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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by LilMissFavvy(f): 11:35pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
So the guys mother is happy to see her son cancel his wedding? She folds her arms doing nothing, she cannot talk to her son to do the wife's bidding, she isn't a good woman. A good woman would not want her son to cancel wedding just because of accommodation. Your sister did the right thing cancelling the marriage, it is bad that she didn't know early enough that the guy is a mummies boy who is still sucking his mum's breast, she should have dumped him earlier than this. He was crafty and didn't tell her where they would live, he waited to tell her after marriage arrangements had gone far, thinking she will foolishly fall into it, but the lady is wise enough to reject the idea. 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by lightpurple: 11:36pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
PapaNnamdi:Only because Nigerian economy favors men when it comes to finance |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Abso1uteZero(m): 11:37pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
lightpurple: I said husband. Read before you type woman. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by samwash(m): 11:38pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
The Op is not giving us much details. Who kwn if the husbands mother is an aged woman ? Who kwns if the house is a family house with much space to accommodate all of them ? Who kwns the man's financial strength? Who kwns if the is the only son / child of the woman or the bread winner of the home ? So many factors to talk abt. Its not too good to isolate elderly pple, especially if one of the partner is gone. Loneliness na bad things has one grows old. Our Nigerian girls & mother in-law ....... As if them nor go grow old & be mother in-law some day. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 11:38pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
FredasMumAndI:The truth is that young man has no plans of building his own house in the nearest future. He doesn't want his mom to be lonely... That goes to show that any attempt by the wife to get him to focus on getting their own house will be met with the fear of his mom becoming lonely. I see them spending nothing short of 5 years in his mom's house. Mummy's boy. Tueh. 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by femi4: 11:39pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:Gen2:24 For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cdm4live: 11:39pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Frenzy01: I know many things may come to play. I have a boss. Their father build a house, four boys one girl. They are all graduates. The first child has a self-contained close to his father's, flat he is living with his wife and two kids. Second married, turned his self-contained to one bed, the third married and with a self-contained. Except for the first child and the last child , a girl who was still in school, the rest were working. In fact, my boss has more than a million naira business. The third works in a construction company and the fourth child in a company too. They all lived together many years and do eat together too sometimes which I do join them because I was seen more like a son than a boy. My Boss has now build a house in a major city and so also the other two, the third and fourth. You see, life itself need sense. She might have been feed with wrong assertion about living with mother in-laws. All in all, she knows the woman more. The type of building the woman lives in plays a big role too 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by lightpurple: 11:41pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Abso1uteZero:Same sh*t baybay 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Mgtowmonk: 11:42pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by enka05: 11:46pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
80% of the people responds seems as though they think through their anus. Anyway, Your sister should forget it, the woman is not going anywhere if they eventually get married in that house. It's bad enough that she's a single mother so she's literally her son's first wife. They really can't live apart and that's just the truth. She will end up as a glorified maid in that house trying so hard to please mother and son. 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by enka05: 11:47pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Will you shut up? See the mumu talk you are saying. Huge favor kee you there. Mgtowmonk: 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ChristieCrown: 11:47pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Sarang(f): 11:48pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk: Doing her a favor marrying her? Some people dey mad sha 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Frenzy01:you shot yourself back on the leg. Both leave the house and start a new one by themselves. It never said by the man. Both of them. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ChristieCrown: 11:48pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk: Some of you speak as if a crane ran over your brain cells! So, getting married as a man means you've done the woman a favour? So your dad did your mum a favour, lest her life would have been in shambles? Even your sisters' lives are not worth living until a man pity them with marriage? Were you high while typing that� smcheeewww 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Abso1uteZero(m): 11:51pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk: Women are getting stupider. It's a shame really. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by AceVentura: 11:51pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Yes, she’s done the right thing. Nip it in the bud before it grows into nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ArticleBeast: 11:53pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
sexy74:Some of you are truly kids. I wouldn't allow any of my sisters marry into their husband family house. Even the Bible said, "an a man will leave his father and cleave to his wife". If he wants to promote bond, he should get married to his mother. The wife needs peace, her own space, not everytime Tinuke go and fry plantain for mama or intrusion from the guys family. Even Adam had a garden of Eden before bringing in Eve. What if for the next 10 years he doesn't complete the building? 6 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Mgtowmonk: 11:54pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ArticleBeast: 11:54pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk:You sef has been dumb from school... 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
ChristieCrown:Too many idi.ots running around nairaland, he's one of them.. His simp of a father did a world of favour by marrying the wrinkled, ugly old hag of his mother. And I'm sure his old, expired sisters are still visiting shiloh yearly so that God will pity them and give them a simp who'll do them a lot of favour by making wives out of them. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Abso1uteZero:Like the old hag of your mom whom your simp of a father took pity on. I'm not surprised. Runs in the family. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Abso1uteZero(m): 11:57pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Chii59: Hopefully, life turns out good for you. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by AlwaysMotun: 11:58pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Truvel:No matter what, they will build on a weak foundation and that's when the marriage will go bad... It's even better she called off the wedding before it's too late... Talk g from experience here 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Mgtowmonk: 12:00am On Aug 11, 2020 |
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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Necksonnel: 12:00am On Aug 11, 2020 |
The man is a fool and a mummy's boy even the the Bible say a man will leave his parent after marriage. She did the right thing if not what her eyes will see in that family house eeeh. She no go fit yarn the story finish. You know how a typical nigeria family house is. She won't be free with her husband and all that 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 12:03am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Abso1uteZero:Heal your soul. Get rid of the bitterness. Only then will you truly be at peace with yourself. Yawns 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 12:04am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk:I don't know who hurt you, but if you don't get rid of that brimming hate, it will destroy you. 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Alwaysmiling(f): 12:07am On Aug 11, 2020 |
To me ur sister is taking a right decision. Married and staying in the family compound is not easy ooh My church if ur still staying with ur parents, they won't agree to wed u. U must have ur own apartment even if is face me I slap u. I wish ur sister all the best. 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ArticleBeast: 12:09am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk:The truth hurts. I ain't part of any shit red pill or whatever you Nairaland kids deceive yourself with. I say the truth regardless of whether it favors the ladies or dudes. I have sisters and wish them the best. If a girl broke your heart in the past don't take it out on me. 6 Likes |
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