Ugaboy:
sorry sir, i dont mean to say this to a fellow man like me, i will spill as if im choked, stop justifying impotency if you are one...adopt a child, unicef can provide u quality child from their joint NG0, you will grow old and you will need a responsible child who can take care of your old age also whom you can trust your property on.
dont let ignorance rub you from seeing the light . I know how dark it is to u.
"mottor me okuk ikomo owo papa ameyong"..."ikpong idehe owo"
if you hav a child stop giving us wrong insight.

Ugaboy:
What advice will u reachout to those who cannot afford to raise their kids abroad. you have a good message, does your opinion really count.
we have been living this way, we hope to improve beyond our standard, The undesirable situation in Nigeria wont stop us from raising our better kids n beyond the standard we were unable to attain.
let's stop putting and fishing blames to government, "work out your salvation yourself, stop waiting for government before u become a better person, you make government depend on you for helps". If we all are advice to run out of this country, who will build your fatherland or village, we grow by joining hands together and not criticism and blames.
LET A BETTER NIGERIA BEGINS FROM YOU, MAKE IT A DUTY TO RAISE YOUR KID IN WAYS THAT THEY WONT CONTRIBUTE TO SOCIETAL PROBLEM.

Oluromantic:
If your parents were thinking this way, you won't be typing this today.

ZINIBANKS:

Honestly bro

Heartlessbanker:
I'm not having kids

Westernlove:
I hope you aren't talking to Shiithole Zombies? If so you are just wasting your precious limited time. If I were you, I would channel my precious time, data and energy Into research on how to keep on manipulating and capitalizing on these Id.iots and destitutes(Skyrocketing Population) more. Have you ever seen the likes of Tinubu and co or those multi-billionaires and millionaires complain about the sorry situation of Shiithole. You are on a lost course.....You better wake up before and make your own Fortune before the Anarchy reach the maximum level.......I used to think and sympathize like you way years back but now I've acquireda lot of Wisdom and classified Insight Into how this world operates and exactly what Is happening In Nigeria......Right now as I'm typing, Many people are currently making BABIES lol......

SweetCunt97:
@Op your unique ideals are unnatural for us OK. Go abroad where you'll find ur fellow Anti-natalists

ZINIBANKS:

This country has been in doom even before you were born
And for you to think it gonna be better soon or later is clearly impossible
Cause we black especially our leaders in Nigeria have poor leading skills what they care about is how to loot Money
Imagine the minister of finance saying they spent 500m feeding schools during the Lock down
And whereas they were no opening of schools and churches during the pandemic
Just do your kids that favor of not raising them here
They will later be grateful to you in the near future

Ugaboy:
i will give them a better life, but that wont make neglect nigeria for leaders who wont live for ever. That of 500m, the FG made fool of us all...i wonder the kids they fed during lockdown, non picture, video, or news projected then to bring to our notice.
it a pity.

grim33:
Sir if I may ask.
Are you a parent?

I have no doubt that most parents will do the best they can for their children. But did the children ask them for any of this?

It’s a fascinating thing that humans recall the pleasure and positive experiences more than they can remember the pain and negative experiences.

The brain protects us from honestly judging our own experience overtime that why a Nigerian no matter the pointless suffering and how poor they are will tell themselves that they have lived a great life even tho it’s not compared to an average person from a place like eg Denmark .

Every country have their own problems, the earth is horrible place to life in general and constantly try to kill us.

Is bringing a brand new human to join in this madness a good idea ?

Even tho this is basically their faith .
Birth —-> struggle though life——-> die a slow and painful death (more often than not) or fast and abruptly die for an accident or murder .

All of This can be avoided. We live in a world where we fight over a finite amount resources with a system that train you to work as money slave until you die , Making more humans in a soon to be overpopulated world , unjust wars are constantly being fought all over the world and people keep repopulating the once who will kill others and the ones that will be killed . Bringing a child to this world let alone this country is an avoidable and unnecessary evil being done to the child.

I’m yet to hear a parent give me a fair enough reason why the decision to have a child is in the child and just the child’s interest.

You’re talking about Nigeria like it’s not just a piece of dirt land that doesn’t give a shit to your existence. It has always been here and will be long after you’re gone.

#dontbringchildrentohellknowing100%theywillsuffer

Heartlessbanker:
what if we are rich and have the facts to provide for our children for the first that years if the life;should we still not have birth to them?

Preshieben:
Take this to politics section

Femzaremz:
thank u op!this is very apt! This whole life is POINTLESS! U will see a man doing security work earning 25 to 30thousand naira having 3 to 5 kids and u will wonder what kind of care,legacy or quality education he wants to give those kids! Las las they will also turn security or cleaners like their silly parents! It is even worse in the north!

grim33:
No mind them Yoruba people will say you should count other people children for their parents. I go just dey laugh.

Raising children in poverty is the most common form of child abuse and human rights violations in history.

xxxXXXxxx:


you don't need to chip in cheap tribal jab!

grim33:
No mind them Yoruba people will say you should count other people children for their parents. I go just dey laugh.

Raising children in poverty is the most common form of child abuse and human rights violations in history.

Femzaremz:
exactly! In economics there is something called 'circle of poverty' and im sure u can guess the continent where this is most rampant! Yet our people never learn, they still keep on believing in one nonexistent deity for a better tomorrow! So sad!

grim33:
I hear you bro. I have an idea of what to sell many foolish people because they will never stop breeding children they can't feed let alone know what horrible things awaits them in this world. Let use them and make money like Jeff of Amazon. They exist just to chase money and spend it on mostly useless stuff they don’t need. I will make sure I take advantage of this endless baby factory and money off them that’s what they are useful for.

#stopmakingslaves
#stoppointlesssuffering
#sellbabystufftostupidpeople

Filly3:
I love this