is also wrong.
2. You should regret beating a woman so much that you had to take her to the clinic.
3. Your decision to call off your marriage plans is well thought-out.
4. Walking away doesn't mean your next relationship would be better. I mean, your late sister couldn't even tell you guys the man that got her pregnant. There was no mention about your dad in your write-up, so your mom is probably a single mother, and here you are, writing the same old story by cohabiting with a woman.
5. Think about it. You have said ALL I wanted to Say....well said!!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by YorubaLord: 9:38pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Nuttella: I will marry when we are ready, we are not ready now. I hope I have cured your curiosity . Great! I'm so happy for you ooo, aunty. At least your amebo, gbeborun and poke-nosing into other pple's biz go reduce drastically. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) If you're getting married to a 'real' man I guess you'll have more time to 'serve' him than starting a fight on here. Good luck! ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by womenareapes: 9:39pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
bizhop01:
Clap for your self, i can't wait to reduce your daughter's to zero dumb 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Hushpuppies(m): 9:39pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
In your write-up, at a point, you started advising yourself, which, to me, is very splendid.
But as you grow up in life, you will learn never to lay a hand on anybody. Calm the situation down, call a taxi and ask the cab driver to drop the lady off to her home would have been a better option. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by richie240: 9:41pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat, Even though I don't support u beating her, but I support u a 100% in ur decision NOT to marry her. Unfortunately, many women are like this. The only ppl they'll tolerate are siblings from their own side, but once u moot d idea of bringing urs, na war! I just pray u don't allow d 'nackings' btw d 2 of u to make u recant ur decision to let her go. I know how dt 'pink morrafúcker' can reset some men's brain ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) As a matter of fact, u can even be using d acceptance (or not) of ur niece to test any potential lady u hope to wife. #Good riddance |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 9:48pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
But what if she had stabbed Op or knocked him down with something while the fight was going on?
Sometimes when you are told not to beat woman, it is for your own good. Because there's a very high tendency for her to get away with murder, all she needs is tears, sweet tales and a good lawyer. All will be said as Self Defense and she gets minimal punishment while you roll in grave till Jesus comes.
Please let's be careful ooo. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by richie240: 9:53pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
donstan18: A man will ALWAYS accommodate, respect, be friendly, spend and also value people from his wife's family, but a woman will NEVER EVER do the same. I don't just understand the kind of creatures these elements are.
These days, it's easier to make money than to marry a good and accommodating woman in Nigeria, Its a DNA thing really. Women are territorial by design. Why else do u think 20 gyes can get along for 20 yrs (living together in a single room) without rancour but a miracle for (just) 2 women to get along for (just) 2 yrs without bickering? |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Saltwood: 9:57pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. My nigga... I need to buy you some beer. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by kodix(m): 9:57pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
I wonder if it should be your girlfriend that will be serving your 14years old niece and she will be your gf madam BC you just wanna marry her,abeg run comot make she see better man marry,you want turn her to your family slave,just imagine a child that is still a growing girl of 14 which I know how arrogant and disrespectful they use to be that you are here defending that you beat a grown lady bcs of her,(spare the rod and spoil her ooh),by d way you're cohabiting a woman and u brougt your niece and expect d woman to be comfortable in d games you two are playing every night if u niece is around and still serve her, better start training that your niece bcs you have teach her prostitution. Even you too still need training bcs you lack manners,bcs you for no bring that girl in that dirty game upon say ur mum informed you on time bf her coming but u even choose to disrespect her claiming you love them[color=#990000][/color], bcs a reasonable person will dismiss his gf bf her comin.better apologize to your gf bf u comot make she see beta sensible man. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Samsonklin(m): 9:58pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. I love the fact u gave her a very good beating. My family over any bitch. Whether I'm marrying u or not. If you love me, respect my fist family. Nonsense. I have nothing to say. I'm here to read comments. Rubbish |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:00pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
YourCoffin: Why did you beat her instead of sending her away? What did you achieve by beating her? He gave her a taste of her medicine |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by humilitypays(m): 10:01pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. God Almighty will bless so richly my brother. You just made me smile with joy. If Nigeria had just 30% of men like you, we wouldn't be seeing married women maltreating everybody that is not direct blood relative of theirs they steps into their husband's house or let me say matrimonial home. Single guys reading this, please learn from this guy, he possesses the true character and poise of a man of integrity that we need more in Nigeria to correct a lot of societal anormally in Nigerian families today. Please never you ever reconsider marrying that lady. Dump her wicked, selfish, devilish ass and don't regret nor look back so that she can learn to treat other people and those below her economically and financially better in future. And to all the wicked, mean-hearted, selfish ladies reading this, I pray what befell this wicked, selfish lady befall you all, can you ladies join me and say a big AMEN ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 10:02pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
I wonder though, you don't like how your girlfriend treats your niece, you talked to her about it but she persisted, you kept quiet observing like a tiger surveying prey's domain. Then opportunity came and you pounced on her like woverine to draw blood.
