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Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by ma373733(m): 5:40pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Smile4mee01: Old ways doesn't work this life is dynamic we gats follow suit girls have changed boys too . there's fake life everywhere!!! Pls tell me can you marry a random girl or random guy? Abraham nkor him no get concubines? In the old times they do have concubines for konji we should stop thinking those people of old angels 1 Like
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Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Patrioticman007(m): 5:48pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
DAVE5: Hypocrisy !!!.
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Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Omoejigbahe(m): 5:57pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
What's this one saying, he should go for covid test. |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by fairheart(m): 5:58pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Rebelutionary: I read the article you shared. Look, people define things differently. In the Western world, people date with the hope of settling down (marrying) with the man/woman they are dating. Check the original activities intended for dating and check the one intended for courtship. The definition of courtship, according to that article is not different from the original definition of dating. You can't separate the right from the wrong by definition; you separate them by showing people what is wrong and what is right. It is our intentions that tells. Dating is not different from courtship, in that people who date with the intention to get to know each other with view of marriage in mind experience the same thing that people who court experience--according to the article you shared. When you court, you spend time with him, laugh together, play together, support each other, pray for each other, etc. Dating nurtures ground for same activities. People can tell you they court and still have sex; and people can date and abstain. You can't just bump into a woman and take her to the altar. In a world a lot of people pretend, you need to mingle, call each other, spend time together, talk about life, career, ask questions about individual habits, know genotype class, meet each side parents, go to cinema, beach. Can this happen without premarital sex? Yes!!! People have done it! People who claim dating is different from courtship would still enjoy the aforementioned activities. People date for 6 months, 12 months and even longer without sex. YOUR INTENTION for being with someone is what separate those who fornicate when they meet new person from those who stays pure. But I understand that in Nigeria, we mix a lot of things together in a society without values and direction. 3 Likes |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Lamanii22(f): 5:58pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
[quote author=Slawormir post=92666599] Damnnnnn niggarrr Isoright Hmmmmmm Why can't Christian date and fuckkk each other If Christians ( brothers and sisters) can work for the lord Then why can't they chop (date and fuckkk) each other for the lord After all na where you for dey work you supposed chop That is why it is called workchop[/quote Nigga, you don't make sense this time.... 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Kemimarch16(f): 6:00pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Rebelutionary:Mr judge since you are the one that knows everything then u should tell me child of who I am since your own Bible says u should judge |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Ajixegun: 6:18pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
chukwuibuipob: When you date for that period even for 6 month and you guys decided to tie the knot, that when people will start saying, "why are they in a haste to get married?" |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by BoboNogoDie: 6:24pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Does so-called HYPOCRITICAL Christians believe and practice this? Which religion has the highest number of oloshos? Cc: righteousness89 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Goalnaldo(m): 6:27pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Nooel1:or like this fellow below 1 Like
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Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by NiCurious: 6:31pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Edopesin: |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Finnestgreat: 6:34pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
This pastor funny,how u go c woman and marry her without knowing anytin about her.This is y dating is necessary.Atleast a guy should date a girl for 5months(if u are matured and ready 4 marriage) |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Stephenmoka4(m): 6:50pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Smile4mee01:Truly bible days are not like ours, even the times of the new testament shows notable changes, how much now. Dating has been misused by some set of people. Arranged marriage is not as it seem then and now, not many will like it (information and freedom are different then and now) |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Rebelutionary: 7:17pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Kemimarch16:I don't know everything sis, I only tried to correct you based on what you put up there but its obvious that you saw the correction in a bad light. And hey I wasn't "judging you" and that statement was a challenge to you on your stand for the Jesus you say loves me! You cant say that and still tell me that a contrary statement is not a reflection of your character. 'm sorry if you are offended! |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by DAVE5(m): 7:17pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Patrioticman007: Best part is we're nothing but hypocrites in the hands of fairness Lol Las Las, all of us follow be hypocrite, e still no mean say make we no talk true |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Thazard(m): 7:22pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Slawormir: Senseless |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Kemimarch16(f): 7:36pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Rebelutionary:What u read here has Little or no connection with my character, Social media has made it possible to have behavioral dichotomy ,you only emphasis on dichotomy and leave the rest. I'm sorry too |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by ucdex101(m): 7:47pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Discovery4today: what He is saying is the blunt truth.. the 21th century have bastardised so many things.. take a look at our father n grandfather. once they see a person they want to marry they go straight to the father of the woman an they finalise the process.. was their anything like dating then? Did their marriage last or not? so many Christians have used the excuse of dating to commit sexual sin what is say is the simple truth.... |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Nobody: 7:50pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
