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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Azmanaty: 10:42pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Imagine a single mother wanting to dictate to a man how it should be. Na Thunder go fire that ur sister. Someone the man is having pity on - by wanting to marry her 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by MarianaTrench: 10:43pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: Your sister did the right thing |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
UDUJ: That was why I mentioned in the previous post that it may be the lady hurrying the guy up in the first place. No man wants to settle down without money bro. We're saying the same thing. Just that these ladies wanna eat their cake and have it. If you can't bear with a man that's struggling, don't pressure him to marry you, but ladies won't hear. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 10:47pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Baleeson:i look like person wey won do wedding? people go just dey type rubbish upandan 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:49pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
I can't believe the men commenting on this thread. @OP, your sister's fiancé is far from ready for marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by rockyh(m): 10:50pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
prekumohtim:not the building but the family bond |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Incandescent:Dat's What U Are. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 10:51pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Your sister is doing HER right thing. And frankly, I fully support her. I've told my gf that my opinion is no family visit (where they sleep) for the first 6 months minimum. OluwaLina1: 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 10:52pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Check well, the idiot behind this moniker may be married with kids. Don't follow this crazy 'advice'. Timbers: 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Olayetan(m): 10:52pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: The man got a reason for that decision, i think your sister was too quick on her decision. She could have waited to see how things unfold and probably later, the man would see reasons why they have to get their own apartment. There's nothing bad living with the mother in law if she's not the type that will make life miserable for her. I feel she should have exercise patience and see how things unfold while living under the same roof with the mother in law and I'm sure if living with her isn't comfortable, the husband would see it and probably get separate apartment for them. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 10:53pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Which is WHY he should leave his mother and cleave to his wife. It is in the Bible sef for all those Bible followers. sexy74: 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Ok then continue deceiving urself... like I said premium tears loading..!!..she don't wanna stay with the guy mom. ..so five months after wedding she will bring her family members to come am be staying with her abi?... madness give me dat guy contact let me connect him with one correct Yoruba girl for my area.. if say he go like my sister's hausa Fulani ...I for willingly dash am one... smiles! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 10:56pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
My guy should rent a small apt. His mom should assist unless she wants to be controlling him like remote. Truvel: 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 10:59pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Test of faith after the marriage? Nuttella: 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
I see some people foaming at the mouth Let go of the hate bro, it will destroy your entire system. Simp here, simp there. Ndi redpill, your father was a simp, a big one at that. For choosing to do a favour to your hag of a mother by marrying her, he was a simp. Do you like the sound of that? You don't? Well you have no choice, your father was a simp, you are a bigger simp and your son will be the biggest simp. Op, I don't know if his reason was strong enough to have warranted calling it off. That's why one must talk about a lot of things at the initial stage. Personally, I won't like to be married to someone with that kind of mindset. What happens to renting a house in a town close to where the mother lives? 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by bdchange(m): 11:01pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
I guess it depends on the angle the mother is coming from that will determine if she wants what is best for the new family to be. I dislike mothers who are insensitive to their daughters or sons having a family of their own. To the mothers in the house, please get this that when your son or daughter marries. He/She now has a family to care and be responsible for which is now higher priority to you. The best you can do is wish them success in their new endeavours and not try to be the center of attention in their life no matter how you claim to love them. Though your sister is too hasty in cancelling the marriage plans..haba. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 11:05pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
She escaped being a housemaid. The guy is a fool 6 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by grim33(m): 11:05pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
If Linda ikeji was the mother will she still cancel the wedding? OluwaLina1: 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by henry978(m): 11:07pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
It is really up to her 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
cooooooks:You dey mind all these alpha males? The op sister's ex is a mummy's boy. We've seen it here in nairaland. Lady move into husband's parents house, they make her life miserable (even if they don't, no privacy). Husband promises to rent an apartment months after wedding. Years after, two, three children later, still living with parents. It is not good. If he loves his mom so much, he can rent a house a stone's throw from hers. 6 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by newdawn2017(f): 11:15pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
sexy74:He should marry his mother then! Its not so hrd my dear, its a simple matter 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 11:16pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO:Believe it o. A lot of toxic masculinity on display. I can only pity the wives or gf of these kind of individuals. 6 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Wentworthorg: 11:17pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
That's quite amazing |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cdm4live: 11:17pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: What kind of house is the woman living. To you, what is the character of the woman. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Ghostmode2two(m): 11:19pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Your sister is old enough to decide what's right and wrong. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 11:22pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
If his mom loves him, she will be the one to push him out. When she married her own husband, would she have wanted to move into his parents house. Lol. Chii59: 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by deltateam: 11:24pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: Yes, shes doing the right thing. Let him find the woman that agree to his terms. Case closed. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
cooooooks:Exactly. Please help me ask these nairaland boys foaming at the mouth if their mothers gave birth to them in her in laws house. The hatred on display on nairaland these days. I'm happy you understand the picture perfectly. 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Pmedia7787: 11:31pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: The male man is not yet a full man... 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by deltateam: 11:32pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: It clearly shows his mum is a control freak. Why won't she be free? Of course she's in another woman's territory. She should be the visitor or does she want the wife to be and act as a maid? She has enjoyed her marriage. Let another woman enjoy hers too. He could get his mum a maid while she also visits sometimes. 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by lightpurple: 11:33pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk:You have very low brain cells. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by lightpurple: 11:35pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Abso1uteZero:Men plenty everywhere for Nigeria but 80% are complete liabilities and a waste of space. Real men are what’s scarce, and that’s who ladies go for 6 Likes |
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