She mean a lot to me like she's a rare gem but she has a fault. She's on nairaland too and she may see this and I don't care cos I'm fed up. I said some hurtful words to her and it's been a whole 3 weeks now yet she can't forgive. I really didn't mean what i said and we both know they weren't true. She told me she forgave me 2 weeks ago but her actions are the opposite. She even blocked my line till date. She be asking me if I can take back my words. Does God ask us to take back our deeds whenever we seek his mercy Now I texted her to call me whenever she's got a forgiving heart even the Holy Books encourages us to forgive.
How can one cope with an unforgiving spouse?

Eyah. As you don talk, beg but i hope say you never cry sha. Well dem talk say do your best and leave the rest. If your apology is sincere as she is still not buying it. Let her be. But if you think buying her bitcoin will change her mind, i'm your plug

Why waste time wit someone who can't forgive? Shey God dat forgives doesn't have sense ni? N she b ur babe 4 dat matter o. Mr man walk away b4 she use her bitterness turn u to emmmmmmm wetin be the name of that woman wey shoot her husband that year sef?

How can you be in a relationship with a Nairaland vagina person? Is her waist adorned with golds?

What's her username to begin with? We would like to invite her to the thread to read her own side of the story.

This is still a subtle apology letter to her

I guess you have posted this on your WhatsApp status and Facebook status and she didn't view it probably cos you have been blocked, so you decided to check Nairaland

Dicktion:
She mean a lot to me like she's a rare gem but she has a fault. She's on nairaland too and she may see this and I don't care cos I'm fed up. I said some hurtful words to her and it's been a whole 3 weeks now yet she can't forgive. She told me she forgave me 2 weeks ago but her actions are the opposite. She even blocked my line till date. She be asking me if I can take back my words. Does God ask us to take back our deeds whenever we seek his mercy Now I texted her to call me whenever she's got a forgiving heart cos I can't do with someone who doesn't forgive, even the Holy Books encourages us to forgive. How could a soul be so rigid towards forgiveness and expect God to forgive them?
How can one cope with an unforgiving spouse?

The boldfaced words, can you explain better to us so we understand and give a more appropriate advice?

My guy, give that damsel space. when her head come down she go find u come

Coder2Client:
What's her username to begin with? We would like to invite her to the thread to read her own side of the story.

Does that really matter? We are talking forgiveness and based on what we were taught in schools and churches it is OK to forgive. Or does one have to take a whole year to profer forgiveness

Coder2Client:
What's her username to begin with? We would like to invite her to the thread to read her own side of the story.

We the Elders are waiting to hear from her

Like you said, you can't do with someone who is unforgiving. You have apologized and if she doesn't forgive you, Oga, move on. Truth is forgiveness is very much needed in a relationship and anyone who finds it so difficult to forgive shouldn't be rolled with.

Also, you should learn from this experience that when you are hurt, it is better to keep quiet so that you do not regret the actions you take later.

UDUJ:


The boldfaced words, can you explain better to us so we understand and give a more appropriate advice?

Told her she's not my class, that she a low quality bitch and compared her to some other girl

Dicktion:
She mean a lot to me like she's a rare gem but she has a fault. She's on nairaland too and she may see this and I don't care cos I'm fed up. I said some hurtful words to her and it's been a whole 3 weeks now yet she can't forgive. I really didn't mean what i said and we both know they weren't true. She told me she forgave me 2 weeks ago but her actions are the opposite. She even blocked my line till date. She be asking me if I can take back my words. Does God ask us to take back our deeds whenever we seek his mercy Now I texted her to call me whenever she's got a forgiving heart cos I can't do with someone who doesn't forgive, even the Holy Books encourages us to forgive. How could a soul be so rigid towards forgiveness and expect God to forgive them?
How can one cope with an unforgiving spouse?

It's good. Next time you learn to curtail your excesses. Men take ladies with forgiving hearts for granted. Stew in her unforgiveness and no nonsense nature.

Dicktion:
Told her she's not my class, that she a low quality bitch and compared her to some other girl

Haaaa! Tell me this and it is over. Infact you an idiot for trying to reach her. Go look for girl ur class, animal.

