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Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Premiumwriter: 10:41am On Aug 06, 2020 |
You want to fly when you're supposed to learn how to crawl. You want to fly when you have not even started crawling. I'm older than you and still about to start 100l. Go and learn a skill. Your parents are supportive... I have no parents but I don't sit inside pitying myself. I learned to write and buy all my clothes from the trade, give some money to my sisters for their cloths. Thank God my uncle helped with the skul fees. I'm currently using this holiday period to learn Python for programming. Just started yesterday self. The problem is you're lonely and bored and at the same time broke. Go and learn a trade and stop complaining about your life. You expect manna to fall from heaven abi you hear say money de waka cum meet people for house? Better start learning a trade and stop this pity story. I know guys on Facebook who dress better in the app than me, get more likes but beg me in real life for money. What you see sometimes is not reality. Some are just mirage. All of us are struggling to survive. The only way out is to know your lane and remain there instead of lookin at other people in their own lane. 38 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Dannonye(f): 10:45am On Aug 06, 2020 |
We need a support group 4 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Pweetyccee(f): 10:46am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Y not go and learn hand work than staying at home dear. It well with u sha 1 Like |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by kleolouis(m): 10:51am On Aug 06, 2020 |
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Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by kleolouis(m): 10:53am On Aug 06, 2020 |
[quote author=Premiumwriter post=92513317] You want to fly when you're supposed to learn how to crawl. You want to fly when you have not even started crawling. I'm older than you and still about to start 100l. Go and learn a skill. Your parents are supportive... I have no parents but I don't sit inside pitying myself. I learned to write and buy all my clothes from the trade, give some money to my sisters for their cloths. Thank God my uncle helped with the skul fees. I'm currently using this holiday period to learn Python for programming. Just started yesterday self. The problem is you're lonely and bored and at the same time broke. Go and learn a trade and stop complaining about your life. You expect manna to fall from heaven abi you hear say money de waka cum meet people for house? Better start learning a trade and stop this pity story. I know guys on Facebook who dress better in the app than me, get more likes but beg me in real life for money. What you see sometimes is not reality. Some are just mirage. All of us are struggling to survive. The only way out is to know your lane and remain there instead of lookin at other people in their own lane. make i come follow you de learn what's ur location 3 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by LabuleofNigeria: 11:06am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Dyu reside in Lagos ? If Yes, pm me, lets be friends 3 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by jbreezy: 11:14am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Only if you know my story, you would have been more hopeful....I was supposed to graduate 8 years ago but I dropped out of school due to bad influences...My mom had to enroll me in a polytechnic to restrart...But with the determination of not wanting to become a failure again, I made distinction in my n.d and went to uni again via d.e...I'm now a first class student in engineering preparing to travel abroad for my masters..Brother, it's not too late for you to have your life back...Since you are the intelligent type, tighten yur sleeves and make your parents proud again.. 35 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by padi94(m): 11:22am On Aug 06, 2020 |
flyingpig: Sir share your story anonymously here, you may want to help just 1 person but by sharing it here you will actually hell over a 100 people 5 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Nobody: 12:04pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Fake story;all for attention |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by denvers: 12:19pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Please op stay strong, most people got worser conditions, am 29 without job and money, I'm just resuming a tutorial job tommorow (part time), I began programming late last year, I know with more practice and projects, the sky is my limit. You are still young and can start by identifying what you love doing. Go and learn it. It will consume your thoughts and you will be productive and happy again without even knowing that you are transformed. 5 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Nobody: 1:28pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
gigante: Counsel how you dey.... Ubi jus ibi remedium |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Nobody: 1:45pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
YoungandDepress: You're living a very good life bro.....awnnnnn❤️... I like how you are currently.... Very very wonderful period of your life... Well, don't wonder why I'm happy for you ... Based on God, just leave him.... you're not wrong in hating him....... But keep him aside..... See bro.... Firstly remove suicide from agenda.... Now, let yourself to be broken.... don't force it to be healed..... I'm happy you know your past....in as much as a that past can affect thr present, but it doesn't for all decide the future..... Now you're broken, you need to look at your life..... Take out your eyes and place them infront of you... Look into yourself beyond the flesh...... Ask yourself who you are, who you want to be....ask yourself if you've really lived as you should..... Define what you want.....if you fail to define what you want, you'll never understand when to stop or how to do something..... Please stop comparing yourself......some of your mates are dead as well.....so please focus on yourself.....no two persons travel the same road......we all have our problems ....not everyone tells people their problems....... Hold on to your mom as she trust you .....I tell you that you don't need anything much again.....but the trust of your mom is extremely powerful it is something that is sought all over the earth.... luckily you have it.....whenever you need help, tell her.....she gave birth to you and she knows alot of you..... As I said earlier, define your purpose on Earth .....define your boundaries define what you want anf how you want it......school doesn't determine success neither does riches.......what determines success is the ability to achieve what the soul wants which is why you must define your purpose.... You made mistakes in the past, don't let them hold you....stand on top of them and strive more for success........ I dunno what else to say this is my one spoon of water.....you can more questions 3 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Nobody: 2:05pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