Jeeeeezzzz your type give me chills. There's something deep wrong with you that you don't know yet. As for your girlfriend,I hope she learns to keep her hands to herself. |
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by angelfallz(m): 10:07pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
nelklyn:
Kudos, You beat me to it...with the words in bold
My siblings and I were having a convo with our mum sometime last month about women who don’t keep their hands to themselves ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png)
I’ll quote her “Everyone should keep their hands to themselves, make sure you keep your hands to yourselves but if a woman hits you first, hit her back”
I guess in the case of the OP, he felt his niece couldn’t return the kind gesture showed to her by his girlfriend. I’ll kindly hold the said girlfriend down for my niece and ask her to return the kind gesture before sending her packing...No pun intended.
I treat any woman in my life as an extension of myself and as such expect to be treated likewise.
N/B: My family are an extension of myself...This in no way implies that I will tolerate my family maltreating my girlfriend or wife. Well said nelklyn!! I like your family already, where you all sit down and talk about things, its similar to mine. ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) I have realised that women that think very well, always insist that people should keep their hands to themselves, and that if a woman hits you first, you should hit back. Its only a few women who think its their right to hit men and the men should calmly walk away. 1 Like
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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by PrincessC11(f): 10:07pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
God bless you for your comments ���� I been think sey na until you don marry before she supposed live with you.... Abi nor be so e supposed be? ![](/faces/huh.png) It's good. Your family first. When you're in trouble that's when you come to value your own family. Wife fit run, husband fit run but your family will have your back. I am not saying you shouldn't build your own family so you can rely on your wife or husband o. In this case, If what you're saying is the truth, then this your wife to be is just being wicked. I have this habit of strolling away from toxic relationships. I keep on warning you till I stroll away. I don't beat women, I walk away and never return. I'm a quiet and happy person, I don't need anything to spoil my mood. How many years person wan live on earth to go woman stress? But trust me, there are marriages made in heaven. If you see that person you go know if you're not carried away by looks on either party. Next time, careful, tell her to leave your house instead of you beating her. What if she dies in the process of you beating her? ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) [/quote] |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by ImaIma1(f): 10:08pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
ceejayluv:
Walking away in that scenario is not a solution to battery of maids and junior relatives by the women. I would personally call the cops on my woman if I ever see any outrageous battery of minors in my house. Walking away doesn't mean turning a blind eye or ignoring. It just means that he doesn't beat her. He could throw her out of his house, etc. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Ekemax: 10:10pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
This op no get sense. You allow u young niece to cohabit with u and ur girlfriend what moral are u teaching her ni. Beating a woman is barbaric bro. |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by divineappo(m): 10:12pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. make sure u don't eat her food while u are busy plotting or planning to end the relationship, else she may end ur life ooo, such girls are evil |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Anigreat: 10:14pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Dande55:
You are a very insensitive dot. I hope she recovers and get men stronger than you to climp down all your bones and kill you. I just which it was my sister you did that to. You wouldn't be alive to brag about how you beat someone's daughter up to the extent of bleeding. Murderer You wouldn't do shishi of a thing, i repeat you wouldn't dare do a shit. You dare me , you die. nonsense! when your niece visits you your wife or girlfriend can do whatever she wishes to do with her I don't care, but i must protect and defend my own niece. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 10:16pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Dande55:
You are a very insensitive dot. I hope she recovers and get men stronger than you to climp down all your bones and kill you. I just which it was my sister you did that to. You wouldn't be alive to brag about how you beat someone's daughter up to the extent of bleeding. Murderer Honestly this thing shock me, he typed with so much pride. No matter how much I try not to overthink the scenario, I keep getting a very dreadful scene perturbed by a mentally imbalanced being. Ewww. To the point of bleeding? Seriously? I really wish the lady can recover and Sue his proud ass! With bruises as evidence, he's on a long thing! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by femi4: 10:16pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. Insult ke, you don't deserve insult. Your niece coming to stay with you is how God try to open your eyes to the true character of the lady you intend to marry. As soon as she returned, free her |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Dande55: 10:17pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat:
You wouldn't do shishi of a thing, i repeat you wouldn't dare do a shit. You dare me , you die. nonsense!
when your niece visits you your wife or girlfriend can do whatever she wishes to do with her I don't care, but i must protect and defend my own niece. You are just lucky aswear!!! Just damn lucky!! You wouldn't even be alive to be saying these shits if that girl was my sister!! Foolish fornicator. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Brunosamel(m): 10:19pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Anigreat: I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.
Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.
I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.
During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.
Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.
Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.
My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.
Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)
What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.
Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.
I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.
As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.
I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.
Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.
If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.
Insults are welcome. you be real Gee, you are a man indeed, don't ever let any girl in this planet separate you from your family.... she deserved it.... you wife will come and she will love you and your family with the purest heart |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Dande55: 10:20pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Palema007: Honestly this thing shock me, he typed with so much pride. No matter how much I try not to overthink the scenario, I keep getting a very dreadful scene perturbed by a mentally imbalanced being. Ewww. To the point of bleeding? Seriously?
I really wish the lady can recover and Sue his proud ass! With bruises as evidence, he's on a long thing! Some Nigerian women no too get sense. If not, I wonder what a normal human being suppose to deh do with the muderer. Sha, nobi every girl the imp go try bully like that. Imagine beating someone to the point of bleeding cos of a 14year old arrogant girl? In a saner clime, th he-goat suppose deh rot for jail now. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by skyhighweb1: 10:20pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
alramon:
yeah that's true but living together without marrying is bad well his life, u live urs. |
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