safarigirl:
[s][/s]Eeica is such an insecure person

And no matter goe much she tries tonconvubce herself and others, she clearly likes Kiddwaya more than she is letting on and her subtle attempts to pull some form of emotion out of him are quite sad to watch at times, if not downright hilarious.

She is extremely impulsive and has become the architect of her own confusion, by refusing to take a stand on whatever she has going on with the guy. Today, you want to be treated like one of the guys, tomorrow, you want to know if he cares for you the way a guy cares for a girl. Did you grow bored with being treated like someone with a dick?

It's like watching a teenager try to make sense of her attraction to the school's jock, who she feels somewhat unworthy of his attention.

That's why most of the housemates deride their situationship so much. She needs to open her mouth and communicate like a grown adult or shut it permanently. Her idiotic giggling while trying to express herself is even more annoying to watch.

I'm not even Kiddwaya, and I am totally exhausted by her antics, how much more the recipient of this platter of confusion[s][/s].

LordTheus:

100% Agree

Laycon came accross as entitled and selfish with that statement imo - "I know WHAT I can do to get her. If I want to, I WILL"

To be fair, that statement doesn't necessarily demonstrate him as having RAPE TENDENCIES though LoL. That's an outrageous conclusion.

But it still sounds a tad bit MANIPULATIVE to me. Almost like he's ignoring the fact that she can still make her decisions no matter the context. It is outright disrespectful because it's like he's undermining her capacity to make decisions for herself. If she doesn't want you, she doesn't want you

It doesn't matter if you can read someone like an open textbook, you can't always predict their decisions. Why? Cause at the end of the day they're still humans, and humans are damn too complex.

I don't care for Erica's reasons for choosing Kiddwaya over Laycon. As a matter of fact, anybody arguing the reasons is being completely petty and deluded. Let her make choice. Live and let live FFS

Of course any criticism against Laycon here is interpreted as hate by the mentally vacant, so what do I know?

Jack500:
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Damage control!
After u called Laycon a rapist, u have to lambast Erica, so we will think u are not bias?

We know your stand already, stop manipulating us with your senseless post, Stan your Erica in peace. Nonsense.

Jack500:
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Damage control!
After u called Laycon a rapist, u have to lambast Erica, so we will think u are not bias?

We know your stand already, stop manipulating us with your senseless post, Stan your Erica in peace. Nonsense.

aroundnaija:
According to Whoricians...

So far you have money (or claim to have like the Lamba Master) you can squeeze their bress (without consent) and choke them, you are a sweet boy

lilEmir3:


The problem here is that, Erica never said no, she said she is mentally attracted to him..On Sunday, she didn't say She and Kiddwaya are dating, she called him a special friend...Can you help me ask Erica fans why Erica would kiss Kidd & later go and hug Laycon knowing fully well how Laycon actually feels about her..

LordTheus:

100% Agree

Laycon came accross as entitled and selfish with that statement imo - "I know WHAT I can do to get her. If I want to, I WILL"

To be fair, that statement doesn't necessarily demonstrate him as having RAPE TENDENCIES though LoL. That's an outrageous conclusion.

But it still sounds a tad bit MANIPULATIVE to me. Almost like he's ignoring the fact that she can still make her decisions no matter the context. It is outright disrespectful because it's like he's undermining her capacity to make decisions for herself. If she doesn't want you, she doesn't want you

It doesn't matter if you can read someone like an open textbook, you can't always predict their decisions. Why? Cause at the end of the day they're still humans, and humans are damn too complex.

I don't care for Erica's reasons for choosing Kiddwaya over Laycon. As a matter of fact, anybody arguing the reasons is being completely petty and deluded. Let her make choice. Live and let live FFS

Of course any criticism against Laycon here is interpreted as hate by the mentally vacant, so what do I know?

Edit: Erica does seem like she's very confused though. And her confusion could be giving Laycon mixed signals. This is all the more reason Laycon should die this issue.

feelgood:


People should leave Erica alone.

She was already in a relo with Kidd before Laycon came to express his feelings to her - which was actually at the instigation/counsel of BrightO.

Expectedly, Erica said no. And politely too. She didn't want to hurt Laycon whom she had great regards for, so she keeps checking on him and trying to make him understand they are still friends.

Yet Laycon, as with a lot of his fans, misinterpret this beautiful gesture of Erica. Rather, he erroneously believes that Kidd has taken the woman he likes from him - and continues to play the victim.

But if we must believe that Laycon is indeed a very intelligent person, then it is either:
1. He is intentionally fooling everyone and playing a script as part of his strategy or
2. He is smart 'upstairs' but dumb n naive when it comes to matters of the heart or
3. He is not as smart as we all think.