flyingpig: It doesn't stop him from airing his problems.....we all think we are worse till we hear from others but it doesn't mean we shouldn't complain 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by ThothHermes: 2:05pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
It's called process. Download and listen to Joshua Selman messages. This goes to all the other complainers on the thread also. 8 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Nobody: 2:09pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
DamonSalvatore: Dum Spiro Spero |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Nobody: 2:11pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
poiunt: Aswrrrrrrrr.....at this age, we have the space to make mistakes but not to regret 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Nobody: 2:13pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
micfoley: In as much as I appreciate your help, but I disagree with part of your comment.... Life moves on...... |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Nobody: 2:18pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Karlifate: Even though say I no be Christian, God bless you 2 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Karlifate: 2:22pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Xavfra:Amen. 4 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Hed0nist: 3:36pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
If you keep looking back, your journey forward can not go smoothly. In all you have written it shows that you've never looked at what you have now. Only what you could have had. You complain that no one cares about you, yet you push them away. You're in 200level not stuck in 200level. You are punishing yourself for things that your parents have forgiven you for. The first thing is to be grateful for your second chance. You're older and wiser in 200level, what advantage does that give you? Use it. Stop looking at others around you, what they think, how your current classmates are younger or how your agemates are further in life. If not you'll be miserable forever. If you want to progress in this your current situation, reason like this: You've done what is to you the ultimate fucck up. What is there to lose again. With that thought in mind, throw your pride away till you've achieved enough to deserve pride. Do manual labor if you're flat broke, you have no pride. Start thinking about the future. Make sure every decision and action is geared toward a better future. If you can do these the world is yours. That's if untimely death doesn't take you away first. Source: Your casting no even reach to touch the Hem of some of our fucck ups but still we move. 3 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by AlphaSegzy01(m): 4:16pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
I feel for you cos we have some things in common. I am 26,was the best in class in my childhood days. But coming from a poor home messed things up for me. I wrote WAEC twice, NECO thrice, JAMB seven times(my last score was 289) but no money to go to school till now. I have to struggle every inch of the way. But I have never lost faith and hope in God. Winners never quit. My situation has forced me to be tougher & stronger (No situation I can't adapt to or job I can't do). I never will give room for depression because I know I am destined for Greatness. I see my sufferings as lessons & pain as experiences.Reconcile with God, Read inspirational books, Change your mindset, then you will the positivity in every negativity. Everyone has a story. Never give up. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by YoungandDepress: 4:30pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
KingPipmarshall: Thanks man, I appreciate. 1 Like |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by YoungandDepress: 4:31pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Rickmann:Thanks bro. |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Arrogantbro(m): 4:34pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Send me a DM. |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by YoungandDepress: 4:35pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Charmingrascal: Thanks man, I don't actually blame God for what happened in my past but I do question him for some other things that happen in my present. |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by YoungandDepress: 4:37pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
VanTee20: I have sent you a mail sir |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by YoungandDepress: 4:41pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Xavfra: Thanks bro. I appreciate. I can relate to everything you said but sometimes I just feel lost again. 2 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by YoungandDepress: 4:48pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Arrogantbro: I tried to send you a mail sir but it didn't work. |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by UndauntedYOCA(f): 5:02pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
flyingpig:I want to know your story, not to laugh at or make mockery of you, I'm only interested. |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by YoungandDepress: 5:03pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Hed0nist:Thanks bro. Your words are encouraging. God bless. 2 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by YoungandDepress: 5:11pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
I have actually tried to look for a manual monthly pay job but could not find any within my locality. It's just as if things are working against my favour. I have tried so much in being a better person but every step I take still goes in the wrong direction. I'm not a lazy person. I have so much will to become better, one minute I'm beaming with positive energy, the next Second, I feel lost and dark. The energy is all gone. 7 Likes |
Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by YoungandDepress: 5:15pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Arrogantbro: Just sent you a DM sir. |
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