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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by adajoe555: 8:39am On Aug 10, 2020 |
this matter tie wrapper oh lalasticlala ... this need to reach promise Land oh 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 8:44am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Nothing beats privacy but cancelling wedding plans is her going too far. My cousin lived with her mother in law and father in law for one year+, till they finally decided to gift them their own house, it could be a test of faith. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Aimerosa25(f): 8:47am On Aug 10, 2020 |
She's right,the guy is a mummy's boy 13 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by idahme(m): 8:59am On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: She is doing the right thing if she vows to pay for the rent till the house project is completed.... 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by LadySarah: 9:07am On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:Pls let him marry his mother. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by frozen70(f): 9:35am On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: Well to me, it depends on the strength of their love Cancelling the wedding because of family house is not really a good idea She can't be a full time house wife, so she will be going out and coming back The house the husband is talking about, has he bought land already or yet to think of that But why can't they join hand and get even if its a room alternatively, if she has the money, let her rent a room let them start from there I know that your sister's worries is because of family and inlaw wahala staying in a family house And no matter how hot it gets, it doesn't burn her husband but her Anyway like I said, it depends on the weight of their love Don't be surprise the guy is up to something, if by now he hasn't budgeted for land talk more of building it 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:44am On Aug 10, 2020 |
It depends, how big is the house? 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by infogenerator(m): 9:51am On Aug 10, 2020 |
zed7:Bro you're wise, sometimes love and affection isn't enough, this marriage is already dead on arrival. The wise thing to do is stay away from such a woman. But it will only take a man with a complete set of functional brains to look over feelings and affection in matters like this. 9 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cicodeblazzer(m): 9:59am On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:Ur sister is an ode. Her love for him is not strong. She should have used her onions to convince him to rent an apartment and use a greater part of her onions, woman-to-woman to pull her mother-in-law and all fondly memories out from that house into the new house. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ITbomb(m): 10:23am On Aug 10, 2020 |
If the man's mum is aged and he is the only son/child, it can be accommodated, other than that, it's is a no no 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by merieam16(f): 10:32am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk:So she should go and rent d house without her husband constent abi or u didnt read d part dat he said he cant live without his mum. All dez small kids using phones u ll just b thinking with ur fingers rather dan ur head 30 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ruffkenny: 10:40am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Your sister is doing the right thing,cos no matter how loving his mum is,she would assume control of their marriage and hence become an intruder dictating for the man how to run his marriage..From the beginning it was not supposed to be so,who says he can't rent an apartment before he can build his own house,that's a weak excuse..let your sister hold unto her decision,if the guy is man enough he will do the right thing which is moving out from his mother and father's house to live with his wife.. 12 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Emarvel(m): 10:43am On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:If the man is an only child and the house is big, why not? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Frenzy01(m): 10:44am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Don't mind those people wey dey talk nonsense.. Your sister did the right thing.. What kind of a simp would marry only to be living with his mother, that's very very unnecessary.. If he's not financially buoyant to rent a simple 2 rooms then he shouldn't be talking of marriage at all. Even the Bible said a man an a woman would both leave their parents house and start a new one by themselves and they 2 will become one 31 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by kullozone(m): 11:02am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Powerfly: He's indeed a SIMP! 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by luxx24: 11:11am On Aug 10, 2020 |
sexy74: U r nt crious |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Powerfly(f): 11:17am On Aug 10, 2020 |
kullozone:i talk am nah. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by DaInferno(m): 11:20am On Aug 10, 2020 |
this one never sit down for house do her now? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by sorepco(m): 11:48am On Aug 10, 2020 |
He is not serious. Ur sister is a visionary. She can see what will happen in that hse later on. That man will not build any house. OluwaLina1: 14 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by sexy74(m): 12:36pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
luxx24:For saying the truths or what ? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Liposure: 12:56pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
bold step from your sista. But where it leads i dont know 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
sexy74:You didn’t answer any question you ran to insults. Don’t worry, there’s divorce so I won’t have to kill anyone. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by dominique(f): 1:58pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
I love my mother in-law but would I want to live with her permanently? Heck no! As much as I love my sons, would I want them to live with me when they're married? Heck no! That she doesn't want to live with her fiance's mother does not mean she does not love or respect the mum. She just craves her space and privacy like every newlywed should. She should not be shamed or insulted for this. It's the man that's too attached to his mother's apron strings that needs a resounding knock on his head. 64 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by NobleDeSage001: 2:19pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
There is something your sister saw that she is trying to avoid. Perhaps, the mother-in-law will treat her like a maid if they live in her house. If your sister's husband is sensitive and considerate, he can rent an apartment since he is well to do. Your sister may never be comfortable living in her mother-in-laws house. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ademola1580: 2:28pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
zed7: the man is not mature, maturity Is not all about age,and stature.you must be financially mature before he gets marry,their won't be privacy if they stay with the parent,and also rift and problem may start btw the wife and mother inlaw.the best thing for them is to get an apartment first,after den they can think of getting married ademola1580: zed7: the man is not mature, maturity Is not all about age,and stature.he must be financially mature before he gets marry,their won't be privacy if they stay with the parent,and also rift and problem may start btw the wife and mother inlaw.the best thing for them is to get an apartment first,after den they can think of getting married 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 2:35pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
dominique:Thumbs up! 13 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 2:37pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
ademola1580:Thank you 1 Like |
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