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Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by facts2020: 10:06pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Please why do parents find it hard to apologize? And most of them are good at abusing children and causing psychological damage(s). Is it wrong to move on from a parent who has done lots of harm?? Psychologically I mean! |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by youngblaq: 10:33pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
They are secretly afraid they'd die if they apologise. You can't move on from them naa..but give dem laaaarge space. The longer you're away from them and their reach the more respect you earn when next you see them. But make money o...cuz if you come back without levels, omo nothing for you o! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
I wud av loved if u deeply explain with examples of situation on ground tho, cos u may av ur own faults too. Nevertheless, what u'v said is very common among Africans. Kindly change the tittle to 'African Parents' pls instead of 'Parents' in general. U'v described a typical african parent here, they think they are training by sometimes hurting/harming a child. I actually do think there sud be a subject like "parenting" in schools (at least at secondary level) To answer your question, it's wrong to "move on" but not wrong to keep strict boundaries from them for u to be psychologically balanced. PS : as for d first question- They think cheating children as regards apologizing is part of training and courtesy, which is totally wrong. Our generation have to make a change |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by CallistaTea(f): 11:17pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
African parents thinks they are always right, whereas sometimes they are not and they would not accept your views because they think we're inexperienced and too young to understand and solve life problems.But they are always and still the best!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by illicit(m): 11:27pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
They can never be wrong smh |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by Nobody: 3:23am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Basically, African parents but the future generation has the answer to this question, i.e when you and I becomes full aged parents too.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by donstan18: 7:05am On Aug 07, 2020 |
You'll understand better when you become a parent. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by yvelchstores(f): 12:49pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
donstan18:no oh,please there is no excuse. I am a parent and I apologize to my child when I am wrong either to her or to someone else in her presence . apologizing will help the kids desern between right and wrong more easily. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by facts2020: 4:32pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
youngblaq: Na olosho dem be? Why nothing if no money � |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by LordKO(m): 4:59pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Most parents do tender an apology to their children; you need to understand that there're different ways to tender an apology. Children do tender their apology to their parents in oral and direct forms, while most parents do tender their apology to their children through action, and even when they do so orally, they usually do it indirectly. Meanwhile, in your case, it seems you've abusive parents as your submission connotes; if that is the case, moving away from them is your best bet. Make sure you aren't the instigator, though. |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by youngblaq: 5:37pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
facts2020:For you area bro...poor men get levels?? |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by SweetCunt97(f): 6:18pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
facts2020:No it's not wrong at all. You owe yourself happiness. Find that happiness and forsake whatever brings you sadness |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by SweetCunt97(f): 6:19pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
facts2020:That's the society we live in. No money, no respect. |
Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Apologize? by ednut1(m): 6:45pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
culture here in 9ja is backward. Parents are always right |
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