Whatever the case may be, Erica should not be blamed in this (non existent) triangle. Triangle exists only in the minds of the less discerning.
Erica should just continue with her game n have fun than pander to the inanities of the stupid and wicked.

Is Kidd just deceiving Erica? Whose problem is that. Erica is old enough to make her decisions. Remember BamTeddy of Double Wahala? TeddyA had told the crushing Bam Bam then that he had a gf outside the hse and wasn't looking to having a relationship with anybody. But Bam took every day as it came.
Outside the hse, in an interview, BamBam said she wished her relationship with TeddyA would continue but she had no intention of fighting or competing with his gf or any woman since she was already aware of her 'situationship'.
Today, they are married.
This is just an example that there are no fixed rules for things of the heart.

Summarily, Erica is a happy go lucky person. A contestant for the prize like other HMs. She should not be lampooned for how she runs her game.

RunningBackToTwitter...

Expert17:
LAYCON dey pepper haters this morning.

echobazz:
I don't have time for unnecessary banters...


I just have to do the needful by supporting him with my VOTES.


I'm gonna unleash and punish LAYCON with enough VOTES.

LordTheus:

It depends on the standards you use to judge somebody to be a "better person" than the other. And you should consider that not everyone holds the same standards. Your standards could (as a matter of fact) be illogical. Let's try to avoid being fallacious in reasoning.

xenoo:
LAYCON ASKED FOR SPACE

BUT ERICA ALWAYS COMES BACK TO MANIPULATE HIS EMOTIONS

A TRUE FRIEND WILL NEVER DO THAT.[color=#000099][/color]

doziefrank07:

Wetin concern me?
My fave is not up

safarigirl:
By The Way,

For the purpose of clarification, because I cannot reply to the bevy of people who do not agree with my interpretation.

None of you appointed me for anything, so, I don't know what I want to use your disappointment for.

I state my observations here and go, and if I have observed any housemate as having disturbing qualities, I will very much state it here. I do not care what name they carry, because I realise that a lot of you here are more concerned that your preferred candidate receive no backlash for their actions, than admitting that they just may have a few screws loose in the head.

I do not believe in going to tag the organizers of the show to summarily destroy any housemate, that is not how I roll. In fact, I keep my ranting very limited, to this thread. I will not go on Twitter or any other major platform, to call for any form of punishment on any housemate. It is not that deep.

But, if your fave has a noticeable problem, I will call it out, and if they make disturbing utterances, I will definitely call it out.


If you are triggered by it, I'm praying for you too.

homesteady:


No need to drag this issue, both guys have had a direct confrontation with each other, who came out as the better person?

Bomboiy:
"I know say she no go allow me but if I apply pressure the thing go enter"

I was a fan of Laycon until he made this statement,I cannot be supporting someone that can make a statement like that.

Women should be allowed to make their choices,and whatever decision they make should be respected. People with such mentality, like laycon, are creating a society that will be unsafe for our daughters.


NO means NO.

ERICAsHawk:


Because she claims to be friends with her and when she had talks with Erica on this issue, she didn't call her a confused person or accuse her of using Lekan like she did last night.

That last line is rich, coming from you, a Mercy and Lekan supporter.

ebunchi:
Pls don't forget

Username: Ozo


Password : Ozo

IP address: Ozo

MAC address: Ozo

Host name: Ozo

Port number: Ozo


We are not distracted , we Stan firm
Teamozoforlife ,they don't know

As usual

safarigirl:
By The Way,

For the purpose of clarification, because I cannot reply to the bevy of people who do not agree with my interpretation.

None of you appointed me for anything, so, I don't know what I want to use your disappointment for.

I state my observations here and go, and if I have observed any housemate as having disturbing qualities, I will very much state it here. I do not care what name they carry, because I realise that a lot of you here are more concerned that your preferred candidate receive no backlash for their actions, than admitting that they just may have a few screws loose in the head.

I do not believe in going to tag the organizers of the show to summarily destroy any housemate, that is not how I roll. In fact, I keep my ranting very limited, to this thread. I will not go on Twitter or any other major platform, to call for any form of punishment on any housemate. It is not that deep.

But, if your fave has a noticeable problem, I will call it out, and if they make disturbing utterances, I will definitely call it out.


If you are triggered by it, I'm praying for you too.

lymelyte:
do you know what it takes to be intelligent? Do you it is only IQ? Oboi, nor be by memorizing oo..

LordTheus:

So your point is "Ozo lost his cool, and Prince maintained his when they had a confrontation, Ergo, Prince is a better man than Ozo....."

Are your standards that shallow?