GboyegaD:
Like you said, you can't do with someone who is unforgiving. You have apologized and if she doesn't forgive you, Oga, move on. Truth is forgiveness is very much needed in a relationship and anyone who finds it so difficult to forgive shouldn't be rolled with.

Also, you should learn from this experience that when you are hurt, it is better to keep quiet so that you do not regret the actions you take later.

i did man I did. But I honestly dunno what else she wants. I haven't taken any lady seriously and the first one I did got this issue of unforgiveness and that's her. This life sha.

Give her time, she'll loosen up

Dicktion:
Told her she's not my class, that she a low quality bitch and compared her to some other girl

Haaaaaa , Brooooooooo damn

No girl will take that insult sha. You really belittled her and compared her to another girl.

Give her sometime to calm down. That's my best advice. Please next time try to avoid saying such hurtful words, women are delicate creatures and not hardened like us Men.

Don't worry she will calm down. Cheers

SweetCunt97:
Haaaa! Tell me this and it is over. Infact you an idiot for trying to reach her. Go look for girl ur class, animal.

if you like take it personal dude already knows why you're attacking him nd he doesn't have anything to say to you right now. Maybe later

Dicktion:

Does that really matter? We are talking forgiveness and based on what we were taught in schools and churches it is OK to forgive. Or does one have to take a whole to profer forgiveness

We want to know whether we can advice her to back out of the relationship with you or endure and enjoy it with you.

Judging by your writeup, you said ' you said some bad things to her' and you are now seeking her forgiveness. Why didn't you guard your heart and mouth that you hurled those bad hurting words on her?

Words are like eggs. If broken, it will be very difficult to amend.

If she happens to be the one that hurled those hurting words on you, you will be saying some stuff about female folks.

Coder2Client:


We want to know whether we can advice her to back out of the relationship with you or endure and enjoy it with you.

Judging by your writeup, you said ' you said some bad things to her' and you are now seeking her forgiveness. Why didn't you guard your heart and mouth that you hurled those bad hurting words on her?

Words are like eggs. If broken, it will be very difficult to amend.

If she happens to be the one that hurled those hurting words on you, you will be saying some stuff about female folks.

And that justifies no forgiveness?

Dicktion:
Told her she's not my class, that she a low quality bitch and compared her to some other girl

This is too much of you. I will advise her to move on not to look back.

Dicktion:
And that justifies no forgiveness?

What do you want her to do after she told you that she has forgiven you?
To rush back to you and kiss you to show she has forgiven you? If a lady does that she might mean harm to you.

If she said she forgive you, let her be. Keep looking for another lady.

Coder2Client:

This is too much of you. I will advise her to move on not to look back.

I don't really have to force her to stay but at least she should forgive then move on if she wanna. Is that too hard

Dicktion:

I don't really have to force her to stay but at least she should forgive then move on if she wanna. Is that too hard

But she told you she did. It is not easy for her to forget being called bitch, slut or all manner of derogatory words.
You are the one reading meaning to her behavior. Let her be. Move on to next Lady, and this time with your mind and mouth guided.

Dicktion:
Told her she's not my class, that she a low quality bitch and compared her to some other girl

Damn! This is heavy!

Are you sure she's your girlfriend? How old is the relationship?

Oga I just want to grab those your hairy balls and squeeze it with all my Strength and if you Scream, you'll be given Several Hot Slaps

That's not a good quality. be careful

It depends on the gravity of what you said, moreso, holding grudges against you for that long can only mean one thing= she doesn't love you enough and she is looking for an escape route to leave you.

Dicktion:
Told her she's not my class, that she a low quality bitch and compared her to some other girl

You told her this shit and you expect forgiveness..you are an idiot ..I am even vexed you think you can say anything to someone and use the bible to cover up your mess ..you are a devil..she should be the one to happily stay off your life ..this wouldn't be the first time you must have told her horrible things and it wouldn't be the last ...she deserve better ..you have no conscience of whatsoever.

seeing grown ass men whine over this "vagina people" gives me a big headache honestly.

You can forgive but it take long way to forget

Dicktion:
Told her she's not my class, that she a low quality bitch and compared her to some other girl

You told her exactly how you feel about her, you trampled on her self-esteem.. there're some things you don't say to a lady especially someone you claim to love. That lady is better off without you! She deserves someone who will appreciate and adore her! Someone who feels honored to have her.. she deserves better!