fairheart:hi mr |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Poske95(m): 7:59pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
...when dating means Fornication |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by JastSiryin(m): 7:59pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
I really just pity humans. You have a brain, but yet still seek the command of someone to tell you how you have to live every facet of your life because you're scared of sinning. How sensible do you think that is? I'm a Christian, but i know that even Christianity has gone through some evolution. Was it not the same Christianity that was against sex for anything other than procreation? Many saw it as a dirty necessary evil we had to perform in order to procreate. Therefore it was considered sinful to even think of sex as a recreation. But somehow we've disproved this, albeit with scriptures to back it up. But where in the scriptures does it talk of using contraceptives? Where? Of course, you trust religious people to throw common sense to the wind and quickly label it a sin. But the more progressive churches have seen the sense in it, and rightly so. Afterall married couples reserved the right to safeguard against unwanted pregnancy. Furthermore, it's simply not practicable to wait until you want to have a child before one satisfies his/her sexual craving. This is a just one of many examples were human reasoning and common sense is absolutely okay. There's a reason why we've evolved into dating, and it has nothing to do with disobeying God's commandment. There were several things in the bible that were permissible, it doesn't mean they're benchmarks on how 21st century Christians should live their lives. Haba! Let's have sense na. Alot of people just like to make life difficult for themselves by insisting on things that are really incompatible with present day life. And the funny thing is, they usually end up bitter and miserable but they'll never tell you. But it's easy to spot them, because they revel in inflicting guilt and condemnation on people they've labeled sinners. That's their way of spreading the gospel. Stupid people |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by DAVE5(m): 8:29pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Zzor: You don talk am finish... We like to twist things to suit ourselves One Christian group shared flyers back in my school days that youth should attend and learn how to date in a Christian way, seriously University students should date in a Christian way, I nearly lambast the guy wey give me flyer Process of dating these days First day, no touching Second day, u get comfy around ur new spouse 3rd day, hold hands 4th day, holding hand become boring, so you peck 5th day, kissing since pecking has involved 6th day, kissing becomes boring 7th day, press nyash 8th day, nyash becomes stale 9th day, finger follow work hard 10th .... 11th ... This process continues till they break up and find new partners, the process repeats, all the while they're still getting to know each other while increasing their body count 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by SeriouslySense(m): 8:30pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Date Sensibly and we learn, we are humans, not robots |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Nobody: 8:31pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
DAVE5:exactly |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by SeriouslySense(m): 8:34pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Well some people take Bible on their heads too much, Just be a youth and be very sensible. |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by MichaelBlake40: 8:37pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
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Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by MichaelBlake40: 8:38pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Nooel1:Whether he has dated or not has no influence on the truthfulness or falseness of his comment. |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by blackjack21(m): 8:57pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Slawormir: Guy what inspires you to be so comical? |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by Aarenaija: 9:33pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
I don't argue with Pastors bit on this one you are wrong sir. Dating is not a license to commit fornication or adultery but a period of which you get to know the person of INTEREST. Mary the mother of Jesus was betrothed to Joseph the Capenter. Betrothed means they are seeing each other according to their custom at that time. Same it is from culture to culture. Dating is synonymous with courtship same with betrothing. You can't just pick someone you don't know from the road and straight to marriage. |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by KingWarri: 9:39pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
fulaniHERDSman:You are an Extremist... Human by nature is meant to have sex... There is nothing dirty about it.... |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by TemmyT002(m): 9:47pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Everybody knows; everybody just dont care. |
Re: Pastor Obie Jason: Christians Dating Is Wrong, You Date And Get Dirty by DebbieSylvex(f): 9:48pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Nbotee: @Nbotee, don't say wat u don't know,der was nothing called dating in the bible |
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